Want to regain my friendship with this aqua guy

Okay,so there is this aqua guy, who,by what I have inferred,is a really really nice human and is extremely trustworthy.He is one of those few people who make you realise that you're indeed lucky to have them in your life.I consider him one of the few most amazing humans I have met.I had initially written a post about how I thought I loved this guy and things have messed up and all,how he too began to think he indeed liked me and asked me for a relationship, but no,I realised that I was deluded and took my attraction for love under the influence of many other circumstances,and also screwed up his brain perhaps into thinking it was love,however,now,I'm very very clear about it in my head and have also told him everything about this,no love here.the love scene being eliminated,I cannot deny the fact that I love him as a friend and I attach with my friends very very deeply,being a friend of mine is me giving you the epitome of love and affection I can and the loss of a friend is even worse for me than a break up can be for any individual.Okay,so it so happened that after about 3-4 months of not talking to each other,(it has happened about 2-3 times when we won't talk for that long because of a fight or something and then he doesn't answer my calls and many days later we talk again)he called me up one day to thank me for wishing him on his birthday.we started talking after that for about 2 weeks.Meanwhile,I don't know why but I just wasn't able to feel connected.I wanted to be honest in my friendship and told him the same.I told him how I would hesitate telling him things that were troubling me in our friendship for the fear of losing him.Talks like this continued for some time when all of a sudden,he said,let's end it.He then explained me why.He said I was too analytical,I didn't understand him,I didn't understand his non verbal talks,I mostly focussed on the words he used to speak than the emotions behind them,he feels he is under constant observation-under a microscope and that,I am trying hard to decipher him,I am just curious about what kind of an individual he is,in his words-'as though I'm a machine,you open it up,see how its made,leave'.Although I told him that It is my nature and I like him because he is a nice guy and not because I'm curious,so he was like,forget about the good human part.He said he tried many a times to make things work between us,but now he has reached the saturation point.He also said that I don't understand him and that he alway

Contd.... He also said that I don't understand him and that he always has to explain himself to me and now he's tired.He said he has lost interest now and that,with lack of understanding,he doesn't feel connected,and hence our friendship should end.Although in the end He said that I can call him when I have things to tell him,he's not ending contact completely.
I don't want to lose his friendship.Although now,I am so hopeless,I know I should try but then the thought that he doesn't want it anymore shatters me and I feel as though its of no use anymore,my efforts to regain our friendship will amout to zero.I don't want to lose him,although I know I'm left with almost no hope anymore.Any suggestions?

PS:We only talk over the phone which accounts for the communication gap between us,we rarely meet and when I suggested that we should meet more often to lessen the gap and then maybe I understand him better,he said,one needs to be interested in meeting,he is tired and feels that he should now put no more efforts as there is no point in,he has tried many a times by other ways that I might understand him but with no result.Although I feel really really strongly that if we meet,we'll clear out all this 'not understanding' thingy.I like him as a friend because I know his opinions resonate with mine,although I don't know why we have such communication gap leading to all this misunderstanding stuff.