Who am I to this aquarius man?

We met two years ago (I’m a cancer and my ascendant is aquarius apparently lol). We had a connection instantly and we started dating each other (well we made it official 3-4 months after meeting each other and getting to know each other by going on dates mostly planned by him). He broke up with me a few months after and I let him go. He lost the spark he said and that he didn’t feel mature/grown enough for a serious relationship. We are both in our early twenties. He reached out like 6-7 months after the breakup and we started speaking to each other again and we saw each other like 2-3 times. Nothings physical happened even though he seemed to seek some physical touch (like hugging me, touching my arms, hand, hair). Nothing sexual.

Anyways, I went to travel in May 2019 and he wanted to see me before, but I couldn’t. He asked me to let him know when I’m back. He reached out the day before I return to tell me he’ll leave during summer to see his family (who lives very very far from our town) and he sent me a picture of a gift I made for him when we were together. He said he found this again and that he thought it was really cute. Then, I told him that I’m back and that we can see each other before he leaves. He agreed and we spent some time together early June. We talked for hours about different subjects (we debate a lot and he loves it). He then asked me to see me the next day even though a friend of him wanted to see him (aka he wanted to spend his last day in town with me instead of his friends before he leaves to go see his family). I agreed and we went in a park and we took pictures, laughed together and just discovered the park together.

So it’s been a month that we last seen each other and he kept contact through social media (He sends me messages from time to time to see how I’m doing and to also ask about advice or just tell me how he’s doing). He’s supposed to be back in August and he wants to see me again when back.

After two years, I can say that we still get along and we have a strong connection. He often brings ideas like going on a roadtrip together and do other fun activities together in the near future. I wonder if he only sees me as a friend now or if he still have some feelings. I know that he likes me (or at least appreciates me) and likes to spend time with me. Sometimes, I have the impression that he tends to forget that we are not together anymore or he seems to picture a future together. For example, when we saw each other the first time in June, we saw a couple taking wedding pictures and he made a comment about us and ‘our future wedding’ in a really subtle way and I don’t think he even realized what he said.

Anyways. I know that he could picture a serious relationship with me before making our relationship official almost two years ago (we share the same values, culture and also a lot of common interests) and being immature made us breakup. We still kept the breakup civil and we had (and still have) a lot of respect for each other. I just don’t know who I am to him now.

Thoughts? Advice?

P.S: I don’t want to go back to the relationship we had (as I said, we were both immature), but he still has potential for a new relationship if we both keep growing to be the best versions of ourselves. He still has to prove himself though if he wants me back

We met two years ago (I’m a cancer and my ascendant is aquarius apparently lol). We had a connection instantly and we started dating each other (well we made it official 3-4 months after meeting each other and getting to know each other by going on dates mostly planned by him). He broke up with me a few months after and I let him go. He lost the spark he said and that he didn’t feel mature/grown enough for a serious relationship. We are both in our early twenties. He reached out like 6-7 months after the breakup and we started speaking to each other again and we saw each other like 2-3 times. Nothings physical happened even though he seemed to seek some physical touch (like hugging me, touching my arms, hand, hair). Nothing sexual.

Anyways, I went to travel in May 2019 and he wanted to see me before, but I couldn’t. He asked me to let him know when I’m back. He reached out the day before I return to tell me he’ll leave during summer to see his family (who lives very very far from our town) and he sent me a picture of a gift I made for him when we were together. He said he found this again and that he thought it was really cute. Then, I told him that I’m back and that we can see each other before he leaves. He agreed and we spent some time together early June. We talked for hours about different subjects (we debate a lot and he loves it). He then asked me to see me the next day even though a friend of him wanted to see him (aka he wanted to spend his last day in town with me instead of his friends before he leaves to go see his family). I agreed and we went in a park and we took pictures, laughed together and just discovered the park together.

So it’s been a month that we last seen each other and he kept contact through social media (He sends me messages from time to time to see how I’m doing and to also ask about advice or just tell me how he’s doing). He’s supposed to be back in August and he wants to see me again when back.

After two years, I can say that we still get along and we have a strong connection. He often brings ideas like going on a roadtrip together and do other fun activities together in the near future. I wonder if he only sees me as a friend now or if he still have some feelings. I know that he likes me (or at least appreciates me) and likes to spend time with me. Sometimes, I have the impression that he tends to forget that we are not together anymore or he seems to picture a future together. For example, when we saw each other the first time in June, we saw a couple taking wedding pictures and he made a comment about us and ‘our future wedding’ in a really subtle way and I don’t think he even realized what he said.

Anyways. I know that he could picture a serious relationship with me before making our relationship official almost two years ago (we share the same values, culture and also a lot of common interests) and being immature made us breakup. We still kept the breakup civil and we had (and still have) a lot of respect for each other. I just don’t know who I am to him now.

Thoughts? Advice?

P.S: I don’t want to go back to the relationship we had (as I said, we were both immature), but he still has potential for a new relationship if we both keep growing to be the best versions of ourselves. He still has to prove himself though if he wants me back

We met two years ago (I’m a cancer and my ascendant is aquarius apparently lol). We had a connection instantly and we started dating each other (well we made it official 3-4 months after meeting each other and getting to know each other by going on dates mostly planned by him). He broke up with me a few months after and I let him go. He lost the spark he said and that he didn’t feel mature/grown enough for a serious relationship. We are both in our early twenties. He reached out like 6-7 months after the breakup and we started speaking to each other again and we saw each other like 2-3 times. Nothings physical happened even though he seemed to seek some physical touch (like hugging me, touching my arms, hand, hair). Nothing sexual.

Anyways, I went to travel in May 2019 and he wanted to see me before, but I couldn’t. He asked me to let him know when I’m back. He reached out the day before I return to tell me he’ll leave during summer to see his family (who lives very very far from our town) and he sent me a picture of a gift I made for him when we were together. He said he found this again and that he thought it was really cute. Then, I told him that I’m back and that we can see each other before he leaves. He agreed and we spent some time together early June. We talked for hours about different subjects (we debate a lot and he loves it). He then asked me to see me the next day even though a friend of him wanted to see him (aka he wanted to spend his last day in town with me instead of his friends before he leaves to go see his family). I agreed and we went in a park and we took pictures, laughed together and just discovered the park together.

So it’s been a month that we last seen each other and he kept contact through social media (He sends me messages from time to time to see how I’m doing and to also ask about advice or just tell me how he’s doing). He’s supposed to be back in August and he wants to see me again when back.

After two years, I can say that we still get along and we have a strong connection. He often brings ideas like going on a roadtrip together and do other fun activities together in the near future. I wonder if he only sees me as a friend now or if he still have some feelings. I know that he likes me (or at least appreciates me) and likes to spend time with me. Sometimes, I have the impression that he tends to forget that we are not together anymore or he seems to picture a future together. For example, when we saw each other the first time in June, we saw a couple taking wedding pictures and he made a comment about us and ‘our future wedding’ in a really subtle way and I don’t think he even realized what he said.

Anyways. I know that he could picture a serious relationship with me before making our relationship official almost two years ago (we share the same values, culture and also a lot of common interests) and being immature made us breakup. We still kept the breakup civil and we had (and still have) a lot of respect for each other. I just don’t know who I am to him now.

Thoughts? Advice?

P.S: I don’t want to go back to the relationship we had (as I said, we were both immature), but he still has potential for a new relationship if we both keep growing to be the best versions of ourselves. He still has to prove himself though if he wants me back

He wants you! I’m an aqua woman. He is trying to wiggle back in and see how you feel about him. We will change for the ones we want but if you want him, you need to put forth the effort and let him know

He wants you. He is going to show you his sweet side until he thinks it is the right time to tell you how he feels---Aqua female with a Cancer man for 5 years.