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Oh lord you two just don’t connect very well. Btw @sag89 I have a Cap Mercury plus cap venus & Cap mars lol but you click or you don’t & you guys keep missing. I agree let him reach out if he’s interested. To me Aries & Sag just have to go out & have fun, do physical things, go with the flow and just enjoy. Aries will love that your not all cookiemonstery but out for fun. Well anyway, just do your thing & let him reach out if he wants.



Thanks Roo, yeah I guess we don't lol damn I wanted that mars in cap not gonna lie

Haha that’s funny since I’m the one with Cap Mars.
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Oh haha!
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This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.

Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.

Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.

Cardinal and Mutable.

Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.

Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.

They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me




i so disagree with everything you say. Aries men i have dealt with are very straight forward and open. but as women we need to understand man talk is all. Aries men a cuddle bunnies unless you get all weird because you are thinking you made a mistake sleeping with the guy. they knowest the pulling away stuff and are like 'so you want to play that way, ok we will play it that way. ' i so can blame them. plus stoking the ego is a good thing. that is part of the self esteem. i have met lots of aries men who are very intellectual. they are not dumb jocks.




I don't get reading in between lines. I'll miss it. I'm a sag with a merc in Cap. I like directness lol



lol aries men are very direct and fat teases. men no matter the sign talk one way and women no matter the sign talk another way. its because our brains work different. all the guy sags i know are great at flirting and aries love to to flirt. its the funnest game. in the love part its all about building up the tension.


Tension?
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sexual tension hehe
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This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.

Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.

Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.

Cardinal and Mutable.

Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.

Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.

They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me




i so disagree with everything you say. Aries men i have dealt with are very straight forward and open. but as women we need to understand man talk is all. Aries men a cuddle bunnies unless you get all weird because you are thinking you made a mistake sleeping with the guy. they knowest the pulling away stuff and are like 'so you want to play that way, ok we will play it that way. ' i so can blame them. plus stoking the ego is a good thing. that is part of the self esteem. i have met lots of aries men who are very intellectual. they are not dumb jocks.




I don't get reading in between lines. I'll miss it. I'm a sag with a merc in Cap. I like directness lol



lol aries men are very direct and fat teases. men no matter the sign talk one way and women no matter the sign talk another way. its because our brains work different. all the guy sags i know are great at flirting and aries love to to flirt. its the funnest game. in the love part its all about building up the tension.
Tension?

sexual tension hehe
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I see lol
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Ahh it cut off the rest of my message. Anyway, I was saying I'm gonna take your advice, thank you! I'll let you guys know if he ever contacts.

What happened with yours Arique?

What happened with my what? Sorry Pisces merc 🤣

My current bf or the love for cap mars?

I just love cap mars but I didn’t end up with one. Ended up with a gem mars. Still compatible with my sag mars though.

Cap mars is just so damn dutiful. Don’t stop until the job is done.
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Yeah 🙂 I was wondering if it ever worked out with the guy you said had similar placements as this Aries or were you not dating him?
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Aries men are straightforward and to the point. So it’s easy to decipher their intentions.

It sounds like he was into you and wanted more from you. Possibly date formally and see where things lead. He was hesitant and awkward/unresponsive because you suggested you two sleep together. He probably wasn’t anticipating that and was put off that you offered. Men in general don’t like a woman to be straightforward in sexual matters unless it’s a FWB. So when he said you won’t be able to “handle” this, it’s code word for, “oh crap, if this thing turns into a FWB, it’s gonna get messy”.

It’s true, men of all types do casual sex if that’s what they’re looking for without the emotional attachment. But women are a different thing. If he was hesitant, it was probably because he wanted more from this relationship. The fact you offered so openly probably made him wonder about your other encounters with men, which puts an Aries men off.

If you just wanted an FWB then it’s fine, but if you wanted more...then I think you pretty much damaged the relationship/courting at this faze. It’s up to him now if he wishes to see it as something more.
Not into pussy's.
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Ahh it cut off the rest of my message. Anyway, I was saying I'm gonna take your advice, thank you! I'll let you guys know if he ever contacts.

What happened with yours Arique?



What happened with my what? Sorry Pisces merc 🤣

My current bf or the love for cap mars?

I just love cap mars but I didn’t end up with one. Ended up with a gem mars. Still compatible with my sag mars though.

Cap mars is just so damn dutiful. Don’t stop until the job is done.



Yeah I was wondering if it ever worked out with the guy you said had similar placements as this Aries or were you not dating him?

We never dated. It was awkward.
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I think that's how this will go lol

Curtains closed me thinks
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😂🤣😂🤣

"Not into kitty's"

I know that's right hahaha



Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol



What happened 😕



Total game player

How did you find out?
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He slept with me and basically hasn't really talked to me since lol... even after I apologized or tried to get an idea if something was wrong.

he simply was like " you said it was a one time thing" BTW I never said.

But constantly stalks my IG stories LOL

Tool.

I'll be honest with you I've not ever met a man who acts like that. He acts like I killed his family or something. Who knows..
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I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.

I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e

He sounds passive aggressive like my Scorpio ex. I wanna blame his scorp moon but it could be an Aries dude thing, who knows. He is definitely butt hurt and who wants to put up with that shet!?
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Gets even better. Than he blocked me on social media today LOL like okay baby.

Jesus, I had no idea people could be this fucking dramatic! Like he hates me because I didn't want to go on a romantic date with him or something? Grow UP! I offered and friendship ( even sex, if he wanted) and was kind to you.

What an ego maniac! I think it's the moon too. I had FWB with an Aries before and he was so kind and nice to me and never did any of this shit. It went of for a few years too. Lots of fun together.

My ex had a scorp moon too and he was a pain the ass at times.

But astrology aside he seems really insecure. Too bad cause he fucking hot and I would of loved to make love to him all night.

Oh well.
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I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.

I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e
to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50

you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility

I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me

I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird

you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on

only my 2 cents
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I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.

I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e

to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50

you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility

I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me

I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on

only my 2 cents
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How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread
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I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.

I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e



to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50

you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility

I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me

I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on

only my 2 cents

How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread
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"How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread"

You wanted to leave right after sex....you left in the morning while he was sleeping, because you felt awkward... left a neutral note.... told him it was cool... then you had a nonsense text echange with him, where you said to him he is weird... when he didnt react how you wanted (I am not sure what you wanted), then you are here telling he is a comfirmed player a tool and etc... and that you wanted him for sex..... are you offended he wasnt into the FWB or whatever you are now suggesting you wanted? maybe he is looking for love and you are here, offended he doesnt want to be your f*ck buddy? He is not a tool for not wanting sex or conversation with you anymore if it was awkward and stayed awkward

maybe you were looking for love as well, you just played it too cool for your own sake maybe.... but he may well be a player and the tool, we just cant really tell it from your post, know what I mean?

but I have to admit I missed the part where you refused to go with him on a romantic date, sorry
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I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.

I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e



to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50

you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility

I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me

I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on

only my 2 cents



How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread

"How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread"

You wanted to leave right after sex....you left in the morning while he was sleeping, because you felt awkward... left a neutral note.... told him it was cool... then you had a nonsense text echange with him, where you said to him he is weird... when he didnt react how you wanted (I am not sure what you wanted), then you are here telling he is a comfirmed player a tool and etc... and that you wanted him for sex..... are you offended he wasnt into the FWB or whatever you are now suggesting you wanted? maybe he is looking for love and you are here, offended he doesnt want to be your treetr*nk buddy? He is not a tool for not wanting sex or conversation with you anymore if it was awkward and stayed awkward

maybe you were looking for love as well, you just played it too cool for your own sake maybe.... but he may well be a player and the tool, we just cant really tell it from your post, know what I mean?
but I have to admit I missed the part where you refused to go with him on a romantic date, sorry
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Okay, so have you ever had been responsible for something besides yourself? I have a 6 month year old puppy who needed to be walked. I HAD to leave. Plus it was uncomfortable and he was totally sound asleep anyway.

I'm guessing from your logic I should of neglected my dog so this egoistical stranger could not feel insecure? You sound like you have great priorities.

Yeah no, my dog comes first. Plus I left a note saying "I had a nice time, ( smiley face ) I had to go take my dog out I'll text you" The second I got home I texted him " have a nice day " NO response from him all day.

Yeah I'm such a player. Your brilliant. This was all in the thread.
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Maybe he just doesn’t like you or want you in his life.

It was just a hookup.

Don’t need to know them after you get off



I'm really grateful I don't look at life like that. Thank you for making feel better about myself

He clearly looks at life like that.

Thanks for the snarky comment.

I guess I won’t bother with a realistic opinion next time.

“Oh gurrl, he wants you! He just likes you way too much and needs you to reassure him!”

Gimme a fuvking break.
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I don't know what his opinion is. He never told me. He only knows that...

How was my comment snarky? If you like to pump and dump people that's your problem and anyone else's

and I'm glad I don't have it
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okey okey, just calm down 🙂 I am just telling you, how it LOOKS LIKE from not knowing him and just reading your story and comments on this, know what I mean?

your text exchange with him WAS weird, you have to admit it..

and from the outside you contributed to this weirdness.... you yourself said you felt awkward... which I wouldnt take lightly, because our moon can feel things

he may be a player or may be not, just leave that loser now

dont be upset over that "egoistical stranger"

Edit: I am sure it feels insulting and undeserving him blocking you, if there was not a reason for it

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okey okey, just calm down I am just telling you, how it LOOKS LIKE from not knowing him and just reading your story and comments on this, know what I mean?

your text exchange with him WAS weird, you have to admit it..
and from the outside you contributed to this weirdness.... you yourself said you felt awkward... which I wouldnt take lightly, because our moon can feel things

he may be a player or may be not, just leave that loser now

dont be upset over that "egoistical stranger"


Do you have a scorpio moon?

I am frustrated lol. But mostly because I stayed the night with him to be nice, I gave him a back rub and held him till he fell asleep to be nice. I left a note and texted in the morning to be nice and he couldn't of been ruder to me after that point.

Than when I asked if something was wrong, and even apologized and if I did anything wrong and told him it wasn't intentionally. And all he came back was with a snotty " You said you only wanted it to be a one time thing " WHICH I NEVER DID.

ALL I SAID WAS I'M NOT REALLY INTO RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT NOW. I enjoy lovemaking though and if you would like to continue doing that or just friends it could be nice.

Than he blocked me LOL I find that dramatic and ridiculous but whatever. Clearly I offered him to greatly or he hated me. I really don't know but it was really over the top reaction in my mind when nothing I did was in my eyes rude or intentional fucking with him.
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This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.

Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.

Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.

Cardinal and Mutable.

Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.

Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.

They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me

I agree that cardinal and mutable energies don't mix well together.
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Lol apparently not
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It just really seemed he was so in his feelings and wanting to be in control that he couldn't see I was not out to get him just because I didn't want to date him or whatever!



He just moved to the town I live in so I was like well we don't have to have sex if you don't want we can just be friends too I'm totally fine with that but it like wasn't good enough



So like I said w/e. But I am not a player I'm just not ready for a relationship right now. 2 months ago I just got out of something that lasted 8 months so I'm just trying to chill. I told him all this BTW I didn't lead him on or anything. I was totally upfront.



Just seems like he decided to throw a fit when he didn't get what he wanted or felt offended. Which I think it immature but hey I can't control what people do.
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Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.

Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?
Because I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.

Like how hard would of it been to say " thanks " or " I had a nice time to ttyl " or " let be just friends " but to say nothing? Come on.



Like I could of just got up in left after sex BUT he asked me not too. SO I STAYED, BECAUSE MANNERS. I LEFT A NOTE BECAUSE MANNERS.



Like clearly I'm the idiot that shit is out dated. Like fucking excuse me for tying to think of someone's feelings.



But it's all over and done with now, so hey I tried. I hope he finds whatever he's looking for I guess

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"Just seems like he decided to throw a fit when he didn't get what he wanted or felt offended. Which I think it immature "

to be fair, it seems to apply to both of you 🙂 this thread seems like a "throwing a fit when one doesnt get what they wanted" 🙂

but yeah, I know what you mean, but your text like "we can meet for sex or just as friends, because I am telling you upfront you are not for a minute seems like somebody I can have a relationship with" can be insulting to some.... I know you reacted to what he said, but it sounds...well, insulting maybe to some?

(no, I have cancer moon, and I mistakingly tought you have one, next to your avatar I read your planets wrong 🙂 ) but a Leo moon would make a bit drama, wouldnt it? so it make sense..)
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Posted by Pandora101
"Just seems like he decided to throw a fit when he didn't get what he wanted or felt offended. Which I think it immature "

to be fair, it seems to apply to both of you this thread seems like a "throwing a fit when one doesnt get what they wanted"

but yeah, I know what you mean, but your text like "we can meet for sex or just as friends, because I am telling you upfront you are not for a minute seems like somebody I can have a relationship with" can be insulting to some.... I know you reacted to what he said, but it sounds...well, insulting maybe to some?

(no, I have cancer moon, and I mistakingly tought you have one, next to your avatar I read your planets wrong ) but a Leo moon would make a bit drama, wouldnt it? so it make sense..)
I like Cancer moons lol they are sweet. Two of my best friends have that placement.

Well I said or " just friends " I willing to hook up or be totally platonic friends. I guess to me it doesn't sound offensive. Usually if someone offers me an olive branch of friendship or at least indifference after a break up that feels better to me than to be ghosted or hated.

But I guess some find that that offensive that they aren't worthy of more serious dating or insensitive that someone would suggest friendship shortly after a romantic time together.



I see it differently. And I by no means was suggesting he wasn't worthy of a serious relationship. I just got out of one is all.

I tried to be as nice as I could :/

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Sometimes things are said as playful or flirty?

...are you trying to have sex with me? ...literally he doesn’t think you are, but a) it gets you thinking about sex hence making it more likely to have sex b) it’s funny

You got in his bed to watch a movie? ... haha classic.. you really thought you were just going to watch a movie? That’s crazy!

(On a side note, people saying Sag and Aries don’t get along... that is the most mental thing I have ever heard, honestly it is)
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Sometimes things are said as playful or flirty?

...are you trying to have sex with me? ...literally he doesn’t think you are, but a) it gets you thinking about sex hence making it more likely to have sex b) it’s funny

You got in his bed to watch a movie? ... haha classic.. you really thought you were just going to watch a movie? That’s crazy!

(On a side note, people saying Sag and Aries don’t get along... that is the most mental thing I have ever heard, honestly it is)
Agreed from my research Aries and sag and Aries and Leo are the top matches.. they get along really well.
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Sometimes things are said as playful or flirty?

...are you trying to have sex with me? ...literally he doesn’t think you are, but a) it gets you thinking about sex hence making it more likely to have sex b) it’s funny

You got in his bed to watch a movie? ... haha classic.. you really thought you were just going to watch a movie? That’s crazy!

(On a side note, people saying Sag and Aries don’t get along... that is the most mental thing I have ever heard, honestly it is)
Please read the thread before you make a comment. I really don't want to have to sit and explain this 6 more times.
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Poor guy.

J/K

I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.

Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.
WOW thank you. Someone who actually has some real perception past their own feelings! And you obiviously read the thread! *claps*

Lol yes he was into that. He bragged about how women try to tie him down all the time and that the last girl he dumped tired to kill herself. I thought he was joking at first ( that you would even bring that up to a stranger ) but no he was seriously and even tried to use that as he was desirable lol

You can't make this stuff up

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Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.

Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?



Because I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.

Like how hard would of it been to say " thanks " or " I had a nice time to ttyl " or " let be just friends " but to say nothing? Come on.


Like I could of just got up in left after sex BUT he asked me not too. SO I STAYED, BECAUSE MANNERS. I LEFT A NOTE BECAUSE MANNERS.


Like clearly I'm the idiot that butter is out dated. Like treetrunking excuse me for tying to think of someone's feelings.


But it's all over and done with now, so hey I tried. I hope he finds whatever he's looking for I guess




you last comment after i posted is what i want to know since first page seems not communicative at all. now it makes sense.

Or well.. Hopefully you'll learned a lesson there.
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What lesson?
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Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.

Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?



Because I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.

Like how hard would of it been to say " thanks " or " I had a nice time to ttyl " or " let be just friends " but to say nothing? Come on.


Like I could of just got up in left after sex BUT he asked me not too. SO I STAYED, BECAUSE MANNERS. I LEFT A NOTE BECAUSE MANNERS.


Like clearly I'm the idiot that butter is out dated. Like treetrunking excuse me for tying to think of someone's feelings.


But it's all over and done with now, so hey I tried. I hope he finds whatever he's looking for I guess






you last comment after i posted is what i want to know since first page seems not communicative at all. now it makes sense.

Or well.. Hopefully you'll learned a lesson there.



What lesson?

Not about the communication but the whole situation of how he did to you. I understand you'll do manner beause manner. but there are the time that you hsve to say no treetrunk that manners or sees being flaky af of first impression as a stranger and especially taking account with that detailed story.
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Right and than I'm sure I'll be called rude that way too lol you can't win with people
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Posted by ellesbelles
Poor guy.

J/K

I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.

Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.


Just because she was upfront doesn’t mean he can’t be offended. That’s a risk when being honest. I don’t get why Sag89 is offended now if she just wanted to fuck. She got what she wanted so what’s the issue? Seems like she wants to be fawned over if anything. Since she played it “cool” and it backfired. Don’t play games with peoples emotions. It’s not nice.
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Sag898
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7 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by ellesbelles
Poor guy.

J/K

I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.

Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.

Just because she was upfront doesn’t mean he can’t be offended. That’s a risk when being honest. I don’t get why Sag89 is offended now if she just wanted to fuck. She got what she wanted so what’s the issue? Seems like she wants to be fawned over if anything. Since she played it “cool” and it backfired. Don’t play games with peoples emotions. It’s not nice.
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I never played it " cool " I went out with him. I had sex with him. I texted him the next day. I did nothing wrong. He ignored all of it.

He was not a healthy person to get close to in a emotionally intimate way such as a boyfriend. I wasn't even gonna give it a chance. I saw all the signs.

He likes girls to fawn over him and than dump them. He's into power not connecting. That's obviously.

I would of fine being a friend though. He wouldn't hear any of it.



I hope Jesus helps his soul
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Cancerleo91
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Posted by Cancerleo91
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Posted by DMV
😂🤣😂🤣

"Not into kitty's"

I know that's right hahaha



Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol



What happened 😕



Total game player

How did you find out?

Wow... Your eyes are mesmerizing. You remind me of Hayley Law.
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Thank you! She’s beautiful so that’s awesome 🙂
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Sag898
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Posted by bmoon8
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When you left in the morning to go take care of your dog and left him a note.. then sent him a text of "have a nice day".. that text didn't invite conversation. It's friendly, but dismissive.



How is that dismissive? It had a smile emoji too

It's something people say when closing out a conversation or a transaction. They say it at the end.
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Interesting. Never thought of it that way.