Too all aries eoman, can you please help a scorp??

Last weekend I got to a party. They were all my elementary school friends. I knew there was gonna be this one hot, bossy, aries girl that I had been intimidated by almost the entire time I've known her. When I first got into the house, she saw me.. and as the highly observant scorpio that I am, I instantly noticed that she was surprised to see me there.

I went in, hugged a girl friend. Walked over to the next guy friend, shook his hand and then I turned towards the aries girl and was gonna give her a shaking hand (cuz I thought she dont want no hug)... she asked for a hug, I hugged her then followed up by saying I didn't want to hug her initially because of me being really ice cold (cuz we just came in from the snowy outside) and she responded instantly in a almost "blushy" manner while looking at her friend saying: "that was kind of really delicious".. (me having ice cold cheeks, and hugging her while smelling really good)

I smiled and went about my way. During the sit together (everybody was sitting in a ring drinking and talking). She started singing with one of the songs giving zero fudge about what ppl would think, demonstrating real confidence. After that i got into conversation with a girl that was being realllly interested in my depth, cuz we was talking about it. I noticed how the aries girl would ocassionally look at me a little bit, we even at one point got eye contact out of nowhere..and i gently gazed at her with my smiling scorpio eyez.. she then looked away..

At one point, she was standing like 2 feet away in front of me, and kind of "spanking" her own hip/ass while talking to the host of the party saying she wanted to leave for a nightclub... who spanks themselves while a guy is sitting face front 2 feet away?

Before she left, she went into the kitchen. After 3-4 minuts i too went into the kitchen to get a beer... while getting the beer, i said: it was really nice to see you again, she reciprocated and moved in front of me asking if I was going for a nightclub also. I said Im following the flow and need to see what my bff will do since I got there with him.

She left 10 minuts after that. I added her on fb the following day. And told her that i lijed the way she sang, that it was self assuring snd reslly inspiring, i basically told her that I learned something from her. We txted over a 3-4 day period.

At one point I said let me be straight with you: "im on my way up in life, so naturally I am looking for inspiring and strong ppl around me. We've shared some childhood moments. You probably didn't like me then and i was a little intimidated by you. So I wanted to reach out now and create some chill vibez between us. Let me know if you are ever down for some fun. And if not, then I will see you when I see you"

She replied: "I take everything you write as a big compliment. Really!🙂

I hope your business kicks ass and that you get to go where ever you want. And we will see each other again!

Here is the truth about me: I have so much work to do in this day and age, and I barely have time to follow up on the ppl I have in my life right now. So going out on a date, or friendship or anything is something I cant commit to right now. But we will see each other again guaranteed!"

I replied by encouraging her to work hard and realize that she has way more power then she could ever imagine. Then I basically said im not here to take here independence and freedom away, but to enforce it...

She havent replied since. So what happens from here— Does she like me? How can I figure out if she has the hots for me or not? What to do? Ive read all aries horiscope articles... but I need some inside info ladies... Do aries woman like mature scorps?? By mature I mean: confident, kind, intense yet gentle, a boss/leader... 100% self aware, really strong mind.

Sorry for all typo's!

@Neno2

Aaaww duude... I feel for you. Thank you for the encouragement. I really need some inside info from the aries ladies on what to do from here... cuz the signs are there... but she has no time— Or was she just testing me to see if I would be a burden on her?? Hmmmm....

@Neno2

What if I can match her coldness and maintain it? Maybe I should have this thing evolved purely around sex, lust and desire? And then be really cold after? I am deep though... like I feeeel it down to my atoms :p

eeee!! my favourite (well OUR favourite scorpio actor) me and my husband's lmao

he likes the actor as well, they act very similar. lol

is with an ARIES woman...





never really cared for Josh Duhamel and Fergie though....and they broke up.







and now that Phoenix guy is with an Aries woman too.

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing

Posted by lisabethur8
eeee!! my favourite (well OUR favourite scorpio actor) me and my husband's lmao

he likes the actor as well, they act very similar. lol

is with an ARIES woman...





never really cared for Josh Duhamel and Fergie though....and they broke up.







and now that Phoenix guy is with an Aries woman too.

First couple is beautiful. Perfect fit.

Lol dude looks like my calculus prof.

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he is VERY handsome, just like my husband (my husband is super handsome) lol

his first wife, was a Scorpio woman with a Taurus rising, Aquarius moon Libra mars.

in alot of photos of his ex wife looks aquarius in many angles, very scorpio/aquarius

no rising on the Aries new girlfriend though.

Posted by Juliiette
eomen what gender that is? my kid today asked me why are there only girls and boys. that's boring.

eoman.

lol

So you want someone to help you, yet you can't be assed to proofread your own writing?

I don't help lazy people, sorry.

@ariesbee

So does that mean she is not in to me— Cuz she's not all over me...??

@sakuraflowers

Hmmm... why would she give me all those signs at the party? Why dod she talk to me ober 3-4 days when being so busy? She could habe just ignored or let me know in thr beginning?

Why woild she tell me we are to see each other again guaranteed?

....if she just likes me as a person— I am asking judgement free. I want answers from u..

Omg folks give it a rest!! :p i am typing on my galaxy s7 edge. The E is right next to the W.. so Woman was typed as eoman :p

I wanna get down with an aries, i am not trying to win a spelling contest...

@WolfInRamsClothing

Is this a lost case for me—

@rockyroadicecream

Can you please show strength and help me? I apologize for not proofreading my shiz. Tell me what u know...I need it...

@ikyfl

But I told here that im not here to take her independence or freedom away. I said I dont need to be obliged to. I encoraged her to be as free as the wind, and when shes empty I got refill 🙂 tell meeeeeee.....

@WolfInRamsClothing

Hmmm... I can feel what you are saying. That kind of sux ass... I'm gonna crawl under my blanket now in baby position...

@WolfInRamsClothing

I like you. Are you hot??

Ok, this is to EagleScorp. I am an Aries woman who can give you some insight. I don't know how young she is or you are but, it seems like you don't even have time to go to the bathroom, let alone pursue this ball of fire we know as Aries. Young Aries women, are independent and need alot of space. They are very driven in their own achievements and are highly skeptical when a guy says things like I am not here to take your independence. You let her know you were in the building phase of your life, with career moves and establishing yourself. Aries have to be number one or none at all in their relationships. If you are the jealous type or insecure about the fact that she may not get back to you as quickly or at all as you would like, stop right now, because Aries women do not like guys who are smothery or too emotional. Also, it is good you tell her you have goals, but she may take it as you bragging or that your a big deal. You may be, but it could come off as arrogant or superficial like your of great value and she needs to give you that validation. I would hang back a bit if I were you, not repond and if some time passes, write her something, how you feel. Iknow I love to know when a former lover has told me what Ido for them emotionally, physically, it's empowering and it gives validation to ur importance. Trust me, I love deeply, passionately, Aries women are alot like Scorpio's..but, you have to fight for us if she is worthy of your affections. you seem like a sincere man, stay true to that and don't lose your bearing. An Aries woman NEEDS her man to be as strong as a titanium wall in any given situation. She will be studying your face and your body language. You have to be the Don Draper of her world. Strong, ballsy, a risk-taker, adventureous and please, don't ever get predictable. We lose interest..

@AriesCScheer1980

Yess! Thank you for the insight. That was good. Thank youuuuu for telling me. I will study this!!

@WolfInRamsClothing

When I was 23, my first love was a 29 year old taurus... we broke off after a year because she felt too intimidated by my young age and my raw sexual, intense, undeveloped possessive/jealous energy... but I handeled her well though... just not well enough, cuz she cheated. I guess that was the only way to get me to leave. My point being: I love woman and not just girls... 😉 Im 27 btw.. so is the aries girl I try to get down with.. but I feel Im too good for girls my own age.... too good.. 35-36 + is more up my alley

@WolfInRamsClothing

You think 35-36 is old—? Nooooo....... whaaat? 45+ is starting to get old...55+ is just nasty..

@UnicornSag

I dont want older women. I want this Aries girl which is my own age..:p....but I do feel Im too mature for girls my own age

I went to a party a few weeks back with my cap and he brought his Scorpio friend.

True story.

His Scorpio friend took home the hottest aries chick at the party that night.

He exuded confidence and sex appeal in a demure way. This is the true key to any Aries girls heart.

@ariesbee

Ok let me give u guys some undisclosed info. Before I told her "let me be straight with you"

I had already asked her where her favorite spots in town was, she replied and we had talked a bit about me being inspired and fascinated by her. She seemed to enjoy the ego boost. I then said:

"Can I get you to go out with me? I know there is much more to learn from you"

She then replied: "im not sure what I have that you can learn from me :p theres a big chance we might hit one of them nightclubs next time we meet at a get together/home party"

I then said: " ...you have everything that I can learn. But you cant teach it to anyone. Those with eyes to see, will learn from you on their own"

And thats when I wrote the "let me be straight with you" message....

So I have asked her out and I have been straight.... honestly... Im attractive, I got depth, and sex appeal... and I know for a fact thst she's a horndog... but why am I not getting a hook?

@sakuraflowers

What does this mean ^^^ —?

@ariesbee

Aaahhhh..... so much complicationzZz...makes me just wanna go to sleep. Why can't she just be more like you?! You know what...I dont think shes interested... you are probably right...

Stop fuckin texting so much and fuckin ASK HER OUT, arrange a fuck session or dinner.. Whatever your intentions are.

You made a mistake.

Your phone is one for one purpose when you dating somebody.. To do just what I just told you..

You see all the things you talked about? You could talked about those things in person..

She hasn't replied because she got her fix. Her curiousity fix.

Wait about a week and text her again, an ask to fuckin get with her..

And you kissing her ass too much.

Okay. She's cool, she's funny, she's attractive.

She knows this.

Sometimes a woman just wants someone that takes THEIR breath away, not someone who's breath is taken away by them.

They don't like pedestals and you giving her one and you haven't even fucked her yet.

Learn some game..

She most likely LOST interest but that don't mean she's completely uninterested.

But, you texted her for 3-4 days in a row for what?? I thought you were a water sign, why aren't you being mysterious?

Mysterious creates curiousity, which creates attraction.

You wasted a lot of physical conversation before you could get her on a date and talk about those same exact things.

Please, give it time. Let her wonder about you. If you can help it, let her hit you up FIRST..

@Emhendo

I will learn from what you have just said. I promise you. I will study your teachings 😉 As I already said here, I did ask her out. She was kind of playing coy... so now, I will just leave it be until she hits me up. And if not, I will hit her up after new years when things slows doen a bit..

Posted by Eaglescorp90
@Emhendo

I will learn from what you have just said. I promise you. I will study your teachings 😉 As I already said here, I did ask her out. She was kind of playing coy... so now, I will just leave it be until she hits me up. And if not, I will hit her up after new years when things slows doen a bit..

Yeah, and if you have any more questions just PM me.. Because asking actual Aries women is a no-go. Due to Astrology, personalities are varied, but in the end of the day the psychology of women is all the same in their lives. These chicks don't know what they want, they think they do.. But they don't actually know. Every thing they crave is subconscious, they can never put it out there what it is that attracts them in the first place.

A lot people hate me for the shit I say, but these are the main guys wondering why they are unsuccessful with women. I stopped asking for advice amongst strangers according to zodiac a long time ago. It got me no where.. They say buy a Leo woman gifts, you buy her a gift for no apparent reason and it still hasn't got her in your bed.. And she's looking at you like what a fuckin simp.. You just spent your hard earned money on me just because I look good?? Take a Taurus out to eat.. Spend hella more money.. Yeah they like to be fed but you could just cooked at home. Let's stop pandering to beautiful women, and let's do it because they ultimately dont really like it. It's just nice, but "Nice Guy" don't get laid.hh

I’m an Aries woman and after reading the text I would strongly recommend you leave her alone. Aries don’t play coy. She told you very directly what she was willing to do and that was to see you around. We are narcissistic at times and enjoy attention. But that’s not to be confused with being attracted in return. I think your best option is to stop all contact. When you do see her socially give her a nod NO HUGGING NO TALKING and a smile then ignore her. Also be low key talk to people but don’t be loud or super extra. We like quiet mysterious guys who are emotionally unavailable. That’s an invitation to a challenge. The best way to impress her is not to try and impress her. The problem is more than likely she’ll be too flirty and you’ll be too deep. But the chase should be fun.

You funny ask her out you demand her out

Ask her out already.

I was dating an Aries man, but he kept pressuring me to be perfect and successful when I already had other obligations. I didn't like the thought of losing him but at least I now had the chance to find a man who liked as a person.