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fieryearth
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Ok my male Aries' best friend (he's a Cap) does not like me! He feels that I am not my aries TYPE. I am quite offended. This Cap guy is extremely irratating, annoying, and cocky. I try my best to hold my tongue when I am around him. The first time I met him, he was utterly rude- but It did not bother me too much. The second time I encountered him I realized I could not even stand to be in the room with him. Few words were exchanged between us, nonetheless I was polite as usual. But then my Aries tells me this news! I must say that I am confused and do not understand why he (the best friend) feels the need to not like me. I did nothing to him to make him dislike me.

Any ideas on what I should do?
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Don't be extra nice or ignore him. Just be indifferent to him. He will most likely not like you no matter what you do. Maybe he is jealous of the time you are taking away from their friendship. Maybe he feels some transference from another relationship and is taking it out on you. Just be indifferent-don't pay any attention. It'll get better sooner or later or not but don't let that a-hole get to you.
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"Ok my male Aries' best friend (he's a Cap) does not like me! He feels that I am not my aries TYPE. I am quite offended."


This would have likey sent all kind of radars going off in my head .. mainly because men don't usually express to "the boys" about feelings. Men don't really care about their friends women .. he would just be indifferent to you .. but, he wouldn't SAY anything to him about you .. men don't work that way.

You feel offended .. I'd be seriously questioning my boyfriends sexuality, because somewhere along the way Mr. Cappy got the impression that he could talk to another man about his feelings.

His type? You have a penis?
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fieryearth
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Thanks guys for the responses, I appreciate it.

"fieryearth.......his mate fancies you!! simple as that". LOL I hope not, but I can't but help think that this is true.

-Yea caner~leo~cusper, I was just going to act indifferent towards him, I figure it's the best thing to do.

-"His type? You have a penis?" LOL...I totally understand where you are coming from P-Angel.
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lol .. fieryearth .. I didn't realize it until you copied, but, you got three completely different, yet, possible answers .. this is a great place, isn't it? There's so many different views, and we're all eager to throw it out there for people to ponder.

Another food for thought to ponder: It's out of character for an Aries to allow another to mis-treat his woman .. they are very loyally protective .. this would be running through my mind .. why? But, you know me .. it's always WHY