I was in an on and off relationship with an aqua for 4 years... I'm a scorpio woman and we are literally a match made in hell. When we were together, he told me we should get married once we are settled with our lives and careers.... that was 2 years ago and we broke up 1.5 years ago. we kept in contact and acted like we were together without a label until 3 weeks ago when he said he doesn't wanna be with me anymore.. i was shocked and confused. he said I'm too demanding, manipulative, controlling, emotional (typical scorpio). but he said he wants to be friends and his words were "we can still be friends. i want to be there for you- i know how things are with your situation.we just can't be together. i think we can still have a good friendship with no expectations and respect" what does he mean by this?? i recently learned aquarius men want a friendship first and they take their time to get to know potential partners. i was just always focused on being official with him, always talked to him about "what are we," barely gave him space thus never really built friendship with him first... i want him back sooooo badly and now i am more knowledgable of his needs. a week ago he told me i shouldn't bet so hung up on him, i should focus on getting my CPA and my career first cause that way it will be easier for a relationship... but then he also told me i should move on cause he doesn't want to hurt me anymore and he doesn't want me waiting for him because that will only cause resentment. I am willing to accept his friendship, but I want to know if I'm already out of the question for him. he doesn't see me as the one anymore and really just wants to be friends?? or is this my second chance to rebuild our relationship?
