SuperMissMan
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friend zoned by aries
Please don't be rude or sarcastic. Like seriously, I'm asking for your advice here. I need help with this, it actually is hurting me as of right now.
Heyyyy..long time no see, how are youuuuu 👋
what are his placements besides aries sun?
What did he say that made you think he's friendzoned you?
As an aries introvert I must say, I can act like I'm not interested in people due to low self esteem or fear of rejection.
As an aries introvert I must say, I can act like I'm not interested in people due to low self esteem or fear of rejection.
A scared Aries man? Hmm.. What are his moon & rising signs ? That doesn't sound like the typical Aries man.
Posted by AriesLoveYea, doesn't sound interested. I say friend zone his ass back.
I say just completely ignore him. He will probably get to thinking then.
Really nothing else to do. Anything else would be like chasing.
Posted by RumiLHello! I'm doing alright, how are you? 😄
Heyyyy..long time no see, how are youuuuu 👋
Posted by DMVFangirlOkay NO JUDGING! I'm still in high school, I do stupid things.
What were you doing to scare him?
I wouldn't hold my breath on a few Aries coming in to hurt your feelings lol. You'll just have to ignore it
And no, im not 14, I'm not a little high schooler xD Im 17 so again NO JUDGING!
Well his friends are also my friends, and I started to really like him, right? So one day they told him (without me telling them to, I didn't really care if they did or not because I was going to make my moves anyways)
So he knew I like him at this point, and we were sitting together at lunch and flirting a bit, and then I asked if he'd get me a straw and he did (yippie!) but I mostly wanted to show my BFF how nice his booty is 😆 and we looked and all, and then one of his friends was like, "They were checking out your ass when yoy left" and I didn't admit it but I said "you have a very nice ass, must be the baseball"
and anyways we were talking and whatnot, and he started looking at memes on his phone, so I took it, and put it in one of our friends bags, jokingly obviously, and then I was like nah, im not giving it back. but i pulled it out, and said AS A JOKE "maybe i should just put it in my bra" and everyone was like do it, so...after a few seconds of thinking, I did it, and I was like, if you want it, you're going to have to reach for it. And he always was saying how he'd do this or do that, and he's touched my boob before, not a big deal, right? well he didnt want to do it where everyone was so we were walking to class and I was like, go ahead and grab it if yoy want it (since he had a baseball game toget to) and he ended up getting mad so i gave it to him, and since then he was like weird and wouldnt say hi, he'd look me dead in the eye and avoid me.
and i'll tell you what he said in response to someone else because they asked me soecifically
Posted by losemybreathAfter almost a week of the silent treatment from him, I finally texted him after he did it hard core last night, and I said "hello to you too" "hope you had a good game" and then I got upset and said "You know, I'm not twelve years old. Yes, I kind if like you and i'm sure I freaked you out, but i'm still perfectly capable of being a friend"
What did he say that made you think he's friendzoned you?
As an aries introvert I must say, I can act like I'm not interested in people due to low self esteem or fear of rejection.
and ge responded something like this (when i get my phone back tonight i'll tyoe it word or word) "im sorry, i didnt handle that as well as i could have, i shouldnt have freaked out like i did....friends?"
and I was mad so i was like "nah" "just kidding maybe" and Then i said something orivably stupid -> "And i'm sorry for putting your phone in my bra, but it was funny AF. Shoulda reached for it 😉" and I havent checked my phone since but today he did the same thing, and would sit there, look me dead in the eye and not even give me a hello.
And at lunch, I actually wanted to see how he'd react if i foirted with one of my guy friends at our usual table, and he kept looking at me, and I would look at him, look away immidiatley and say nothing to him, and he was right across from me, like his feet were touching mine. Nothing. he kept looking at me, and ince in a while jump into my conversation or laugh at something i was saying to the others, but that was it. He is so confusing. Like we clarified we can be friends, I'm down with it, Yes i like him and I'll continually make jokes about it if it comes but I'm not going to sit there and beg for him, and be like heart broken and shit. So i dont get why he cant just be friends without being all weird.
Posted by Pandora101I have no idea, but i'm not about to ask him, nor talk to him period until he decides i'm worth talking to.
what are his placements besides aries sun?
Posted by SofiaV87Oh believe me I am. I like him, and I figure I'll try to get out if that friend zone the chance I can, and do what it takes, but meanwhile, i'm going to enjoy myself and go on a date with a Leo i used to have a major crush on when i was little ŠŠðŸ· Cheers!Posted by AriesLoveYea, doesn't sound interested. I say friend zone his ass back.
I say just completely ignore him. He will probably get to thinking then.
Really nothing else to do. Anything else would be like chasing.click to expand
Arggghhh I am just going to ignore him again.
Ignore. Him.
Yea girl you came on quite strong but, I get it in the same way when I like someone. Just be at ease. Avoid him. You're giving him too much attention and he doesn't deserve it. You also have to look at it as you're 17 but, mentally, he's 14 if he's 17. Boys immature slower so, his mind state isn't the same probably. He may be intimidated or scared cause he's a child mentally.
Posted by SuperMissMando you know his birthday? emotions and love is ruled by other planets than sun...... he can be an aries, but maybe venus in taurus for example would make him "shy" and slowPosted by Pandora101I have no idea, but i'm not about to ask him, nor talk to him period until he decides i'm worth talking to.
what are his placements besides aries sun?click to expand
Posted by DMVFangirlI tried that though. We agreed to be friends, and he is still weird. He will look at me when we pass by and say absolutley nothing, and the ony time he talked to me or payed any sort of attention to me was at lunch when i was talking to one of my friends. But i agree, one yes I actually respected him for that, and two I come on very very strong and I know it freaks people out.
I don't think he's immature. I think you're just coming on a little too strong and it probably feels a little emasculating to him. You're flirting like an Aries Venus that challenges people but he may have a different Venus and just views that as you testing his manhood. "Touch my boob if you're man enough." ...and touching your boob as a challenge is not sexy to him. I actually applaud him for not doing it. He's respecting you.
I would say ease way up and chill out with the banter a little bit. Aries egos can be sensitive lol, and you playing that "I like you! Jk I don't like you!" game is not gonna win you any points. Try to be a friend first and gain his trust then he will banter with you.
Posted by SaggyjgalShould I just hang out with other friends then?
Yea girl you came on quite strong but, I get it in the same way when I like someone. Just be at ease. Avoid him. You're giving him too much attention and he doesn't deserve it. You also have to look at it as you're 17 but, mentally, he's 14 if he's 17. Boys immature slower so, his mind state isn't the same probably. He may be intimidated or scared cause he's a child mentally.
It's difficult to avoid him, I see him all the time, and also, I feel like that would worsen things.
Posted by Pandora101Posted by SuperMissMando you know his birthday? emotions and love is ruled by other planets than sun...... he can be an aries, but maybe venus in taurus for example would make him "shy" and slowPosted by Pandora101I have no idea, but i'm not about to ask him, nor talk to him period until he decides i'm worth talking to.
what are his placements besides aries sun?click to expand
I have no idea what his birthday is. I assume though that his Mercury is similar to mine because we communicate really well. so thats a plus.
but wouldn't it be more his mars into play of how he is relationshipwise?
If someone did those things to me when I was your age, I'd probably be mad too lol
It takes a lot for Aries people to learn how to deal with being the laughing matter of a situation. If you read this forum, you'll find old folks that still can't deal with it.
And the way you messaged him later was kinda shitty. Why not just say "I'm really sorry, I was trying to be flirty but ended up being a jerk" or something. Instead, you teased him even more.
I couldn't advise you anything different from what people already said here, though. Young aries men are idiots, so you'd be better off just ignoring him realy.
It takes a lot for Aries people to learn how to deal with being the laughing matter of a situation. If you read this forum, you'll find old folks that still can't deal with it.
And the way you messaged him later was kinda shitty. Why not just say "I'm really sorry, I was trying to be flirty but ended up being a jerk" or something. Instead, you teased him even more.
I couldn't advise you anything different from what people already said here, though. Young aries men are idiots, so you'd be better off just ignoring him realy.
Posted by losemybreathI honestly didn't think he was so upset about it until he was STILL not talking to me. I did apologise after I did it though, because I could tell he was getting mad.
If someone did those things to me when I was your age, I'd probably be mad too lol
It takes a lot for Aries people to learn how to deal with being the laughing matter of a situation. If you read this forum, you'll find old folks that still can't deal with it.
And the way you messaged him later was kinda shitty. Why not just say "I'm really sorry, I was trying to be flirty but ended up being a jerk" or something. Instead, you teased him even more.
I couldn't advise you anything different from what people already said here, though. Young aries men are idiots, so you'd be better off just ignoring him realy.
I wouldn't say he's an idiot, but he is pretty immature. Yesterday I needed help with Trig, and I had a problem and it included "69" and him and his best friend started laughing so...
But I would ignore him, but he's actually talking to me now. Not really sure why. He knew I was mad that he wasn't yesterday since I soent lunch talking to someone else, but today in the morning He passed by me walking with friends, and he said Hi like he was showing off that he ACTUALLT decided to do it, and it was whatever.
So id he talks to me now, how do I just ignore him?
Posted by aquaniboh hahaha so "adorable"
Don't y'all love kids' stories. I mean the phone in the bra, come 'n get it if you dare!!!...hahahahaha ...good times LOL
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Do you know the important word in asstrology we called it "BIRTH CHART".
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Do you know the important word in asstrology we called it "BIRTH CHART".
He just started talking to me yesterday, and today.
I'm going to ask his birthday and time when I can. Maybe i'll ask if he wants me to explain his chart to him 🙂
Posted by DMVFangirlOh my :0 sexist af lmao
Do nice things for him that a girl is supposed to do lol. I used to flirt like you when I was young too. "Your shoes are ugly" 😆 and I thought that was flirting. Just bring him a cookie or a cupcake and don't say anything...just leave. "I got this for you"
Be nice little Aries Venus. Once you are in the safe zone you can give him all the shit you want. But he doesn't know how to take you right now. Hence him just staring at you and not saying anything. If he wasn't interested you would think he didn't even know you were alive. He would pay you no mind at all
I'm sure there was some interest there because his friends keep saying things like he's shy, and that I should "ask him out" (hell no) but I really think I scared him off for now.
But that's actually a really good idea. I could compliment him too I suppose....or is that only a Leo thing?
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