Help! I really like an Aries man but he seems uninterested.

I met this Aries man online a 2 years ago and we stopped talking because he would only message me at night. I told him that it didn't look good and he basically told me "have a good one". We only went on one date before this happened and didn't sleep together. I ended up dating two other people in the past two years. I ended up messaging him a couple weeks ago on Facebook after recently being single. Again, he would reply to my texts like he wasn't interested and would only message me at night, but I think he's super hot so I pursued. We flirted and what not over text and since he works two jobs, I went over to his house on a week night to watch a movie. Well we had sex and I stayed for almost 4 hours just talking to him and cuddling. I finally left and it was my idea. He told me to text him when I got home and I did. After that he's been off and on with messaging me. We were supposed to go on a date this past Saturday and he didn't text me all day because he worked both jobs apparently and I eventually texted him asking if he's working late and he said he was. I was so upset because I could have made other plans. I told him straight up and he said, "I just worked 30 hours in 2 days and you're already mad lol". What?? After that we didn't talk for two days until today but he looks at all my snap sand insta stories. He replied to one of my stories and I gave him a one word response like he does to me all the time and then an hour later I sent him a text asking how his day was. I'm just wondering if I should just stop talking to him because I don't want to get played or hurt. There is just something about him though! I know I gave him sex too early but why would he respond to my texts still if he already got what he wanted? Please be nice this is my first Aries lol

I think you’re making it too easy for him. Aries like a challenge. Ignoring him is pointless unless you wanna wait another two years. Difficult to know the complete story based on what you’ve said. Mentally I don’t think you’ll get him, you need to fight back but you aren’t.

But you are available to have sex right?.. just not today, tomorrow is good. And maybe there is that restaurant you want to try, and then both of you can go back to his place after that, to watch another movie, except maybe after dinner you just realised you have a really busy day tomorrow and you have to go home instead?, because you can’t stay out late, not tonight anyway, next time. So yeah sex, it’s there, I’ll message you tomorrow anyway, could you book a restaurant for us. Thanks....

you getting any of this?

Then you don’t text but he will, cos sex is on the table now, except where is it? Don’t worry, it’s coming when he’s bought you dinner... maybe?

If you don’t get this then never mind. But he’s just it to you about dinner. He has no need to buy you dinner if he can just have sex easy. Makes you feel cheap, makes you want him more. So you need to fight back, make him want you. Anyway good luck.

I get where you both are coming from, but how do I go about fighting back. I don't want to scare him off with being too demanding. I post a lot of photos of my body on instagram and snapchat since I work out and it doesn't make him seem intrigued or jealous. I did send him a promiscuous photo of myself in lingerie the other day and he wanted me to come over but I said no. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I should mention that his Venus is in Aries and mine is in Leo.

Posted by virgosuncapricornmoon
I met this Aries man online a 2 years ago and we stopped talking because he would only message me at night. I told him that it didn't look good and he basically told me "have a good one".

I ended up messaging him a couple weeks ago on Facebook after recently being single. Again, he would reply to my texts like he wasn't interested and would only message me at night, but I think he's super hot so I pursued.

I went over to his house on a week night to watch a movie. Well we had sex

I did send him a promiscuous photo of myself in lingerie the other day and he wanted me to come over but I said no. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks.

I'm just wondering if I should just stop talking to him because I don't want to get played or hurt. There is just something about him though! I know I gave him sex too early but why would he respond to my texts still if he already got what he wanted?

I think your confused baby girl. He didn’t get what “he wanted”, he got what you freely gave and also wanted.

You reached out to him first, because you were lonely and/or horny and he was looking fine af. Thing is, there was nothing to indicate that he had changed in the last two years. And when he exhibited the same behavior you cut him off for two years ago, well this time you just rolled with it. And went to his house. And gave him sex.

So if you wanted to build a friendship or a relationship, kinda screwed yourself there. Your leading with sex (pics your sending him). You pursued. Only foundation you have right now is sex.

This isn’t a question of him “hurting or playing” you. This is a question of your own expectations hurting you. Don’t play yourself.

Wait. Aren’t things going well? Like I just re-read you post. He was busy with work so he couldn’t text you. He replied to your messages. I think the problem might be you are obsessed with social media? Things on social media are not real and I would never comment on a girl’s post, it’s cheap and then you have like 100 other weirdo men saying crap after that, so why join in with them like a sheep. Why don’t you think he’s interested? I think he might be.

Play the field sis.

Don’t give in too easily to him. Just go about your day. Be very nonchalant, engage in conversation, flirt, bat the eyelashes like all Virgals do and then right as he gets comfortable...

Detach. Keep him guessing.

Aries x Virgo

Bad match,

Not spontaneous enough to take him by the horn and lead him to fun

tbh u lost me at “it looks bad he texts me only at night” then after you said he has two jobs. THEN you gave him sex anyway after all that fuss being a lady

Posted by virgosuncapricornmoon
I get where you both are coming from, but how do I go about fighting back. I don't want to scare him off with being too demanding. I post a lot of photos of my body on instagram and snapchat since I work out and it doesn't make him seem intrigued or jealous. I did send him a promiscuous photo of myself in lingerie the other day and he wanted me to come over but I said no. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I should mention that his Venus is in Aries and mine is in Leo.

You are putting everything right out there and not presenting anything remotely close to a challenge for this guy. You've already given him sex and now provocative pictures of what he's already seen up close and in person. What is there left for him to discover about you? Also why do you continue to contact him instead of letting him do the chasing. You can't run away what you don't have.

It doesn't even have anything to do with him being an Aries. If you offer it to a man, a man will take it.

I once asked my best friend (A Leo man) why men do that.

His answer was so simple, but profound:

"Because women let us"

I didn’t read your whole post, too long. which tells me you’re a normal Virgo who’s thinking way too much into it. I’ve been with my Aries girls for a while now and my brother is an Aries and one of my best friends is an Aries. let them know how you feel and then wait for them to come to you. simple as that.