Your Mind or Your Heart?

If we're continually living in our mind... I guess one doesn't Feel (as much). Too much of anything isn't good I guess. My question is which would you rather?

i feel like its important to feel in order to get truly in touch with your emotions.

>_>...well..yeah..kinda don't feel anything when I'm in my mind..but..it's better that way isn't it? ^_^

oh just leave us to delude ourselves. 🙂

I think my mind and heart are connected also.. I can think about something so long and hard that it almost feels real, actually... it does become real, even if I just made it up. The man that can get inside my mind can always find his way to my heart.. the man that tries to get inside my heart through emotions will always be left outside in the cold. Mind comes first then the heart for aquas.

Question.. does anyone like to have their scalp/head/hair rubbed or massaged during intimate times eg. kissing, forplay, "doin the do"? I have this slight obsession with this and I read somewhere that aquas like it because we are so mentally stimulated that it adds something extra.. like our partner is touching our sacred being, the essence of an aquarius..

Anyone felt this before or is it just me?

"The man that can get inside my mind can always find his way to my heart.. the man that tries to get inside my heart through emotions will always be left outside in the cold. Mind comes first then the heart for aquas."

Yup.

Oh my GOODNESS, AQ!! If you were a male I'd marry you!! For pete sake stop being so RIGHT about AQUAS!! >

i have had one of my Aqua loves telling me :-)

Flex..huh? What did you mean by that last statement?

RC.. I am on a roll on this board.. for some reason. Since I have found DXP I am really getting in touch with my aquaness and it is spilling out everywhere, in real life and here on DXP.. I never knew others felt the way I do.. this is SUCH A SUPRISE and RELIEF to me. When is your bday?

January 29th

*bows down to Aqua Queen*

what signs are your planets in?

I've got to study you! 🙂

*aqua is humbled by your gesture*

..signs in planets...uummm.. let me pull it up.. I do not know much about the technicalities of astrology.. I must admit to being a astodummy.. but I will post it in a min.. maybe you can help me decipher it.

Sun Aquarius
Moon Taurus
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Gemini
Uranus Libra
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Sagittarius

Ascendant Taurus
II Gemini
III Cancer
IV Cancer
V Leo
VI Virgo
VII Scorpio
VIII Sagittarius
IX Capricorn
Midheaven Capricorn
XI Aquarius
XII Pisces

Is this what you speak of? I hope cuz I don't want to look like an idiot on here..

lol. that's exactly what I speak of. thanks. 🙂

wow. how's that jupiter in Aquarius been going.


Jupiter in Aquarius gives you the opportunity to develop an independent, self-willed, tolerant, humanitarian, broad-minded, optimistic, inventive, democratic and original nature. There is an innate desire to penetrate the deeper subjects of life such as social science, new technology, philosophy, religion, astrology, metaphysics and occult wisdom. These qualities are necessary in order to expand your personality and life experience. Social life is extremely important and you will tend to associate with friends that are seeking to pioneer some new, noble way of life for humanity. You come to understand that any form of social reform should be in line with humanitarian and moral principles.



I know someone who has it in retrograde..which isn't good.


We have the same venus that's cool.

how can you choose between head and heart? they're both equally important.

lol.

jeez...that girls a shameless plugger everywhere...

😛

Beautiful profile notso.

k.. I updated my profile..

RC.. very informative about jupiter in aquarius.. this is very true of me. Not sure what retrograde is though... So basically does this all mean I am an ok person? Just a typical Aqua? Loony? What?

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lol. got it. wheres that leo swagger kris...

😛

surf and turf—

time for your porno kris...

oops got cut off...

i have had one of my Aqua loves telling me "please dont try and enter my mind"

very informative about jupiter in aquarius.. this is very true of me. Not sure what retrograde is though... So basically does this all mean I am an ok person? Just a typical Aqua? Loony? What?


well anyone with mercury in aqua is good to me...wow you actually have a very complimenting chart. no wonder you can express the aqua so well. you don't have much inhibiting you. No wonder you are a great help. There is not much inner conflict with yourself.

you have a lot of earth, fire and air without any water at all. I'd rather have your chart. 🙂 this moon in scorpio is killing me.

"please dont try and enter my mind"

Its hard work...and it will leave you confused and drained...

RC.. Okay.. that is very helpful, Thank You!!... anymore questions/insights/love quests/idiosyncracies... about yourself I can help you with? 🙂

Actually... I need some help.. Do any other aquas have extensive experience with Libras? I am treading deep waters with my libra best friend and feel he may consume me shortly.. I adore and he adores too.. he mentioned doing some things to me that I can not believe.. I fear if I allow this, mind..heart..body all will be lost .. gone to mush...useless.. Help!

Uh oh...Libra nad aquas are great together...have fun.

Lady M.. I know, but the mind games are driving me wild.. we are supposed to be the most intellectual of all the signs but for some strange reason.. I feel libras may have us beat at some level.. their focus is tremendous.. . we know a little about a lot.. they know a lot about US! and this is where they can beat us at our own game.. and I HATE LOSIN'!! Are other aquas's this competitive.. I really hate being beaten at mind games.. it gets under my skin and I cannot rest until I can think of a way to combat the enemy(or lover).. Do tell!

OH I KNOW!!! Its not that they know alot about us...its more like we are one in the same. SO, our way of snaggin and baggin our prey is useless against them! Trust me after awhile you'll get back to your normal aqua/confusing self...they are merely mortal men. LOL. The libra guy I was talking to threw me for a loop for awhile...but im a quick study and he didnt like when the tables turned 😉

You have to come at the situation totally different. ..thats the challenge. (you know how we love the challenge!)

Yes we are competitive...not in the Aries kinda way...but in the silent killer kind.

Libras and mind games: they kinda know, but then again its their nature like aquas. The libras I know are kinda air sign ADHD x10! The guy couldnt keep a thought going for five seconds till we were on the next subject. They are extremely smart as well....but they NEVER show it. Its like thier allergic to serious conversation or something...unlike aquas who would and will talk about anything.


I hope your okay with the shallowness...i can only stomach so much 🙂

oh my goodness! not with a guy but with a GIRL I have a problems.

there is a libra girl in school. we both seemed to be naturally friendly with each other throughout our highschool career.

BUT like you said. they can figure out a lot of things and she and I would end up arguing rather than agreeing. However, we both realize that we are both really good at what we do and it doesn't matter which way we do it- we both do very well in our own way. appreciating our different ways of doing things helped us get along.

She did beat me by .1 on our gpa but that's only cause she got a head start in math..I had a 3.7 and she had a 3.8 >_>

sometimes libras can be more determined than we are..: P
I really do wish I had some of her qualities. She notices things that I don't notice but at the same time, I notice things that she doesn't notice as well. go figure..

libra and aqua make a superior team. : )

side note: although my moon in scorpio blinds me with emotion because it's water, it gives me awesome determination as well as my powerful warring planets-mars and jupiter in Taurus.

I love an aqua..

I thought you kicked him to the curb Sola...?

Well it looks like i'm predominantly an aquarius so i can't answer truthfully since "i don't feel as much" how's that like?... i can only pick mind for now as its easier to fake your feelings

Lady M.."Yes we are competitive...not in the Aries kinda way...but in the silent killer kind"

So true. I also wish I had the qualities they have. They are very intelligent beings but it can be overlooked... until one day they hit you with something and you're mind is blown.. My libra does that all the time.. time will go by without any amazing statements or thoughts.. just normal witty humor.. then one day, he sneaks up from behind and I am floored by his knowledge.. then he digresses into his quiet unassuming character. Meanwhile, weeks go by and I am still trying to pick myself up off the floor replaying his words over and over in my mind.. in amazement.

RC..
This would make us a superior team as it seems they have exactly what we lack and we compliment their style . If the two do not buck heads, as you and your friend did, the combination can be deadly. It is up to the two to give into each other, I think, instead of competing.

And they do notice details that NO ONE else does.. you have to always be on your game with them, checking every detail.. down to your eye movement.. Aquas just are not that detailed so I always miss something and he will call me on it.

Lady M..

I have found a lot of depth in several libras in my life, but it takes a long time to get there.. maybe an hour into the conversation about blah blah blah... we will get to some real meat and potatoes..

"They are very intelligent beings but it can be overlooked... until one day they hit you with something and you're mind is blown.. My libra does that all the time.. time will go by without any amazing statements or thoughts.. just normal witty humor.. then one day, he sneaks up from behind and I am floored by his knowledge.. then he digresses into his quiet unassuming character."

Yep, thats them...but they only give it in small doses....which is fine with me, since im the same way and dont like to flaunt my intelligence. The thing is libras act like airheads so you never know it until that moment when they "blow your mind".

Yup.. Agreed. I think that is why they are so dang attractive.. even the ones here on DXP.. I am lovin' them!! I live on the Libra board.. sometimes I forget I am not one (getting all defensive when Gem's come to the board) .. and they politely remind me, "uh your an aqua right".. and I am like.. OOPS! Oh yeah, maybe I need to scoot on over to be with "my kind" every once in a while, before I forget myself..🙂 and so, I am here.. LOVE aquas too. Love the brain teasing we can do with eachother, non-threatening like..

I know Lady M!! Im just loving him from a distance.

LOL @ aquarianbrat and Sola.

AB were ALMOST the same..so its okay to forget. 🙂


Sola..confused libra....😉

I've live my life in my head; not an Aqua, but the Sister to him (Virgo). I'm led by the combo....thanx to merc. in Libra, I don't move on until I've satisfied the 'scales' by choosing an option that includes my heart and mind; I can't really leave either out, but with that Virgo sun I'm deffinitely more 'in my head'; my Sagg uncle tells me 'get out of your head' I can't do it!!! I'm a mental creature.

typically though I choose the mind becuase it's less detailed; it's straight through, and less complicated; I hate complication.

I've felt like an alien since what? birth! lol I'm strange or people are or we all are hell being strange gives you leeway, and an excuse to do the things nobody would dare to! Step out and do it to it!!

hey VE!! stop posing off me!! I'm the alien!! lol

Anywho..
I was gonna mention: the heart makes people do stupid things. Thus, when it comes to choosing between the heart and the brain...one MUST ALWAYS choose the brain (brain=logic). Put into practice what is learned from in experience, logically. Yet there are still a lot of people out there who say "oh oh! let's follow our heart!" the heart holds the desires while the brain says that it's stupid. The brain helps you organize things from your past experiences in order to help you out in the present. What's the difference between the brain and the heart? the heart is rather stupid and the brain is smart. Like they say "It's easy to despise what you can't get" but is despising what you can't get foolish or smart? I think it's foolish. The brain is trying to tell the heart that it is possible to overcome and change these things with a few added variables, but the heart wants to be all sad and depressed with bitterness and hatred and decides that it can't make a difference with what it desires to make a difference in. It's as if it can never be happy it's even alive and beating and would rather die. I guess the heart can be stupid and selfish sometimes.

It is true that the brain is connected to the heart, so I think that people need to find a balance between the two in according with their own personal trial and errors.

"the heart makes people do stupid things. "

ENOUGH SAID!

lmao @ RC lol.....I don't like adjectives....they're subjective, and biased.....😢 😉 emotions are as important as logic; they stand side-by-side, and can ultimately be determining factors for major changes in life; you marry a woman/man based on money and fincial security (logic) or you move into this for something more (heart) now which is stupid? Yes, it's true, the heart CAN be selfish, but only as much so as the BRAIN allows it to be; Out of the heart, can come generosity, and humaneness; it's where our beliefs, and convictions come from; it's the determining factor of how far we're willing to go for a chosen desirable; the mind gives up and moves on when there is no more point to it when it can no longer logically discern that a 'margin of chance' exists...I don't stand against either; I accept both becuase it is what makes us, Virgo,Aquarius, and yes, Gemini, Human signs....Humans in general actually.

Bad question, there is no seperation.