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What is the best way to get back into an aquarius' good graces?
I(Sagittarius) met an aquarius at an event. A few hours after meeting, she found my info, and reached out to me to hang out more. Then started inviting me to hang out all the time with her, and her friends. Soon we were hanging out anywhere from one to three times a week. After two months, she would hold intimate gatherings with her closest friends, and I was invited.
After three months, I confessed feelings for her, due to jealousy that she had met a new person and had spent 4/7 days hanging out with him and I barely talked to her. Her only response was "do you still want to be friends?". I was shocked and said I didn't think it was possible. I honestly still wanted to be friends, and actually talk about it. No conversation. She said she's been on both sides of the situation and it is, and to let her know if I changed my mind.
Over the next two weeks, I sent her a few texts. Got the polite indifferent replies. Long delays. As shorts as possible. No personality. No emotion. I voiced frustration. She said, if I want to be friends again, I have to say "I can do the friend thing. I'm okay with just being friends." I tried explaining way too much about what was going through my head. She didn't understand half of it, and just emphasized, she wouldn't do anything until I said those words.
After I did, she immediately invited me to hang out this Saturday(with her friends). The next day she accepted my offer to hang out on Thursday as well. The day after that she invited me to hang out Friday. So I should definitely be seeing her Thursday and Friday. Saturday is a possibility.
At the same time. it has been three weeks since our friendship ended. I haven't seen her during this time. She has not ever texted me first in those three weeks, when she used to always be the one reaching out. She's replied to my texts. But very short(sometimes one word), emotionless, unfriendly responses. It's like a different person.
I've made peace with the fact that we will never be more than friends though I do still have feelings for her which I'll deal with. But how can I get our friendship back to where it was? I would describe it originally as very friendly, and now as polite indifference.
After three months, I confessed feelings for her, due to jealousy that she had met a new person and had spent 4/7 days hanging out with him and I barely talked to her. Her only response was "do you still want to be friends?". I was shocked and said I didn't think it was possible. I honestly still wanted to be friends, and actually talk about it. No conversation. She said she's been on both sides of the situation and it is, and to let her know if I changed my mind.
Over the next two weeks, I sent her a few texts. Got the polite indifferent replies. Long delays. As shorts as possible. No personality. No emotion. I voiced frustration. She said, if I want to be friends again, I have to say "I can do the friend thing. I'm okay with just being friends." I tried explaining way too much about what was going through my head. She didn't understand half of it, and just emphasized, she wouldn't do anything until I said those words.
After I did, she immediately invited me to hang out this Saturday(with her friends). The next day she accepted my offer to hang out on Thursday as well. The day after that she invited me to hang out Friday. So I should definitely be seeing her Thursday and Friday. Saturday is a possibility.
At the same time. it has been three weeks since our friendship ended. I haven't seen her during this time. She has not ever texted me first in those three weeks, when she used to always be the one reaching out. She's replied to my texts. But very short(sometimes one word), emotionless, unfriendly responses. It's like a different person.
I've made peace with the fact that we will never be more than friends though I do still have feelings for her which I'll deal with. But how can I get our friendship back to where it was? I would describe it originally as very friendly, and now as polite indifference.
Basically wondering if I'm supposed to play it cool and pretend like nothing is different. Or say something about it. I don't want to just assault her with an emotional speech.
But I'm thinking about saying something really quick at the end of the night, apologizing and telling her, her friendship means a lot.
I have no idea what is going on in her head. She obviously still wants to be friends right? Or is the polite indifference her way of trying to ghost without ghosting.
But I'm thinking about saying something really quick at the end of the night, apologizing and telling her, her friendship means a lot.
I have no idea what is going on in her head. She obviously still wants to be friends right? Or is the polite indifference her way of trying to ghost without ghosting.
@bittercupcake
Posted by bittercupcakelol i didn't realize OP was a sag.Posted by AerialViewDid Chyu call me..fishy? 🐠
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Oh ... now I see your game... hahaha 😑 funny a sag interested in an aqua.... do you wish to die a slow stompy death?click to expand
don't ignore him just because he's a sag. aquas are about equality eheh.
If she is indeed dating someone else... let it go. Loyalty is a real thing and we are stubborn in our ways. If she isn't seeing anyone, you can redeem yourself... undo whatever it is you did. 🤦🏾♀️ Lol. She has her own ideas and dream life and apparently it's something about you that doesn't fit or is too risky for her to pursue a relationship. Ask her and she will tell you str8 up. Be sure you ready to handle the truth because if she isn't in the best of mood the response will be sharp and emotionless. I know: I am Aqua Sun, Moon, Mercury...
Posted by wherearewenow
Basically wondering if I'm supposed to play it cool and pretend like nothing is different. Or say something about it. I don't want to just assault her with an emotional speech.
But I'm thinking about saying something really quick at the end of the night, apologizing and telling her, her friendship means a lot.
I have no idea what is going on in her head. She obviously still wants to be friends right? Or is the polite indifference her way of trying to ghost without ghosting.
You can't "go back".. it doesn't work like that.
She knows you have feelings for her while she doesn't feel the same, hence why she pushed for you to say it was just friendship. Down the road you can't complain now can you? I have more to say about this part but not sure it applies.
I think you are setting yourself up for heartache. You need time apart to get over her and move on. Maybe down the road perhaps you can be friends again, but no, it will never be the same.
The polite indifference is her guarding herself and not giving you false hope of more with her.
She knows you have feelings for her while she doesn't feel the same, hence why she pushed for you to say it was just friendship. Down the road you can't complain now can you? I have more to say about this part but not sure it applies.
I think you are setting yourself up for heartache. You need time apart to get over her and move on. Maybe down the road perhaps you can be friends again, but no, it will never be the same.
The polite indifference is her guarding herself and not giving you false hope of more with her.
I think you're making the situation a little more dramatic than it needs to be.
She likes you as a friend and Aquarians get excited when they make new friends because we love nothing better than to sit with good company in good scenery / situations, it's what keeps us grounded.
Your ego may be bruised and that's ok, you'll eventually get over her and everything will be back to normal.
I think she would be offended more if you didn't want to be friends with her after you confessed your interest in her, I know I would because it happens a lot with me.
She likes you as a friend and Aquarians get excited when they make new friends because we love nothing better than to sit with good company in good scenery / situations, it's what keeps us grounded.
Your ego may be bruised and that's ok, you'll eventually get over her and everything will be back to normal.
I think she would be offended more if you didn't want to be friends with her after you confessed your interest in her, I know I would because it happens a lot with me.
She actually isn't dating anyone. It was all in my head. To put more context on this, I went through a similar situation a few years ago, where I became good friends with a Scorpio. She met someone, I didn't confess feelings, just pointed out the person she liked was a scumbag. She took offense, ended our friendship for the scumbag after knowing him a week. Scumbag ended up being a scumbag and she came back after a week, but it was too late. Bonus fact, I haven't talked to that scorpio in 4 years, and she still reaches out to me to this day. Though I believe it's possible she may be borderline playing the main part in that.
So back to the aquarius. She wasn't even dating him. She just really liked him as a friend, and was spending tons of time with him, which triggered this belief that history was repeating itself. Completely irrational, which I know she would hate. I have no idea if I should tell her this.
I think most people assume I'm trying to win her over. What if I'm okay with just being friends? I wasn't instantly attracted to this woman when I saw her. I enjoyed her company as a friend first. There was a point where I thought we would be great friends. But now my big issue is that we aren't very friendly anymore. It's like texting a coworker. Everything is down to business. No personality, no joking, just matter of fact.
I get that she might not want to lead me on. But what kind of friends could we possibly be if we never talk or act friendly? Just two people who do things together. I'm seeing her for the first time in a month on Thursday. I'm hoping it's more natural, but I'm pretty sure this iciness is here to stay. That's what I'm wondering if there's anything I can say or do, to let her know I'm actually okay with being friends.
Here's something else I'm curious with. This woman has lost many friends in her life. All her close local friends now she's only known for 6-8 months. Could I possibly have really hurt her by ending our friendship the way that I did, and that be playing a part?
So back to the aquarius. She wasn't even dating him. She just really liked him as a friend, and was spending tons of time with him, which triggered this belief that history was repeating itself. Completely irrational, which I know she would hate. I have no idea if I should tell her this.
I think most people assume I'm trying to win her over. What if I'm okay with just being friends? I wasn't instantly attracted to this woman when I saw her. I enjoyed her company as a friend first. There was a point where I thought we would be great friends. But now my big issue is that we aren't very friendly anymore. It's like texting a coworker. Everything is down to business. No personality, no joking, just matter of fact.
I get that she might not want to lead me on. But what kind of friends could we possibly be if we never talk or act friendly? Just two people who do things together. I'm seeing her for the first time in a month on Thursday. I'm hoping it's more natural, but I'm pretty sure this iciness is here to stay. That's what I'm wondering if there's anything I can say or do, to let her know I'm actually okay with being friends.
Here's something else I'm curious with. This woman has lost many friends in her life. All her close local friends now she's only known for 6-8 months. Could I possibly have really hurt her by ending our friendship the way that I did, and that be playing a part?
Posted by wherearewenowYou will have a better answer once you guys see each other face to face. Text can mess everything up, same with voice conversations. You cant see the other person to read body language and that is 80% ( or something like that) of communication.
She actually isn't dating anyone. It was all in my head. To put more context on this, I went through a similar situation a few years ago, where I became good friends with a Scorpio. She met someone, I didn't confess feelings, just pointed out the person she liked was a scumbag. She took offense, ended our friendship for the scumbag after knowing him a week. Scumbag ended up being a scumbag and she came back after a week, but it was too late. Bonus fact, I haven't talked to that scorpio in 4 years, and she still reaches out to me to this day. Though I believe it's possible she may be borderline playing the main part in that.
So back to the aquarius. She wasn't even dating him. She just really liked him as a friend, and was spending tons of time with him, which triggered this belief that history was repeating itself. Completely irrational, which I know she would hate. I have no idea if I should tell her this.
I think most people assume I'm trying to win her over. What if I'm okay with just being friends? I wasn't instantly attracted to this woman when I saw her. I enjoyed her company as a friend first. There was a point where I thought we would be great friends. But now my big issue is that we aren't very friendly anymore. It's like texting a coworker. Everything is down to business. No personality, no joking, just matter of fact.
I get that she might not want to lead me on. But what kind of friends could we possibly be if we never talk or act friendly? Just two people who do things together. I'm seeing her for the first time in a month on Thursday. I'm hoping it's more natural, but I'm pretty sure this iciness is here to stay. That's what I'm wondering if there's anything I can say or do, to let her know I'm actually okay with being friends.
Here's something else I'm curious with. This woman has lost many friends in her life. All her close local friends now she's only known for 6-8 months. Could I possibly have really hurt her by ending our friendship the way that I did, and that be playing a part?
Like I said, she's being guarded. Basically: You confessed feelings, she said lets be friends, you said you can not do that and cut her off? So perhaps she sees it as, you didn't get what you wanted so she was disposable.
You both will need to build a bridge to mend it, but it may take her time to thaw out from the iciness, us Aquas use it to protect ourselves, rational to do so or not, it is a fact.
To your last question, yes.
She is just not that into you. End of story - move on.
Yikes. Plenty has been said already, so I'll take the non-astrological approach. It's simple. Unless you want to be pals with this woman, you'll need to cut ties. That's the only way to possibly turn things around, but it won't be easy.
Right now you're in the friendzone. You're in the friendzone because you unexpectedly coughed up your feelings to a womam who wasn't expecting it. Had you been direct about your intentions from the start, things may have been different.
In response this particular woman said that she wanted to just be friends, which you agreed to do. By agreeing to this, you negated yourself. You went from coughing up your feelings about wanting her romantically, to accepting a platonic friendship all of a sudden. This means that you weren't willing to stand up for yourself and what you wanted, which made you look emotionally weak. How can she trust you as a lover, if you can't even back up for your words?
The best way to get out of the friendzone is to not be put there in the first place. Never agree to "friendship" if it's not what you want. Women want a partner who knows how to stand up for themselves because that partner will be strong enough to stand up for them too.
The reason why this woman seems short in her correspondences is because she KNOWS you want to be more than friends, but are once again hiding your intentions (again). She's treating you "like a friend" because that's how you've chosen to act. She's simply playing along with the facade that you've manifested.
If you want to potentially change things (which is not guaranteed), then you'll need to start by letting her know that you want more than just friendship. Let her know that she should contact you if she ever changes her mind. Then cut ties and move on with your life. Otherwise you can just chill in friendszone. It's up to you.
Right now you're in the friendzone. You're in the friendzone because you unexpectedly coughed up your feelings to a womam who wasn't expecting it. Had you been direct about your intentions from the start, things may have been different.
In response this particular woman said that she wanted to just be friends, which you agreed to do. By agreeing to this, you negated yourself. You went from coughing up your feelings about wanting her romantically, to accepting a platonic friendship all of a sudden. This means that you weren't willing to stand up for yourself and what you wanted, which made you look emotionally weak. How can she trust you as a lover, if you can't even back up for your words?
The best way to get out of the friendzone is to not be put there in the first place. Never agree to "friendship" if it's not what you want. Women want a partner who knows how to stand up for themselves because that partner will be strong enough to stand up for them too.
The reason why this woman seems short in her correspondences is because she KNOWS you want to be more than friends, but are once again hiding your intentions (again). She's treating you "like a friend" because that's how you've chosen to act. She's simply playing along with the facade that you've manifested.
If you want to potentially change things (which is not guaranteed), then you'll need to start by letting her know that you want more than just friendship. Let her know that she should contact you if she ever changes her mind. Then cut ties and move on with your life. Otherwise you can just chill in friendszone. It's up to you.
Sorry to bump into ur thread .. it's kind of related.. I thought Aqua sun wud b big on keeping their exs as friends.... very interesting.... I have moon nnmars in Aqua and I'm literally friends with all my exs!!!!
Posted by saweetz1988she's one of my fav users here. she writes long lol and usually on point (this fish hates to admit it grrr).
Wow bittercupcake ur reply is so bloody useful! Dxpnet is super blessed to have u on here on Aqua. I hope u don't leave as I'm sure there will b many more people seeking ur advice n answers.. for the rest of time hahahaha OP. I say no more. Don't become a friend if u want more. 🙂 I also have a question. Now it's complicated. So u think going cold turkey and cut off all contacts with Aqua is a good idea if they don't give u what u want? Instead of settling for friendship ? I thought Aqua is big on friendship. Mmmm how long is the no contact rule go for? What's if we share the same circle of friends let alone the same bloody fitness class. I have Aqua moon n I don't know, I'm friends with all my exs! I wanna keep them all as my friends. LoL... I cut men who I never was invested . But those I have had strong emotional connection with.... I like to keep a connection in some way... now, the Aqua I'm talking about is diffent.. he says he no longer talk to his exs and only message them on special occasion... but now me n him still talk and he still call me babe eventhough I sometimes tell him we might b better off as just friends.. he never once said we r just friends. Normally I do say that but again I change my mind every day hahahah ... so what's thego with Aqua and cutting contacts with exs— the fact that he's still lingering around n hasn't cut me off completely n still care does that me, what? I don't get it.. lol I thought he has the same mentality as I do. Keeping the friendship in some way.::?... he finds it crazy that I still talk to my baby's daddy sometimes... so u think the fact that he still talk to me is because deep down he sees a potential for us in the future? I don't get that....
Posted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988she's one of my fav users here. she writes long lol and usually on point (this fish hates to admit it grrr).
Wow bittercupcake ur reply is so bloody useful! Dxpnet is super blessed to have u on here on Aqua. I hope u don't leave as I'm sure there will b many more people seeking ur advice n answers.. for the rest of time hahahaha OP. I say no more. Don't become a friend if u want more. 🙂 I also have a question. Now it's complicated. So u think going cold turkey and cut off all contacts with Aqua is a good idea if they don't give u what u want? Instead of settling for friendship ? I thought Aqua is big on friendship. Mmmm how long is the no contact rule go for? What's if we share the same circle of friends let alone the same bloody fitness class. I have Aqua moon n I don't know, I'm friends with all my exs! I wanna keep them all as my friends. LoL... I cut men who I never was invested . But those I have had strong emotional connection with.... I like to keep a connection in some way... now, the Aqua I'm talking about is diffent.. he says he no longer talk to his exs and only message them on special occasion... but now me n him still talk and he still call me babe eventhough I sometimes tell him we might b better off as just friends.. he never once said we r just friends. Normally I do say that but again I change my mind every day hahahah ... so what's thego with Aqua and cutting contacts with exs— the fact that he's still lingering around n hasn't cut me off completely n still care does that me, what? I don't get it.. lol I thought he has the same mentality as I do. Keeping the friendship in some way.::?... he finds it crazy that I still talk to my baby's daddy sometimes... so u think the fact that he still talk to me is because deep down he sees a potential for us in the future? I don't get that....click to expand
Wahahaha u r not a bloody fish lol. Now that I have ur attention. Do u remain friends with exs— Coz I do and I think that's the Aqua moon thing.
Like I literally see the best in everybody. My sons dad who lives 10 mins away never visited him for a year now but I hold no grudges and we still talk n stuff. Good as good. Like wat— I shud b a nun. Hahahaa
Posted by saweetz1988she called me fish on several occasions. she's jealous of my "loooooving" pisces venus. i mean she has aqua venus, wtf is that ahahaPosted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988she's one of my fav users here. she writes long lol and usually on point (this fish hates to admit it grrr).
Wow bittercupcake ur reply is so bloody useful! Dxpnet is super blessed to have u on here on Aqua. I hope u don't leave as I'm sure there will b many more people seeking ur advice n answers.. for the rest of time hahahaha OP. I say no more. Don't become a friend if u want more. 🙂 I also have a question. Now it's complicated. So u think going cold turkey and cut off all contacts with Aqua is a good idea if they don't give u what u want? Instead of settling for friendship ? I thought Aqua is big on friendship. Mmmm how long is the no contact rule go for? What's if we share the same circle of friends let alone the same bloody fitness class. I have Aqua moon n I don't know, I'm friends with all my exs! I wanna keep them all as my friends. LoL... I cut men who I never was invested . But those I have had strong emotional connection with.... I like to keep a connection in some way... now, the Aqua I'm talking about is diffent.. he says he no longer talk to his exs and only message them on special occasion... but now me n him still talk and he still call me babe eventhough I sometimes tell him we might b better off as just friends.. he never once said we r just friends. Normally I do say that but again I change my mind every day hahahah ... so what's thego with Aqua and cutting contacts with exs— the fact that he's still lingering around n hasn't cut me off completely n still care does that me, what? I don't get it.. lol I thought he has the same mentality as I do. Keeping the friendship in some way.::?... he finds it crazy that I still talk to my baby's daddy sometimes... so u think the fact that he still talk to me is because deep down he sees a potential for us in the future? I don't get that....
Wahahaha u r not a bloody fish lol. Now that I have ur attention. Do u remain friends with exs— Coz I do and I think that's the Aqua moon thing.
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yes i do remain friends with exes at least a tried too. it's not from my side if we weren't friends anymore. i'm always open for friendship, that include exes.
Well I saw her Thursday, and Friday night. It was fairly cordial in person. The playful flirtiness that was once there is gone, but it wasn't cold. I was actually feeling better about it. On Friday, she suggested I come Saturday for this amazing trip she had planned. But when she tried talking to her other friend who was driving, he vetoed it. He said she would try talking to him, and sent him a few more texts through the night, but finally said he was being a little bitch.
I still can't talk to her text wise. Earlier on, she complained I don't talk much. She was the one reaching out 7/10 times and I would always reply but trail off because I preferred talking to her in person. Whenever her plans fell through (which happened somewhat often) she would suddenly text me and try to set up a hangout. We had a weeknight set aside every week where we would watch anime. The last time we did that she invited me to join her for dinner(she cooked) before the anime.
Now I'm the only one who reaches out, and it's impossible to have a conversation. She responds fairly quickly, but it's all matter of fact. No more joking. The emoticons and sarcasm are gone. It's mostly just responding to questions in the most direct way possible.
Reading all the replies everyone wrote, it's clear I put myself into an impossible situation. It really bothered me, that the guy she's probably closest friends with now (another aqua) vetoed me joining the trip. She used to make comments like "I'm bummed aqua couldn't make it tonight." She would also lock her Saturdays for him as he lived in another state and that was the only consistent night they could hang out. She has tried to get him to hang out more several times in front of me in the past, and he would just turn it down. But they always had a clear connection that everyone notices and she met him a few months before me. If there's anyone she would actually be into(that wasn't me) it was definitely this guy. The fact that I'm bothered this much means I don't just want to be friends.
It is still so early that we just started talking again so who can say how she feels. For all intensive purposes, I guess we are clearly friends again. Friends who won't joke around or talk much 1 on 1 and I hate it. If it continues like this I guess I have to make the decision. I dip/end the friendship again, which would definitely be a two strike and irreversible. Or I keep acting like a beta and actually just want to be friends. Which I'm guessing would be us doing things in group settings, and that's it.
The worst part is that I introduced her to a friend of mine. She didn't automatically gravitate toward him. They met several times and she never asked for his info or tried to contact him outside me. But now he is probably friendlier than I am with her. He texts her regularly and all the plans he makes include an invite to her. A few months with this aqua and now she's firmly intertwined in my life. When she wasn't talking to me for that month I would meet up with said friend, and he'd give me some vague answer to what he was up to before confessing she invited him to do something before.
I still can't talk to her text wise. Earlier on, she complained I don't talk much. She was the one reaching out 7/10 times and I would always reply but trail off because I preferred talking to her in person. Whenever her plans fell through (which happened somewhat often) she would suddenly text me and try to set up a hangout. We had a weeknight set aside every week where we would watch anime. The last time we did that she invited me to join her for dinner(she cooked) before the anime.
Now I'm the only one who reaches out, and it's impossible to have a conversation. She responds fairly quickly, but it's all matter of fact. No more joking. The emoticons and sarcasm are gone. It's mostly just responding to questions in the most direct way possible.
Reading all the replies everyone wrote, it's clear I put myself into an impossible situation. It really bothered me, that the guy she's probably closest friends with now (another aqua) vetoed me joining the trip. She used to make comments like "I'm bummed aqua couldn't make it tonight." She would also lock her Saturdays for him as he lived in another state and that was the only consistent night they could hang out. She has tried to get him to hang out more several times in front of me in the past, and he would just turn it down. But they always had a clear connection that everyone notices and she met him a few months before me. If there's anyone she would actually be into(that wasn't me) it was definitely this guy. The fact that I'm bothered this much means I don't just want to be friends.
It is still so early that we just started talking again so who can say how she feels. For all intensive purposes, I guess we are clearly friends again. Friends who won't joke around or talk much 1 on 1 and I hate it. If it continues like this I guess I have to make the decision. I dip/end the friendship again, which would definitely be a two strike and irreversible. Or I keep acting like a beta and actually just want to be friends. Which I'm guessing would be us doing things in group settings, and that's it.
The worst part is that I introduced her to a friend of mine. She didn't automatically gravitate toward him. They met several times and she never asked for his info or tried to contact him outside me. But now he is probably friendlier than I am with her. He texts her regularly and all the plans he makes include an invite to her. A few months with this aqua and now she's firmly intertwined in my life. When she wasn't talking to me for that month I would meet up with said friend, and he'd give me some vague answer to what he was up to before confessing she invited him to do something before.
was there any point of this thread? lol since u r going back to just be friends with her....
Posted by saweetz1988I keep thinking I'm okay with just being friends, if we were good friends. But we aren't "good" friends at all and it bothers me. I think I'm lying to myself and part of me is hoping that if I can still be friends, I could one day be more. But everyone here seems to believe that won't happen and being friends again is pointless.
was there any point of this thread? lol since u r going back to just be friends with her....
When a girl friend zones you, there’s no hope. Don’t hang around her anymore or talk to her because it will only make you sad. Plus it seems like she loves attention from a lot of men. She’s not girlfriend material.
Posted by wherearewenowI wouldn't say this was an impossible situation, but it's difficult if you're looking for romance. It sounds like she had (and still has) you in back up position. She's into this other guy (who has been more direct with her) and she feels a stronger connection with him. It's possible that she had some interest in you in the beginning, but we already discussed what happened there.
Reading all the replies everyone wrote, it's clear I put myself into an impossible situation. It really bothered me, that the guy she's probably closest friends with now (another aqua) vetoed me joining the trip. She used to make comments like "I'm bummed aqua couldn't make it tonight." She would also lock her Saturdays for him as he lived in another state and that was the only consistent night they could hang out. She has tried to get him to hang out more several times in front of me in the past, and he would just turn it down. But they always had a clear connection that everyone notices and she met him a few months before me. If there's anyone she would actually be into(that wasn't me) it was definitely this guy. The fact that I'm bothered this much means I don't just want to be friends.
The reason why this other guy is getting more attention than you is because he's comes across as more dominant that you. The Aqua is constantly having to pursue him, which keeps her mind on him. He's not always present and isn't easy to control. Therefore he is more intriguing to her. He is unapologetic about being himself, which makes her both more comfortable with him and curious about him.
It sounds like the Aqua guy has been pretty detached with the Aqua girl until you came along. Now it seems that he is setting some boundaries since you've become more prominent. As I mentioned before, if you don't want to be in the friendszone, you need to stop acting like a friend. You need to let the Aqua know that you can't be just friends with her and to contact you if she ever changes her mind. Then you need to cut ties.
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My aqua bf had a LEO ex. She is 7 years older than him. I'm 15 years younger than him.. LOL.. and we all work together. I found out through coworkers that they dated before I met him and I believe it. I asked him, he denied it and said "no babe, she's not
I understand that Aquas tend to 'choose' friends over their partners. I'd like to know if there is some way I can make him understand that I'd appreciate limitations (esp w old friends of opposite sex) or lines that cant be crossed simply because I am n
not sure if this apply to both men and women but do u sometimes have these standard in ur mind of what ur loved ones shud b behaving, doing, eating? I'm talking about family, close friends and intimate relationships? Lol. Like no jokes do u want them to d
when i try different websites it gives me different result each time the 12 houses are completely in different places well except my Sun Aquarius,Moon Gemini and Sagittarius rising the other houses are not in the same place for example in one website my
Which zodiac sign is infamous for doing the disappearing act? I read online Aquarius, Pisces, Libra and Scorpios. What do you all think? Tell us your stories about someone disappearing on you or a story where you have to go ghost on someone.
Long time lurker, first time poster.
I'm curious to see what sign you folks think would be best for me.
(This is all in good fun I know that there is no perfect sign)
I am as follows:
Rising Gemini
Sun Aquarius 9th house
Moon Taurus 12th h
I miss my Aqua. We go through spurts of really awesome communication and then we hit lulls that last quite a while. Pretty much been the same for the last 12 years. LOL
But last Saturday, I was watching a movie about the west with someone else and turn
i have a Aquarius Sun and when i'm mad at someone i locked myself in my room or stay away from the person who makes me mad but in my head i already killed them several times different methods how about you guys, i'm just curious if other Aquarius sign act
Such a boy - Astrid D *** Aqua
Moonlight - Grace Vanderwaal *** Cancer
Homie - Phoebe Ryan *** Virgo
Back to you - Louis Tomlinson *** Libra
Sorry Not Sorry - Demi Lovato *** Scorpio
Emotions - Mariah Carey *** Pisces
Just a few I can
Imagine someone you are friends with(opposite sex and a bit closer to you than your other random friends)
How can that someone show that they care about you without getting into your space?
How can they show that you're important stuff to them and stil
i'm an Aquarius Sun sign and i cant say anything about them cause i never been close to any Scorpio before i don't want to judge them before even knowing them
What are your placements and which placement do you think have those traits and why it's so attractive .. esp when we live in a world where we share everything on social media. Thoughts? For me hands down... Scorpio .. Aquarius.. so far this is what I got
I have just started speaking with an Aquarius, we are at the getting to know each other stage.
He's interested, but he's very shy I had to approach him first after he asked for my number, I had to contact him first and from then he's opened up a little
Hello there Water - Bearers,
The Aquarius in question is a coworker of mine, of one month so far. His chart is as follows -
Aquarius Sun
Virgin Moon
Aquarius Mercury
Goat Venus
Libran Mars
Stinger Jupiter
Libran Saturn
Centaur Uranus
Cent
;) with all love and respect... you guys are tricky to figure out. I'm curious. Do you like drama and what's your placement?
Wondering if anyone has experienced this in an Aqua. I am starting to feel like mine wants to change me.
Pisces/virgo:
Libra/Aries:
Sagg/Gemini :
:Scorpio/Taurus:
Cap/cancer:
Leo/aqua: