
yeah he hates me


Posted by RooSagicornOh haha!Posted by Sag89Posted by RooSagicorn
Oh lord you two just don’t connect very well. Btw @sag89 I have a Cap Mercury plus cap venus & Cap mars lol but you click or you don’t & you guys keep missing. I agree let him reach out if he’s interested. To me Aries & Sag just have to go out & have fun, do physical things, go with the flow and just enjoy. Aries will love that your not all cookiemonstery but out for fun. Well anyway, just do your thing & let him reach out if he wants.
Thanks Roo, yeah I guess we don't lol damn I wanted that mars in cap not gonna lie
Haha that’s funny since I’m the one with Cap Mars.click to expand

Posted by Sag89sexual tension hehePosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Sag89Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by DMV
This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.
Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.
Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.
Cardinal and Mutable.
Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.
Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.
They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me
i so disagree with everything you say. Aries men i have dealt with are very straight forward and open. but as women we need to understand man talk is all. Aries men a cuddle bunnies unless you get all weird because you are thinking you made a mistake sleeping with the guy. they knowest the pulling away stuff and are like 'so you want to play that way, ok we will play it that way. ' i so can blame them. plus stoking the ego is a good thing. that is part of the self esteem. i have met lots of aries men who are very intellectual. they are not dumb jocks.
I don't get reading in between lines. I'll miss it. I'm a sag with a merc in Cap. I like directness lol
lol aries men are very direct and fat teases. men no matter the sign talk one way and women no matter the sign talk another way. its because our brains work different. all the guy sags i know are great at flirting and aries love to to flirt. its the funnest game. in the love part its all about building up the tension.
Tension?click to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerIdk but my sex drive is kinda low. cap mars.
Aries not into sex of any kind is bs

Posted by WitchmitchAriesI see lolPosted by Sag89Posted by WitchmitchAriesTension?Posted by Sag89Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by DMV
This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.
Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.
Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.
Cardinal and Mutable.
Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.
Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.
They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me
i so disagree with everything you say. Aries men i have dealt with are very straight forward and open. but as women we need to understand man talk is all. Aries men a cuddle bunnies unless you get all weird because you are thinking you made a mistake sleeping with the guy. they knowest the pulling away stuff and are like 'so you want to play that way, ok we will play it that way. ' i so can blame them. plus stoking the ego is a good thing. that is part of the self esteem. i have met lots of aries men who are very intellectual. they are not dumb jocks.
I don't get reading in between lines. I'll miss it. I'm a sag with a merc in Cap. I like directness lol
lol aries men are very direct and fat teases. men no matter the sign talk one way and women no matter the sign talk another way. its because our brains work different. all the guy sags i know are great at flirting and aries love to to flirt. its the funnest game. in the love part its all about building up the tension.
sexual tension heheclick to expand

Posted by AriquaYeah 🙂 I was wondering if it ever worked out with the guy you said had similar placements as this Aries or were you not dating him?Posted by Sag89
Ahh it cut off the rest of my message. Anyway, I was saying I'm gonna take your advice, thank you! I'll let you guys know if he ever contacts.
What happened with yours Arique?
What happened with my what? Sorry Pisces merc 🤣
My current bf or the love for cap mars?
I just love cap mars but I didn’t end up with one. Ended up with a gem mars. Still compatible with my sag mars though.
Cap mars is just so damn dutiful. Don’t stop until the job is done.click to expand

Posted by vixen14Not into pussy's.
Aries men are straightforward and to the point. So it’s easy to decipher their intentions.
It sounds like he was into you and wanted more from you. Possibly date formally and see where things lead. He was hesitant and awkward/unresponsive because you suggested you two sleep together. He probably wasn’t anticipating that and was put off that you offered. Men in general don’t like a woman to be straightforward in sexual matters unless it’s a FWB. So when he said you won’t be able to “handle” this, it’s code word for, “oh crap, if this thing turns into a FWB, it’s gonna get messy”.
It’s true, men of all types do casual sex if that’s what they’re looking for without the emotional attachment. But women are a different thing. If he was hesitant, it was probably because he wanted more from this relationship. The fact you offered so openly probably made him wonder about your other encounters with men, which puts an Aries men off.
If you just wanted an FWB then it’s fine, but if you wanted more...then I think you pretty much damaged the relationship/courting at this faze. It’s up to him now if he wishes to see it as something more.

Posted by AriquaI think that's how this will go lolPosted by Sag89Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag89
Ahh it cut off the rest of my message. Anyway, I was saying I'm gonna take your advice, thank you! I'll let you guys know if he ever contacts.
What happened with yours Arique?
What happened with my what? Sorry Pisces merc 🤣
My current bf or the love for cap mars?
I just love cap mars but I didn’t end up with one. Ended up with a gem mars. Still compatible with my sag mars though.
Cap mars is just so damn dutiful. Don’t stop until the job is done.
Yeah I was wondering if it ever worked out with the guy you said had similar placements as this Aries or were you not dating him?
We never dated. It was awkward.click to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerTaurusPosted by bkbella86Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Aries not into sex of any kind is bs
Idk but my sex drive is kinda low. cap mars.
It’s your Venus if you’re female. What is your Venus?click to expand


Posted by DMVOkay it's officially found out that he was a piece of shit. Cased closed all lol
😂🤣😂🤣
"Not into kitty's"
I know that's right hahaha

Posted by AriquaTotal game playerPosted by Sag89Posted by DMV
😂🤣😂🤣
"Not into kitty's"
I know that's right hahaha
Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol
What happened 😕click to expand

Posted by Sag89Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag89Posted by DMV
😂🤣😂🤣
"Not into kitty's"
I know that's right hahaha
Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol
What happened 😕
Total game playerclick to expand

Posted by Cancerleo91He slept with me and basically hasn't really talked to me since lol... even after I apologized or tried to get an idea if something was wrong.Posted by Sag89Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag89Posted by DMV
😂🤣😂🤣
"Not into kitty's"
I know that's right hahaha
Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol
What happened 😕
Total game player
How did you find out?click to expand


Posted by AriquaGets even better. Than he blocked me on social media today LOL like okay baby.Posted by Sag89
I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.
I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e
He sounds passive aggressive like my Scorpio ex. I wanna blame his scorp moon but it could be an Aries dude thing, who knows. He is definitely butt hurt and who wants to put up with that shet!?click to expand

Posted by Sag89to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50
I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.
I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e

Posted by Pandora101How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the threadPosted by Sag89
I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.
I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e
to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50
you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility
I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me
I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on
only my 2 centsclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83I'm really grateful I don't look at life like that. Thank you for making feel better about myself
Maybe he just doesn’t like you or want you in his life.
It was just a hookup.
Don’t need to know them after you get off

Posted by Sag89"How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread"Posted by Pandora101Posted by Sag89
I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.
I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e
to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50
you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility
I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me
I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on
only my 2 cents
How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the threadclick to expand

Posted by Pandora101Okay, so have you ever had been responsible for something besides yourself? I have a 6 month year old puppy who needed to be walked. I HAD to leave. Plus it was uncomfortable and he was totally sound asleep anyway.Posted by Sag89Posted by Pandora101Posted by Sag89
I'm generally friends or least cool with all my ex's and any hook up I've ever had. I've never met someone who can't even " talk " to someone they had sex with.
I find it really immature. But his life lol w/e
to be fair, you didnt communicate well with him (based on what you said here) so I would say the blame is at least 50/50
you acted like a player now he is feeling maybe cheap so doesnt want to do anything with you? its a possibility
I mean the text exchange between you, what you posted here, is weird and not from his side, sorry, or it seems to me
I am not defending him, but you yourself were acting weird
you are better off without him and he is better off without you, sometimes it just doesnt work out, move on
only my 2 cents
How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread
"How did I act like a "player"? You obviously didn't read the thread"
You wanted to leave right after sex....you left in the morning while he was sleeping, because you felt awkward... left a neutral note.... told him it was cool... then you had a nonsense text echange with him, where you said to him he is weird... when he didnt react how you wanted (I am not sure what you wanted), then you are here telling he is a comfirmed player a tool and etc... and that you wanted him for sex..... are you offended he wasnt into the FWB or whatever you are now suggesting you wanted? maybe he is looking for love and you are here, offended he doesnt want to be your treetr*nk buddy? He is not a tool for not wanting sex or conversation with you anymore if it was awkward and stayed awkward
maybe you were looking for love as well, you just played it too cool for your own sake maybe.... but he may well be a player and the tool, we just cant really tell it from your post, know what I mean?
but I have to admit I missed the part where you refused to go with him on a romantic date, sorryclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83I don't know what his opinion is. He never told me. He only knows that...Posted by Sag89Posted by Arielle83
Maybe he just doesn’t like you or want you in his life.
It was just a hookup.
Don’t need to know them after you get off
I'm really grateful I don't look at life like that. Thank you for making feel better about myself
He clearly looks at life like that.
Thanks for the snarky comment.
I guess I won’t bother with a realistic opinion next time.
“Oh gurrl, he wants you! He just likes you way too much and needs you to reassure him!”
Gimme a fuvking break.click to expand


Posted by Pandora101Do you have a scorpio moon?
okey okey, just calm down I am just telling you, how it LOOKS LIKE from not knowing him and just reading your story and comments on this, know what I mean?
your text exchange with him WAS weird, you have to admit it..
and from the outside you contributed to this weirdness.... you yourself said you felt awkward... which I wouldnt take lightly, because our moon can feel things
he may be a player or may be not, just leave that loser now
dont be upset over that "egoistical stranger"

Posted by TotiPosted by DMVI agree that cardinal and mutable energies don't mix well together.
This is why I say sag women and aries men dont mix.
Aries men dont have the intellectual capacity to keep a sag women interested.
Before the sex. Awkward. After the sex awkward.
Cardinal and Mutable.
Aries men dont communicate that well especially when it comes to their feelings. They're not as upfront as astrology claims the to be.
Also they're both masculine signs but it seems like aries men play more of the femme role round sag women.
They play coy games too. "Ooo I dont du casual sex teehee". Translastion Please feed my ego and jump on me
click to expand


Posted by NevamoreBecause I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.
Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.
Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?


Posted by Pandora101I like Cancer moons lol they are sweet. Two of my best friends have that placement.
"Just seems like he decided to throw a fit when he didn't get what he wanted or felt offended. Which I think it immature "
to be fair, it seems to apply to both of you this thread seems like a "throwing a fit when one doesnt get what they wanted"
but yeah, I know what you mean, but your text like "we can meet for sex or just as friends, because I am telling you upfront you are not for a minute seems like somebody I can have a relationship with" can be insulting to some.... I know you reacted to what he said, but it sounds...well, insulting maybe to some?
(no, I have cancer moon, and I mistakingly tought you have one, next to your avatar I read your planets wrong ) but a Leo moon would make a bit drama, wouldnt it? so it make sense..)


Posted by AriesJoAgreed from my research Aries and sag and Aries and Leo are the top matches.. they get along really well.
Sometimes things are said as playful or flirty?
...are you trying to have sex with me? ...literally he doesn’t think you are, but a) it gets you thinking about sex hence making it more likely to have sex b) it’s funny
You got in his bed to watch a movie? ... haha classic.. you really thought you were just going to watch a movie? That’s crazy!
(On a side note, people saying Sag and Aries don’t get along... that is the most mental thing I have ever heard, honestly it is)


Posted by AriesJoPlease read the thread before you make a comment. I really don't want to have to sit and explain this 6 more times.
Sometimes things are said as playful or flirty?
...are you trying to have sex with me? ...literally he doesn’t think you are, but a) it gets you thinking about sex hence making it more likely to have sex b) it’s funny
You got in his bed to watch a movie? ... haha classic.. you really thought you were just going to watch a movie? That’s crazy!
(On a side note, people saying Sag and Aries don’t get along... that is the most mental thing I have ever heard, honestly it is)

Posted by ellesbellesWOW thank you. Someone who actually has some real perception past their own feelings! And you obiviously read the thread! *claps*
Poor guy.
J/K
I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.
Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.

Posted by bmoon8How is that dismissive? It had a smile emoji too
When you left in the morning to go take care of your dog and left him a note.. then sent him a text of "have a nice day".. that text didn't invite conversation. It's friendly, but dismissive.

Posted by NevamoreWhat lesson?Posted by Sag89Posted by Nevamore
Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.
Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?
Because I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.
Like how hard would of it been to say " thanks " or " I had a nice time to ttyl " or " let be just friends " but to say nothing? Come on.
Like I could of just got up in left after sex BUT he asked me not too. SO I STAYED, BECAUSE MANNERS. I LEFT A NOTE BECAUSE MANNERS.
Like clearly I'm the idiot that butter is out dated. Like treetrunking excuse me for tying to think of someone's feelings.
But it's all over and done with now, so hey I tried. I hope he finds whatever he's looking for I guess
you last comment after i posted is what i want to know since first page seems not communicative at all. now it makes sense.
Or well.. Hopefully you'll learned a lesson there.click to expand

Posted by NevamoreRight and than I'm sure I'll be called rude that way too lol you can't win with peoplePosted by Sag89Posted by NevamorePosted by Sag89Posted by Nevamore
Its clearly you both are horrible direct communicator to each other. But what I find it so absurb is you're overly dramatic of this thing while you're not looking for the relationship.
Are you sure you'e not looking for relationship?
Because I think it was incredibly rude to just ignore someone after they put effort into being kind to you.
Like how hard would of it been to say " thanks " or " I had a nice time to ttyl " or " let be just friends " but to say nothing? Come on.
Like I could of just got up in left after sex BUT he asked me not too. SO I STAYED, BECAUSE MANNERS. I LEFT A NOTE BECAUSE MANNERS.
Like clearly I'm the idiot that butter is out dated. Like treetrunking excuse me for tying to think of someone's feelings.
But it's all over and done with now, so hey I tried. I hope he finds whatever he's looking for I guess
you last comment after i posted is what i want to know since first page seems not communicative at all. now it makes sense.
Or well.. Hopefully you'll learned a lesson there.
What lesson?
Not about the communication but the whole situation of how he did to you. I understand you'll do manner beause manner. but there are the time that you hsve to say no treetrunk that manners or sees being flaky af of first impression as a stranger and especially taking account with that detailed story.click to expand



Posted by ellesbelles
Poor guy.
J/K
I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.
Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.

Posted by bkbella86Posted by ellesbelles
Poor guy.
J/K
I dont know why everyone is feeling sorry for the guy.
Sag89 has always been upfront and I think this dude just wasnt used to this and probably felt played. Seems the tables may have turned on him....he is probably used to women fawning all over him and that just didnt happen because that is not how she rolls.
Just because she was upfront doesn’t mean he can’t be offended. That’s a risk when being honest. I don’t get why Sag89 is offended now if she just wanted to fuck. She got what she wanted so what’s the issue? Seems like she wants to be fawned over if anything. Since she played it “cool” and it backfired. Don’t play games with peoples emotions. It’s not nice.click to expand

Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Cancerleo91Posted by Sag89Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag89Posted by DMV
😂🤣😂🤣
"Not into kitty's"
I know that's right hahaha
Okay it's officially found out that he was a piece of butter. Cased closed all lol
What happened 😕
Total game player
How did you find out?
Wow... Your eyes are mesmerizing. You remind me of Hayley Law.click to expand


Posted by bmoon8Posted by Sag89Posted by bmoon8
When you left in the morning to go take care of your dog and left him a note.. then sent him a text of "have a nice day".. that text didn't invite conversation. It's friendly, but dismissive.
How is that dismissive? It had a smile emoji too
It's something people say when closing out a conversation or a transaction. They say it at the end.click to expand

Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag898
He texted me....lol
And—? Stop playing! 😋click to expand

Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag898Posted by AriquaPosted by Sag898
He texted me....lol
And—? Stop playing! 😋
This is the best part.....All he said was " Sup " #dead
Ughhhh omg. Throw the whole man away 🙄click to expand


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