Aries or Scorpio...'who do you think ..

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Hmm, well, I think that Aries come across immediately as very strong people, physically and mentally. But I do think that they have a bit less tenacity in the *long run*. So really, it all evens out. Because people are probably a bit more afraid to begin with of Aries, since their strength is so obvious right away, so that keeps people from messing too much with them. Whereas with Scorpio, people usually don't realize what they're messing with right away, because we hide so much of what we're all about...
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interesting question - i'd say scorp has the edge as they are so obbsessed with getting even, and like someone rightly said can be very tenacious. Arians are never tenaciuos, and there is rarely a revenge streak in the ram.

Scorps are definitly crazy about getting even, my scorp friend still hates her high school sweat heart who cheated on her, i mean she HATES him! I find that really funny, how can she HAte the poor boy so much after so many years, but to her its like yesterday.

Arians are not like that at all - once its over its really over, theres no hate involved. Your aries ex will never get back at you or do something to hurt you as aries rarely dwells in the past and they generally have crazy ass memories and dont remember anything ever (along with sag and gem's), so maybe its scorp you really have to worry about - their memory for detail is amazing.

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Talk about, an Aries, Man mines is mad at me cuz I got so drunk on my B-day. But I told him "Don't get offended by anything I might do or say" he just smile so my problem is that if I told you why haven't you listen. But yet he gets upset with me.

went to make up last night afterwork and he ignored me so I asked was you mad, upset, or dissappointed? and he said nothing so I said well I guess that's my que to leave grab my bag and walked to the door and then he and I looked each other dead in the eye and he wanted to smile but I could see he was fighting it, and then he said I should paint you face with this paint I rub the side of his face and said I still care and left.

You know that the thing that kills me about men, damn it was B-Day if I wanted to get fucked up let me. I told him on Wednesday don't hold against me what I say or do. And know he holding stuff against me and dening me sex....

You can read the beginning of my story on the Thread called: Mr. Aries
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Well you know what gemfox...he just gonna have to get over it because I don't chase or beg and if he wants to act like a baby that lost his candy then fine...I know he will call and probaly act like nothing happened. But the issue still need to be dealt with I am not gonna just let you get mad at me without me being able to defend myself, and he really needs to discuss this issue with me.


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"they withhold sex from women they love cos it is THE way they express it back.

if they are sulking they wont wanna display any weakness (ie feelings) by getting it on.

as with all other male aries traits.........this is fine for them but you dare do it back to them they consider it totally unacceptable!!"

Well I just sent him an email. I said how are you doing? then I said I know you are probably still mad at me I understand you know where to find me when you are not mad anymore.

"takes a saint to take on aries men. i will never - ever go there again"

I am not gonna take him on. But am not going to beg him to talk to me either, I told him in the beginning that I have nothing to lose the friendship will still be here. He knows that. Well the look on his face last night let me know that he do care and that is why I told him I still care dispite what I did and him being mad at me.

I know he will be calling.....Not to blow my own horn but the brother loves the sex expecially me being on top no matter to me because when I get to where I want some sex then I will go to my virgo that has just as much stamina then him.

I will let yall know when he calls.

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The virgo has been in my life for 5 years, I see him once every 3 or 4 months no big deal.

The trip part about this is the Aries is just a sexually friend with benefits, I have no intentions on being with him in a committed relationship but this childish crap is going to make me stop all things and just be platonic friends again.

He suggested that we take the friendship to another level, after 5 years of just being friends by association. And over the years I have sat and told him about me and other men how I am the whole thing and he apparently did not hear a thing I said and know I am supposed to comprise to make peace.

I really need to think about that, because I took notice of everything about him his actions to what he likes and don't like, Hell this man stop people from smoking cigs in his house and I convince him that he has to let me smoke at least one cig during my stay and he agreed, I get a lot of benefits that he does not let his other friends have and he has a lot of friends. So I know he cares and I do care about him but damn.

Is he really worth, me comprimising is what I need to ask myself.



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Scorpio and Aries

When Aries and Scorpio come together, it can be the kind of relationship where the two partners wonder how they ever managed apart. Both partners in this relationship love power, and if they learn to work together instead of against each other they can achieve anything they want. Scorpio is more focused and more determined than Aries, while Aries gets things started the way both partners want. Even though Aries can be fiercely loyal, Scorpio has a deeper and more complex devotion to the partnership.

This can be a very goal-oriented relationship. It tends to be highly passionate and often argumentative, because both partners have jealous tendencies. Scorpio tends to be more patient, but is also more possessive than Aries. But despite their differences, both partners love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! Aries and Scorpio can have lots of adventures together. At times they can have difficulty understanding each other, because Aries is an extrovert, up front and open, while Scorpio is more introverted with their feelings. Both partners need to meet on neutral ground once in a while and work out a truce!

Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by the Planet Mars, and Scorpio is also ruled by Pluto. When two people with Mars' energy come together, it's like two players meeting on a battlefield: they're either allies or deadly enemies. Mars also represents passion, so Aries and Scorpio tend to have an exciting time together. Both meet challenge head-on, so it's normal for them to argue all the time -- making up is something to look forward to! Pluto adds an extra intensity to this dynamic.

Aries is a Fire Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using emotion and physical action to get things done. Scorpio is a strategist, and can help Aries slow down and learn how to plan battles before jumping into them. Aries teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. But Scorpio can be emotionally manipulative, too much Water dampening Aries' enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can burn the Water away and drive Scorpio to seek revenge. Aries and Scorpio must plan and work together instead of separately to maintain their balance.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Aries gives Scorpio the initiative to do things just for the experience, rather than always having an agenda in mind. Scorpio can help Aries
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stabilize and finish things rather than jumping into new projects without completing the old ones. But they are both loyal and devoted to each other, and when they can understand that they can both be the boss -- Aries as the initiator and Scorpio as the emotional leader -- they can accomplish a great deal together.
The best aspect of the Aries-Scorpio relationship is the power of their combined forces. They can accomplish a lot, particularly when they believe in the same cause. They are both winners and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.

Aries. The meeting of these two people with their enormous sexual drive is an explosive combination. However, their personalities are very different. Both love lots of sex with imaginative positions. Unfortunately, each one has the same great need for superiority over the other. If they are both prepared to make the effort, they may experience the greatest love affair of their lives. The flip side of this coin could be a bitter marriage.

Do yall believe this?
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Very insightful responses, thanks guys! i too have felt the contrasting temperaments & power of both signs. (my step-father was a Scorp and my mother an Aries, so life was very interesting..w~) i totally agree, Aries is much more impulsive and quick to anger, (rather cave-like in a way 😉) but just as quick to forget and move on. Whereas Scorpio would think longer, harder and deeper about things; their memories much more lengthy and lengendary...
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I'm an Aries chick with a Scorp guy. I tend to find myself constantly giving in to him to avoid upsetting him or offending him.

I guess it's possible that he does the same with me without me knowing, but I like to know his ideas or point of view on an issue. I always ask him what's up when he goes quiet and I can tell he's annoyed, because he'll never tell me on his own accord. I feel that I'm the one that does it the most, but it doesn't bother me too much. When we communicat properlly we usually can compromise on things so that both parties are satisfied. Our rising signs are the same (which is aquarius), but I don't know if it makes any difference to how we get along (?).

I think out of the two of us, he has a more dominant personality, and complains that I don't take charge enough. Perhaps in a Aries-Scorp relationship the guy, which ever sign they may be, is more dominant?

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Mentally? Scorpio is more powerful, but, they burn-out quickly.

However, Aries is so friggin stubborn that they would outlast, never accepting defeat, so, I guess it's would be a draw.

My son and his wife is the pairing . . he's Scorpio and she's Aries. For the most part, he's pretty calm and mellowed, but, she likes to push his buttons, I guess life is too boring for her without some sort of "episode" . . . he usually wins mentally. He can outwit her with just one brain cell . . but, she is relentless, even to the point of idiocy . . so, he caves because it becomes too puny and petty for him.

So, ultimately . . . she beats herself over the head and calls it victory.
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dward417 on
LOL

We are friends and lovers....guess I should take out the lover part LOL.....I still believe the attraction will still be there....it will probably be sex whenever the mood hits us which is basically what it is know.....He calls when he wants and and vice versa.

I think I will just test is patients, since I can't drive until I get my car fix...I like to see if he is gonna put out any money for transportation. LOL
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Well theres a lot to be said when nothing is being said. I don't think the topic is worth discussing really.. I honestly feel that there is no comparison. SCORPIO HOLDS IT DOWN/. WE ARE THE MOST POWEERFUL SIGN IN THE ZOIDAC. WE ARE FULL OF SURPRISES AND VERSITILITY. WE HAVE EVERY SIGN IN US, BECAUSE WE ARE THE MOTHER OF ALL SIGNS, THE METAPHSYCIAL SIGN. THAT'S WHY IT IS SO HARD TO CONQUERE US. I FEEL THAT ARIES PEOPLE ARE JUST AGGRESSIVE AND UP-FRONT. SCORPS ARE SUBTLE BUT DON'T LAUGH, SUBTLE REPRESENTS POWER. THE WORLD , I HATE TO SAY ISN'T OPERATED BY UP FRONT PEOPLE , BUT SUBTLE POWERFUL PEOPLE RATHER. ARIES, A MASCULIN SIGN, AND SCORPIO , A FEMININE SIGN SAYS SO MUCH. WE ARE DAINTY PEOPLE, WHILE ARIES ARE BIT RANCHEE , AND OVERBEARING. THERE IS SO MUCH TO A SCORP THAT IT CAN'T BE SUMMED UP. I KNOW THERE ISN'T A COMPARISON HOWEVER. AS FOR THE YOUNG LADY WHO SAID THAT SHE KNOWS AN ARIES WITH A SCORPIO MOON, I BET THE SCORPIO IN HER DOMINATES. NOBODY IS STRONGER, I ONCE READ THAT THE REASON WHY SCORPIOS ARE CONSIDERED TO BE THE STRONGEST SIGN IS, BECAUSE WE ARE REGENATIVE, AND LONG AFTER SUFFERING WE ARE NEVER DEFEATED LIKE OTER SIGNS. THEY SAY WE CAN HANDLE SO MUCH BEFORE BREAKING. AND IT'S FUNNY BECAUSE AS MUCH AS I HATE BEING MISUNDERSTOOD, I CAN STLL HANDLE A LOT MORE THAN OTHER PEOPLE CAN. UMMM NEVER BEEN WITH AN ARIES , I HAVE HAD A FEW RAPPED AROUND MY FINGERS AND YEAH THEY WEREN'T ANYTHING TO RUN HOME TO MAMA ABOUT, NO OFFENSE~. THEY WERE A BIT ARGUMENTATIVE AND THEY HAD HARD TIMES LETTING GO OF THEIR PAST.. THEY WILL HOLD ONTO THE PAST UNTIL THE WHEEL FALLS OFF. UMM AS FAR AS MENTAL STRENGTH , THEY ARE THE SIGN OF THE HEAD , WHICH MEANS THEY ARE PRONE TO HEAD INJURIES. iT ALSO MEANS THAT THEY MAY BE VERY SMART OR HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS OR HOLD ONTO PAIN FROM THEIR PAST. I don't think anyone is stronger than scorps mentally , I say this because scorps don't try hard at all, it comes natural. Mental strength comes natural, remember they are the most powerful sign , the sign of birth, re-birth, and death. THE SPIRITUALISTS))). I ONCE READ THAT SCORPIOS ARE THE ONLY SIGN THAT HAS THE POWER TO BECOME GENUISES. THEY ALL SAY THAT PLUTO IS OUR PLANET AND IT IS CONSIDERED TO BE ONE OF THE MOST ALSOME PLANETS ON EARTH AND DIFFERENT TOO. AS FAR AS PHYSICAL STRENGTH , THERE IS NO COMPARISON THERE, SCORPS ARE FIERCE COMPEITITORS. WE CAN DO ANYTHING IF WE PUT OUR MIND TO IT..... I THINK ARIES ARE A LITTLE ALL OVER THE PLACE AND NEED DIRECTION AND TO HAVE MORALS