Not Over An Aries Ex

It's been a while since I was on this. Anyhow, I was with an Aries guy for almost a year. He moved away to NY for a year and long story short, he's returning home this November. While he's away, we kept in touch. From small meaningless but friendly messages once a month to liking pictures on each other's instagram. I know it's not much but my point is we are still on each other's radar.

I don't know about you but if you're away in the new city for a year, you wouldn't be liking your ex's pictures would you?

Maybe I am convincing myself there's something there as I felt like we had a thing that didn't end too well.

What do you fellow Arian think?

Is he still interested? or just being friendly...

Posted by Lalalo

Who initiates these conversations, you or him?

He does like 9 times of 10 but like i said it's more like short-lived conversations nothing too meaningful.

He told me he'll return in November which made me think does he still want to see me —

Hmmz this one has been going on a while and it might not be healthy, long distance relationships aren’t and you are thinking about it too much. We might not really know the answer why he keeps in contact. I think he probably still wants to know how you are. The Instagram likes mean nothing.

You need to look out for yourself, he went away, regardless of reason, it’s not healthy thinking about it, wondering if he still likes you. Get out there and meet new people. If this guy comes back then that’s fine, but you are seriously wasting your life waiting for him, don’t get confused, it’s not romantic to wait for a guy or anything. It’s not romantic if he goes away and leaves you, even if it is for work. It’s not romantic to spend this much time apart. And I really think that if you let go, then something else would come into your life. I’ve done it, I’ve been there, and I look back now, I’ve met nicer women, and the long distance relationship I had was a waste of time, it makes no difference why the distance is there in the first place, it’s there. Ask yourself, really, what is best for yourself? Meeting someone nicer, or waiting for someone who left you?

he might be testing if he still has the charm

I'm an aries and most of us won't admit this but we never fully get over our ex's and a lot if time we will go back to an ex depends on the situation but not always for love. We love hard, we sacrifice, put forth a lot if work into a relationship so we don't like to see it end we will hang on until there isn't anything left of that flame. Even years later were still not over how things ended.

He doesn’t want you to be over him and move on.