if you go NC on Aries forever?

Aries, how would you feel and your reaction
if later down the road you realise someone block your number and all chat-apps?

Well..what would you like them to react? Cuz that's what the topic is about and not you being genuinely interested/curious.

If you're thinking of running game, at least be smarter than that.

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it might hurt at first..but after five seconds, we're like meh *shrugs shoulders* and let it go. We don't hold on to things tbh. If I were to ever directly or indirectly encounter the person that blocked me again, I would probably avoid or ignore he/she, because of my pride.

Posted by scorchedearth
if you're gonna block someone and never talk to them again you shouldn't be worried about how they'll react. at that point you should be done with them. if you're worried about what they'll do then you're not really done and you're doing it to play games/get attention.

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OP- Aries reaction? "Oh, well bye bitch."

Sucks for you that you think being an attention whore will get you anywhere with an Aries. Naive, young Aries may fall for it, but older, experienced ones can spot that bullshit from a mile away. You think you're some prince/princess that deserves to have someone wallowing at your feet? Bitch, please.

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Posted by scorchedearth
if you're gonna block someone and never talk to them again you shouldn't be worried about how they'll react. at that point you should be done with them. if you're worried about what they'll do then you're not really done and you're doing it to play games/get attention.

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OP- Aries reaction? "Oh, well bye bitch."

Sucks for you that you think being an attention whore will get you anywhere with an Aries. Naive, young Aries may fall for it, but older, experienced ones can spot that bullshit from a mile away. You think you're some prince/princess that deserves to have someone wallowing at your feet? Bitch, please.

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Lol as an older, experienced Aries I agree with you 100%

I experienced this behaviour from a cancer male a while ago.

A few days after an argument he bombarded me with phone calls and msg's and when that didn't work he tried messaging my friends hoping for a reaction. Then when he didn't get one he blocked me on facebook. Why, I don't know as I had no intention of communicating with him again. I only noticed because i happened to be in my messages and noticed his picture was gone lol.

I had a good giggle about it and carried on with my day without giving it a second thought lol

My first major involvement was with a Pisces. Between he and another male Pisces friend, I learned real fast wtf manipulation was to get reactions. They're notorious for saying/doing shit to get reactions out of people for shits in giggles or otherwise.

After that, it was just a matter of being able to see the same bs from others generally.

Posted by INTJBull
I blocked an Aries guys phone number before. Not for attention but because he was genuinely getting on my fucking nerves with his hot/cold head games.

I guess it was maybe 6-7 months later I get a friend request from Aries on Facebook. I accepted it because at this point I'm over the annoyance. He says nothing. I wait a few days & message him....

Me: Did you send a friend request with no intention of speaking to me or?
Aries: Yes, I want to speak to you...... why have you been ignoring my calls & texts for like a year?

lol so maybe some Aries will shrug their shoulders & move on but not all do. Seems to me like my letting go & moving on with my life only made me a challenge.

Oh also... the time that I deleted him from Facebook he messaged me within 10 seconds & said: I can't believe you really deleted me, I want you so bad right now, can I come over? Soooo maybe I just had one that enjoys being rejected.....

I've actually known a couple of Aries men like that.

Im not sure if they're genuinely oblivious to the rejection and think you are playing a game of chase me and accept the non existent challenge. Or they know and like you suggest they enjoy being rejected.

I dated one many years ago for 8mths from the march ended it with him on nye (dates will make sense as I go on)

The following march around my bday I met my sons dad and we were together four years.
The Aries would randomly turn up at my house and call me knowing I was with someone else. He stopped when my partner answered the door 1 time lol

Funny enough I am friends with him now and if the subject of our time together ever comes up he tells people we were together for nearly 18mths _—
He won't be told different and it's easier to just changed the subject. I think in his mind we were still together until my then partner answered the door.
Lol

Posted by INTJBull
I blocked an Aries guys phone number before. Not for attention but because he was genuinely getting on my fucking nerves with his hot/cold head games.

I guess it was maybe 6-7 months later I get a friend request from Aries on Facebook. I accepted it because at this point I'm over the annoyance. He says nothing. I wait a few days & message him....

Me: Did you send a friend request with no intention of speaking to me or?
Aries: Yes, I want to speak to you...... why have you been ignoring my calls & texts for like a year?

lol so maybe some Aries will shrug their shoulders & move on but not all do. Seems to me like my letting go & moving on with my life only made me a challenge.

Oh also... the time that I deleted him from Facebook he messaged me within 10 seconds & said: I can't believe you really deleted me, I want you so bad right now, can I come over? Soooo maybe I just had one that enjoys being rejected.....

Men are different. It's all about that thang.

As far as someone blocking me, I laugh at how important I must have been.

Then, I feel awkward about you and, what I perceive as, your level of emotional intensity. Should I need to protect myself? Are they crazy? Might they stalk? I hope they get satisfaction from blocking.

Lastly, relief... don't feel like this shit.

(Air dominant Aries)

This response made me chuckle. People that block you aren't trying to seeing you, and im not sure about this, but I'm pretty sure no laws are violated by not trying to see you. You can, however, get a restraining order for a habitual unwanted contact, with facebook being proof of such actions.

When someone blocks you, they are preventing that avenue of communication. Unless they are blocking and unblocking you to get messages through and then disappear, I would say this is a healthy option to choose when you want someone "out of sight and out of mind."

I, along with many friends, have people on our block list. I'm not crazy and I'm sure they arent. I've never stalked anyone on my block list. By blocking them, I'm trying to avoid them.

If they were a former friend, that means that their profile will continue to pop up under my People You May Know. It means they will continue to pop up in my search bar. It means their family and friends will occasionally pop up as suggestions.
I don't need a daily reminder of a relationship that once was or ended bitterly.

Unless they are using the block for nefarious reasons, like to create an alternate account to contact you while pretending to avoid you, I'd say that reason that the majority of people block others on facebook is, simply, becAuse they do not want to see you or communicate with you. I'm sure that there are instances where this isn't the case, but for the majority, they're just trying to move on. It's equivalent to passing someone in the halls, and after high school, who wants that?

Facebook isn't real anyways. It's just an image, a snapshot, a profile. So big whoop.

Posted by VenusAquarius
As far as someone blocking me, I laugh at how important I must have been.

Then, I feel awkward about you and, what I perceive as, your level of emotional intensity. Should I need to protect myself? Are they crazy? Might they stalk? I hope they get satisfaction from blocking.

Lastly, relief... don't feel like this shit.

(Air dominant Aries)

This response made me chuckle. People that block you aren't trying to seeing you, and im not sure about this, but I'm pretty sure no laws are violated by not trying to see you. You can, however, get a restraining order for a habitual unwanted contact, with facebook being proof of such actions.

When someone blocks you, they are preventing that avenue of communication. Unless they are blocking and unblocking you to get messages through and then disappear, I would say this is a healthy option to choose when you want someone "out of sight and out of mind."

I, along with many friends, have people on our block list. I'm not crazy and I'm sure they arent. I've never stalked anyone on my block list. By blocking them, I'm trying to avoid them.

If they were a former friend, that means that their profile will continue to pop up under my People You May Know. It means they will continue to pop up in my search bar. It means their family and friends will occasionally pop up as suggestions.
I don't need a daily reminder of a relationship that once was or ended bitterly.

Unless they are using the block for nefarious reasons, like to create an alternate account to contact you while pretending to avoid you, I'd say that reason that the majority of people block others on facebook is, simply, becAuse they do not want to see you or communicate with you. I'm sure that there are instances where this isn't the case, but for the majority, they're just trying to move on. It's equivalent to passing someone in the halls, and after high school, who wants that?

Facebook isn't real anyways. It's just an image, a snapshot, a profile. So big whoop.

Posted by VenusAquarius
As far as someone blocking me, I laugh at how important I must have been.

Then, I feel awkward about you and, what I perceive as, your level of emotional intensity. Should I need to protect myself? Are they crazy? Might they stalk? I hope they get satisfaction from blocking.

Lastly, relief... don't feel like this shit.

(Air dominant Aries)

Screw the person who does that

Posted by AquaAngel
Aries, how would you feel and your reaction
if later down the road you realise someone block your number and all chat-apps?

I would laugh at them getting butthurt. I would seriously laugh very hard. Then take a shit.

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Posted by AquaAngel
Aries, how would you feel and your reaction
if later down the road you realise someone block your number and all chat-apps?

I would laugh at them getting butthurt. I would seriously laugh very hard. Then take a shit.

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LOL

Posted by AquaAngel
Aries, how would you feel and your reaction
if later down the road you realise someone block your number and all chat-apps?

if we sincerely like you or realize that we like you we go nuts sincerely

Most of the Aries in my life have held MAJOR grudges and then one day they just seem to get over it (could be months, could be a year or more).

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Posted by AquaAngel
Aries, how would you feel and your reaction
if later down the road you realise someone block your number and all chat-apps?

if we sincerely like you or realize that we like you we go nuts sincerely

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lol this is true. Most of the time I don't care. But if I feel like I haven't gotten a real chance to be understood by the person it upsets me and I think constantly about what I could have done differently. It leaves me feeling so unresolved and confused if it was me or just them playing with me or just a weird unfair issue they had with me or... anxiety anxiety anxiety.

If someone I like rejects me I just want to know why first, to make sure it's not a misunderstanding.

However, if I didn't like the person much or have much interest in them, I don't care. If I know the game they are playing, I don't care. If I know them well enough to understand them / feel like they understand me, it hurts a little but the pain turns to hatered which fades and I move on pretty quickly.