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Was I too emotional with him?
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
I don’t think you were too emotional. His Venus wouldn’t have a problem taking about it and showing it to you.
He is just considering what you two have now.
I would just do exactly what you feel. I wouldn’t wait a week just because. But you shouldn’t panic either, it’s very early days.
He is just considering what you two have now.
I would just do exactly what you feel. I wouldn’t wait a week just because. But you shouldn’t panic either, it’s very early days.
Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
A week of silence seems so long but I like this ideaclick to expand
You need to act as if you want him, but don’t need him. Wanting him just enough is what makes him wild for you.
Posted by Estelita91Posted by Pandora101Posted by Estelita91
Great, thank you 🙂 this has helped. Ill let him reach out. If it takes a few days, is that normal? I've read that aquarius can disappear for a week or two, he's never done this as we've been friends but it might be different now we've crossed the line
while I agree with others on the Aqua front and on the general front, some thoughts:
its hard to say, because its quite an ordeal for an Aqua to have a scorp moon..... so anything is possible
but your gemini moon will help a lot, with communication, with not getting anxious about his "disappearing", etc
its hard to say what is manipulation (playing that game and making you say you are slightly in love and then disappear? manipulation)
just stay calm for now, but this kind of behaviour will be very frequent, unfortunately
and now, is there anything you didnt tell us in your comments about this? if you felt something is off or he is not straightforward, etc
With behaviour like this, do you mean by disappearing from time to time? His Venus is in pisces as well actually, like yours.
He wasn't off with me, in fact I've never seen him so hyper and talking to me with so much energy. He was also really affectionate but he isn't very straightforward. He just got out of a four year relationship but they would be on and off and he would try to kiss me when they were off and say he thinks about me a lot. he said they never had sex the final two years, but were more like best friends. She moved back to her country but he didn't go into much detail.click to expand
If he wasn’t off last time you don’t have anything to worry about.
Always judge and Aquarius man by your last encounter with him and don’t doubt him. It will safe you lot of worrying 😄
Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
A week of silence seems so long but I like this idea
You need to act as if you want him, but don’t need him. Wanting him just enough is what makes him wild for you.
Interesting! Thanks for the tip, any example of how this can be done?click to expand
Give attention, but don’t over text. Don’t text every day unless he initiates. Seem interested, but clingy. Don’t share all of your feelings. Let it happen slowly.
Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
A week of silence seems so long but I like this idea
You need to act as if you want him, but don’t need him. Wanting him just enough is what makes him wild for you.
Interesting! Thanks for the tip, any example of how this can be done?
Give attention, but don’t over text. Don’t text every day unless he initiates. Seem interested, but clingy. Don’t share all of your feelings. Let it happen slowly.
Love this, thank you!click to expand
You’re welcome! Good luck!
Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
A week of silence seems so long but I like this idea
You need to act as if you want him, but don’t need him. Wanting him just enough is what makes him wild for you.
Interesting! Thanks for the tip, any example of how this can be done?
Give attention, but don’t over text. Don’t text every day unless he initiates. Seem interested, but clingy. Don’t share all of your feelings. Let it happen slowly.
Love this, thank you!click to expand
Shame that it doesn’t work.
Aquas can smell bullish from far away. They are great at understanding people and reading them and their motives. Don’t play games. Just be yourself. Trust me
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
This could be totally true too.
And my perspective could be different because of the circumstances when we started.click to expand
Happy to hear that you two are getting closer 😊
I just believe that aquas needs lots of honesty. They know even if they don’t tell.
It has always worked for me 😉
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
This could be totally true too.
And my perspective could be different because of the circumstances when we started.
Happy to hear that you two are getting closer 😊
I just believe that aquas needs lots of honesty. They know even if they don’t tell.
It has always worked for me 😉
Honesty is essential for both of us. Hes kinda brutally honest at times... like, ouch.
I just dont want him to feel cornered emotionally. We are very respectful when we talk. Its never particularly mushy, more adoration and logical.
I realize this may not work for everyone.
We’re working through our past and differences. I am satisfied and secure with where we are at.click to expand
I can’t be anything but mushy 😄 I am very loving and the Aquarius that I have been with they enjoy that a lot, even with air moons.
But I am very independent too.
But you are the one that knows what makes you happy or not in a relationship. So as long as you are happy together who cares 😄
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
This could be totally true too.
And my perspective could be different because of the circumstances when we started.
Happy to hear that you two are getting closer 😊
I just believe that aquas needs lots of honesty. They know even if they don’t tell.
It has always worked for me 😉
Honesty is essential for both of us. Hes kinda brutally honest at times... like, ouch.
I just dont want him to feel cornered emotionally. We are very respectful when we talk. Its never particularly mushy, more adoration and logical.
I realize this may not work for everyone.
We’re working through our past and differences. I am satisfied and secure with where we are at.
I can’t be anything but mushy 😄 I am very loving and the Aquarius that I have been with they enjoy that a lot, even with air moons.
But I am very independent too.
But you are the one that knows what makes you happy or not in a relationship. So as long as you are happy together who cares 😄
I cant do mushy...
I can be honest and vulnerable
I can admit that I’m attached and talk about how hes impacted me emotionally. How hes changed and healed me.
But I cant be like ‘miss you baby....’
Its just not my natureclick to expand
We are all different 😄
I love clingy and mushy. I think a bring out the mushynes in Aquarius. People say they are cold. Lol, I don’t think so. They are super warm when they feel safe.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
This could be totally true too.
And my perspective could be different because of the circumstances when we started.
Happy to hear that you two are getting closer 😊
I just believe that aquas needs lots of honesty. They know even if they don’t tell.
It has always worked for me 😉
Honesty is essential for both of us. Hes kinda brutally honest at times... like, ouch.
I just dont want him to feel cornered emotionally. We are very respectful when we talk. Its never particularly mushy, more adoration and logical.
I realize this may not work for everyone.
We’re working through our past and differences. I am satisfied and secure with where we are at.
I can’t be anything but mushy 😄 I am very loving and the Aquarius that I have been with they enjoy that a lot, even with air moons.
But I am very independent too.
But you are the one that knows what makes you happy or not in a relationship. So as long as you are happy together who cares 😄
I cant do mushy...
I can be honest and vulnerable
I can admit that I’m attached and talk about how hes impacted me emotionally. How hes changed and healed me.
But I cant be like ‘miss you baby....’
Its just not my nature
We are all different 😄
I love clingy and mushy. I think a bring out the mushynes in Aquarius. People say they are cold. Lol, I don’t think so. They are super warm when they feel safe.
Its more like, restrained?
Although words arent my love language... I want to communicate but actions mean EVERYTHINGclick to expand
Yes. That is the word 😄
I need words with actions. Words alone won’t do. They have to be backed up.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by Jade_Alexander
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
I really don’t agree with this.
No demands or expectations emotionally? I am very open with my emotions and very demanding and I have never had a problem with keeping an Aquarius.
All the Aquarius men I know they are loving, caring and they don’t disappear. Totally the oposite. They are there to support you for whatever you need.
They need honesty, freedom to be themselves, respect and to feel understood without judging them for who they are.
That is my honest opinion 😄
This could be totally true too.
And my perspective could be different because of the circumstances when we started.
Happy to hear that you two are getting closer 😊
I just believe that aquas needs lots of honesty. They know even if they don’t tell.
It has always worked for me 😉
Honesty is essential for both of us. Hes kinda brutally honest at times... like, ouch.
I just dont want him to feel cornered emotionally. We are very respectful when we talk. Its never particularly mushy, more adoration and logical.
I realize this may not work for everyone.
We’re working through our past and differences. I am satisfied and secure with where we are at.
I can’t be anything but mushy 😄 I am very loving and the Aquarius that I have been with they enjoy that a lot, even with air moons.
But I am very independent too.
But you are the one that knows what makes you happy or not in a relationship. So as long as you are happy together who cares 😄
I cant do mushy...
I can be honest and vulnerable
I can admit that I’m attached and talk about how hes impacted me emotionally. How hes changed and healed me.
But I cant be like ‘miss you baby....’
Its just not my nature
We are all different 😄
I love clingy and mushy. I think a bring out the mushynes in Aquarius. People say they are cold. Lol, I don’t think so. They are super warm when they feel safe.
Its more like, restrained?
Although words arent my love language... I want to communicate but actions mean EVERYTHING
Yes. That is the word 😄
I need words with actions. Words alone won’t do. They have to be backed up.
Thats where Aqua and I are good.
We talk but we focus on actions.
My husband was all bullshit...click to expand
Haha you went from one extreme to the other, because Cap Venus is all about actions.
It sounds like you are doing good. I am happy for you 😊
So this all just went down last night? It hasn't even been a day and your already freaking out? Slow down.
He needs to process and he might be hung over lol
He needs to process and he might be hung over lol
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by Estelita91Posted by Jade_Alexander
Like, I have my own life and passions. He knows about them but isnt involved in all of them.
When I come to him I dont ask for reassurance or validation. I simply state how I feel witnout frills. But not in a way that needs him fo validate.
We’ve been having these really deep talks the last few days. And I dont tell him to share, I discuss openly and freely but admit ‘I dont assume where you stand’... my ways of saying these are my emotions ang he is not reauired to fix or address them.
If he feels free of responsibility he can openly share. Im not making demands.
And that is truly the key. Never having expectations or demands emotionally. Letting him know youre open but noy in expectation.
Thank you for sharing, this is really useful. With regards to deep talks, is it about your relationship, or other topics? So when discussing your emotions, you tell him how you feel and don't expect him to share with you in return?
My Aqua is always PITA about stuff. If I ask he do something he wont until he feels its on his terms.
So I dont tell him ‘we need to talk’
I just talk and I tell him how I feel... hes free to add his thoughts... he’s never shut down when I’m looking to communicate. But it took a long tome for him to learn HOW to do it.
Hes also best through text. He can gather his thoights appropriately.
We’ve been talking A LOT about us... reevaluating our past and future.
His moon is air... he has a ton of air so scorpio moon will be different.
I think my aqua is a bit colder then typically.click to expand
"We’ve been talking A LOT about us... reevaluating our past and future."
Are you together? when it happened?
"my Aqua"?
did I miss something?
Posted by Estelita91
Thanks everyone!
We did see each other, and it was nice. We went to an exhibition, ate food, and walked over an hour down the river to my place where we slept with each other and it was really good.
He did seem a bit upset about his mother's operation which she will need another one next week. He did open up about his mum and his worry, but didn't talk about it that much. We mainly poked fun at each other and flirted lots and spoke about our future dreams and wishes. Not sure how to handle this, should I be texting him hoping everything is ok and asking him how it went etc, or leave him space?
I would give him a little space. Don’t message him every day. But show you care about his mom and how she’s doing
Posted by Estelita91
Guys so last night on New year's Eve I hung out with the aquarius man I've been seeing for the past month. We've been friends for years and he's fancied me but only recently I've reciprocated.
Normally we keep it fun and light,we talk about movies, music, books. He gives me books all the time and we rarely keep it emotional unless he brings it up first.
But last night I was quite tipsy and he brought out the 36 Q's to ask to make you fall in love and we were asking each other qs from it. He wouldn't answer some of them but otherwise it was pretty deep. One Q's was "we are both feeling" and he asked me to answer it because it's obvious how we are both feeling. I said I couldn't but he convinced me so I said we are both feeling tipsy and I'm feeling slightly in love.
We made out a lot and he said he'd see me soon, he left to join a new years eve party. But normally he texts me straight away but he hasn't answered my texts even though he's seen them. Now I'm worried he has been put off but the feelings and emotions we talked about last night. If he doesn't text me for a while now is this a sign of disinterest?
I get scared when someone tells me the "L" word too soon. He needs now to figure out if he is willing to reciprocate the feeling. If he is not looking for anything serious, but still likes you, he will contact you here and there to say hi. we usually show people how we feel about a situation first. and we hope you catch it. Just give him sometime, he will show you how he feels about it. pay attention to his actions.
Posted by Estelita91
Great, thank you 🙂 this has helped. Ill let him reach out. If it takes a few days, is that normal? I've read that aquarius can disappear for a week or two, he's never done this as we've been friends but it might be different now we've crossed the line
He will take whatever time he needs to process everything, aquarius we dont like to jump into quicksand. We need to make sure first of what we really want, but dont get confuse, sometimes we will just keep you around bc we dont want to hurt you. thats why I tell you again. Pay more attention to how he acts towards you than to what he says.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Estelita91Posted by pinkbird03
I’d give him a week. If he doesn’t reach out by then, text him in a friendly manner. Don’t get emotional or weird.
A week of silence seems so long but I like this idea
You need to act as if you want him, but don’t need him. Wanting him just enough is what makes him wild for you.
Interesting! Thanks for the tip, any example of how this can be done?
Give attention, but don’t over text. Don’t text every day unless he initiates. Seem interested, but clingy. Don’t share all of your feelings. Let it happen slowly.
Love this, thank you!
Shame that it doesn’t work.
Aquas can smell bullish from far away. They are great at understanding people and reading them and their motives. Don’t play games. Just be yourself. Trust meclick to expand
So trueeee.... haha 😂 the Water signs and Aquarius tap into a level of understanding beyond what the others do.
Posted by Estelita91Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Estelita91
Great, thank you 🙂 this has helped. Ill let him reach out. If it takes a few days, is that normal? I've read that aquarius can disappear for a week or two, he's never done this as we've been friends but it might be different now we've crossed the line
He will take whatever time he needs to process everything, aquarius we dont like to jump into quicksand. We need to make sure first of what we really want, but dont get confuse, sometimes we will just keep you around bc we dont want to hurt you. thats why I tell you again. Pay more attention to how he acts towards you than to what he says.
Thank you, this was useful insight.
He told me before Xmas that he's in love with me and wants to marry me, that I'm unique.
He's gone pretty quiet since, and I've seen him twice this year but both times have been nice. How mum has cancer and he's stressed with that, but I get the feeling that he's checking out of this...
I'm going to let him come to me. He had a gf for 4 years but she never wanted to have sex with him, but I know that he is capable of commitment, I guess just not with me, unless maybe he just takes a long time to commit. He has a Scorpio moon and pisces Venus though which I think makes him more able to commit.click to expand
Uhm... make sure that ex is not still around. BC we Aquarius are very sex drive... sex is like an addiction to us... I dont see myself ( and Im a woman) being w someone for 4 years without sex. In fact, I need to have sex before I commit into a relationship. Bc if the sex isnt good, my relationship is not going to work. 🤣
Take it easy but proceed with cautious, we know how to multitasks. And when we are interested in someone the world can be falling down and we still make time. . We generally do what we say. Dont trust him 100% until u see his matching his words w his actions
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while I agree with others on the Aqua front and on the general front, some thoughts:
its hard to say, because its quite an ordeal for an Aqua to have a scorp moon..... so anything is possible
but your gemini moon will help a lot, with communication, with not getting anxious about his "disappearing", etc
its hard to say what is manipulation (playing that game and making you say you are slightly in love and then disappear? manipulation)
just stay calm for now, but this kind of behaviour will be very frequent, unfortunately
and now, is there anything you didnt tell us in your comments about this? if you felt something is off or he is not straightforward, etc