taurusgirl9000
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Update on my Aqua
Posted by Nevermore....right.....gief moar wisdom nuggetry pl0x
You're talking to the person where feelings doesn't exist in their dictionary.
Posted by NevermoreI've tried to break up with him so many times. He has always talked me out of it. This time I'm not changing my mind. You can't disrespect me like that...
You're talking to the person where feelings doesn't exist in their dictionary.
But you do have a power to kick him away. Gives him a months or two to leave your house, since you owned that house before you call the police.
Posted by NevermoreYour butchery of English isnt even relevant ( fyi that whole sentence is wrongly set up)Posted by Mr_PinchyI realized writing error. i meant "his", not "their".Posted by Nevermore....right.....gief moar wisdom nuggetry pl0x
You're talking to the person where feelings doesn't exist in their dictionary.
Because I mainly think of that person who disrespect her.click to expand
Its your blatant generalization.
What did he say about his ex?
Posted by NevermoreHmmm i see. Well, i guess youre doing reasonably okay then if thats the case.Posted by Mr_PinchyIt's not my first language. And am dealing with language disorder. So there's that.Posted by NevermoreYour butchery of English isnt even relevant ( fyi that whole sentence is wrongly set up)Posted by Mr_PinchyI realized writing error. i meant "his", not "their".Posted by Nevermore....right.....gief moar wisdom nuggetry pl0x
You're talking to the person where feelings doesn't exist in their dictionary.
Because I mainly think of that person who disrespect her.
Its your blatant generalization.
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The generalization still bothers me tho and thats more a personality thing. But i digress as i dont want to go offtopic which is turning into "bash the aqua" thread.
Posted by NevermoreThank you, I feel really strong in my position this time around!Posted by taurusgirl9000Be a stubborn motherfucker quality bull you know of!! And stand up firm of this!Posted by NevermoreI've tried to break up with him so many times. He has always talked me out of it. This time I'm not changing my mind. You can't disrespect me like that...
You're talking to the person where feelings doesn't exist in their dictionary.
But you do have a power to kick him away. Gives him a months or two to leave your house, since you owned that house before you call the police.click to expand
Posted by HippieGemFrom my other thread:
What did he say about his ex?
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the treetrunk are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!
Posted by taurusgirl9000Wrong. If your name is the only one on the lease then you hold all the power.
But we live together and I can't get away from him. My name is the only one on the lease and after this little conversation I just want him to gtfo. Talk about not respecting me or my feelings... Jesus...
If you want to be kind give him a two week notice for him to move out in writing. If your feeling spiteful put all his stuff outside and change the locks.
If you feel threatened or worried at all that he may get violent ask one of your friends to be there when you break the news to him. Or you can ask your local police to send an officer over to observe while you kick him out. My mom did this because her ex had threatened to take a sledgehammer to her kitchen and bathrooms. She changed the locks and had an officer come over when she told him to gtfo.
Posted by taurusgirl9000Its one thing to share your past with your lover. Completely another thing to reminisce over a past relationship and show your current girl photos wtf.
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did.
Aquarians are SO DIFFICULT. They lack empathy but that doesn't mean he's heartless. Sometimes I talk about my exs because it's just on my mind and I feel close enough in a realtionship where I can talk about them openly. Exs are a part of every couples past so I don't really understand why it must be discouraged to talk about. He doesn't want to take responsibility for making you feel that way.
Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you. He actually isn't violent, he's quite a gentle person in manner. But today he got nasty with me and I didn't like it.Posted by taurusgirl9000Wrong. If your name is the only one on the lease then you hold all the power.
But we live together and I can't get away from him. My name is the only one on the lease and after this little conversation I just want him to gtfo. Talk about not respecting me or my feelings... Jesus...
If you want to be kind give him a two week notice for him to move out in writing. If your feeling spiteful put all his stuff outside and change the locks.
If you feel threatened or worried at all that he may get violent ask one of your friends to be there when you break the news to him. Or you can ask your local police to send an officer over to observe while you kick him out. My mom did this because her ex had threatened to take a sledgehammer to her kitchen and bathrooms. She changed the locks and had an officer come over when she told him to gtfo.click to expand
He doesn't want to take responsibility for making you feel that way.That's what is also upsetting me. Just accept that you made me feel this way. He will not accept it.
Posted by taurusgirl9000
Thank you. He actually isn't violent, he's quite a gentle person in manner. But today he got nasty with me and I didn't like it.
Has he done things for you which would perhaps make this proposition of yours that he is thinking of his ex completely ludicrous in his mind?
Posted by Mr_PinchyUsually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon.. Maybe he just doesn't want to admit it to himself. I'm not sure. I just know how it made me feel...Posted by taurusgirl9000
Thank you. He actually isn't violent, he's quite a gentle person in manner. But today he got nasty with me and I didn't like it.
Has he done things for you which would perhaps make this proposition of yours that he is thinking of his ex completely ludicrous in his mind?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneShowing the pictures was something he did in the first few months too... He did it in a braggy way. In the beginning it didn't bother me because I thought he was trying to be silly. I know that he feels proud of himself for having a girl like that. Unfortunately he can be a little shallow and I guess I forgave it because I was in love with him...Posted by taurusgirl9000Its one thing to share your past with your lover. Completely another thing to reminisce over a past relationship and show your current girl photos wtf.
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did.click to expand
Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
Posted by taurusgirl9000Oh yeah, I remember that thread. I read a lot more than I comment on. Honestly if it was my I would be thinking he’s still holding a torch for her and I’d walk away.Posted by HippieGemFrom my other thread:
What did he say about his ex?
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the treetrunk are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!click to expand
I’d walk away. Anyone who loves anyone else will come back. Not a test. No one should have to deal with a s/o still lining away over an ex. If you leave, he’ll have to face the truth and figure out what he really wants.
Posted by HippieGemThanks for your support! And yeah, that's what I think. I never get back together with exes though.Posted by taurusgirl9000Oh yeah, I remember that thread. I read a lot more than I comment on. Honestly if it was my I would be thinking he’s still holding a torch for her and I’d walk away.Posted by HippieGemFrom my other thread:
What did he say about his ex?
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the treetrunk are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!
I’d walk away. Anyone who loves anyone else will come back. Not a test. No one should have to deal with a s/o still lining away over an ex. If you leave, he’ll have to face the truth and figure out what he really wants.click to expand
Ok I know it’s like two minutes later but I thought about it and think I have you bad advice. You should talk all of it through before ending anything. You live with him right?
If you talk about it with him and feel like he’d leave you in a hot minute for her, then move on and walk away. But if he’s genuinely sorry and wants a future with you, let it go.
I find that we all make stupid remarks in relationships. For me only when I’m mad. So that’s what bothers me with this. He wasn’t mad. He was nostalgic. Still worth a talk though. Good luck. 🙏
If you talk about it with him and feel like he’d leave you in a hot minute for her, then move on and walk away. But if he’s genuinely sorry and wants a future with you, let it go.
I find that we all make stupid remarks in relationships. For me only when I’m mad. So that’s what bothers me with this. He wasn’t mad. He was nostalgic. Still worth a talk though. Good luck. 🙏
Posted by taurusgirl9000Yesss ex’s are just that for a reason *high five and hugsPosted by HippieGemThanks for your support! And yeah, that's what I think. I never get back together with exes though.Posted by taurusgirl9000Oh yeah, I remember that thread. I read a lot more than I comment on. Honestly if it was my I would be thinking he’s still holding a torch for her and I’d walk away.Posted by HippieGemFrom my other thread:
What did he say about his ex?
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the treetrunk are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!
I’d walk away. Anyone who loves anyone else will come back. Not a test. No one should have to deal with a s/o still lining away over an ex. If you leave, he’ll have to face the truth and figure out what he really wants.click to expand
Posted by HippieGemThat's good advice. But our relationship has been really bumpy and I'm just tired of it. I think if anything we need time apart to truly see if we belong together...
Ok I know it’s like two minutes later but I thought about it and think I have you bad advice. You should talk all of it through before ending anything. You live with him right?
If you talk about it with him and feel like he’d leave you in a hot minute for her, then move on and walk away. But if he’s genuinely sorry and wants a future with you, let it go.
I find that we all make stupid remarks in relationships. For me only when I’m mad. So that’s what bothers me with this. He wasn’t mad. He was nostalgic. Still worth a talk though. Good luck. 🙏
Posted by taurusgirl9000Thats the best thing you can do right now. You need to know where his mind is really at and some space will give you both time to figure it out 🙂Posted by HippieGemThat's good advice. But our relationship has been really bumpy and I'm just tired of it. I think if anything we need time apart to truly see if we belong together...
Ok I know it’s like two minutes later but I thought about it and think I have you bad advice. You should talk all of it through before ending anything. You live with him right?
If you talk about it with him and feel like he’d leave you in a hot minute for her, then move on and walk away. But if he’s genuinely sorry and wants a future with you, let it go.
I find that we all make stupid remarks in relationships. For me only when I’m mad. So that’s what bothers me with this. He wasn’t mad. He was nostalgic. Still worth a talk though. Good luck. 🙏
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Posted by taurusgirl9000"He's not violent...BUT"Posted by LadyNeptuneThank you. He actually isn't violent, he's quite a gentle person in manner. But today he got nasty with me and I didn't like it.Posted by taurusgirl9000Wrong. If your name is the only one on the lease then you hold all the power.
But we live together and I can't get away from him. My name is the only one on the lease and after this little conversation I just want him to gtfo. Talk about not respecting me or my feelings... Jesus...
If you want to be kind give him a two week notice for him to move out in writing. If your feeling spiteful put all his stuff outside and change the locks.
If you feel threatened or worried at all that he may get violent ask one of your friends to be there when you break the news to him. Or you can ask your local police to send an officer over to observe while you kick him out. My mom did this because her ex had threatened to take a sledgehammer to her kitchen and bathrooms. She changed the locks and had an officer come over when she told him to gtfo.click to expand
Aqua men don’t like when you question them and when you don’t trust them. They hate it and they get mad at you for that.
Seems he’s not considering your feelings. Try explaining it better
Seems he’s not considering your feelings. Try explaining it better
It's good that you're sticking up for yourself and know your worth, I always give potential lovers a good solid year of my life to let them figure out that I'm the one for them.
Yes it's very important that you recognise that you're on the lease and that you start inventory on all the stuff you've accumulated, it's not materialistic it's intelligent because it makes the breakup run a lot more smoother (I've watched a lot of judge Judy)
I would start by surrounding yourself by your friends more and having them over because it makes it easier to break the news to him better, because it comes from a place of happiness if you're with your friends and enjoying life more, than if it's both of you just in the room and in the moment it can get a bit suffocating.
Honestly you will do him and the next girl he dates a huge favour on teaching him how to treat people with respect and dignity.
What the fuck was he thinking?! Bringing up his perfect ex girlfriend, making you feel like shit. And then says you're stupid for feeling that way?
Like I get that people get insecure and we all should move on from our insecurities but if he is still making you feel insecure a year later I wouldn't invest anymore of my time on a guy like that.
Yes it's very important that you recognise that you're on the lease and that you start inventory on all the stuff you've accumulated, it's not materialistic it's intelligent because it makes the breakup run a lot more smoother (I've watched a lot of judge Judy)
I would start by surrounding yourself by your friends more and having them over because it makes it easier to break the news to him better, because it comes from a place of happiness if you're with your friends and enjoying life more, than if it's both of you just in the room and in the moment it can get a bit suffocating.
Honestly you will do him and the next girl he dates a huge favour on teaching him how to treat people with respect and dignity.
What the fuck was he thinking?! Bringing up his perfect ex girlfriend, making you feel like shit. And then says you're stupid for feeling that way?
Like I get that people get insecure and we all should move on from our insecurities but if he is still making you feel insecure a year later I wouldn't invest anymore of my time on a guy like that.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I think I'm extra sensitive to him not acknowledging my feelings because I had the same issue with my ex. We just didn't communicate well and he would often tell me he didn't understand his own feelings and couldn't express them to me because of that. I think I just need someone with a more expressive emotional IQ.
It's good that you're sticking up for yourself and know your worth, I always give potential lovers a good solid year of my life to let them figure out that I'm the one for them.
Yes it's very important that you recognise that you're on the lease and that you start inventory on all the stuff you've accumulated, it's not materialistic it's intelligent because it makes the breakup run a lot more smoother (I've watched a lot of judge Judy)
I would start by surrounding yourself by your friends more and having them over because it makes it easier to break the news to him better, because it comes from a place of happiness if you're with your friends and enjoying life more, than if it's both of you just in the room and in the moment it can get a bit suffocating.
Honestly you will do him and the next girl he dates a huge favour on teaching him how to treat people with respect and dignity.
What the fuck was he thinking?! Bringing up his perfect ex girlfriend, making you feel like shit. And then says you're stupid for feeling that way?
Like I get that people get insecure and we all should move on from our insecurities but if he is still making you feel insecure a year later I wouldn't invest anymore of my time on a guy like that.
Posted by Mr_PinchyI think it just feels like our relationship is unstable. And this incident was something that made me take a big step back and really think: what am I doing with him? I mentioned before that we have broken up a lot in the past and keep getting back together. I think if we really spend time apart, living apart, we will better be able to sort out if we should be in a relationship or not. If we weren't living together we would not be together right now, it's just this situation that has made it hard for us both to really cut the cord.Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
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Posted by taurusgirl9000It's just a typical Aqua way of trying to stir up the plot. Trust me if there's anything serious hidden or feelings, Aqua is smart enough never to bring it up to the current girl. The only reason, it was purely to push ur button. U need to be able to read deeper than him. He feels completely unloved from u at times since u tried to break up with him many times. just b mindful of what the truth really isPosted by LadyNeptuneShowing the pictures was something he did in the first few months too... He did it in a braggy way. In the beginning it didn't bother me because I thought he was trying to be silly. I know that he feels proud of himself for having a girl like that. Unfortunately he can be a little shallow and I guess I forgave it because I was in love with him...Posted by taurusgirl9000Its one thing to share your past with your lover. Completely another thing to reminisce over a past relationship and show your current girl photos wtf.
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did.click to expand
Posted by taurusgirl9000Two fixed signs. Both secretly stubborn wanting it to work. Just tell him that u r not braking up with him but need some space. Surely he's a man enough to get the hint and move out for a while!— How old is this manPosted by Mr_PinchyI think it just feels like our relationship is unstable. And this incident was something that made me take a big step back and really think: what am I doing with him? I mentioned before that we have broken up a lot in the past and keep getting back together. I think if we really spend time apart, living apart, we will better be able to sort out if we should be in a relationship or not. If we weren't living together we would not be together right now, it's just this situation that has made it hard for us both to really cut the cord.Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
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Posted by saweetz1988I did that exactly. I told him, "I think it's better if we spend time apart for a little while. I think it's a good idea for our relationship." And all he said was, "We'll see." He had tears in his eyes when I broke up with him. He said he couldn't believe I was doing this because of what he said about his ex. I told him it wasn't that, it was just that our relationship was unstable. He didn't think that it was unstable at all. It's like we're in two different relationships. And btw he's forty...Posted by taurusgirl9000Two fixed signs. Both secretly stubborn wanting it to work. Just tell him that u r not braking up with him but need some space. Surely he's a man enough to get the hint and move out for a while!— How old is this manPosted by Mr_PinchyI think it just feels like our relationship is unstable. And this incident was something that made me take a big step back and really think: what am I doing with him? I mentioned before that we have broken up a lot in the past and keep getting back together. I think if we really spend time apart, living apart, we will better be able to sort out if we should be in a relationship or not. If we weren't living together we would not be together right now, it's just this situation that has made it hard for us both to really cut the cord.Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
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Posted by taurusgirl9000forty? thats the thing... taurus is black and white.. Aqua is a bit grey... we need to learn to agree to disagree... he had tears coz he is and was into you.. if he wasn't he wouldn't be with you. its that simple.. the ex thing was just to stir up the plot.... aqua is a bit retarded emotionally esp the men... he didn't see anything wrong with it...which he really didn't lol... aqua men is a bit sad like that.... we taurus do have high standards and expectations and that cause a lot of butting heads with Aqua... stand ur ground and be apart for a bit... he will need sometime to figure out what you meant and why what he said upset you... seriously he is a bit dumb like that lol... i dun think aqua men has much self discipline like us taurus or other faithful signs or scorpio... this is my opinion though.... what we taurus consider wrong or black he will think its grey or white...its like speaking two different languages... but if u learn to agree to disagree.. it might work. you have aqua moon right ? '😉Posted by saweetz1988I did that exactly. I told him, "I think it's better if we spend time apart for a little while. I think it's a good idea for our relationship." And all he said was, "We'll see." He had tears in his eyes when I broke up with him. He said he couldn't believe I was doing this because of what he said about his ex. I told him it wasn't that, it was just that our relationship was unstable. He didn't think that it was unstable at all. It's like we're in two different relationships. And btw he's forty...Posted by taurusgirl9000Two fixed signs. Both secretly stubborn wanting it to work. Just tell him that u r not braking up with him but need some space. Surely he's a man enough to get the hint and move out for a while!— How old is this manPosted by Mr_PinchyI think it just feels like our relationship is unstable. And this incident was something that made me take a big step back and really think: what am I doing with him? I mentioned before that we have broken up a lot in the past and keep getting back together. I think if we really spend time apart, living apart, we will better be able to sort out if we should be in a relationship or not. If we weren't living together we would not be together right now, it's just this situation that has made it hard for us both to really cut the cord.Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
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Posted by saweetz1988Yes, Aqua moon. Which is why I thought we had a chance... And his moon is in Taurus...Posted by taurusgirl9000forty? thats the thing... taurus is black and white.. Aqua is a bit grey... we need to learn to agree to disagree... he had tears coz he is and was into you.. if he wasn't he wouldn't be with you. its that simple.. the ex thing was just to stir up the plot.... aqua is a bit retarded emotionally esp the men... he didn't see anything wrong with it...which he really didn't lol... aqua men is a bit sad like that.... we taurus do have high standards and expectations and that cause a lot of butting heads with Aqua... stand ur ground and be apart for a bit... he will need sometime to figure out what you meant and why what he said upset you... seriously he is a bit dumb like that lol... i dun think aqua men has much self discipline like us taurus or other faithful signs or scorpio... this is my opinion though.... what we taurus consider wrong or black he will think its grey or white...its like speaking two different languages... but if u learn to agree to disagree.. it might work. you have aqua moon right ? '😉Posted by saweetz1988I did that exactly. I told him, "I think it's better if we spend time apart for a little while. I think it's a good idea for our relationship." And all he said was, "We'll see." He had tears in his eyes when I broke up with him. He said he couldn't believe I was doing this because of what he said about his ex. I told him it wasn't that, it was just that our relationship was unstable. He didn't think that it was unstable at all. It's like we're in two different relationships. And btw he's forty...Posted by taurusgirl9000Two fixed signs. Both secretly stubborn wanting it to work. Just tell him that u r not braking up with him but need some space. Surely he's a man enough to get the hint and move out for a while!— How old is this manPosted by Mr_PinchyI think it just feels like our relationship is unstable. And this incident was something that made me take a big step back and really think: what am I doing with him? I mentioned before that we have broken up a lot in the past and keep getting back together. I think if we really spend time apart, living apart, we will better be able to sort out if we should be in a relationship or not. If we weren't living together we would not be together right now, it's just this situation that has made it hard for us both to really cut the cord.Posted by taurusgirl9000Yes i agree, but speaking from personal experience, theres 2 options, either guilt and lingering feelings for the ex or complete and utter disbelief gf would throw something like that on the table when we worked our asses off to prove our love to her.
Usually when people react the way that he did it's because some truth has been hit upon..
That is why i asked if he was present in your life with actions.
I also remember one of your posts (your name is rly ez to remember and i have a memory of two elephants) where you said you dont see yourself building a life with this man.
Is it possible youre looking for a way out fasttrack style ? Ive seen taurus irrationality first hand before and its quite horrible. Latching on to anything, grasping at straws just to justify their actions to themselves when its enough of whatever it is that bothers them.
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Posted by Capmercury87Even though he is 40, he still is not mature yet. He has not had any long term relationships, beyond the one with his most recent ex (almost two years). I think he just doesn't have experience being in a real relationship and knowing how to communicate and handle it. He has said to me before, "Wow we have been together a year now. Normally women can't tolerate me for that long."
Not all aquas are like this.
As an Aquarius myself, I suggest giving him the boot.
I'm really sorry to hear that... but you are absolutely right! Kick his dumb ass out for good!
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I was like, "Okay, that's what you think, but it made me feel disrespected."
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