Capricorn180189_GS
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Posted by Rambunctious76This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.
Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.
Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.

Posted by RumiLSorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)
Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.
It will take me years even.
I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.
Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.
But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.
Any heated situation...will slow is down
I think that's how it is..
@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂
I'll come back and write more!

Posted by Rambunctious76Rambunctious76 - Thanks!Posted by WateryVirgo1. For me, it's any of the 3. But most of the time it's "why did I do what I did?" (my moon is in 6th house so that mindset is more prevalent). I would only use the last scenario for toxic people or people who were detrimental to my wellbeing - the whole "cut them off before I get hurt" thing.Posted by RumiLSorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)
Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.
It will take me years even.
I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.
Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.
But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.
Any heated situation...will slow is down
I think that's how it is..
@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂
I'll come back and write more!
1. When you say that Scorpio moons pacify the people who get upset/frustrated with them: whenever you are actively "pacifying", what are you thinking? (i.e. "i hope i don't lose this person", "why did i do what i did,? i hope my actions will be make this person happy with me again", "this person is high maintenance. let me go ahead and do this so that they can get off my back so that things can go back to the way that they were", etc.)
2. When Scorpio moons are in relationships, what can the other person do to speed up the process of them falling in love, since you mentioned that it could take years for you to do so?
Thanks!
2. You can't. Unless you are prepared to reveal your complete self, warts and all. We need to see everything about you, the good, the bad and the ugly before we will consider submitting to our own emotions. The harder you try to speed us up, the slower we will go, the more suspicious we will become of your "real" intentions. Simply put, don't force it and go with the flow.click to expand




Posted by WateryVirgoThanks for asking 🙂Posted by RumiLSorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)
Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.
It will take me years even.
I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.
Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.
But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.
Any heated situation...will slow is down
I think that's how it is..
@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂
I'll come back and write more!
1. When you say that Scorpio moons pacify the people who get upset/frustrated with them: whenever you are actively "pacifying", what are you thinking? (i.e. "i hope i don't lose this person", "why did i do what i did,? i hope my actions will be make this person happy with me again", "this person is high maintenance. let me go ahead and do this so that they can get off my back so that things can go back to the way that they were", etc.)
2. When Scorpio moons are in relationships, what can the other person do to speed up the process of them falling in love, since you mentioned that it could take years for you to do so?
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Posted by Capricorn180189_GSPosted by NostalgicCappyLooks like someone has something doubt for quite long.^^ Mind sharing, NostalgicCappy?Posted by Capricorn180189_GSPosted by champrangerThanks for sharing!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-silence-5514645/
May I know your sign? Are you a cap?
Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.
The answer to this question is TIME...
If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...
hahaha... I feel is so true when Cap does not reply, it means either he is busy or refused to reply. Even if he is busy, if he sees, he will reply. Unless he doesn't feel the necessary or - silence is more than enough to say how he feels.- childish and he hate himself for that too.
The last part of your comment.. Thank you for that, it cleared something up for me.
By the way, I think most Cap still learning to understand ownself. Are you? or are you trying to understand other people?click to expand

Posted by Capricorn180189_GSWow.. Yes...my soul mate is my career too!Posted by Rambunctious76This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.
Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.
Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.
And Aries soulmate is definitely career. She mentioned I waste her time while she needs to catch her work.
Stress up probably.
Btw thanks for clearing things up. I never know she has scorpio moon sign despite I have some understandings on Scorpio sun
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Posted by Capricorn180189_GSLOLPosted by rockyroadicecreamAppreciate your comment.Posted by RamOfPeacePretty much.
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.
Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.
All this is is typical immature boy bullshit- playing manipulative mind games and then getting pissy when they don't get the reaction that they want.
I don't even understand why this thread is getting so much attention. The dude even refers to astrological signs as "horoscopes." :/
Honest, direct and sensitive to word selection. I guess you are an Aries.
Please correct me if I am wrong.
I am here to learn :p
Ok I went google that astrological signs and horoscopes are indeed not the same. Sorry. I have not knowing the slightest idea bout it.
Can you be nicer? LOLclick to expand

Posted by Rambunctious76She responded. Out of sudden, sending me telling that she is drinking with boss. Well, is a Friday night.
OP - it's because no two Aries are alike. Same as the other signs.
I think you should leave her alone and let her decide if she wants to respond.
Posted by RumiLSo there you go. In the meantime, as for your soulmate, you will only go more lonely as you go higher and higher (feeling the world against you all the time when you yourself maybe knowing that is not true). I feel that so again, I am assuming on your world and hers.Posted by Capricorn180189_GSWow.. Yes...my soul mate is my career too!Posted by Rambunctious76This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.
Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.
Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.
And Aries soulmate is definitely career. She mentioned I waste her time while she needs to catch her work.
Stress up probably.
Btw thanks for clearing things up. I never know she has scorpio moon sign despite I have some understandings on Scorpio sun
Strictly going by sun-moon, I think she's just trying to focus on her career...and is not emotionally very engaging because doing so will drain her energy a lot...and her focus on career would waver. She is well aware of her feelings and is trying to remain focussed if I'm not wrong.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?
Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?
Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.
Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*

Posted by Capricorn180189_GSNo.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?
Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?
Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.
Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Do you have any idea if a Cap can go way more sarcastic to a person like you?
Your last line, I don't get it too.
You are, still an interesting person to me.click to expand
Posted by RumiLYou guys been mentioned OP- who?
OP --
I think its what Rambunctious said.. I'm not Taurus mercury so.. My thinking or way of dealing with emotions is...quite different.
Mercuries are very important. It alters the way you try to make sense of anything you encounter within or outside yourself.. 🙂
I looked up your chart.. You can read about each placement on Cafe Astrology - Birthchart calculator.. Just enter your birth details 🙂
Here are your placements.
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You have Gem moon.. I'm sorry I have no experience with Gemini moons... So. I cannot really speak much from astrological standpoint.
Rambunctious76,... Umm.. You like Gemini moons dont you .. 😛 ?
Posted by bmoon8I am totally aware of this. This is a weakness of Cap. It is so hard for me, each time I keep forget and expecting something that probably most likely cause disappointment to myself where no one knows.Posted by Capricorn180189_GSLet go of your expectations. Having expectations that go unfulfilled cause disappointment.
Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL
So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)
Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha
By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.
Hello. 🙂click to expand

Posted by Capricorn180189_GSOP is you :p ...your opened the post. 🙂 (OP = Opening post)Posted by RumiLYou guys been mentioned OP- who?
OP --
I think its what Rambunctious said.. I'm not Taurus mercury so.. My thinking or way of dealing with emotions is...quite different.
Mercuries are very important. It alters the way you try to make sense of anything you encounter within or outside yourself.. 🙂
I looked up your chart.. You can read about each placement on Cafe Astrology - Birthchart calculator.. Just enter your birth details 🙂
Here are your placements.
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You have Gem moon.. I'm sorry I have no experience with Gemini moons... So. I cannot really speak much from astrological standpoint.
Rambunctious76,... Umm.. You like Gemini moons dont you .. 😛 ?
The above chart is it mine?
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamTo make me feel good about myself? I just do not want to keep wondering and I need reassurance (not 100% kinda thing).Posted by Capricorn180189_GSNo.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?
Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?
Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.
Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Do you have any idea if a Cap can go way more sarcastic to a person like you?
Your last line, I don't get it too.
You are, still an interesting person to me.
It's hard not to "judge" when you come here, openly admit to trying to manipulate someone to make you feel good about yourself, and then want to further pick apart the object of your affection so you can better find out how to get her to react how you want. I highly doubt this is about actually understanding her. If you'd truly done some reading about Aries, you'd have learned that we don't tolerate bullshit very well. We also pick up on it pretty quickly and act accordingly, which is what she did. You're trying to milk sympathy out of the situation and get upset with her for some perceived slight because she didn't fawn all over you when you said you were sick. She distanced herself and you're wondering why? Come on now.
I'm not new to Caps, dear, and your behavior isn't something new to me, sorry.click to expand

Posted by champrangerCaps have an overinflated sense of self worth. Well, the douchey, immature ones do anyway. It's not shocking he's throwing around such wording, tbh. It doesn't matter if it's going to work on her or not- the fact that so many here are willingly helping him out when he's openly admitted to basically manipulating her is kind of disturbing.Posted by rockyroadicecreamDoesn't really bother me to be honest. I was partly curious on a Cap's thoughts on "ignorant Aries".
Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?
Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.
Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Besides, if he was just wanting to manipulate her, I'm sure he won't get far with this girl anyway, particularly the Scorp/Taurus/Aqua in her chart. I'm not here to judge.click to expand


Posted by rockyroadicecreamHey, calm your tits k? What all about Attention Whoring tactics? Me or you?Posted by champrangerCaps have an overinflated sense of self worth. Well, the douchey, immature ones do anyway. It's not shocking he's throwing around such wording, tbh. It doesn't matter if it's going to work on her or not- the fact that so many here are willingly helping him out when he's openly admitted to basically manipulating her is kind of disturbing.Posted by rockyroadicecreamDoesn't really bother me to be honest. I was partly curious on a Cap's thoughts on "ignorant Aries".
Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?
Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.
Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Besides, if he was just wanting to manipulate her, I'm sure he won't get far with this girl anyway, particularly the Scorp/Taurus/Aqua in her chart. I'm not here to judge.
Would you help someone premeditate some questionable shit? If someone's intentions didn't seem to be the best, WHY on earth would you help them along with that crap?
I just do not understand why some of the users here have invested so much time and resources for someone like this. Get your head out of the fucking clouds, Jesus Christ, people.
His "question" was answered ages ago, and the whole premise of his post was really weird and kinda creeper. Even THAT reeked of attention whoring tactics. It'd be one thing if it were "I did this and now she's ignoring me, is this fixable?" But no, it was more like, "LOL I LIKE TO START SHIT WITH HER BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T REACT HOW I WANTED HER TO. PLEASE, TELL ME MORE ABOUT THIS GIRL. I GET OFF ON FUCKING WITH HER."
Like I said, some Aries naivete is in full swing here.
Call me cynical, call me jaded or claim I'm "judging." I've seen this behavior before, first hand. From a Cap, no less. They do it for the conquest, not the feels.click to expand

Posted by Capricorn180189_GSLadies and gentlemen,
Hey, calm your tits k? What all about Attention Whoring tactics? Me or you?
There is a toleration limit to Caps, k?
This is a forum for discussion, mind you, not for you to bombard someone's post like it doesn't worth a penny of discussion.
I am even tired to call you anything.
Posted by RamOfPeaceYou hv made me understanding something. Thanks. But as advised, straightforward not hint.
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.
Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.

Posted by Capricorn180189_GSI am indeed a Ram.Posted by RamOfPeaceYou hv made me understanding something. Thanks. But as advised, straightforward not hint.
If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.
Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.
I assume you are an Aries as well?click to expand


Posted by Capricorn180189_GSLol so I've went through all 10 pages of the post, just to make sure my comments aren't out of line! From my experience an Aries is pretty obvious if she is interested but she does want you to initiate! Hmmmm don't play to much mind games and don't overthink things, tell her like it is and be cool about it and she'll be head over heels for you. Aries women aren't very wordy and more physical, so you calling her darling isn't gonna work, but you being playful will! I'm still also learning/ observing and trying to best understand my Aries GF, honestly there has been countless times where we fight and she doesn't feel like she's wrong at all, which frustrates me! But I realise the silent treatment isn't gonna get us anywhere, rather it will create a wedge between us and inevitably cause a break up, so more often than not being the EARTH sign (you and me), I pick up my phone say sorry and swallow my pride because she's worth it, is your current Aries worth throwing your pride away? THANKFULLY, just yesterday she actually noticed all the time that I swallowed my pride and how I am always so cool in handling her tantrums that she feels very loved and safe when with me (What we earth signs are good at), so with you I think she was interested but is now put off by you not being the stable/ ambitious guy she first saw. What I think you should do now is take a breather, stay friends with her and show her how warm and composed and how much of a good sport you are! Aries woman wants what they can't have, just saying! But if she isn't biting to your friendship, find other girls there are plenty and Aries woman makes a great friend too, so you're in good hands even if it doesn't grow into something romantic 🙂
No idea, I am exhausted already.
She likes, then she texted me. She doesn't like, then ignore and not replying.
Most of the time, in fact letting a lot of times in each day passes by, and our conversation is so so normal ie. not responding to my sweetness.
Called her darling, yet she seems cool and cold lol.
Anyway, also probably she has been seeing someone else, not gonna jump into her business till some time later.
I'd remove her as close friend in FB to avoid thinking too much on myself which could jeopardize the relationship.
So that's it. Thanks for still care. I realise I just got to love myself more to attract her back. Agree?
Posted by MidasDelimaPosted by Capricorn180189_GSLol so I've went through all 10 pages of the post, just to make sure my comments aren't out of line! From my experience an Aries is pretty obvious if she is interested but she does want you to initiate! Hmmmm don't play to much mind games and don't overthink things, tell her like it is and be cool about it and she'll be head over heels for you. Aries women aren't very wordy and more physical, so you calling her darling isn't gonna work, but you being playful will! I'm still also learning/ observing and trying to best understand my Aries GF, honestly there has been countless times where we fight and she doesn't feel like she's wrong at all, which frustrates me! But I realise the silent treatment isn't gonna get us anywhere, rather it will create a wedge between us and inevitably cause a break up, so more often than not being the EARTH sign (you and me), I pick up my phone say sorry and swallow my pride because she's worth it, is your current Aries worth throwing your pride away? THANKFULLY, just yesterday she actually noticed all the time that I swallowed my pride and how I am always so cool in handling her tantrums that she feels very loved and safe when with me (What we earth signs are good at), so with you I think she was interested but is now put off by you not being the stable/ ambitious guy she first saw. What I think you should do now is take a breather, stay friends with her and show her how warm and composed and how much of a good sport you are! Aries woman wants what they can't have, just saying! But if she isn't biting to your friendship, find other girls there are plenty and Aries woman makes a great friend too, so you're in good hands even if it doesn't grow into something romantic 🙂
No idea, I am exhausted already.
She likes, then she texted me. She doesn't like, then ignore and not replying.
Most of the time, in fact letting a lot of times in each day passes by, and our conversation is so so normal ie. not responding to my sweetness.
Called her darling, yet she seems cool and cold lol.
Anyway, also probably she has been seeing someone else, not gonna jump into her business till some time later.
I'd remove her as close friend in FB to avoid thinking too much on myself which could jeopardize the relationship.
So that's it. Thanks for still care. I realise I just got to love myself more to attract her back. Agree?click to expand
Source: Aries girlfriend, constant fights and headbutting with the girlfriend and 2-3 aries female friends whom are the kindest and most honest friends (bitch-slap to the face all the time kind of honesty) I've had. Don't ever ever hurt an Aries woman and betray her kindness (even friends), because you'
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I have been helping her to draft email to give the 99% foolproof response. And I am not aware (of that time I am frus) that she might be doing the same to me.
She indeed is a person of such manner. Very careful.
What can I do now? I guess just wait her to be normal back, she is giving me her best response now (not replying) any messages.
In the meantime, my mood recovers. Thanks for making my day. 🙂 you guys like tagging each other hahaha.. ask him ask her. Funny.