Aquarius Woman 2-2-84/Aries man3-22-83

What does anyone know about our charts, and do we have a good chance of making our friendship work. He is mad at me right now and we haven't been talking. I am giving him his space. Should I move on or hold on?

Interesting how you left out the bit as to WHY he's mad at you.

Care to explain why he's mad? Kinda hard to give much advice when you gave such little information.

Aries men help me! My Aries is seriously mad, how can I get him to love me again? Aquarius woman!
I have been seeing an Aries Man for going on 3 months..we had our first disagreement, and he became cold and distant. He said we could still be friends, go places, he still paid for everything, hold hands..but no sex and we would start over our friendship which at the time I agreed with. at this time we had sex once and he said it would never happen again. that hurt me. then I created a fake phone number and asked him was he seeing anyone, he said no,but we were supposed to go out 3 days later! He was pissed when he found out it was me, told me that I royally fucked up any chance we might of had then ignored me for the rest of the night. Then I sent him messages saying how I felt and he said to stop messaging him, but he kept responding to me. Then he stopped. He blames me when he was so willing to strike up another relationship behind my back. But I want this to work, what can I do to get him back and to makes us one again?

You aren't. You've been behaving like a twat.

Leave him alone.

AND you're 29?

Holy shit, what the hell is wrong with you? Gawd. Why is DXP getting overrun with illogical crazy women lately?

"Here are many examples of me behaving like a crazy bitch. WHY WON'T HE TALK TO ME. WHAT CAN I DO TO TRICK HIM INTO DATING ME AGAIN??


Women like you are why the rest of us have to deal with fucked up guys. Go become a nun and stay the hell away from the public.

amberbrown10/14/2014 8:20:11 PM——Hide | Quote | More

Lol I must be a Looney tune to even what to deal with him again. Why should I even worry about some one is so childish that the resort to the silent treatment, and I am just as bad for entertaining the b.s. for someone who is a secret cry baby. he got pissed off because I bought him a present for sweeties day, which we were supposed to go out that day. I don't have time for that b.s. He says he hasn't dated since his divorce 3 years ago and he shouldn't until he learns how to use his big boy words. I was there for him, as much as I could possibly be. When he had to do his reverse duty and work his full time, I would get up at 5:30 am and text him and stay glued to my phone until he got home at 12:30 am, and I have a job with 3 kids, yet he had all of my attention. I spent the night when he wanted me to, I had to fight him to let me cook for him. I drank the beer he liked, watch the movies he wanted, I even learned about the air force, so I could understand and support his world. I made sure I stayed girly and let him lead, I stroked the treetrunk out his ego because I honesty told him he was sexy to me because was. I know I effd up because I humbled myself to a cry baby/ predator. I did everything I was supposed to do as a woman, even against my Aquarius side, and he goes all female on me because I bruised his ego. F that.

And the fact that his wife left him once before she walked out for good, because he told me that he cheated and carried on with a ex girlfriend, let's me know I dodged a big bullet. I am not going to be in a relationship where I have to censor what I say because your feelings are more important than mine and you might shut down and disappear instead of talking about it like a grown up, I don't have time for that type of dick stroking because I am not getting any pleasure out of it. He said mean shit never said I am sorry once. I say something mean and now you can't deal. Flag on the play! Get that Sh!t out of here! As an Aquarius Woman, I am cold and distant, I was never like that with him, he had my full attention and my heart. So you want to spend your left being a lonely cry baby that's fine, have fun! He told me there aren't any woman in the world like me because he has looked, and he has from Alaska to Guam. So if our friendship isn't good enough to repair because he is in feelings the only thing I can do is make sure he has enough tissue when he boohoos.

He's too introverted for you. You don't know how to be a friend to him or yourself chart wise right now. You need to readdress your goals without him as a factor or anyone else for that matter. Work on self assurance and clear your circle. He is better not having you as he is not healed and not interested in you unless it's for bed pleasures with no attachments

I wouldn't even waste my time with that..he can give that to the next victim

I am just going to go back to ignoring all men, he slipped in because he didn't come with usual b.s. I wish we both could have been different but sh!yt happens, if he comes and wants to friends later, I doubt I could be. he is friends his ex wife and ex girlfriend, surely he doesn't need to be friends with me too

Ok I found our placements are we a good matched? What type of people are we, who would we pair up best with? I don't really no anything about this stuff so if anyone can explain it to me, that would be great.
Aries male- Rising sign-cancer, Sun-Aries, moon-cancer, mercury-pisces, Venus - Taurus, mars- Aries, Jupiter- Sag, Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Pluto- Libra, n.no -gemini.
Aquarius woman- Rising sign- sag, Sun Aquarius, moon Aquarius, mercury-cap, Venus-cap, mars-scorp,-Jupiter-cap,Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Neptune-cap, Pluto-scorp, n.node-gemini.

Well hopefully everything works it self out. His friend says just wait for his storm to be over and he will be back. if he does I know how to handle him now, I have learned so much about Aries, it's crazy.

Posted by amberbrown
Ok I found our placements are we a good matched? What type of people are we, who would we pair up best with? I don't really no anything about this stuff so if anyone can explain it to me, that would be great.
Aries male- Rising sign-cancer, Sun-Aries, moon-cancer, mercury-pisces, Venus - Taurus, mars- Aries, Jupiter- Sag, Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Pluto- Libra, n.no -gemini.
Aquarius woman- Rising sign- sag, Sun Aquarius, moon Aquarius, mercury-cap, Venus-cap, mars-scorp,-Jupiter-cap,Saturn-scorpio, Uranus- sag, Neptune-cap, Pluto-scorp, n.node-gemini.

I don't think I've ever seen someone write it out like this haha. This is the most complicated "chart" format evar.

Lol I wanted to have all the info so someone could tell me whats going on, old this stuff.

Well he works alot and I am impressed by him. he brings out my silly side with his silliness, he aggressive with sex and he is a nerd which I love because because secretly I am too. I am just trying to wait his tantrum out then show him it is not beneficial for him too act like that. but I have learned to control my temper and watch the hurtful things I say to him. this has shown me that I really do care about him and everything doesn't have to go my way all the time. he is a different kind of man than I am use to which attracted me to him in the first place. So fingers crossed, it's been two weeks already so hopefully he will come out of his turtle shell..lol

aqua men lol.

Posted by amberbrown
Lol I wanted to have all the info so someone could tell me whats going on, old this stuff.

No, you don't get it. People don't format charts like you do. It's usually in list form or copied and pasted chart. I've never seen someone list it like you did. It just amused me, is all.

I have been reading alot about Aries men. I mean alot! So I reached out to him today after two weeks. only because I kept reading that his lines of communication were open and he was thinking about second chances. He did text back! :-) He was still kind of grumpy, but not purely hateful like he had been. I let him know I didn't want to talk about the past, what happened, happened and I just wanted to talk to someone that I admired and respected. He said I could ask him questions but he wouldnt come over. I know he was tired working 20 these last two days the another 12 tomorrow. I did let him know that I have been making big changes and will be kids free for about two years. Just to peek his interest because he knows how I feel about my babies. Then I let him know that I consider him a friend and friends are important to me. Then told him good night. I am nor going to text him for awhile. If I get him back I will know what to do now. I went into this with no knowledge of this type of man. I feel I have finally found my equal and I hope I didn't mess up to bad and lose him for good. Pray for me! :-)

well he's back and we've been spending a lot of time together these last 2 months we play the PlayStation 4 he's letting me bring him dinner now we wrestle around a lot I noticed that he shuts down when I start telling him that I love him and he says that we're only friends but he's taking me to meet his family and I went to his mothers house and talk to her we're supposed to be going out together for Valentine's day tomorrow I just need advice on how I can get him to progress forward as far as a relationship I'm so happy cuz I do love him with all my heart and I'm glad that he is back.

I have met his family his mom his dad and his two sisters have been to their house we still go out on datesthese stairs like deeply into my eyes in the night there is no way to think or even guess about what he's thinking about he walks around naked now I mean I feel him getting so comfortable but I know he doesn't want a label

stupid talk to text

Posted by rockyroadicecream
AND you're 29?

Holy shit, what the hell is wrong with you? Gawd. Why is DXP getting overrun with illogical crazy women lately?

"Here are many examples of me behaving like a crazy bitch. WHY WON'T HE TALK TO ME. WHAT CAN I DO TO TRICK HIM INTO DATING ME AGAIN??


Women like you are why the rest of us have to deal with fucked up guys. Go become a nun and stay the hell away from the public.

Amen to that!!!
I've been saying this for years!
Too many unhinged women take a good man and feck him up with all their games and emotional abuse. Leaving good women with what's left afterwards!!!

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