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How Venus Mars in Aries Affects Impulsiveness in Relationships
Venus and Mars in Aries can make someone act quickly and passionately in love, often leading to impulsive decisions. The square to Neptune may introduce confusion or idealism, increasing the risk of impulsive or unrealistic relationship choices. Understanding these influences can help manage impulsiveness and make more mindful relationship decisions.
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Never met. Hmmm what could go wrong....
Yes.
Even if they didn't, he is still obviously impulsive.
Is he bringing her to the States?
Or do they both live in Malaysia?
Posted by Montgomery
Yes.Even if they didn't, he is still obviously impulsive.
Is he bringing her to the States?
Or do they both live in Malaysia?
He lives in the US, she lives in Malaysia. He's married a girl he knew for 3 months, and that lasted 1 month. And I think he's gonna go there, marry her, then bring her here. But ideally he wants to bring her here(US) on a travel visa(I think that's what it's called), then marry her so she will have citizenship. She was divorced before and he doesn't know because she told him she was never married.
He's not impulsive; he's a total loon
Posted by AriesGirl74
He's not impulsive; he's a total loon
Lol, could be that.
Posted by miamivirgo
Never met. Hmmm what could go wrong....
I know..-.- he won't listen to my advice to meet her first.
He told me everything, except the bit about her being married.
I found that out myself.
Posted by AriesGirl74
He's not impulsive; he's a total loon
Absolutely right!!!! He is a MORON!!! She's obviously using him for the USA citizenship and pays him in sex.
Posted by AriesGirl74
He's not impulsive; he's a total loonAbsolutely right!!!! He is a MORON!!! She's obviously using him for the USA citizenship and pays him in sex.
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+1!!
...then it'll be the bank account next!!
Posted by AriesGirl74
He's not impulsive; he's a total loonAbsolutely right!!!! He is a MORON!!! She's obviously using him for the USA citizenship and pays him in sex.
+1!!
...then it'll be the bank account next!!click to expand
HA! not sex...yet. They still have to meet!
Desperate much?
one ticket 2 malaysia plz i need to get my new piece
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Desperate much?
He told me she's stable when I've called him desperate "and he's lived his whole life being unstable" hmm..
All you can do as his friend is pick up the pieces when the sh!t hits the fan :/
A Malaysian chick
And a American.
2 months.
Getting married.
American is horny and most likely a loser.
Malaysian is being a woman and has smelled her prey...
In the end, American loses.
Posted by AriesGirl74
He's not impulsive; he's a total loonAbsolutely right!!!! He is a MORON!!! She's obviously using him for the USA citizenship and pays him in sex.
+1!!
...then it'll be the bank account next!!HA! not sex...yet. They still have to meet!
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THAT'S how those girls hook those guys up!!! The girl's country is notorious for sex tourism. So some of those girls promise stupid American guys that type of sex. I'm not calling this particular girl a whore. So don't jump on my throat. But ANYONE else thinks it SUSPICIOUS that they haven't met & he's marrying her? I know a scenario very similar to this one that broke up an engagement. Girl from Thailand met a friend's cousin on Facebook & he went to see her in Thailand while he was engaged. Needles to say that engagement didn't work out.
Excuse me.
I'm a Malaysian and I certainly don't see call girls soliciting man at the roadside in Malaysia.
In the case of Thailand, it reminds me of Vegas.
Posted by AriesGirl74
All you can do as his friend is pick up the pieces when the sh!t hits the fan :/+1. I wonder what his family says?
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They don't know..I'm the only one that knows right now, besides the girl's parents *supposedly*
Posted by SilentGhost
A Malaysian chickAnd a American.
2 months.
Getting married.
American is horny and most likely a loser.
Malaysian is being a woman and has smelled her prey...
In the end, American loses.
Oh man. :/
Posted by AriesGirl74
All you can do as his friend is pick up the pieces when the sh!t hits the fan :/
I know..but it's gonna be SO hard to not say "I told you so"
Posted by AriesGirl74
All you can do as his friend is pick up the pieces when the sh!t hits the fan :/I know..but it's gonna be SO hard to not say "I told you so"
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The way you do it is to pat him on the back, say "there there dear" but say the "I told you so" under your breath. He'll know that you're there for him, whilst simultaneously never knowing you think he's a love-sick loon.
For all you know this could be his meal ticket and he just hasn't told you...
What does he do for work? People get paid to marry and provide citizenship a lot. This may have nothing to do with love and romance and everything to do with business...
I had a taurus buddy who got done big time with this. He met a girl in Thailand and he bought her family a villa and a farm... Then bought himself an apartment to stay in when he saw her once a year, he paid for her English lessons and set up a home here in Australia to bring her back to... He travelled back and forth multiple times and sent her money every month and had her over for a stay to meet his friends about midway through.
What I'm saying is if it's a scam there'd be more to it.
The engagement was broken off but by my reckoning her family and herself probs got away with at least 100k after a whirlwind romance.
This Aries mate situation doesn't have the same feel to it, I think it could be a conscious decision and he may be gaining from it.
Posted by wagtail
For all you know this could be his meal ticket and he just hasn't told you...
What does he do for work? People get paid to marry and provide citizenship a lot. This may have nothing to do with love and romance and everything to do with business...I had a taurus buddy who got done big time with this. He met a girl in Thailand and he bought her family a villa and a farm... Then bought himself an apartment to stay in when he saw her once a year, he paid for her English lessons and set up a home here in Australia to bring her back to... He travelled back and forth multiple times and sent her money every month and had her over for a stay to meet his friends about midway through.
What I'm saying is if it's a scam there'd be more to it.
The engagement was broken off but by my reckoning her family and herself probs got away with at least 100k after a whirlwind romance.This Aries mate situation doesn't have the same feel to it, I think it could be a conscious decision and he may be gaining from it.
He deliver pizza, he's actually an Aquarius, it's just his venus and mars that are in Aries.
How do you know this woman is actually a woman?
Posted by LunarMaiden
How do you know this woman is actually a woman?
LOL!!!!
Harsh LM...funny but harsh
;P
Posted by LunarMaiden
How do you know this woman is actually a woman?
Was thinking it, but wasn't gonna say it. I've seen pics of her but you never know lol!
Posted by wagtail
For all you know this could be his meal ticket and he just hasn't told you...
What does he do for work? People get paid to marry and provide citizenship a lot. This may have nothing to do with love and romance and everything to do with business...I had a taurus buddy who got done big time with this. He met a girl in Thailand and he bought her family a villa and a farm... Then bought himself an apartment to stay in when he saw her once a year, he paid for her English lessons and set up a home here in Australia to bring her back to... He travelled back and forth multiple times and sent her money every month and had her over for a stay to meet his friends about midway through.
What I'm saying is if it's a scam there'd be more to it.
The engagement was broken off but by my reckoning her family and herself probs got away with at least 100k after a whirlwind romance.This Aries mate situation doesn't have the same feel to it, I think it could be a conscious decision and he may be gaining from it.
I agree though, he's getting something out of this. I don't think he loves this girl or vice versa..I just hope he's safe about it.
Posted by wagtail
For all you know this could be his meal ticket and he just hasn't told you...
What does he do for work? People get paid to marry and provide citizenship a lot. This may have nothing to do with love and romance and everything to do with business...I had a taurus buddy who got done big time with this. He met a girl in Thailand and he bought her family a villa and a farm... Then bought himself an apartment to stay in when he saw her once a year, he paid for her English lessons and set up a home here in Australia to bring her back to... He travelled back and forth multiple times and sent her money every month and had her over for a stay to meet his friends about midway through.
What I'm saying is if it's a scam there'd be more to it.
The engagement was broken off but by my reckoning her family and herself probs got away with at least 100k after a whirlwind romance.This Aries mate situation doesn't have the same feel to it, I think it could be a conscious decision and he may be gaining from it.
He deliver pizza, he's actually an Aquarius, it's just his venus and mars that are in Aries.
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Eh, I've noticed that some Air signs aren't the best when making life choices. These placements may be making him more impulsive on such shitty decisions.
I'm not really surprised with your friend now that you mention his sun sign. I have an Aqua friend who did something similar and she had a tendency of doing such impulsive, mindless things. It's maddening and sad to watch because she has kids and doesn't take them into consideration at all.
Posted by wagtail
For all you know this could be his meal ticket and he just hasn't told you...
What does he do for work? People get paid to marry and provide citizenship a lot. This may have nothing to do with love and romance and everything to do with business...I had a taurus buddy who got done big time with this. He met a girl in Thailand and he bought her family a villa and a farm... Then bought himself an apartment to stay in when he saw her once a year, he paid for her English lessons and set up a home here in Australia to bring her back to... He travelled back and forth multiple times and sent her money every month and had her over for a stay to meet his friends about midway through.
What I'm saying is if it's a scam there'd be more to it.
The engagement was broken off but by my reckoning her family and herself probs got away with at least 100k after a whirlwind romance.This Aries mate situation doesn't have the same feel to it, I think it could be a conscious decision and he may be gaining from it.
He deliver pizza, he's actually an Aquarius, it's just his venus and mars that are in Aries.
Eh, I've noticed that some Air signs aren't the best when making life choices. These placements may be making him more impulsive on such shitty decisions.
I'm not really surprised with your friend now that you mention his sun sign. I have an Aqua friend who did something similar and she had a tendency of doing such impulsive, mindless things. It's maddening and sad to watch because she has kids and doesn't take them into consideration at all.
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It really is sad. I've tried to talk him out of it (he's fought with her and complained about her many times already) and it seems like it's going in one ear and out the other.
This guy is why shows like catfish exist.
Those guys come in, question the victim, and it's SO obvious something is wrong, yet they do not see it.
Are people seriously that desperate for someone to like/love them? Gawd.
honestly I'm not sure if they've ever Skyped but they text on some app called viber. She's always at work or with her parents and she rents a house in city near her job and she's a teacher but suddenly last night when he brought up the getting married thing she said that she was having doubts because she didn't have money how are you a teacher with no money?? on top of that the connection is supposedly always horrible. this guy has proven to be a great friend to me but he is not the brightest bulb....
Posted by mgmtlove
this guy has proven to be a great friend to me but he is not the brightest bulb....
Clearly... :/
Posted by mgmtlove
this guy has proven to be a great friend to me but he is not the brightest bulb....Clearly... :/
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He's proven it before this,though. About 3 months before meeting this girl, he almost moved to California to live with another girl he knew for two months.
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I have a friend marrying a girl in Malaysia he's never met in person and has known for 2 months. Would is Venus & Mars in Aries make him impulsive in love/relationships? They also square his Neptune which is in Capricorn.