How to win my aries lady back?

This aries lady and i were dating for 3 and a half year. We had fun and all stuff. Started last december, her feelings changed but we still had some dates last January. I tried to win her back trying to call and txt her but she doesnt reply much on my messages. She did not even greeted me for the valentine. The day after valentine's day, i asked her to go out and talk but she said "no, enough for talking". I didn't know what to do that triggered my anger and messaged her few things that i believed she got hurt. She doesn't want to talk to me and doesnt reply my messages even for important matters. She doesnt want to see me. And i no longer know where she goes because her work is mixed with provincial trips. I did everything like talking to her mom and sister but she doesnt want to listen to them, actually she even got mad to her mom. I feel that she's really hurt but i want to win her back because i love her so much. I tried to wait outside their office then ran after her and asked her for a talk but she really doesnt like to talk. I asked her to go to the car with me and we will just talk on our way home but she really doesnt like to. On that day which is the other day, she changed her password on her fb and on her email because i asked her if who is that person that she checked on lovers and friends compatibility c/o astrology.com. I am not sure if she has someone in her heart but i hope not.

Please help me on this because i want to win her back. I really need her back and i want to be there with her again solving all problems that we have.

Please give me some advice.

thanks

Thanks champranger. Do you mean that i have to stop totally of txting or calling her?

yes stop contact and she she what she does

what is your sign btw?

what you mean "she she what she does"? my sign is libra actually

sorry *see* what she does.

just fall back and the let the situation evolve naturally. She has already expressed what she wants. Let her have that. Give her what she wants and that is space.

thanks bkbella86. i guess this is hard but i will. Do you think she has to see me sometimes or not?

Yeah... funny thing I had a similar story with this Libra guy in my life (Italian)... came on WAY TOO strong talking about marriage and stuff and we had only just met!... even though he was very good looking and smart, him coming on too strong killed it for me. As an Aries woman I would not want someone in my life who needed me so bad. Turn it down a notch. Just relax. If it works out it works out. If not, you still have your own life to live.

Thanks guys, i will try my best. The only problem is that every 21st of the month, we try to be together before for a celebration but ended up january. I will try not to communicate with her for today. Hahaha. quite hard but i will try.

You must have done something to really piss her off. Aries, once they like you, will still talk to you unless it was something really bad. Plus, you're a Libra and you're running that hard behind someone—?? WOW, guess male and female Libra's are wired totally different. Once I let someone know that I'm interested in them, and they don't bite, it's time to move on and let it go.

Posted by musmh521
"no, enough for talking".

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without reading the rest of the post, when an aries chick says this:

= I have had enough with talks going nowhere. We had a conflict that had to be resolved in an action or in a change of the current situation and you keep talking in circles.

IMO.

She's either really pissed off or she's already one foot and a half out of the door. From what it seems, it would do you good to let her go.

She didn't get hurt over the messages you sent after she already told you there was enough talking. I think she wanted out and you never got the hint and kept pursuing her.