What should I do... about this Aqua with many piscesnplacements

Ok, long story short.. I don't know what to do about our * whatever title we want to call it *.. lol.. when we started seeing each other he said he didn't want to have a relationship because he is finishing off his last semester of MBA full time and also working full time... anyway, through the last 1 month I know he was still on dating site.. dating other girls ( not sleeping with them ) his words. He knows I want a relationship. I want exclusivity. Not from him but just from a man in general. I don't have time to waste for causal flings. Anyway, we continued , even though our title is still grey, our connection, conversations, feelings are stronger n better each time we meet. He says he never opened up to anyone as much as he has with me. Most recent time, he shared with me how he tried to hit on this girl at a bar and she turned out to be really disrespectful.. n how he shud have spent time with me instead and that it's a learning lesson and he thought about me * whatever * lol.. see as a Taurus I really kept my calm, ,continued stroking his hair and he kept asking if I was jealous. I said I wasn't. and glad he told me the truth. I told him. It's his last month of freedom before study he should go crazy and try other women and Taste different strawberries lol.... I honestly want to finish it off with me.... I don't wanna waste my time.. anyway tonight we went out and I couldn't continue the going out afterwards. He asked me to come out with two of his girlfriends ( I know bloody Aqua men and girlsfirndss !!! }. I said I couldn't coz I have to go home dah dee dah dee dah... I said I have to drive my friend home. He goes * which friend * * said *< a guys name * and he wasn't happy... he said...: are you going to behave? * and I'm like u r going out with two other girls lol. N he says, I am going to behave. -he then says, text

Me when u get home.... I know he's getting very protective of me ... he cares about me a lot I think.though I feel like finishing off the relationship.... I do secretly hate him for still dating other girls when we r trying to get to know each other and now that I'm starting to do the same he's hating it... man, I don't know what to do. He's becoming very protective of me .. it's a sweet thing but not so sweet when he's doing the same thing with other girls... I don't know what's in his mind, it's like he really love being with me n wanna commit though all these other excuses... it's like I don't want to commit though I don't want to lose you either... so I just want to help him make a decision.... so ! ? Shud I hang around or finish it. ?

Call him on it. In a non-emotional way. And don't fall into the trap of emotional manipulation. Just find out what his true intentions are, otherwise the resentment will build up whether you walk or wait.

Posted by sultrykitty
Call him on it. In a non-emotional way. And don't fall into the trap of emotional manipulation. Just find out what his true intentions are, otherwise the resentment will build up whether you walk or wait.

What am I supposed to call him on it for? Sorry I didn't really get it.... So in march, he will literally has no time to have sex or date anyone ( apart from me ) ... he says maybe with his books.. still I don't know. forcing an Aqua man to commit doesnt work but acting jealous, questions n protective is just not fair on me: also, he keeps asking me if I'm jealous !!!? Even today he said, he went to have drinks with his guy friend n I said, awwwsome and he said * are u jealous !? * and I'm like, why shud I be— It's almost like he's trying to get me to open up my feelings of vulnerability.... my moon in Aqua so it can b tricky to do so... Aqua, r u that confusing?

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Posted by sultrykitty
Call him on it. In a non-emotional way. And don't fall into the trap of emotional manipulation. Just find out what his true intentions are, otherwise the resentment will build up whether you walk or wait.

What am I supposed to call him on it for? Sorry I didn't really get it.... So in march, he will literally has no time to have sex or date anyone ( apart from me ) ... he says maybe with his books.. still I don't know. forcing an Aqua man to commit doesnt work but acting jealous, questions n protective is just not fair on me: also, he keeps asking me if I'm jealous !!!? Even today he said, he went to have drinks with his guy friend n I said, awwwsome and he said * are u jealous !? * and I'm like, why shud I be— It's almost like he's trying to get me to open up my feelings of vulnerability.... my moon in Aqua so it can b tricky to do so... Aqua, r u that confusing?

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It sounds like either he's testing you for fun or he's starting to get attached even though he doesn't want to.

Just tell him what you're thinking just like you did here. If you guys have to be casual because of his studies, then he's going to have to lay off. The double standard is typical but you have to do what you feel is right in this situation. Don't worry about hurting his feelings or anything, he knows what he's doing.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by sultrykitty
Call him on it. In a non-emotional way. And don't fall into the trap of emotional manipulation. Just find out what his true intentions are, otherwise the resentment will build up whether you walk or wait.

What am I supposed to call him on it for? Sorry I didn't really get it.... So in march, he will literally has no time to have sex or date anyone ( apart from me ) ... he says maybe with his books.. still I don't know. forcing an Aqua man to commit doesnt work but acting jealous, questions n protective is just not fair on me: also, he keeps asking me if I'm jealous !!!? Even today he said, he went to have drinks with his guy friend n I said, awwwsome and he said * are u jealous !? * and I'm like, why shud I be— It's almost like he's trying to get me to open up my feelings of vulnerability.... my moon in Aqua so it can b tricky to do so... Aqua, r u that confusing?

It sounds like either he's testing you for fun or he's starting to get attached even though he doesn't want to.

Just tell him what you're thinking just like you did here. If you guys have to be casual because of his studies, then he's going to have to lay off. The double standard is typical but you have to do what you feel is right in this situation. Don't worry about hurting his feelings or anything, he knows what he's doing.

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Yeah ? thank you I will have to have a conversation with him in a non emotional way. I was planning to wait till Valentine's to see if he doesn't anything for me or buy anything at all or not. I don't think he's testing me for fun. He was amazed i took 2 hours to reply of when I got home last night.. obviously wasn't happy and prob having all thesss scenarios in his head that I am playing around... he's prob now insecure coz he's scared I will do the same thing.... honestly the last month his behaviour has really pushed me away... why cudnt he stay loyal from the beginning...😢 ... he's just being an Aqua n prob regretting it coz I told him the more he's doing * these * the less I want to be with him.... sad 😢 ... thank u I will def talk to him...