LibraMan123
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Posted by LibraMan123
Rocky road, well, interestingly enough, after entering in past girlfriend birthdate info into that site, the ratings all seemed to be in harmony with how successful and meaningful each relationship was.
What site did you use? Because the sites I used suck balls. I mean they correlate well to what I interpret when comparing a certain partner's chart with mine... but, the best ("most harmonious") rating I got was with a Leo with a scorp moon (dated many leos) and can I say that was such BS... he was the most boring person I had ever met. My point is don't depend completely on those sites and astrology. Yes, it is good to look into compatibility but it's also good to be on the same page. Because you guys can be the most compatible sign on this earth but if she's not feeling it or is not even on the same page as you... you can forget it!
Granted, the site doesn't included birth times and locations, but astromatch.net has shown some good correlation with my past relationships. Kinda cool.
Posted by LibraMan123
Granted, the site doesn't included birth times and locations, but astromatch.net has shown some good correlation with my past relationships. Kinda cool.
Thanks!
Nothing wrong with eager. Just tone it down so you don't seem like you're rushing in.
Also, I checked that thing out.
Sorry dude, way too basic to give any definitive correlations or conclusions.
I'd prefer to see specific dates and times in order to figure out compatibility. Astrologically speaking, there are too many other factors in a birth chart that determine those supposed ratings that this site provides.
I compared the info from this site to another that asks for time and place of birth using the info from the last guy I dated. Your link says it's a pretty high match. The other that asked for specifics had mostly bad things to say about the pairing. The latter was true in most of the negative aspects between our charts.
I think because you're in a puppy love stage, you want it to tell you this will work because you want it to at the moment. Anything that tells you it will just makes your heart (and crotch) all happy.
Regardless, don't use all this to determine if things will work. Sure, Aries and Libra are opposites and can attract to eachother easily, and it working is another story, but realistically, you both are just two people whom one has an attraction to the other. Let it go from there.
Sorry dude, way too basic to give any definitive correlations or conclusions.
I'd prefer to see specific dates and times in order to figure out compatibility. Astrologically speaking, there are too many other factors in a birth chart that determine those supposed ratings that this site provides.
I compared the info from this site to another that asks for time and place of birth using the info from the last guy I dated. Your link says it's a pretty high match. The other that asked for specifics had mostly bad things to say about the pairing. The latter was true in most of the negative aspects between our charts.
I think because you're in a puppy love stage, you want it to tell you this will work because you want it to at the moment. Anything that tells you it will just makes your heart (and crotch) all happy.
Regardless, don't use all this to determine if things will work. Sure, Aries and Libra are opposites and can attract to eachother easily, and it working is another story, but realistically, you both are just two people whom one has an attraction to the other. Let it go from there.
hello brother !
I'm a libra man and I had a relation with an aries woman.
I made a post like yours , talking about the same things ...
the biggest problem with an aries girl is the time !
I had the same issue . not enough time together ...
they don't reject us , but I feel like something is missing .
activities together , time spent together ! and much more
we had a date together . it was amazing , ( she made the first move. )
after = nothing ! for a month or maybe more
another date . after = same thing ! no life signal !!
a long time after = best night of my life ! lol
she said it was amazing , we appreciated our night together
she complimented me a lot
we talked for 2 weeks after our night and NOTHING again !
she said she wants to see me again and I said , likewise !
NOTHING since 2 months .... omfg! I'm tired
I'm talking about the only relation I had with an Aries ...
in my experience : the problem is ; you can't add them in your life ? lol
I'd like to see her more , more nights together , do regular things , laugh , live
I don't know what to do ! I had the same issue with another aries .
they are hard to reach , join!
HELP !!! lol 🙂
I'm a libra man and I had a relation with an aries woman.
I made a post like yours , talking about the same things ...
the biggest problem with an aries girl is the time !
I had the same issue . not enough time together ...
they don't reject us , but I feel like something is missing .
activities together , time spent together ! and much more
we had a date together . it was amazing , ( she made the first move. )
after = nothing ! for a month or maybe more
another date . after = same thing ! no life signal !!
a long time after = best night of my life ! lol
she said it was amazing , we appreciated our night together
she complimented me a lot
we talked for 2 weeks after our night and NOTHING again !
she said she wants to see me again and I said , likewise !
NOTHING since 2 months .... omfg! I'm tired
I'm talking about the only relation I had with an Aries ...
in my experience : the problem is ; you can't add them in your life ? lol
I'd like to see her more , more nights together , do regular things , laugh , live
I don't know what to do ! I had the same issue with another aries .
they are hard to reach , join!
HELP !!! lol 🙂
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
sort of ... yeah probably .
but we and she wanted something regular ...
the problem is still here !
same thing ...
Posted by muwikPosted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
sort of ... yeah probably .
but we and she wanted something regular ...
the problem is still here !
same thing ...click to expand
The reason things are a "problem" is because you ARE A FWB. She owes you no commitment and is treating you accordingly. You're viewing the situation through cow eyes with romantic interest in mind, which is why you have a problem with her distance.
take her in a car ride it calms them
Posted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
I agree with rockyroad...I say take it for what it's worth and enjoy the free ride...lol. If she wanted more, I'd think you would have known that by now.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by muwikPosted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
sort of ... yeah probably .
but we and she wanted something regular ...
the problem is still here !
same thing ...
The reason things are a "problem" is because you ARE A FWB. She owes you no commitment and is treating you accordingly. You're viewing the situation through cow eyes with romantic interest in mind, which is why you have a problem with her distance.click to expand
thank you for your help about my relation with her ! you know so much about us ... -,-
seriously , wtf ?! lol
i'm not talking about the relation here . I am talking about a problem . the way they act , their behaviour , manners, or something like this ....
you understand ? ...
I am not the only one against this problem and I want to solve this thing.
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
I agree with rockyroad...I say take it for what it's worth and enjoy the free ride...lol. If she wanted more, I'd think you would have known that by now.click to expand
thank you for your help . I understood what you said !
your answer makes more sense to me
So much for Scorpio Moons being intuitive.
Posted by champrangerPosted by muwik
thank you for your help about my relation with her ! you know so much about us ... -,-
seriously , wtf ?! lol
i'm not talking about the relation here . I am talking about a problem . the way they act , their behaviour , manners, or something like this ....
you understand ? ...
I am not the only one against this problem and I want to solve this thing.
No no, you are not understanding what Rocky meant.
If an Aries genuinely likes you, there WILL NEVER BE a large time gap of no contact.
Since she can go 2 months at a time without contacting you, therefore, she is NOT really interested in you. Or else, she would have contacted you as much as possible.click to expand
Sorry forgot to add...
+1000!
Posted by muwikPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by muwikPosted by rockyroadicecream
^You're her fuck buddy, dude.
sort of ... yeah probably .
but we and she wanted something regular ...
the problem is still here !
same thing ...
The reason things are a "problem" is because you ARE A FWB. She owes you no commitment and is treating you accordingly. You're viewing the situation through cow eyes with romantic interest in mind, which is why you have a problem with her distance.
thank you for your help about my relation with her ! you know so much about us ... -,-
seriously , wtf ?! lol
i'm not talking about the relation here . I am talking about a problem . the way they act , their behaviour , manners, or something like this ....
you understand ? ...
I am not the only one against this problem and I want to solve this thing.click to expand
they or she?
lets not make this an "all aries women are" issue.
Posted by Damnata
Not all of us can be intuitive Aries.
I never go on a date without friends holding massive cardboards behind the poor bastard I'm with.
I feel like a news anchor reading from scripts.
lmaooo
Posted by muwik
thank you for your help about my relation with her ! you know so much about us ... -,-
seriously , wtf ?! lol
i'm not talking about the relation here . I am talking about a problem . the way they act , their behaviour , manners, or something like this ....
you understand ? ...
I am not the only one against this problem and I want to solve this thing.
There is no "they" here honey, YOURS sees you as a fuck buddy. A sex toy. Someone she can fuck and be done with for the time being. The fact that she goes such long periods without contacting you says a lot.
She likely doesn't see you as much of a friend, let alone any sort of serious interest.
She sees you as someone to have sex with. The end.
If you want to solve it, stop fretting over her lack of attention and realize that this is not any sort of friendship or a relationship. It's a convenience of getting free sex.
Take it or leave it.
Is it okay? Not if you're not okay with it, no. You're the one who doesn't have the upper hand here, so I'd suggest not sleeping with her anymore nor giving her the time or worry.
Knowing you're a Libra, I have a feeling you're just going to continue to allow yourself be pussy whipped by this behavior. *sigh*
Dude come on!
Asking for help to get a girl is lame! (at least ask for help in real life)
If you want an Aries to be your GF, your lack of confidence will make you fail !
Well, these 4 points may help you.
1. Be yourself
2. Hit the Gym! Hard! especially abs!, the physique of Aries is powerful, but their waist is far from being the best. If you get powerful abs, your Aries girl might feel that you are a person that she hardly can be.
That will shake her brain. Aries women are very physical and men with good physique are atractive to them. So, when they see a man that has different physical Nature from them (the ABS) they get attracted almost immediately.
3. Yup, I want you to train your body but don't try to impress her, that's lame. Be Natural.
AND 4.
If drinking a lot is synonyme of "having fun" for your Aries girl.
Then you are in front of a "Negative-Aries" and you should forget her.
That's all Pal !
Asking for help to get a girl is lame! (at least ask for help in real life)
If you want an Aries to be your GF, your lack of confidence will make you fail !
Well, these 4 points may help you.
1. Be yourself
2. Hit the Gym! Hard! especially abs!, the physique of Aries is powerful, but their waist is far from being the best. If you get powerful abs, your Aries girl might feel that you are a person that she hardly can be.
That will shake her brain. Aries women are very physical and men with good physique are atractive to them. So, when they see a man that has different physical Nature from them (the ABS) they get attracted almost immediately.
3. Yup, I want you to train your body but don't try to impress her, that's lame. Be Natural.
AND 4.
If drinking a lot is synonyme of "having fun" for your Aries girl.
Then you are in front of a "Negative-Aries" and you should forget her.
That's all Pal !
^ Oh my... ! I can tell that is true...
This guy is really into something... or rather he's a playboy.
This guy is really into something... or rather he's a playboy.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by muwik
thank you for your help about my relation with her ! you know so much about us ... -,-
seriously , wtf ?! lol
i'm not talking about the relation here . I am talking about a problem . the way they act , their behaviour , manners, or something like this ....
you understand ? ...
I am not the only one against this problem and I want to solve this thing.
There is no "they" here honey, YOURS sees you as a fuck buddy. A sex toy. Someone she can fuck and be done with for the time being. The fact that she goes such long periods without contacting you says a lot.
She likely doesn't see you as much of a friend, let alone any sort of serious interest.
She sees you as someone to have sex with. The end.
If you want to solve it, stop fretting over her lack of attention and realize that this is not any sort of friendship or a relationship. It's a convenience of getting free sex.
Take it or leave it.
Is it okay? Not if you're not okay with it, no. You're the one who doesn't have the upper hand here, so I'd suggest not sleeping with her anymore nor giving her the time or worry.
Knowing you're a Libra, I have a feeling you're just going to continue to allow yourself be pussy whipped by this behavior. *sigh*click to expand
I won't even reply to that thing ...
It's not a "busy act".
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
Posted by CharlieSlaughter
Dude come on!
Asking for help to get a girl is lame! (at least ask for help in real life)
If you want an Aries to be your GF, your lack of confidence will make you fail !
Well, these 4 points may help you.
1. Be yourself
2. Hit the Gym! Hard! especially abs!, the physique of Aries is powerful, but their waist is far from being the best. If you get powerful abs, your Aries girl might feel that you are a person that she hardly can be.
That will shake her brain. Aries women are very physical and men with good physique are atractive to them. So, when they see a man that has different physical Nature from them (the ABS) they get attracted almost immediately.
3. Yup, I want you to train your body but don't try to impress her, that's lame. Be Natural.
AND 4.
If drinking a lot is synonyme of "having fun" for your Aries girl.
Then you are in front of a "Negative-Aries" and you should forget her.
That's all Pal !
Asking for help to get a girl is lame! (at least ask for help in real life)
FOR REAL ? ... lmao
if asking for help is stupid ... when you reply to a stupid , that just means that you are much more retarded than him
are you a joke ? dude!
I can't take you seriously
Posted by Damnata
It's not a "busy act".
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
you are probably wrong or right ...
I will understand later, when I will meet more aries .. I guess
I have to live it to understand
Posted by muwikPosted by Damnata
It's not a "busy act".
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
you are probably wrong or right ...
I will understand later, when I will meet more aries .. I guess
I have to live it to understandclick to expand
Are you sure you don't have a vagina?
Posted by champrangerPosted by muwikPosted by Damnata
It's not a "busy act".
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
you are probably wrong or right ...
I will understand later, when I will meet more aries .. I guess
I have to live it to understand
No, she is RIGHT.
POINT: Interested Aries = ALWAYS in contact, AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, busy or not busy
POINT: Non-Contacting Aries = NOT INTERESTED
I know you want to think positive, but I hope you will not let positive thinking cloud your judgement of what is the truth, versus what you want the truth to be.click to expand
thanks for your comment , I was expecting something like this !
I don't need and I wasn't expecting a comment like the rocky guy ...
anyway !
thank you again
I like the points things . good informations
Posted by champrangerPosted by muwikPosted by Damnata
It's not a "busy act".
She doesn't give a fuck. Can you grasp that?
She does give a fuck about fucking but that's it.
you are probably wrong or right ...
I will understand later, when I will meet more aries .. I guess
I have to live it to understand
No, she is RIGHT.
POINT: Interested Aries = ALWAYS in contact, AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, busy or not busy
POINT: Non-Contacting Aries = NOT INTERESTED
I know you want to think positive, but I hope you will not let positive thinking cloud your judgement of what is the truth, versus what you want the truth to be.click to expand
YES!!! The rule of thumb EVERYBODY should live by... men and women. Excellent way of putting it 😉
I'm a girl, you dumb bitch.
Jesus. This isn't a language barrier, you're just as dumb as a bag of hammers. :/
Jesus. This isn't a language barrier, you're just as dumb as a bag of hammers. :/
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