Arguing with Aries girl 25022016

Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂

Hiya..welcome 🙂

Hahaha, that sounds like me (Pisces sun, Aries moon).

You can survive the argument if both of you are mature enough to recognise whether what you're arguing about is worth it. Someone has to back down to keep the peace... and if neither of you are prepared to do it then I can't see this relationship lasting long...but I got to tell you Aries are very competitive..😄

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Posted by Capricorn180189_GS
Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂

Don't hint, tell. You are a Cap, I take it?

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I went research online about Aries and here, all the feedback are so informative. Thank you. I will try reply one by one. But currently I am working. The first for this you. Thanks for welcoming me. haha. Yes, competitive, and eventually I will be the one back down. Does Aries ever back down? No I am guessing NO. lol - FOR PISCES

For Champranger, ABOVE REPLY - I quoted wrongly, Yes, I told her I am not feeling well. Yes I am a Cap but I do not know how to find out SUN Sign and moon sign.

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Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂

Don't hint, tell. You are a Cap, I take it?

I went research online about Aries and here, all the feedback are so informative. Thank you. I will try reply one by one. But currently I am working. The first for this you. Thanks for welcoming me. haha. Yes, competitive, and eventually I will be the one back down. Does Aries ever back down? No I am guessing NO. lol - FOR PISCES

For Champranger, ABOVE REPLY - I quoted wrongly, Yes, I told her I am not feeling well. Yes I am a Cap but I do not know how to find out SUN Sign and moon sign.

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This site is quite informative http://www.zodioscope.com/personal-horoscope

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Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂

Don't hint, tell. You are a Cap, I take it?

I went research online about Aries and here, all the feedback are so informative. Thank you. I will try reply one by one. But currently I am working. The first for this you. Thanks for welcoming me. haha. Yes, competitive, and eventually I will be the one back down. Does Aries ever back down? No I am guessing NO. lol - FOR PISCES

For Champranger, ABOVE REPLY - I quoted wrongly, Yes, I told her I am not feeling well. Yes I am a Cap but I do not know how to find out SUN Sign and moon sign.

So after you told her that you weren't feeling well ... how did that lead to you saying that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her?

Try putting your date of birth, place of birth, and birth time here:

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To cut it short, I told her not feeling well at the last evening, and night again I told her I am not okay. She did not show any concern at all. So I said nvm, I do not want to talk. This morning she wishes me Good morning (probably guilty calls - lol), I am still annoyed, but very happy to receive that. Yet, I really wanted not to reply her, but do not want her feel bad.

So I replied, telling her that I am still disappointed, not happy and frustrated. ( Is it wrong to express how I feel - I thought straightforward is what Aries happy) then she keep reply one word "so". I could not hold anymore (if you understand a Cap's feeling) --------- yeah, we are big baby, but I assume our same Ram - Aries baby is the same but just they are more cool in fashion and life style )

What did she say when you told her you were sick?

Posted by champranger
So for the argument, I think you should mention that when you were not feeling well, you were hoping you would hear from her and hopes that she would inquire about it. The lack of such was what had caused you to be frustrated and unhappy with her, and that's why you think she shows no concern for someone who cares about her.

Be straight forward and I think she should understand, imo. 🙂

Yes, you exactly know what I am trying to say. I bet sometimes when we texting via whatapps, it could be misleading.

Thing is when I get her respond, I do not see she is confused but stand still that everyone has its own stuff, to self manage and so on.. so she will not (like Alicia mention "coddle" or baby sit) me.

Let me be honest- some Capricorns are may need coddle all the time. But bear in mind that we would say our EQ (or toleration) is quite high, unless we are really not okay, we wouldn't let anyone know. We are creature of that.

So I am not feeling well, am stressed with around-corner-exam, and while working, I stopped my work and I helped her amending her email drafting (you have no idea- ARIES now means now) plus I had BIG quarrel with my mom this week (I have no one to turn to talk, hoping that she-Aries will ask me what happen)

OF course------> "plus I had BIG quarrel with my mom this week (I have no one to turn to talk, hoping that she-Aries will ask me what happen)" ----> since she never ask, I would never tell. Hoping her to ask but really disappointed.

Aries don't do well with manipulative assholes. You were being a manipulative asshole. You were not right, you silly bitch.

Learn to not be a douche and maybe these arguments wouldn't happen.

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Posted by Rambunctious76

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To be honest, you come off like a big baby that wants to be coddled all the time and that's a huge turn off to an Aries female. I got annoyed just reading that.

Actually more like a manipulative douchebag than a big baby. He was testing her for a reaction, and didn't seem to mind hurting her in the process.

I'd say we're both right. Only because of the way that he whined about her "not caring" about his feelings or whatever he said. Plus, the Cap men I've encountered are very big babies. They are always pessimistic and looking for someone to coddle them while they complain about how unfair life is and how they can't trust anyone.

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Hi Alicia,

You made it so clear. Thanks. Let's discuss, do you not want people to care about you when you are sick, or stress? Honestly? You are right in many way, Aries always do, Capricorn and Aries are ram! Thing is you are optimist, we are more to pessimistic (we do optimist at times) but we can't help it.

All we want is when we need you, you need to be there (give attention), last night, even hearing I am not okay, she can just leave me more than 10 mins without a reply, If 10mins also cannot give to a person who is telling you not okay, then it really pissed him off.

P/s note: She can call me 5 times in office to find me solve her work problem. At night, so what? who cares what happen to me?

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Posted by Capricorn180189_GS
Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So basically you were deliberately testing her?

Why would you hint about something if you consider it that important? Speak up, Cap! Aries can't hear you if you drop hints. We're not mind readers.

And I recommend you cut out the testing i.e. don't ever do it again because if you do, she will eventually figure it out and walk away without a fight.

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Thanks, this is a good tips. Scary right when she will walk away without a fight. I felt it can be very scary.

Will not do it again after I learnt.

You can say I test and no, you can't say too. I am really not okay, and what should you do as a human, friend or family?

ask right? - Are you okay?

Sounds whining, but your recommendation I will be alert! ^^


Alicia, I will remember your tips too. Do you both know each other? Sounds like on the same boat. hahaha.

Hii welcome 🙂

Is she in committed relationship with you? 🙂

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What did she say when you told her you were sick?

Hi

Why would Aries think she is an introvert? haha yes, about your username.

The day before - Take care, I am sick too. But I try to be strong and tough here.

Yesterday - no bother to reply.

Her reply is - "So"

or - "?"

I do not honestly think that anyone should reply in this manner, not just Capricorn will be frus.

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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
What did she say when you told her you were sick?

Hi

Why would Aries think she is an introvert? haha yes, about your username.

The day before - Take care, I am sick too. But I try to be strong and tough here.

Yesterday - no bother.

Her reply is - "So"

or - "?"

I do not honestly think that anyone should reply in this manner, not just Capricorn will be frus.

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😢

Maybe after a day's gap she was trying to break silence and ask "...soooo...? "

Yeah, its not nice though

Posted by RumiL

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What did she say when you told her you were sick?

Hi

Why would Aries think she is an introvert? haha yes, about your username.

The day before - Take care, I am sick too. But I try to be strong and tough here.

Yesterday - no bother.

Her reply is - "So"

or - "?"

I do not honestly think that anyone should reply in this manner, not just Capricorn will be frus.

😢

Maybe after a day's gap she was trying to break silence and ask "...soooo...? "

Yeah, its not nice though

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Hi Rumil
Thanks for your welcome 🙂

No la, if is soooo? I would understand. Is after I write something, she reply so. I don't like that, maybe I should tell her straight.

Finally someone agree with me is not nice. 😆

>.< we are not in a committed relationship, we know each other by March 2nd, it would be 1 year. From nothing to be able to fight. Everyday I pray so she will be soften heart towards me, but I still feel insecure cause Aries is a fire sign, not easy to handle. Am I right?

we are not in a committed relationship, we know each other by March 2nd, it would be 1 year. From nothing to be able to fight. Everyday I pray so she will be soften heart towards me, but I still feel insecure cause Aries is a fire sign, not easy to handle. Am I right?

Your message got cut off.. But I can read it.

Hmm..regardless of the sign, its basic courtesy to respond properly when someone says they're not well. Which reminds me, hope are you well 😄 lol

Yeah. Capricorns never tell others they're unwell. They don't like making it an issue even if they say..

Coming to Aries though.. It depends. We are fire sign, so we're warm people. But maybe she didn't say much because she is drawing a line...and trying not to be over friendly? But then again she takes help from you.


Hmm.. I can only say being the babies of the zodiac, we cannot take hints.. We need people to be direct. Ask want you want. Tell want you want. Tell what you do or do not like. Be assertive. She will appreciate it even if it goes against her.

Do you know her placements?🙂

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Posted by champranger
So for the argument, I think you should mention that when you were not feeling well, you were hoping you would hear from her and hopes that she would inquire about it. The lack of such was what had caused you to be frustrated and unhappy with her, and that's why you think she shows no concern for someone who cares about her.

Be straight forward and I think she should understand, imo. 🙂

Yes, you exactly know what I am trying to say. I bet sometimes when we texting via whatapps, it could be misleading.

Thing is when I get her respond, I do not see she is confused but stand still that everyone has its own stuff, to self manage and so on.. so she will not (like Alicia mention "coddle" or baby sit) me.

Let me be honest- some Capricorns are may need coddle all the time. But bear in mind that we would say our EQ (or toleration) is quite high, unless we are really not okay, we wouldn't let anyone know. We are creature of that.

So I am not feeling well, am stressed with around-corner-exam, and while working, I stopped my work and I helped her amending her email drafting (you have no idea- ARIES now means now) plus I had BIG quarrel with my mom this week (I have no one to turn to talk, hoping that she-Aries will ask me what happen)

OF course------> "plus I had BIG quarrel with my mom this week (I have no one to turn to talk, hoping that she-Aries will ask me what happen)" ----> since she never ask, I would never tell. Hoping her to ask but really disappointed.

I understand that you want to be there (and you were there) for this Aries and you hope she would be here for you too. The challenging part about Caps from an Aries point of view is that a lot of times, the other person kind of needs to read the Cap, in order to understand the Cap on a deeper level. This is even more difficult if it's on an online app because it's difficult to understand correctly about the silences. Through apps like whatsapp and facebook, it's hard to tell if you're just busy or if you wanted to someone to talk to or if you're mad. I made a thread on Capricorn Silence a while back for the very same reason.

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Title? or perhaps you could share the link. I am only going through the ones with topic or title that interested me.

Posted by RumiL
Your message got cut off.. But I can read it.

Hmm..regardless of the sign, its basic courtesy to respond properly when someone says they're not well. Which reminds me, hope are you well 😄 lol

Yeah. Capricorns never tell others they're unwell. They don't like making it an issue even if they say..

Coming to Aries though.. It depends. We are fire sign, so we're warm people. But maybe she didn't say much because she is drawing a line...and trying not to be over friendly? But then again she takes help from you.


Hmm.. I can only say being the babies of the zodiac, we cannot take hints.. We need people to be direct. Ask want you want. Tell want you want. Tell what you do or do not like. Be assertive. She will appreciate it even if it goes against her.

Do you know her placements?🙂

^^ Sry not familiar with the posting here, no idea if anyone could read it. But why only hide message - why can't we delete?

Thanks though I am still cough, noseblock and headache, heartrush, quarrel with my mom not solve, but I just back down, and Aries girl finally reply me again. 🙂

The reason I like her, the fire sign, is she will say thanks, they are nice people..., recently sweet turns to sour, making me feel she is just wanted to take advantage of help or FWB (buying lunch etc). I have mixed feeling, not sure if I CAPRICORN type of human that will think too much or she made me feel this way.

Btw, what's placements? :/

Posted by champranger
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-silence-5514645/

Thanks for sharing!

May I know your sign? Are you a cap?

Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.

The answer to this question is TIME...

If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...


hahaha... I feel is so true when Cap does not reply, it means either he is busy or refused to reply. Even if he is busy, if he sees, he will reply. Unless he doesn't feel the necessary or - silence is more than enough to say how he feels.- childish and he hate himself for that too.

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Remember this.

Gemini's don't like to beat around the bush— 😕 😆 😆

Hhahahahah!! 😆 😆

They go on to treetr-nk long before they reach the point... TOO LONG! For petes sake..(the guys atleast

This is stating that these signs don't like when people beat around the bush with them.

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Are you sure people can speak up when it comes to confessing feelings to Aries? Mostly is a no answer right? Cause if Aries likes someone, she will definitely the one who confess straight.

Not sure with other sign, cause I met so many Aries. No motivation to learn in depth about other sign yet besides Taurus, virgo, cancer and scorpio.

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Posted by champranger
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-silence-5514645/

Thanks for sharing!

May I know your sign? Are you a cap?

Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.

The answer to this question is TIME...

If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...


hahaha... I feel is so true when Cap does not reply, it means either he is busy or refused to reply. Even if he is busy, if he sees, he will reply. Unless he doesn't feel the necessary or - silence is more than enough to say how he feels.- childish and he hate himself for that too.

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The last part of your comment.. Thank you for that, it cleared something up for me.

If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

Posted by NostalgicCappy

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Posted by champranger
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-silence-5514645/

Thanks for sharing!

May I know your sign? Are you a cap?

Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.

The answer to this question is TIME...

If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...


hahaha... I feel is so true when Cap does not reply, it means either he is busy or refused to reply. Even if he is busy, if he sees, he will reply. Unless he doesn't feel the necessary or - silence is more than enough to say how he feels.- childish and he hate himself for that too.

The last part of your comment.. Thank you for that, it cleared something up for me.

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Looks like someone has something doubt for quite long.^^ Mind sharing, NostalgicCappy?

By the way, I think most Cap still learning to understand ownself. Are you? or are you trying to understand other people?

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
To be honest, you come off like a big baby that wants to be coddled all the time and that's a huge turn off to an Aries female. I got annoyed just reading that.

+100

No ones a mind reader. Just ask!

Posted by champranger

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Btw, what's placements? :/

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Hi Champ,

I need more time to learn about this. Find it super complicated.

I used the astro thingy. and I think is Cap Sun Gemini moon. But does time of birth must be really accurate?

Not 100% sure about the time of my birth but if not mistaken, the time I put should be the one, and the results are Cap sun Gemini moon

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Aries don't do well with manipulative assholes. You were being a manipulative asshole. You were not right, you silly bitch.

Learn to not be a douche and maybe these arguments wouldn't happen.

Been thinking how to reply you, cause I feel you are like pinching me.

Ouch.

Which horoscope are you?

Now being silly, to fix this, what advise would you have for now? Do I leave her in peace for few days or a week? Haih...

How do you think we can help you?

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Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.

The answer to this question is TIME...

If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...

sigh. The self pity is strong with this one.
Btw, don't allow anybody to waste your time. You have an agency of your own, you know?
"If you waste your life not progressing, you 're wasting my time."
Ehm, no. You are wasting your own time waiting for the person to come around.
I would make it clear to Madame Aries in no uncertain but friendly words that you are disappointed in her non reaction to your not feeling well and that you would have hoped for a more sensitive/interested reaction, especially since you thought you were on good terms with her, helping her at work and all.
Don't come crawling back, begging for reactions you probably won't get anyway. Stand your ground, express yourself clearly, communicate your limits of what you tolerate and what not and move on.
This is the best you can do for yourself in my eyes. Don't let her get to you.

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I just crawled back and said sorry for wrongly accuse her.
Yes like what you said, she wouldn't have the reactions for me.

Stand your ground, express yourself clearly, communicate your limits of what you tolerate and what not and move on -----> will try.

Posted by RamOfPeace
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

U hv no idea, that basically b4 we (cap) utter such thing, we have thought several time. But sometimes we are annoyed with some reply. so we decided to be direct.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

U hv no idea, that basically b4 we (cap) utter such thing, we have thought several time. But sometimes we are annoyed with some reply. so we decided to be direct.

Why wait until you're annoyed before you decide to be direct?

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Probably I misled you.

There are 3 ways to express disappointment.

1. No reply - Not replying. For example, "Good morning" -----------> seen but not reply.

2. With reply but not further showing care. For example, "Good morning" with a "Good morning" --------- without the usual "How do you feel today"/ So it can end up waiting for the initator to say something.

3. With reply but to say how you feel. For example, "Good morning" with a "Good Morning", I am still disappointed, not happy and frustrated.

Like the earlier story I share, I decide to tell her clearly how I feel. Option 3. To get an answer "So" instead of "why? what happen?"

---------------> annoy me.

Look, I am not trying to share too much detail into our conversations as you all will find it ridiculously childish (fight between two persons)

I am trying to tell a point that I have been direct, just NOT SO DIRECT like "Hey, I am not feeling well, can you ask WHY, please please please" lol

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Posted by champranger
Seems more logical to speak up when you're calm than when you're very annoyed, no?

Yes. You'll get a much better (and less aggressive) answer from an Aries if you're calm on your end.

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Obviously I am not calm, thus, the argument, therefore here is my first post here is on this topic.

Anyone can confirm that Aries would be someone to stir a dramatic fight/ argument in a long term relationship, so to cure the boringness?

In this case, I am the one who couldn't tolerate the ignorance of Aries. My bad, really. I know, is unnecessary.

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Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂

Welcome to dxpnet! 🙂

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Thank you. ^^

I will remember never to ask a cappie anything at all!

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Posted by RamOfPeace
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

U hv no idea, that basically b4 we (cap) utter such thing, we have thought several time. But sometimes we are annoyed with some reply. so we decided to be direct.

Why wait until you're annoyed before you decide to be direct?

Probably I misled you.

There are 3 ways to express disappointment.

1. No reply - Not replying. For example, "Good morning" -----------> seen but not reply.

2. With reply but not further showing care. For example, "Good morning" with a "Good morning" --------- without the usual "How do you feel today"/ So it can end up waiting for the initator to say something.

3. With reply but to say how you feel. For example, "Good morning" with a "Good Morning", I am still disappointed, not happy and frustrated.

Like the earlier story I share, I decide to tell her clearly how I feel. Option 3. To get an answer "So" instead of "why? what happen?"

---------------> annoy me.

Look, I am not trying to share too much detail into our conversations as you all will find it ridiculously childish (fight between two persons)

I am trying to tell a point that I have been direct, just NOT SO DIRECT like "Hey, I am not feeling well, can you ask WHY, please please please" lol

Before you got mad or frustrated, did you ask her why she didn't respond when you had sent the first two messages?

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Oh my god. You hit it right. I didn't.

She probably wonder, what's wrong with this guy, suddenly emo king.

I am gonna stand strong and fight back. (Aries personality)

Posted by BlondeAmbition
I will remember never to ask a cappie anything at all!

Hi,

I don't really expect any help more than to talk about it, and it's pretty much discussed, that some has mention it depends on both of us if we will survive the argument.

You mention above out of sudden, what makes you decide not to ask Cappie?

Mind explaining? 🙂

Soo...how's it going Mr.Capricorn?


🙂

Posted by RumiL
Soo...how's it going Mr.Capricorn?


🙂

The whole message box is now only my messages. Send her good morning - no reply
Send her asking for lunch - no reply

She didn't ask for any help today.

"Aries is so easily see through, just like a child. Now that her reaction of this sudden change (yes, I assume again) shows she is still angry.

Am I the only one linking this to what happen, afterall we argued?

😢 😢 B(

Posted by Capricorn180189_GS

Posted by RumiL
Soo...how's it going Mr.Capricorn?


🙂

The whole message box is now only my messages. Send her good morning - no reply
Send her asking for lunch - no reply

She didn't ask for any help today.

"Aries is so easily see through, just like a child. Now that her reaction of this sudden change (yes, I assume again) shows she is still angry.

Am I the only one linking this to what happen, afterall we argued?

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😢 dont worry!

Did she talk to you after argument?

Argument means you just went silent on her, no? And she too went silent?

Is it only today she is not replying?

argument via text messaging.

I didn't get to see her, just texting. Yes, she replied about the lunch. that's all.

Yesterday morning, it happen - so basically only today.

She should be busy, but too reluctant to find for my help anymore.

Posted by Capricorn180189_GS
argument via text messaging.

I didn't get to see her, just texting. Yes, she replied about the lunch. that's all.

Yesterday morning, it happen - so basically only today.

She should be busy, but too reluctant to find for my help anymore.

You mean she replied to you today about lunch?

Its just one day, maybe she is busy afterall 🙂

Do you know her DOB ? 🙂 I'm interested to know her birthchart.. She seems rather cool and aloof..🙂

Its just one day, maybe she is busy afterall - typical lie to tell oneself to feel better, hahahahah

yes, I know. 12 April 1990. Everything about her, I will want to know, if she could let me in.

Posted by RamOfPeace
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

Pretty much.

All this is is typical immature boy bullshit- playing manipulative mind games and then getting pissy when they don't get the reaction that they want.

I don't even understand why this thread is getting so much attention. The dude even refers to astrological signs as "horoscopes." :/

Posted by Capricorn180189_GS
Its just one day, maybe she is busy afterall - typical lie to tell oneself to feel better, hahahahah

yes, I know. 12 April 1990. Everything about her, I will want to know, if she could let me in.

Aww no lie! It could be true.

How is she not letting you in?

Wait.. I'll check her birth chart..

I knew she was Scorpio moon!

@rambunctious76 😄

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Posted by RamOfPeace
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

Pretty much.

All this is is typical immature boy bullshit- playing manipulative mind games and then getting pissy when they don't get the reaction that they want.

I don't even understand why this thread is getting so much attention. The dude even refers to astrological signs as "horoscopes." :/

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Appreciate your comment.

Honest, direct and sensitive to word selection. I guess you are an Aries.

Please correct me if I am wrong.

I am here to learn :p

Ok I went google that astrological signs and horoscopes are indeed not the same. Sorry. I have not knowing the slightest idea bout it.

Can you be nicer? LOL

Posted by RumiL
I knew she was Scorpio moon!

@rambunctious76 😄

From our discussion, a slight reveal of her personality, you are able to tell her moon sign?

Wow, I wish one day I would have reached 50% of your knowledge. ahaha.

What about me? =p 18th Jan 1989

Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!

You guys make me happy and laughed in my office! 🙂 So interesting on something new that I never know.

So her mind went blank, and should I drop her a message telling her that I am aware of this? hahahax.

Posted by RumiL
Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!

Yes, I have a deal with her when I first know her and know nthg about her. We are so playful. A date after 10 years.

Now that I know. Why do you go silent?

Is it because you do not know how to handle the situation, or what to say, therefore scare to face?

This is not the first time, when I confronted her over some conflict, and she will go silent, then come back a day or two after, and pretend that NOTHING happen.

I want to know if this is so true. I thought is best to talk it through, not pretending and pray the other partner will forget about it.