What usually makes aqua guy chase a woman?

What makes an aqua guy chase one woman and only? Are they controlling, possessive, jealous?... And Do they give up easily?

I'm not too sure why, but I hear when they chase they chase for a while

If he is amazed and confused about you, he'll be curious and possibly will chase you for awhile.You don't have to be beautiful , popular, sexy anything but you're different. Brain is a must or he'll borer with you quickly because intellectual convections are important. When I say confused about , I don't mean that the women need to play games such as trying to make him jealous while she's actually crazy about him. He can see this through and will give up the chase quickly. Or when the woman tried to act cool/ distant when she's all fired up inside to see him. He will see it through and though he likes a complex and mysterious woman, he doesn't like a pretentious and insecure person. Imagine yourself like a 7 course meals, if you can give him a little taste of all your characters, abit of sweetness, abit seductive, abit mysterious, abit of take charge, abit of innocent, etc, he'll eat it up and wonder about you. The key is being yourself.
They usually appear not jealous or posessive but they love to be in control.Some also have this 'my way or highway' attitude and it shows more when you're just casually dating. When he truly loves you, it's different. He'll try to compromise and show more concern about your emotional well being. They're actually sensitive inside so they don't like to be in comparison with other guys because they want to be the best and only.They don't like people who re jealous, insecure and paranoid. Be confident about yourself will attract them more. Honesty is a must.

Damn I typed too quickly with my phone so there were many mistakes! 'bored',
'connection'...

yes If i found someone who was one of a kind id follow them everywhere Its so hard to find interesting people these days to share concepts with

intrigue is the answer to the question

Ahah.. well my gpa is not bad😄 but usually when we'd be together, he'd be all lovey dovey with me, so affectionate, sweet, and warm. We don't talk about scientific formulas, usually we socialize about life, people, current events, etc. We do have few common interests. But, I don't personally believe a man is going to fall in love with you only because you two hold intellectual convos. He has so many intelligent female friends. But it's just something else. A man wants your heart not your brain. Right? I've noticed he's very sensitive, maybe because he has a lot of water in his chart. I agree, there have been couple times when I should of expressed my anger and disappointment to him instead of pretending it was cool.
I know he's insecure about himself, like I mentioned before I went motorcycle biking with another guy and he found out, to add to this, I've been updating my status with some b.s quotes about love and he remembered them even after I deleted them. He wrote me saying - 'I don't wanna bother, Ur in love with someone." He was being little too possessive because I only went biking with that dude, nothing else. He knows that guy and yes he's attractive but U can't fall in love with someone in one day. LOL. And it's crazy how he'd remember all my statuses. I mean even though he already told me he loves me and he told me that's how he felt when he first saw me. All that stuff that I'm the type of girl he wants to marry blah blah... I don't wanna be too flattered with all this talk. Because so far I haven't really seen that from his actions. Even he's caring and protective, it's just issue with commitment I guess. I did make it clear last time in our argument online that he has no control of me, we're not a couple so he shouldn't be demanding of me to text him and why I can't see others. I brought up the fact that I know he was dating this other girl, while me and him were on a silence pedal. He got mad and stopped talking to me since then. And now they're friends on facebook again? Well as much as I like him, if he's gonna be playing games and not gonna man up, I have to see someone else. He's still in Europe so I can't really do anything. I really like him, it hurts of not being able to talk to him, to see him...but I can't hold on anymore. I'm really wishing right now someone else came along and make me forget about him.

It's not that I'm jealous, well maybe a little haha.. but it's normal to be jealous, maybe not too much to the point of possessiveness and obsession, but when you like/love the person you want him/her all for yourself. I'm concerned why he and her became friends on facebook. If he's gonna repeat the history by ditching me and going back to her, then I'll know he was b'sing all this time about his love to me. I'm just waiting for what happens next I guess. But just out of curiosity, what makes aqua chase a girl? When she ignores him or finally REALLY moves on to someone else?

Firstly, your question is about chasing, not love or anything like that so that's why I answered so
secondly, if an Aqua man just wanted your heart, he'll be looking for 'brain' in a different woman , 'soul' in a different one, 'body' in a different one , etc. In other words, unless you fulfilled every needs of his from intellectual, emotionally to physically, etc, you will be 'Sharing' him with other women! I'm sorry but this is real life not a fairy tale story and even it was, look at how pretty flawless those pricen and princess!
Thirdly , yes intellectual connection is very important in the beginning and in the long term so he won't be bored and you too. You seemed to misunderstand this as academia intelligence because it isn't. You don't have to be a bookworm or the first class student at uni. What you need is a 'unique brain' that can make him intrigued and wonder 'what does she mean by that? ' 'shhh, I'm totally confused by this girl. I must know more about her!' that kind of thing. So no, he doesn't really need someone to remind him his Physics formulas(if he studies this for eg) that he knows so well! If she can talk about 'her own inventions' that might have not even happened in this lifetime, he'll be impressed! That's another way of showing academic knowledge without being repetitive and boring!
Last but not least, I doubt this guy is that serious about you despite what he said because it seemed to me that he dropped you rather too quick with a funny excuse. An Aqua who is truly in love with you won't give up on you that easily .They're fixed Air so once they've ' invested' alot in you and the relationship(if you actually are in this stage but I doubt you have because of your post ....)And of he hasn't made any commitment to you, you might still be in the 'lab' stage where he throws all the most impossible sentences at you to see how you react so is the revealment of your character...If he has disappeared before to date someone else and now came back then disappeared again then yes, he is not in love with you deeply like he claimed.It seemed that your bike ride with the boy was a good excuse for him to make his exit again.
I also think you secretly enjoyed making him jealous? If not, why purposely putting things on facebook before even telling him things first? Instead of that, you should have put ' I want commitment from you, X!' because that's what you wanted but you don't have the courage to tell him.

In conclusion, I guess you helped him to get out of this and he helped you to find a cute boy. Who lost? Noone! Don't be suprised if he resurfaced in a few months or years when you're happily with someone just to disappear again. It isn't enough for him to take it to the next level but it was enough for him to 'stuck in' and enjoy while keep searching for someone who he thinks might be more suitable....
I doubt that he's as jealous and posessive as you. I think you need a loving and emotional guy who can hold you in a private oasis in inmagination of the two of you.Your jealous and posessive nature ( don't deny that you love his calls and his attention Alot on you not anyone else),this guy isn't suitable for you.He might have said this and that but he's more complex than that....Move on before you lose your sanity !

U sound little bit paralyzing exam, just saying. And why are u giving him so much credit? ... And no, I didn't have tendency at all to make him jealous, I knew where it would bring us. Can I share what my status was? -"Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?" Obviously it was in a form of sarcasm, I didn't even think he would notice it. Well, I was wrong... maybe that whole situation made him think, I was involved with someone else but what am I left to do? Why would I have to prove myself if we're not even a couple? His birth chart is dominated by fire and water basically. I don't know why but at times he reminds me of virgo. Well his moon is. Pretty weird. I can accept the fact that maybe I did something that turned him off or he changed his about having relationship with me.... Or who knows maybe he just had good skills at mastering his game and getting what he wants. But I could swear that I was always getting the good vibes about him being into me. I mean can't you just tell when you feel someone's really into you—

I don't understand why you got angry. I gave a fair assessment for both of you guys , good , bad, and ugly. I'm not favour anyone because obviously my statement is only based on your words. How am I able to favour him? I think once again you ve chosen to read what you think important in my paragraphs but not the whole.Yes, I confirm again that you both have lost nothing. You've a nice guy as you stated that he was cute and he had a way out. He'd come back sometimes though so don't worry about what makes him chase you .Again , I don't know what sort of favour I gave this guy with the statement? He obviously has his faults but you aren't a saint either. You both couldn't communicate well about what you want, need or fear to one another. How re you gonna stay long together without misunderstanding and 'unintentional' mind games? All you both did were hinting at some occasions but when the big events come to call for honesty, you both think your hints were enough to understand!? Yes, it's obvious that if you two want to have a relationship whatsoever, you need to grow in alot of way. This sound like highschool to me!

I myself am an Aquarius male, and can say a couple things about how I react. For me, I really don't go chasing the ladies, but when I do like a girl, I usually fall straight into love with them. If, after a while, a girl doesn't make it clear on how they feel about me or if they're out with other guys all the time, I do give up the chase, just like that. I just feel like I don't have a shot at her and that I should just give up. I don't know if that's how this guy is, but I'm just saying that maybe he was being sincere.

bespinoza92 really u fall in love just like that? When is yur bday if I may ask? And When u say the "I Love you" Do u mean it? Cuz my aqua told me he loved me after 2 months I thought that was 2 fast but I guess every1 falls in love differently?

Well,I am dating an Aquarius and it's been 3 years that we are together. 4-5 times in these years I heard from some people that he cheated or I saw his messages flirting with 2-3 girls but everytime he denied and I trusted him. He pampers me a lot. Gives me lots of time. And acts as my best friend and gives best advices and makes me choose the right things always but just to show me he touched some other girl in front of me in a very bad way many times and now I don't understand that if he loves me or not?

Posted by UrCleopatra
Ahah.. well my gpa is not bad😄 but usually when we'd be together, he'd be all lovey dovey with me, so affectionate, sweet, and warm. We don't talk about scientific formulas, usually we socialize about life, people, current events, etc. We do have few common interests. But, I don't personally believe a man is going to fall in love with you only because you two hold intellectual convos. He has so many intelligent female friends. But it's just something else. A man wants your heart not your brain. Right? I've noticed he's very sensitive, maybe because he has a lot of water in his chart. I agree, there have been couple times when I should of expressed my anger and disappointment to him instead of pretending it was cool.
I know he's insecure about himself, like I mentioned before I went motorcycle biking with another guy and he found out, to add to this, I've been updating my status with some b.s quotes about love and he remembered them even after I deleted them. He wrote me saying - 'I don't wanna bother, Ur in love with someone." He was being little too possessive because I only went biking with that dude, nothing else. He knows that guy and yes he's attractive but U can't fall in love with someone in one day. LOL. And it's crazy how he'd remember all my statuses. I mean even though he already told me he loves me and he told me that's how he felt when he first saw me. All that stuff that I'm the type of girl he wants to marry blah blah... I don't wanna be too flattered with all this talk. Because so far I haven't really seen that from his actions. Even he's caring and protective, it's just issue with commitment I guess. I did make it clear last time in our argument online that he has no control of me, we're not a couple so he shouldn't be demanding of me to text him and why I can't see others. I brought up the fact that I know he was dating this other girl, while me and him were on a silence pedal. He got mad and stopped talking to me since then. And now they're friends on facebook again? Well as much as I like him, if he's gonna be playing games and not gonna man up, I have to see someone else. He's still in Europe so I can't really do anything. I really like him, it hurts of not being able to talk to him, to see him...but I can't hold on anymore. I'm really wishing right now someone else came along and make me forget about him.

Are you dumb? He was clearly in love with you. What, did u think he was gonna wait forever while you make your decision?

This isnt a competition its either us or no one.

And why would go on a biking trip with a guy that u think is attractive if you're already talking to someone—

Posted by UrCleopatra
It's not that I'm jealous, well maybe a little haha.. but it's normal to be jealous, maybe not too much to the point of possessiveness and obsession, but when you like/love the person you want him/her all for yourself. I'm concerned why he and her became friends on facebook. If he's gonna repeat the history by ditching me and going back to her, then I'll know he was b'sing all this time about his love to me. I'm just waiting for what happens next I guess. But just out of curiosity, what makes aqua chase a girl? When she ignores him or finally REALLY moves on to someone else?

Wow. You are really stupid

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Posted by UrCleopatra
It's not that I'm jealous, well maybe a little haha.. but it's normal to be jealous, maybe not too much to the point of possessiveness and obsession, but when you like/love the person you want him/her all for yourself. I'm concerned why he and her became friends on facebook. If he's gonna repeat the history by ditching me and going back to her, then I'll know he was b'sing all this time about his love to me. I'm just waiting for what happens next I guess. But just out of curiosity, what makes aqua chase a girl? When she ignores him or finally REALLY moves on to someone else?

Wow. You are really stupid

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you do realise this post is 7 years old right?

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Posted by UrCleopatra
It's not that I'm jealous, well maybe a little haha.. but it's normal to be jealous, maybe not too much to the point of possessiveness and obsession, but when you like/love the person you want him/her all for yourself. I'm concerned why he and her became friends on facebook. If he's gonna repeat the history by ditching me and going back to her, then I'll know he was b'sing all this time about his love to me. I'm just waiting for what happens next I guess. But just out of curiosity, what makes aqua chase a girl? When she ignores him or finally REALLY moves on to someone else?

Wow. You are really stupid

you do realise this post is 7 years old right?

? she going to get an email notification she'll be back

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?? Oh my gawd... #Aquaobsessionslast

I would laugh too hard if she did literally come back just to reply! haha

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Posted by UrCleopatra
It's not that I'm jealous, well maybe a little haha.. but it's normal to be jealous, maybe not too much to the point of possessiveness and obsession, but when you like/love the person you want him/her all for yourself. I'm concerned why he and her became friends on facebook. If he's gonna repeat the history by ditching me and going back to her, then I'll know he was b'sing all this time about his love to me. I'm just waiting for what happens next I guess. But just out of curiosity, what makes aqua chase a girl? When she ignores him or finally REALLY moves on to someone else?

Wow. You are really stupid

you do realise this post is 7 years old right?

? she going to get an email notification she'll be back

?? Oh my gawd... #Aquaobsessionslast

I would laugh too hard if she did literally come back just to reply! haha

like she prob married has cute kids and then she sees the email and starts packing or is probably trying to log back in but she forgot her pw

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forgot her pw! oh that'd be torture... *tags Cleopatra in everything* ?

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