Are Aquas forgetful?

Are Aquas forgetful or do they like to act as if something never happened?

I told the Aqua I'd been seeing (yes, Prime, for a short amount of time) that I needed to end it with him over the weekend. But low and behold, I get a phone call from him tonight! He starts talking to me like things are hunky dorey between us.

I didn't stay on the phone for long with him, but I was cordial with him. The conversation was a pretty basic call from him; talked about his 4th and things about work - we didn't go into anything else.

But still, he was so upset and cold over the weekend when I said we needed to end this and now he calls me up and acts like everything is cool.

What gives? This guy is like a yo-yo.

Aside from sign issues then, what do you think gives?

I'm starting to get some really bad short term memory...

allot of the ones I know like to have selective memory 😉

Hehehehehe.

You can be forgetful if you are of a scatty disposition. Does he smoke hash?
That can make you dopey to the point of forgetting loadsa things.

PS why do you like this aqua guy again houstonpeach74? I've kinda forgotten 😛

Good grief. I don't even know anymore!

Could he have been trying to get to the 'let's still be friends' part sooner than you thought?

I mean, he could have called you up and been an asshole, but even though it was strange talking as though nothing had happened, at least he was pleasant...

are aquas forgetful??

i dont know about the other but im NOT...i've a good memory and ya if i make commitmments i neva break 'em..... im a Gal of my word 🙂

he's probably more interested now that you have pulled away from him...and he is probably testing you to see what reaction you have when he calls, to see how you act with him on the phone. aqua men say they don't like to play games, but i don't buy it 😉

That could be it, but I called him yesterday morning to ask him about something to do with something, can't remember now because I was put off...but anyway when I called him, he picked up the phone and just said "I can't talk right now, sorry...I don't have time" and hung up.

So I haven't tried to make contact with him. I found that to be rude. I would have much rather him just let the phone call go to his answering machine than to him pick up and say that and then hung up before I could say hi or bye or anything.

houston - If you can't handle him doing the phone thing then forget about it! Walk away.
That WAS polite - He just wanted you to know that he couldn't talk at the mo. Instead of you wondering why he didn't answer the phone. PS - Every Aqua guy I know has pulled a stunt like that. I have done the same thing too - Ill answer when i am at work & say can't talk now & hang up.

CUT OFF ALL TIES

Im sorry it wouldnt work out, but never call him again. If he calls you be cordial and keep it short.

Yeah - what lady M said!
Walk away

LOL, I know I should, but it's like it's become an addiction...kinda like reading a book and can't wait to see what the next page brings! 🙂

Ok, yes I can see him being polite by answering, but I still feel it was a bit rude to do and say it that way.

It's not enough to hear me say you've won
You only wanted me for having fun
But now I think you've gone and had your way
And left me with a pile of bills to pay
I can't even rewind the tape machine
To listen to your drunken reasoning
So here it is - your final lullaby

So goodnight, goodnight
You're embarrassing me
You're embarrassing you
So goodnight, goodnight
Walk away from the door
Walk away from my life
So Goodnight

I've given up on social niceties
I threw 'em out when I threw out your keys
Along with all your records I can't stand
You never even listen to any one of them
You're never gonna drag me out again
With all the people that were never ever even your friends
So here it is - your final lullaby

So goodnight, goodnight
You're embarrassing me
You're embarrassing you
So goodnight, goodnight
Walk away from the door
Walk away from my life
So goodnight

A little bit of rain I'd say is fair
But when it starts to thunder they all stare
This isn't goodnight, this is goodbye...

So goodnight, goodnight
You're embarrassing me
You're embarrassing you
So goodnight, goodnight.
Walk away from the door
Walk away from my life

So goodnight, goodnight
You're embarrassing me
You're embarrassing you
So goodnight, goodnight
Walk away from the door
Walk away from my life
So goodnight

Hot hot heat - goodnight

Heh hehh ehhehe!!! Nasty!

Who sings that?

Hot Hot Heat 🙂

Did you like it?

This isn't goodnight; this is goodbye...I liked that.

I am dealing with the same thing right now, but I refuse to call the guy (he's pisces)...maybe its easier cuz i'm an aqua (i doubt it).

its all about will power...he'll call eventually, they always do.

something tells me that it actually is over, period....

i could be wrong. he hasn't taken me off his MSN messenger list yet, so there's a liklihood he isn't ready to move on....but crap! i want to...like i said, this guy was SO FRIGGIN COOL 😢

I feel for you houston 😢

in the end even thou you can't see it now & everyone tell you this but it is true its better in the long run to just walk away.
Better to hurt a little now then allot later 😢

I had an old friend call me up yesterday out of the blue and we started talking about things going on in each others' lives and told him about this guy. He said that I could use him as a way to make Aqua jealous....lol....he said all guys have a tinge of jealousy and if they say they don't, they're lying. He said we could try it and see what happens. Like he said, the worst that could happen is he remains the same as he is now...And a good case scenario could be he realizes that other men are interested in me and will snap open and start back up with trying to be Mr. Affectionate.

Of course, this old friend of mine said that not only could I use his name as excuses for not being able to talk or see the Aqua, that I should actually see him in the process. LOL...Oh if/when PrimeGen reads this, he's going to get all over this and tell me again that I never gave Aqua a chance! 😛

LOL...hmmm...sounds like your 'friend' is interested in you.

Go for it.

He will also tell you not to bother trying to make him jealous - never works - The Aqua guy I am with now I have seen him jealous of another guy once & that was over another Aqua guy I was talking to - He grabbed me by the arm & dragged me off - hmmm - But I wasn't trying to make him jealous at all.
Don't try it because it will back fire!

houstonpeach...

it's not that aqua guy won't be jealous...he may get jealous, but he won't show his jealousy, but he will think you don't care about him anymore if you just go and talk about hanging out with another guy. he won't put up a fight for you...he will just walk away and say "oh well". it won't work in your favor if that is what you are looking for.

i still think he is subconsciously playing the game with you right now. he calls you and acts like nothing is wrong, but then when you call he has no time to talk. he just wanted to see if you would call and you did. he wanted to see if you still care. he wanted to know that he still "had you where he wants you" so to speak.

has he called you back yet?

NO, no call yet. I don't expect one tonight.

I just thought about his comment about 10 days ago when he said "It's the guy that should be doing the chasing..."

So that's where it stands...

Wow, I totally didn't read anyone else's comments, but either way I remember reading somewhere that Aquas rarely forget stuff, it may seem like they forgot, but they really didn't. Personally I agree with that since there have been many times when someone has asked me to do something, but I don't in till the last minute, not because I forgot, but rather because I'm... lazy o-o;;

YOu're right; from what I observed from this guy, he absorbed everything I said or did like a sponge. So maybe him acting like nothing ever happened is his way of playing a game....who knows

He's playing a game. It's a game of how long you will put up with his crap.

"He's playing a game. It's a game of how long you will put up with his crap."

-lmao...that is too funny, and yet so true, unfortunately!

but the question is...does he value you more or less if you do continue to put up with his crap? i think aqua men do play the game in order to test your love for them. i think the longer you put up with their crap and act like it doesn't phase you, or don't let it get to you...the more your love for them is validated. it's a sick way of thinking, but it's true.

True, but in this case, it was hardly love. We'd only dated a month. But for some reason, he wants to hold onto me. I haven't talked to him in about a week, but he did call me a few nights ago and I haven't called him back....I will, I've just been busy with other friends of mine - a Cap and an Aries.

you are busy with other friends of yours...but you are still thinking about him. don't hang out with other guys to get back at him, like i said before, b/c it won't work in your favor...if that is what you want. and i don't think he would respect you for juggling three "friends" at once...just a thought

Not sure why you put friends in quotes...these individuals are just that, friends, not "Friends". 🙂

Although I understand where you're coming from, I also have a need to not sit idle while he acts the way he does, says the things he says, etc.

He's a nice guy - but the interest has actually been fading very quickly over the past several days.

you don't need to sit idle...go on with your life and have fun. i am just saying that if he finds out you are dating other men he probably won't think you are serious about getting to know him better. if your interest is fading then let it go.