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Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!
Yes, I have a deal with her when I first know her and know nthg about her. We are so playful. A date after 10 years.

Now that I know. Why do you go silent?

Is it because you do not know how to handle the situation, or what to say, therefore scare to face?

This is not the first time, when I confronted her over some conflict, and she will go silent, then come back a day or two after, and pretend that NOTHING happen.

I want to know if this is so true. I thought is best to talk it through, not pretending and pray the other partner will forget about it.
lol not scared to face. She is still an Aries sun so she will still confront if she needs to. i mentioned her needing info. It's a trait of earth Mercury to approach things from a logical stand rather than emotional. Your behaviour and words probably made no sense to her and her silence is a result of her trying to respond in the best possible manner without either party getting offended. Mercury Taurus is slow in processing info because we need to be sure when we respond, our response has to be at least 99% foolproof.
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I should have be more sensitive on this.

I have been helping her to draft email to give the 99% foolproof response. And I am not aware (of that time I am frus) that she might be doing the same to me.

She indeed is a person of such manner. Very careful.

What can I do now? I guess just wait her to be normal back, she is giving me her best response now (not replying) any messages.

In the meantime, my mood recovers. Thanks for making my day. 🙂 you guys like tagging each other hahaha.. ask him ask her. Funny.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.

Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.
This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.

And Aries soulmate is definitely career. She mentioned I waste her time while she needs to catch her work.

Stress up probably.

Btw thanks for clearing things up. I never know she has scorpio moon sign despite I have some understandings on Scorpio sun

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Posted by RumiL
Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!
Sorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)

1. When you say that Scorpio moons pacify the people who get upset/frustrated with them: whenever you are actively "pacifying", what are you thinking? (i.e. "i hope i don't lose this person", "why did i do what i did,? i hope my actions will be make this person happy with me again", "this person is high maintenance. let me go ahead and do this so that they can get off my back so that things can go back to the way that they were", etc.)

2. When Scorpio moons are in relationships, what can the other person do to speed up the process of them falling in love, since you mentioned that it could take years for you to do so?

Thanks!
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Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!
Sorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)

1. When you say that Scorpio moons pacify the people who get upset/frustrated with them: whenever you are actively "pacifying", what are you thinking? (i.e. "i hope i don't lose this person", "why did i do what i did,? i hope my actions will be make this person happy with me again", "this person is high maintenance. let me go ahead and do this so that they can get off my back so that things can go back to the way that they were", etc.)

2. When Scorpio moons are in relationships, what can the other person do to speed up the process of them falling in love, since you mentioned that it could take years for you to do so?

Thanks!
1. For me, it's any of the 3. But most of the time it's "why did I do what I did?" (my moon is in 6th house so that mindset is more prevalent). I would only use the last scenario for toxic people or people who were detrimental to my wellbeing - the whole "cut them off before I get hurt" thing.

2. You can't. Unless you are prepared to reveal your complete self, warts and all. We need to see everything about you, the good, the bad and the ugly before we will consider submitting to our own emotions. The harder you try to speed us up, the slower we will go, the more suspicious we will become of your "real" intentions. Simply put, don't force it and go with the flow.
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Rambunctious76 - Thanks!

My Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Moon bf has his moon in the 7th house, House of Partnership? It's like he says/does things that are not necessarily conducive to a loving relationship, but whenever he recognizes the bad thing that he did (after he's processed things), he changes quickly. Just wanted to know if he changes his ways as a means of testing, just to get things back to the way that they
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OP --

I think its what Rambunctious said.. I'm not Taurus mercury so.. My thinking or way of dealing with emotions is...quite different.

Mercuries are very important. It alters the way you try to make sense of anything you encounter within or outside yourself.. 🙂

I looked up your chart.. You can read about each placement on Cafe Astrology - Birthchart calculator.. Just enter your birth details 🙂

Here are your placements.
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You have Gem moon.. I'm sorry I have no experience with Gemini moons... So. I cannot really speak much from astrological standpoint.

Rambunctious76,... Umm.. You like Gemini moons dont you .. 😛 ?


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On silence though... There's really nothing much you can do.. We will talk about our feelings or emotions after a while. But dont pressure a Scorpio moon.. More the pressure or confrontation ...more icy the silence... ESPECIALLY because she has Taurus mercury.

It (mercury = mind = makes sense of everything - feelings, situations, her perceptions, ideas, its basicslly the way her mind works) not only opposes her moon(emotions)... But is in Taurus - a sign known for being basic, laidback, commonsensical, stubborn, SLOW, very to-the-point in everything.

And also,

Because she has Aqua mars.
Aqua is detached...aloof... They don't react. They don't show emotions. They need to distance themselves whenever they're feeling trapped...get some air. But they will speak up though..as far as I've observed.
It also squares her moon...making it quite tricky. I think if you push this person too far, she will explode.

Aquarius mars.. IME wants to know the reason. It dissociates feelings from logic and just wants the rationale behind why you said this or did that. And they will stick to that rational side of argument. You have to convince...logically..

An interesting moon-mars combo ..hmm
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Capricorn, I can tell you that(as an Aries sun, Scorpio moon myself) --- we are SLOW to fall in love, slow to let our guard down.

It will take me years even.

I can assure you that - if I sense any conflict - we can go silent. During arguments - silent. When someone is demanding an emotional response - silence.

Its not on purpose...our minds just go blank.

But.. We try to pacify the people who are getting upset with us.. We do. But we may not exactly respond to emotional demands ON THE SPOT.

Any heated situation...will slow is down

I think that's how it is..

@Rambunctious76 will be able to tell you more as she is Taurus mercury like your Aries🙂

I'll come back and write more!
Sorry to highjack this post. But I've got questions for RumiL :-)

1. When you say that Scorpio moons pacify the people who get upset/frustrated with them: whenever you are actively "pacifying", what are you thinking? (i.e. "i hope i don't lose this person", "why did i do what i did,? i hope my actions will be make this person happy with me again", "this person is high maintenance. let me go ahead and do this so that they can get off my back so that things can go back to the way that they were", etc.)

2. When Scorpio moons are in relationships, what can the other person do to speed up the process of them falling in love, since you mentioned that it could take years for you to do so?

Thanks!
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Thanks for asking 🙂

1) No.. Its the realisation and feeling of helplessness because I can see how they're getting all worked up and it's because of me and I am responsible for calming them down.. I just want them to calm down and not feel so much or get sad or worked up.

2) 😄 .. I cannot answer that. I've never been relationship...just because, yes, takes me long time to fall in love, cannot handle relationships+career....and it takes even more long time to express it - verbally or physically or by actions..

All you can do is...be that rock for Scorpio moon. They will slowly trust you at their own pace and let you in to never let you go. Patience...time.... If you try to rush, I think we run away unless ofcourse, they are already head-over-heals in love.. But I think any rushing is....not advisable.. I like slooooow but steady. But then, I've never been in a relationship.

Hope i made sense 🙂
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Thanks for sharing!

May I know your sign? Are you a cap?

Btw, I like this sharing in the discussion.

The answer to this question is TIME...

If your wasting my time, your wasting my time.
If you have no interest investing time, your wasting my time
If you waste your life not progressing, your wasting my time
If you just talk because you have nothing else to do, your wasting my time
If you string me along, your wasting my time
If your never wrong, your wasting my time
Etc,etc,etc...


hahaha... I feel is so true when Cap does not reply, it means either he is busy or refused to reply. Even if he is busy, if he sees, he will reply. Unless he doesn't feel the necessary or - silence is more than enough to say how he feels.- childish and he hate himself for that too.



The last part of your comment.. Thank you for that, it cleared something up for me.
Looks like someone has something doubt for quite long.^^ Mind sharing, NostalgicCappy?

By the way, I think most Cap still learning to understand ownself. Are you? or are you trying to understand other people?
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Thank you for your response, Capricorn180189_GS

It's a bit of both actually. Not much to share, it was just a realization.
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Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.

Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.
This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.

And Aries soulmate is definitely career. She mentioned I waste her time while she needs to catch her work.

Stress up probably.

Btw thanks for clearing things up. I never know she has scorpio moon sign despite I have some understandings on Scorpio sun

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Wow.. Yes...my soul mate is my career too!

Strictly going by sun-moon, I think she's just trying to focus on her career...and is not emotionally very engaging because doing so will drain her energy a lot...and her focus on career would waver. She is well aware of her feelings and is trying to remain focussed if I'm not wrong.

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If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.
Pretty much.

All this is is typical immature boy bullshit- playing manipulative mind games and then getting pissy when they don't get the reaction that they want.

I don't even understand why this thread is getting so much attention. The dude even refers to astrological signs as "horoscopes." :/
Appreciate your comment.

Honest, direct and sensitive to word selection. I guess you are an Aries.

Please correct me if I am wrong.

I am here to learn :p

Ok I went google that astrological signs and horoscopes are indeed not the same. Sorry. I have not knowing the slightest idea bout it.

Can you be nicer? LOL
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LOL

no.
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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
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OP - it's because no two Aries are alike. Same as the other signs.

I think you should leave her alone and let her decide if she wants to respond.
She responded. Out of sudden, sending me telling that she is drinking with boss. Well, is a Friday night.

But sounds everything back to normal from how we text. Probably is really stress moment to her. Usually she doesn't drink. She knows her limit.

We are back to square 1. Is our bond stronger from this argument? Perhaps is hard to tell till our next meeting.

Mixed feelings again.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Please bear in mind that she also has a Scorpio moon and Mars Aqua. She's probably making a list of mistakes you make and how you deal with conflict, to be presented to you when the shit hits the fan.

Scorpio moon never forgets when people try to hurt us and manipulate us to their advantage.
This is so right. She did say "She is straight.. But if she did not care about my feeling, I have a lot of bad thing she can say" --------------> list of mistakes.

And Aries soulmate is definitely career. She mentioned I waste her time while she needs to catch her work.

Stress up probably.

Btw thanks for clearing things up. I never know she has scorpio moon sign despite I have some understandings on Scorpio sun
Wow.. Yes...my soul mate is my career too!

Strictly going by sun-moon, I think she's just trying to focus on her career...and is not emotionally very engaging because doing so will drain her energy a lot...and her focus on career would waver. She is well aware of her feelings and is trying to remain focussed if I'm not wrong.

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So there you go. In the meantime, as for your soulmate, you will only go more lonely as you go higher and higher (feeling the world against you all the time when you yourself maybe knowing that is not true). I feel that so again, I am assuming on your world and hers.

Guide me, will ya?
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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
You are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?

Do you have any idea if a Cap can go way more sarcastic to a person like you?

Your last line, I don't get it too.

You are, still an interesting person to me.
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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
You are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?

Do you have any idea if a Cap can go way more sarcastic to a person like you?

Your last line, I don't get it too.

You are, still an interesting person to me.
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No.

It's hard not to "judge" when you come here, openly admit to trying to manipulate someone to make you feel good about yourself, and then want to further pick apart the object of your affection so you can better find out how to get her to react how you want. I highly doubt this is about actually understanding her. If you'd truly done some reading about Aries, you'd have learned that we don't tolerate bullshit very well. We also pick up on it pretty quickly and act accordingly, which is what she did. You're trying to milk sympathy out of the situation and get upset with her for some perceived slight because she didn't fawn all over you when you said you were sick. She distanced herself and you're wondering why? Come on now.

I'm not new to Caps, dear, and your behavior isn't something new to me, sorry.
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OP --

I think its what Rambunctious said.. I'm not Taurus mercury so.. My thinking or way of dealing with emotions is...quite different.

Mercuries are very important. It alters the way you try to make sense of anything you encounter within or outside yourself.. 🙂

I looked up your chart.. You can read about each placement on Cafe Astrology - Birthchart calculator.. Just enter your birth details 🙂

Here are your placements.
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You have Gem moon.. I'm sorry I have no experience with Gemini moons... So. I cannot really speak much from astrological standpoint.

Rambunctious76,... Umm.. You like Gemini moons dont you .. 😛 ?

You guys been mentioned OP- who?

The above chart is it mine?


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Finally I can't resist starting up a dramatic argument conversation with the Aries girl I like when she failed to get my hint that I am not feeling well. I wanted her to show that she cares by asking about it. What's wrong, what happen. I said to her that she has no basic concern for someone that cares about her. And everything hurtful came up from her. LOL

So yeah, can we survive the argument? I know she needs to win the fight, but obviously is I am the right one. (Just happen this morning)

Please advise, or ask more on how we started to know each other, then I can get to know more or ask the right question to the Aries Nation here. haha

By the way, I am new, and this is my first post. Get to know this web yesterday. What an interesting forum.

Hello. 🙂
Let go of your expectations. Having expectations that go unfulfilled cause disappointment.
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I am totally aware of this. This is a weakness of Cap. It is so hard for me, each time I keep forget and expecting something that probably most likely cause disappointment to myself where no one knows.

will try to keep be reminded. but not sure how?

By the way, interested to know your sign 🙂
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OP --

I think its what Rambunctious said.. I'm not Taurus mercury so.. My thinking or way of dealing with emotions is...quite different.

Mercuries are very important. It alters the way you try to make sense of anything you encounter within or outside yourself.. 🙂

I looked up your chart.. You can read about each placement on Cafe Astrology - Birthchart calculator.. Just enter your birth details 🙂

Here are your placements.
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You have Gem moon.. I'm sorry I have no experience with Gemini moons... So. I cannot really speak much from astrological standpoint.

Rambunctious76,... Umm.. You like Gemini moons dont you .. 😛 ?

You guys been mentioned OP- who?

The above chart is it mine?


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OP is you :p ...your opened the post. 🙂 (OP = Opening post)

Yessss.. Its yours! Enter your birth data in this and you will get a detailed report about your placements🙂
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal
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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
You are judging. Are you in any case, an Aquarius?

Do you have any idea if a Cap can go way more sarcastic to a person like you?

Your last line, I don't get it too.

You are, still an interesting person to me.
No.

It's hard not to "judge" when you come here, openly admit to trying to manipulate someone to make you feel good about yourself, and then want to further pick apart the object of your affection so you can better find out how to get her to react how you want. I highly doubt this is about actually understanding her. If you'd truly done some reading about Aries, you'd have learned that we don't tolerate bullshit very well. We also pick up on it pretty quickly and act accordingly, which is what she did. You're trying to milk sympathy out of the situation and get upset with her for some perceived slight because she didn't fawn all over you when you said you were sick. She distanced herself and you're wondering why? Come on now.

I'm not new to Caps, dear, and your behavior isn't something new to me, sorry.
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To make me feel good about myself? I just do not want to keep wondering and I need reassurance (not 100% kinda thing).

I need to learn from Aries. Silent is the best response.

You are not answering my question, from the previous quotes as well. I am not assume, I read all the posts here several time, and just feel that you may not be a simple Aries.

😢 X(
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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Doesn't really bother me to be honest. I was partly curious on a Cap's thoughts on "ignorant Aries".

Besides, if he was just wanting to manipulate her, I'm sure he won't get far with this girl anyway, particularly the Scorp/Taurus/Aqua in her chart. I'm not here to judge.
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Caps have an overinflated sense of self worth. Well, the douchey, immature ones do anyway. It's not shocking he's throwing around such wording, tbh. It doesn't matter if it's going to work on her or not- the fact that so many here are willingly helping him out when he's openly admitted to basically manipulating her is kind of disturbing.

Would you help someone premeditate some questionable shit? If someone's intentions didn't seem to be the best, WHY on earth would you help them along with that crap?

I just do not understand why some of the users here have invested so much time and resources for someone like this. Get your head out of the fucking clouds, Jesus Christ, people.

His "question" was answered ages ago, and the whole premise of his post was really weird and kinda creeper. Even THAT reeked of attention whoring tactics. It'd be one thing if it were "I did this and now she's ignoring me, is this fixable?" But no, it was more like, "LOL I LIKE TO START SHIT WITH HER BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T REACT HOW I WANTED HER TO. PLEASE, TELL ME MORE ABOUT THIS GIRL. I GET OFF ON FUCKING WITH HER."

Like I said, some Aries naivete is in full swing here.

Call me cynical, call me jaded or claim I'm "judging." I've seen this behavior before, first hand. From a Cap, no less. They do it for the conquest, not the feels.
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Mr.Capricorn -- 😢

We are simple. Very very simple people.

Just be normal...dont try to read into her actions or words too much.

Capricorns are overly curious...they study the behaviour of their interest way too much. They say Scorpios are into observing but its really Capricorns that test, observe - it can be freaky 😄 they say Capricorns are cold robots but its the Goats that need most babying :S

Lol.. We're simple minded folks. We're the babies after all 🙂

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Why the hell are you guys helping out a manipulative person in better understanding this chick so he can further manipulate her?

Jesus Christ, get some common sense and quit coddling. Some of you clearly haven't dealt with Cap dudes like this. He isn't learning out of interest, he's learning so he can better use/manipulate her.

Hook, line, and sinker. Way to let your Aries naivete get the best of you. *golf clap*
Doesn't really bother me to be honest. I was partly curious on a Cap's thoughts on "ignorant Aries".

Besides, if he was just wanting to manipulate her, I'm sure he won't get far with this girl anyway, particularly the Scorp/Taurus/Aqua in her chart. I'm not here to judge.
Caps have an overinflated sense of self worth. Well, the douchey, immature ones do anyway. It's not shocking he's throwing around such wording, tbh. It doesn't matter if it's going to work on her or not- the fact that so many here are willingly helping him out when he's openly admitted to basically manipulating her is kind of disturbing.

Would you help someone premeditate some questionable shit? If someone's intentions didn't seem to be the best, WHY on earth would you help them along with that crap?

I just do not understand why some of the users here have invested so much time and resources for someone like this. Get your head out of the fucking clouds, Jesus Christ, people.

His "question" was answered ages ago, and the whole premise of his post was really weird and kinda creeper. Even THAT reeked of attention whoring tactics. It'd be one thing if it were "I did this and now she's ignoring me, is this fixable?" But no, it was more like, "LOL I LIKE TO START SHIT WITH HER BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T REACT HOW I WANTED HER TO. PLEASE, TELL ME MORE ABOUT THIS GIRL. I GET OFF ON FUCKING WITH HER."

Like I said, some Aries naivete is in full swing here.

Call me cynical, call me jaded or claim I'm "judging." I've seen this behavior before, first hand. From a Cap, no less. They do it for the conquest, not the feels.
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Hey, calm your tits k? What all about Attention Whoring tactics? Me or you?

There is a toleration limit to Caps, k?

This is a forum for discussion, mind you, not for you to bombard someone's post like it doesn't worth a penny of discussion.

I am even tired to call you anything.
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Hey, calm your tits k? What all about Attention Whoring tactics? Me or you?

There is a toleration limit to Caps, k?

This is a forum for discussion, mind you, not for you to bombard someone's post like it doesn't worth a penny of discussion.

I am even tired to call you anything.
Ladies and gentlemen,

I present to you the real person hiding behind the facade.

...You're welcome.



Sorry sweetie, it doesn't work on me.
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If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.
You hv made me understanding something. Thanks. But as advised, straightforward not hint.

I assume you are an Aries as well?
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If you want *any* person to show their care and love for you, you definitely don't degrade them by just going "you have no consideration for my/anybody's feelings". Of course youngot what you deserved.

Why would I show care and love to a whiny bitch who is throwing sticks in my wheels? Of course I will retaliate. There are hunderds of more mature ways to drop hints that you want her soft side.
You hv made me understanding something. Thanks. But as advised, straightforward not hint.

I assume you are an Aries as well?
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I am indeed a Ram.
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No idea, I am exhausted already.

She likes, then she texted me. She doesn't like, then ignore and not replying.

Most of the time, in fact letting a lot of times in each day passes by, and our conversation is so so normal ie. not responding to my sweetness.

Called her darling, yet she seems cool and cold lol.

Anyway, also probably she has been seeing someone else, not gonna jump into her business till some time later.

I'd remove her as close friend in FB to avoid thinking too much on myself which could jeopardize the relationship.

So that's it. Thanks for still care. I realise I just got to love myself more to attract her back. Agree?
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No idea, I am exhausted already.

She likes, then she texted me. She doesn't like, then ignore and not replying.

Most of the time, in fact letting a lot of times in each day passes by, and our conversation is so so normal ie. not responding to my sweetness.

Called her darling, yet she seems cool and cold lol.

Anyway, also probably she has been seeing someone else, not gonna jump into her business till some time later.

I'd remove her as close friend in FB to avoid thinking too much on myself which could jeopardize the relationship.

So that's it. Thanks for still care. I realise I just got to love myself more to attract her back. Agree?
Lol so I've went through all 10 pages of the post, just to make sure my comments aren't out of line! From my experience an Aries is pretty obvious if she is interested but she does want you to initiate! Hmmmm don't play to much mind games and don't overthink things, tell her like it is and be cool about it and she'll be head over heels for you. Aries women aren't very wordy and more physical, so you calling her darling isn't gonna work, but you being playful will! I'm still also learning/ observing and trying to best understand my Aries GF, honestly there has been countless times where we fight and she doesn't feel like she's wrong at all, which frustrates me! But I realise the silent treatment isn't gonna get us anywhere, rather it will create a wedge between us and inevitably cause a break up, so more often than not being the EARTH sign (you and me), I pick up my phone say sorry and swallow my pride because she's worth it, is your current Aries worth throwing your pride away? THANKFULLY, just yesterday she actually noticed all the time that I swallowed my pride and how I am always so cool in handling her tantrums that she feels very loved and safe when with me (What we earth signs are good at), so with you I think she was interested but is now put off by you not being the stable/ ambitious guy she first saw. What I think you should do now is take a breather, stay friends with her and show her how warm and composed and how much of a good sport you are! Aries woman wants what they can't have, just saying! But if she isn't biting to your friendship, find other girls there are plenty and Aries woman makes a great friend too, so you're in good hands even if it doesn't grow into something romantic 🙂

Source: Aries girlfriend, constant fights and headbutting with the girlfriend and 2-3 aries female friends whom are the kindest and most honest friends (bitch-slap to the face all the time kind of honesty) I've had. Don't ever ever hurt an Aries woman and betray her kindness (even friends), because you're in a world of hell and she would consider you dead and be super judgemental like RockyRoad (whom probably has been hur
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No idea, I am exhausted already.

She likes, then she texted me. She doesn't like, then ignore and not replying.

Most of the time, in fact letting a lot of times in each day passes by, and our conversation is so so normal ie. not responding to my sweetness.

Called her darling, yet she seems cool and cold lol.

Anyway, also probably she has been seeing someone else, not gonna jump into her business till some time later.

I'd remove her as close friend in FB to avoid thinking too much on myself which could jeopardize the relationship.

So that's it. Thanks for still care. I realise I just got to love myself more to attract her back. Agree?
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Lol so I've went through all 10 pages of the post, just to make sure my comments aren't out of line! From my experience an Aries is pretty obvious if she is interested but she does want you to initiate! Hmmmm don't play to much mind games and don't overthink things, tell her like it is and be cool about it and she'll be head over heels for you. Aries women aren't very wordy and more physical, so you calling her darling isn't gonna work, but you being playful will! I'm still also learning/ observing and trying to best understand my Aries GF, honestly there has been countless times where we fight and she doesn't feel like she's wrong at all, which frustrates me! But I realise the silent treatment isn't gonna get us anywhere, rather it will create a wedge between us and inevitably cause a break up, so more often than not being the EARTH sign (you and me), I pick up my phone say sorry and swallow my pride because she's worth it, is your current Aries worth throwing your pride away? THANKFULLY, just yesterday she actually noticed all the time that I swallowed my pride and how I am always so cool in handling her tantrums that she feels very loved and safe when with me (What we earth signs are good at), so with you I think she was interested but is now put off by you not being the stable/ ambitious guy she first saw. What I think you should do now is take a breather, stay friends with her and show her how warm and composed and how much of a good sport you are! Aries woman wants what they can't have, just saying! But if she isn't biting to your friendship, find other girls there are plenty and Aries woman makes a great friend too, so you're in good hands even if it doesn't grow into something romantic 🙂

Source: Aries girlfriend, constant fights and headbutting with the girlfriend and 2-3 aries female friends whom are the kindest and most honest friends (bitch-slap to the face all the time kind of honesty) I've had. Don't ever ever hurt an Aries woman and betray her kindness (even friends), because you'