Will Aquarius girls go back to their Ex's?

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JackJackxD
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I've recently broken up with an Aquarius girl, and she was the one who dumped me. It was due to the fact that I kept repeating the same mistakes and in the end she said she got disappointed and lost feelings in me. I've tried to get her back a month after but she found my attempt "pestering". So although I'm a Cancer, I've really given up hope now. But I still wonder, whether Aquarius girls go back to their Ex's because they seem so stubborn?

I've read online and found that Aquarius girls never look back, but also read that its a star sign most prone to sudden reversals. So can anyone tell me which one it is?
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Jack love.... I'm a cancer female. My Aqua left for the same reason, I kept making the same silly mistake. She was far from perfect, we had AlOt of happy moments. But she just couldn't trust me any longer ( I never cheated) and I guess she got tireed trying.
We were together same amount of time, we had little break ups in between but nothing like now. Haven't seen her since June, we broke up end of May. Haven't spoken or gotten a text since September and that was her finalizing the ending.
She wanted marriage and on several occasions wanted us to move together. I guess after a while of trying Aquas give up.
Gather yourself and your shattered heart. I'm know you're gonna keep trying. Once she's gone silent just let go.
They are sensitive and stubborn to the point where they leave you wondering if they ever loved you at all.
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I've read that Aquas change their minds suddenly, so I wonder if she would change her thoughts about me one day. Same for me! My Ex moved on and lost feelings so fast, I just don't get how someone can just forget 2.5 years of relationship in a single month. We still keep contact as she said we could still be friends, but its never the same as the friendship before we've dated. Its always awkward, cold, and she doesn't seem like she wants to make an effort. So I guess sometimes you just have to move on :/
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Well Jack at least you two are in contact!
I guess keeping in contact was too hard for my aqua, she said so as well. Said that she's not happy( although she's kind of talking to someone who she admitted) and that this was hard for her. So I guess the best way to heal was to cut me out her life.

I miss her but I'm accepting.
I hope she never has to experience that feeling.... It hurts but it hurts more yearning for things to go back to being the same and it doesn't. You're hurting yourself more. Give it some time and perhaps try to go a few moments without reaching out.
Good luck & *hugs*
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When i love someone, i'm all in and i would do almost everything i could to make the relationship works well. It would be like that till i think i didn't have nothing more to do and feel drained myself cause of some reasons, it could be because i no longer trust that person, i think the relationship is goin nowhere, i got dissapointed over and over, etc. And when i reach that point, it would be all done. I maybe still "look back", in term of kinda think about that person sometimes, maybe we could still in contact here and there or even still be a friends, but the feeling and trust wouldn't be the same again whatsoever. And from my experience with some cancers, to be spesific, there was a time when i pour all of me to them and ended up got dissapointed because of their behaviour, in my case it was inconsistencies, manipulations, push-pulls, and yes some pretty annoying behaviour of them that happened over and over. I would try as hard as i could to still make it works, really. Till i fed up, tired myself. Soo, i backed off then move on. Those cancers still around though, even after they have a new gf and me with someone else. It just like they kept insisting me that there's something linger, they kept showing their sorry and all, but no thanks. Once i'm done, the closest relationship between us would be just a friends, no more.
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I am an Aquarius Woman and I go in loving and trusting. If you show me that you don't have goals, can't be trusted and didn't pay attention to the hundreds of times I 've have asked you to change or tried to work things out with you, then I am done. I was with my husband(sag) 7 years and 2 kids and there is no way in hell I would take him back. When I am done in my heart that is it! I like a man that impresses me, and motivates me to be better. Make some life style changes, like enroll in school. Then date her all over again. I love a man that takes control.
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I too was dumped by my aquarius gf last year,ima sag and she dumped me after 1.5yrs cus she had different reasons(1st i lost ambition then i changed that but by that time another dude came in the picture so i was fighting for her to stay with me big mistake) anyways things aint work out in the end and its been a full yr since ive interacted with her and now out of nowhere she adds me on instagram and likes my pictures and even commented on one i have yet to interact back because i have another gf now and i just feel like i shouldnt interact back but its no hard feelings at all
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Posted by amberbrown
I am an Aquarius Woman and I go in loving and trusting. If you show me that you don't have goals, can't be trusted and didn't pay attention to the hundreds of times I 've have asked you to change or tried to work things out with you, then I am done. I was with my husband(sag) 7 years and 2 kids and there is no way in hell I would take him back. When I am done in my heart that is it! I like a man that impresses me, and motivates me to be better. Make some life style changes, like enroll in school. Then date her all over again. I love a man that takes control.



Well would you consider your ex-husband if he has made those changes? I'm really determined in changing, but I just want to know that whether she would see me as a whole new different person, or would she always have a barrier in her mind that blocks out her feelings (i.e Once an ex, always an ex. Or simply friend zoned).
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For me the only way I would take an ex back (not just catching up or being friends) is if they acknowledge what happened and they not only make it up to me but that I see that they have made those changes. It's like starting all over but on hard-mode. You have to be our friend again, woo and date us, and really prove you mean it. You have to win our trust and comfort back. If I see the same shit I will walk away instantly.