What do I do? :/

Hey!

This will be a little lengthy but I need to put in the entire story here. So please bear with me 🙂

So, I'm a Scorp female and there is this Aqua guy at college. He's a year older but we worked together for some university events and that's how we got to know each other. This was in March, 2104 - so about 6 months back. I remember being very quiet around him at first but then we got talking just generally and he seemed like a nice, friendly guy. He used to always smile at me when we made eye contact.

I found him to be very cute and the fact that he was intelligent and charming was very attractive, but back then we weren't really anything more than acquaintances and he had a girlfriend anyway so it didn't matter. I admit, I developed a little bit of a crush. Over the months, we went on with our lives and used to just pass smiles at each other whenever we were walking down the same corridor or something like that. I remember saying hi to him once and his friends (who I didn't know) made a big deal about it so that's when I stopped saying hi and just stuck to the small smile.

About 15 days back, a friend told me that he'd broken up with his girlfriend and she knew about my crush so she thought I'd like to know. So I did a little bit of digging about the kind of girl he likes, her qualities and traits etc. and by coincidence I had to re-establish contact for some work related to the events we had organized.

I spoke to him online for the first time in 6 months and he was nice, friendly and charming. A day later we spoke again. This time it was a general conversation and nothing related to work. Two or three days passed and we didn't talk- I was busy with work. So two days ago, we got talking and he asked for my number (in a very subtle way, I might add 😛 ). I gave it to him of course.

I know, this seems to be going kinda alright but the problem is, our conversations are mostly online. He doesn't smile at me if we ever run into each other in public but talks to me (online) for hours later the same day. What do I do? Do I acknowledge him or just let it be? I heard Aquas don't like clingy people and I don't want to seem clingy.

Thanks for reading! 🙂

Saying hi to people is NOT clingy! Just speak up and say hi when you see him.

And when you're chatting on line, tease him like Impuslv said. Light hearted of course. Like, 'next time I see you, you better smile at me. Yeah, um hmmm. I'm gonna get one somehow, even if I have to do something goofy to do it! lol!'

Just be prepared to do something goofy and don't be afraid to embarrass yourself - he might challenge you just for kicks. It'd all be in good fun. He'd find it endearing.