Do you respect mellow People?

IHi,

I have an aries gif with an aries social circle. Boy they really push me to my limits. They are aggressive and blunt. I have a hard time fighting back when they get confrontative. Now I am totally on a rampage each time, I am overreacting. I am about to burn bridges and totally savage everything.

Why do we have a hard time fighting back? I have a few theories:

Are we too sensitive for bluntness?

Do we hate Confrontation?

Maybe we are just not cut out for aggressiveness? I heard that we thrive in Mellow surrounding.

I want to be able to aggressively put my foot down without chaning my nature.



They like it that I finally snap back, which offends me even more, because that implies that they didnt respect me just the way I am. They only respect because me Istart behaving like them.

I calmly replied each attack and now that I get loud too they respect me.

I always fight back just in a calm way. they seem only to hear me when I am fierce too. I guess diplomacy

is perceived as weakness.

Aries gif? What’s that?



I’m mellow myself for the most part.

I'm mellow for the most part. Every now and then I will have a ton of energy and want to be really active. At that point I hate people that are too chill.

I’m a pretty mellow Aries, I don’t understand this post, are you an Aries, or are you struggling with Aries?

I used to be really angry and blunt, very aggressive, but I’ve mellowed down a lot and I think Aries who mature respect calm and diplomatic relations verses conflict.

Reguardless anyone who can’t respect you and your nature has no place in your life, Aries or not. They simply are not of the maturity that you require to grow or be in healthy relationships.