Too fast by with baby mama problems now

Okay me and Mr Aqua are still in love. But we hit a rough patch. On the 27th of April he bought alcohol pizza bar one ice cream and cooked meat all the yummy things I love. Then he officially proposed. We had sex that day from 5pm till around 9pm then we passed out. woke up played games and music danced naked took a bath had more sex then just chilled in bed. I had a couple of calls from my friends around 12am which I answered freely.

Then he had a call at 1am he didn't answer. I asked him to answer it because the person kept on calling and it was annoying. He bluntly refused. I tried to answer the call but the person hung up. I pressed the message button by mistake and saw that these people do communicate and he calls that number. I asked him who is this person calling you at 1am you don't answer but you guys always talk. He tried to make me feel guilty but I just kept quiet. Then he called back the number told the person he's with his wife he can't talk. At flippen 1am

my gut feeling gave me all types of red flags. He tried to talk to me. I kept quiet. Next morning woke up cleaned the mess we made. I could see his protecting the girl. so I just took all my things left the ring and left. Didn't look back. He didn't fight it nothing. Just kept calling me asking if we done. I just told him I love him. I moved to my new job that is 4 hours away. called him told him I left everything he's bought me at his mom's house including my cute car that I had fallen in love with. drove to my new home and didn't even cry.

He called I answered all his calls and he kept saying we going to be alright. I lost all hope because in the short time we've been together I had never experienced problems with him. I always have his undivided attention... Met his family. we gel like best friends even finish off each others sentences. This did not make sense to me. I started my new job in May and decided to switch my phone off so I must give my job attention and try to forget. When I switched my phone on I get messages telling me he drove 4 hours and he's booked in a hotel. Can we talk.

After work I go to the hotel we hook up we talk but he still doesn't want to tell me who the woman is. I told him in my going to share him but I'm done. If he can't be transparent it let her go I'm done. He asks me for time.

These actions didn't make sense to me as we like siamese twins. Always together. We communicate like siblings. He trays me like royalty. His Queen. worships the ground I walk in. Can't keep his hands of me. Is so possessive in a cute way. I told him I don't need drama I'm done.

He goes back home then calls like we normal. In the 5th of May be calls I'm at the office. I told him I'm done. He says he's weak because if he tells me he's already lost me. I tell him the fact that he's willing to put this woman 1st he's already lost me. What's the worst that he can tell me. Then he blurts out that this woman just came with a bombshell that she's 6 months pregnant. He found out the day he proposed. That afternoon. She tried to tell him last year but he thought she was playing games because they were friends with benefits and they didn't confomise this 1 time they bought morning afters but apparently she didn't drink them because she wanted a relationship. He told her bluntly he didn't love her then he detached himself from her. weeks later she tried to tell him that she missed her period but he ignored her thinking she playing mind games to have a relationship with him. He swore himself off girls until he met me. And now he's in love and he just can't lose me. lo even mentioned that he promised himself the next time since last year he's going to have sex is with his wife so he really had been celibate till he met me. Oh well I laughed at the situation. thanked him for his honesty and told him I'm not going anywhere. I understood his actions and fell in love with him more.

That weekend we drove to go fetch my car and tell his mom about the pregnancy. She was shocked excited and sad at the same time. She asked me if I will love the child I told her he loves mine. We even now. It was mothers day weekend and he has been spoiling me and following me around like a love sick puppy.

Drove back. Then this week he tells me that the mother of his child wants them to go to the next doctors appointment together. He even tells me that this woman thinks they will get back together. And everyone he mentions me she asks whose more important a girl or his child. At 1st I wanted to go crazy but I kept calm. told him he's not going to any appointment until the baby is born. He's here to bond with the baby not the mother so since the baby is still in the tummy no chance if that happening.

He told her to stop calling her at 1am unless it has something to do with his child. And that we will go shopping in the meantime until the baby comes. He asked me why am I so understanding and loving and respectful I told him because he was honest transparent and he loves me. And it was his past I can't punish him for something that went down while I wasn't around.

i'm typing this looking at him. And even with this new drama I still love him with every fibre in me. He's amazing.

I just wanna say it's been so long since I had a 4hour long sezzy- session.
I'm low key jealous @_@

lol kikikikikikikikiki he keeps up with me. .. He's my best and is the best lover hands down. We go for hours. lol but sometimes he complains and asks for a break. ... But when he catches his breath it's breath taking. .. In Love

Paternity test.

That is all.




And I do hope this works out well for you,

of course. 🙂

me too hey. ... But he involves me in all activities so it helps much better. I'm scared to ask about the whole paternity thing because I feel like he might think I'm not accepting his child. so he should come to that decision on his own.