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Older Aries Woman Broke Up With Younger Scorpio Man
Understanding the Breakup Between an Older Aries Woman and a Younger Scorpio Man
The breakup likely reflects differences in future plans and communication styles. The Scorpio man prioritized his career and stability over the relationship, leading to doubts and disappointment for the Aries woman. Trust and clarity are essential in such age and life-stage differences, especially with distance and career changes involved.
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It was only 2 months. He did not know you long enough nor did you to be making long term plans. You probably freaked him out. I would just move on and take it a bit slower next time. At least 6 months
Hi Fire Child. I actually didn't made any long term plan with him. He was the one who made some plans and I just agreed. I just feel betrayed because I think he is already seeing someone after just 5 days of breaking up.
Hi Bmoon8. Now I didn't feel the love that he told me before. Before we started the relationship, I told him that I was hurt before and wasn't even planning to be in a relationship. But he said he is not like the others and he will not hurt me...and he ended up hurting me 😢
Good thing it was only 2 months , how old is your ex boyfriend ?
He's 31 yrs old. But I'm the one who has the balls hahaha
I actually don't want to see him. What I want him to see is how awesome my life still is and what he lost. He's the biggest loser of all 🙂)
Posted by amanda324
I dated a young Scorpio man for two months; I am 7 years older than he is. I am working as a manager in private company and he is working as a barista in a coffee shop. I do not look at status of whom ever I will date as long as he is honest and a good person. In short, I accepted him for who he is (even if I am out of his league). Before and during our committed, he always tell me that he wants me to be his wife. He was saying that we would live together once he found a new job in my town (he lives almost 2 hours away from my town). He said he cannot live without me and he will not hurt me. I felt his love during that time. I am the jealous type of Aries and always doubting him.One day he told me that he got a call from an overseas company for the job that he applied. To make the long story short, I broke up with him last week because he will be thousands of miles away from me and he did not mention any plan for us once he got the job.
He said he need a stable and high paying job. Unlike me who is already successful. I was hurt coz he does not know what he will do with our relationship once he will move to another country for work. After 4 days of breaking up with him and giving him time to think (coz he said to leave him alone) I talked to him again and asked if we can just give it another shot. He said he made up his mind and he agreed to me to end our relationship and just be friends if I do not mind.
He said he do not see his future with me as his wife. He said he is not yet ready to be in a relationship or to have a family. I told him I am not expecting him to build a family with me now. In addition, if ever he will get the job overseas I will follow him there.
hmm i dont know what happened to the quote...
anyway this is what i wrote...
you sound like my aries sister at first...in the first few sentences, about choosing men. (youre not interested in the status ect she has Aqua venus/Pisces mars, Pisces mercury)
but weirdly she likes to establish the success herself for her and her man.
but a man who says he doesn't see a future with you is very scary to have around.
he sounds like he has alot of doubts of his abilities and wanting to commit.
a man serious will want you to come with him and establish a home there with you.
Hi lisabethur8. You are right. I want to be successful by myself without help from any men. I don't even like depending on a man especially with financial issues.
At first he said he wants me to be his wife and then when we are breaking up he said he is not yet ready for a relationship and not see himself with me in the future. A big BS! 🙂)
Hi aquarius_man.
If he's a confused, troubled and insecure man he shouldn't have waste my precious time committing with him in a relationship. I am more fragile than him, btw. Now I am thinking that all those times was just a big lie. He didn't even have balls to talk to me in person nor call me for the last time. I even doubted his loyalty hahaha
Hi Arielle83
I am happy that he has ambition, I was actually helping him finding a new and more stable job. 🙂
Hi EvilHare. Honestly, I didn't think I'm better than him. He's the one who's always insisting that. And one time he was drunk, he told me that I don't deserve him because I am too good for him. The problem was his insecurities and ego.
Hi Arielle83
I didn't break up with him because he was out of my league. As I've mentioned, I don't look at the status or money of a man that I am interested with. I felt that it was to overwhelming for him to have the relationship with me. I never even pressure him to get a better paying job, it's what he wants. For him money and stability are his basis of a better relationship.
From what I've read, it seems you two were in the honeymoon phase. Perhaps you kept your head above the water more than he did. Men can say anything when they're infatuated, you'll be touched and cherish his words but he won't keep what he says to heart (he might not even remember all the wonderful, dream promises he made you).
It sounds like there isn't much chance you two getting back together. Aries and Scorpio are both signs that can be resolute and once they've decided on something, nothing will sway them. You're lucky it was a short-lived romance and you can get back on your feet. I suggest it's best you respect his feelings and move on. I think deep down you both knew this wasn't really going to last.
aquarius_man, you always made me LOL with your comments.
Well, I'm really impulsive and hot-headed. That he can't handle too.
I'm not hoping for a second chance actually. I need a Man not a Boy 🙂
Hi blvckphase. I initiated the break up coz he has no idea of what he will do with our relationship if ever he gets the job. That's why I told him I will just follow him where ever he will get the best opportunity and he still said he don't know. Right then and there I knew that he never included me in his plans. I tried to call him but he didn't pick up and only wants to communicate via text msg.
I was trying to be the mature one but what else can I do if he was also trying to be the immature one.
Your being dramatic.
You only dated for 2 months. He decided in that time that your not the one ?♀️ He's allowed to change his mind. That's what dating is all about.
Posted by amanda324
Hi Bmoon8. Now I didn't feel the love that he told me before. Before we started the relationship, I told him that I was hurt before and wasn't even planning to be in a relationship. But he said he is not like the others and he will not hurt me...and he ended up hurting me 😢
Your fault for getting so emotionally attached to someone after only 2 months ?♀️
Posted by amanda324
I dated a young Scorpio man for two monthsBefore and during our committed, he always tell me that he wants me to be his wife. He said he cannot live without me and he will not hurt me.
He said he do not see his future with me as his wife.
Any man who makes these kinda claims/promises only a few weeks into dating is full of shit. You know this though, your not some young naive girl.
Wise up already.
Any man who makes these kinda claims/promises only a few weeks into dating is full of shit.
come again? this is how my mom & dad met. got married after 3 months. 3 kids & 25 yrs later they still together. mom scorpio, dad gemini
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Your parents are the exception, not the rule. As the op's story illustrates.
Any man who makes these kinda claims/promises only a few weeks into dating is full of shit.
come again? this is how my mom & dad met. got married after 3 months. 3 kids & 25 yrs later they still together. mom scorpio, dad gemini
Your parents are the exception, not the rule. As the op's story illustrates.
as a rule of the thumb, i would steer clear of generalizations
and ''any man who...'' is such a generalization. having said that, i agree the barista is full of gobshite.
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Your not me. I'll generalize as I like.
Posted by amanda324
I dated a young Scorpio man for two monthsBefore and during our committed, he always tell me that he wants me to be his wife. He said he cannot live without me and he will not hurt me.
He said he do not see his future with me as his wife.
Any man who makes these kinda claims/promises only a few weeks into dating is full of shit. You know this though, your not some young naive girl.
Wise up already.
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He might've wanted that not necessarily saying he is full of crap but a woman can't expect to go off the hammer and end it because things aren't going as she planned and expect him not to change his position.
Your not me. I'll generalize as I like.
''you're''
hone your english skills before giving advice.
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lol
Thought he said he didn't see a future with you after you broke up with him? Don't blame him if that's the case. I wouldn't want a future with someone who quit so easily
Your not me. I'll generalize as I like.
''you're''
hone your english skills before giving advice.
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No. Thanks.
What does grammer have to do with my point ?
All of you guys have a point and I appreciate your participation in this topic. I am an Aries woman and easily falls in love, as in hard. Can you blame me if somebody put my hopes up and I trusted that he will not hurt you in any way possible?
Posted by Ssuperman
Thought he said he didn't see a future with you after you broke up with him? Don't blame him if that's the case. I wouldn't want a future with someone who quit so easily
Before he said that, he told me that he wants to marry me in the right time. His statement was kinda confusing for me.
Your not me. I'll generalize as I like.
''you're''
hone your english skills before giving advice.
No. Thanks.
What does grammer have to do with my point ?
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🙂
Posted by Rindaroo
Guys say a lot of things. Do they mean it? Well at the time, but things change and the view changes. So what I've learned is take everything as it comes but don't necessarily believe it as set in stone. Actions is what is to believed. Even more words & actions that match. 2 months is a short time period - you really don't know each other yet well. Time tells all.Sometimes they just get all excited when they meet someone who appears to be what they want.. and say a bunch of stuff.
I just thought he was different from the other guys that I dated. That's what he told me 🙂
Any man who makes these kinda claims/promises only a few weeks into dating is full of shit.
come again? this is how my mom & dad met. got married after 3 months. 3 kids & 25 yrs later they still together. mom scorpio, dad gemini
Your parents are the exception, not the rule. As the op's story illustrates.
as a rule of the thumb, i would steer clear of generalizations
and ''any man who...'' is such a generalization. having said that, i agree the barista is full of gobshite.
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Your parents are such a good example of "Quality over quantity". It is not a matter of time but the quality of time that we shared together.
Posted by Ssuperman
Thought he said he didn't see a future with you after you broke up with him? Don't blame him if that's the case. I wouldn't want a future with someone who quit so easilyI didn't give up easily. It was my only way to cut the BS as he didn't have any plan for us nor he didn't know what he will do with me once he got the job.
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Posted by Ssuperman
Thought he said he didn't see a future with you after you broke up with him? Don't blame him if that's the case. I wouldn't want a future with someone who quit so easilyI didn't gave up easily. It was my only way to cut the BS as he didn't have any plan for us nor he didn't know what he will do with me once he got the job.
you are entitled to preemptive strikes
you must look after yourself
its a dog eat dog world out there 😛
joking but i hear you and understand you perfectly
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Thank you. At least somebody here understand my point 🙂
Posted by amanda324
Hi Bmoon8. Now I didn't feel the love that he told me before. Before we started the relationship, I told him that I was hurt before and wasn't even planning to be in a relationship. But he said he is not like the others and he will not hurt me...and he ended up hurting me 😢Well, be glad it's over then and that it only was 2 months of your life as opposed to longer. I don't think he intentionally tried to hurt you. It's a risk we take when getting involved with anyone. Move on.
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I think he is already seeing someone new after one week of breaking up. You are right, I have to move on as there is no hope of us getting back together.
Posted by Arielle83
guys do that...i was seeing a guy and he told me he wanted me in his life no matter what...that he was in love with me...that he wanted me to have his baby...he was too full on!
made me suspicious and untrusting so i said i don't want a relationship
he moved on to some other chick and they've already moved in after a month
SCARY!!
i feel like i dodged a bullet..
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
Posted by amanda324
Hi lisabethur8. You are right. I want to be successful by myself without help from any men. I don't even like depending on a man especially with financial issues.At first he said he wants me to be his wife and then when we are breaking up he said he is not yet ready for a relationship and not see himself with me in the future. A big BS! 🙂)
you and your scorpio man remind me of Fergie and Josh Duhamel.
both sun signs like you and your man,
and i notice both have different life goals. if your life goals are different, it's not gonna work. you both want different things. Even if you like eachother.
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
Posted by Arielle83
guys do that...i was seeing a guy and he told me he wanted me in his life no matter what...that he was in love with me...that he wanted me to have his baby...he was too full on!
made me suspicious and untrusting so i said i don't want a relationship
he moved on to some other chick and they've already moved in after a month
SCARY!!
i feel like i dodged a bullet..
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
Narcissistic personality disorder.
Love bombing.
They need your attention to worship them to feel anything.
They poke u with fake compliments and promises to drag u in. They tap into the insecure and needy.
Walk away when someone seems too good to be true
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That's what I thought too before we started the relationship, he's too good to be true 🙂
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
oh come on
you aries girls do that to ppl, too! and dont look back.
its a 2-way street
we also put our hopes up and the gals abandon us like stray, blind puppies 😄 😄
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hahaha you are right, girls do that too but that doesn't mean they are aries gals 🙂
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
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He was the one insisting to have the relationship and then when we broke up he said he doesn't want any relationship. but a week after our break up, he is pursuing another girl.
Posted by amanda324
Hi lisabethur8. You are right. I want to be successful by myself without help from any men. I don't even like depending on a man especially with financial issues.At first he said he wants me to be his wife and then when we are breaking up he said he is not yet ready for a relationship and not see himself with me in the future. A big BS! 🙂)
you and your scorpio man remind me of Fergie and Josh Duhamel.
both sun signs like you and your man,
and i notice both have different life goals. if your life goals are different, it's not gonna work. you both want different things. Even if you like eachother.
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I though we were on the same page but lately realized that I am the only one on the book.
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
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😆
Posted by amanda324
Hi lisabethur8. You are right. I want to be successful by myself without help from any men. I don't even like depending on a man especially with financial issues.At first he said he wants me to be his wife and then when we are breaking up he said he is not yet ready for a relationship and not see himself with me in the future. A big BS! 🙂)
you and your scorpio man remind me of Fergie and Josh Duhamel.
both sun signs like you and your man,
and i notice both have different life goals. if your life goals are different, it's not gonna work. you both want different things. Even if you like eachother.
I though we were on the same page but lately realized that I am the only one on the book.
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the only Aries/Scorpio couple that worked but they broke up once for a short while but still are together, they can't quit eachother is this couple,
not the handsomest but they are good together. (According to this, that they separated this year AGAIN)
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
😆
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This made me LOL 😄
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
😆
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As a barman you get to hear lots of stories from ppl hanging at the bar like Miranda does in the video. In time you learn to read ppl and if you're a mischevous little cunt you can use that to further your agenda.
that is what you're gonna be seeing with your scorpio..but let me ask you, OP
what are your Scorpio placements? cause Danny devito has Sag rising, Sag moon, Cap venus and Scorpio mars.
where do you think the flirtation comes from?
also, Rhea Perlman should already know you can't control a Scorpio especially a flirtatious one like danny devito.
how come she's just now leaving after old age? 😕 can't she just accept it?
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
😆
As a barman you get to hear lots of stories from ppl hanging at the bar like Miranda does in the video. In time you learn to read ppl and if you're a mischevous little cunt you can use that to further your agenda.
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😆 omg.i wonder how many bartenders are on this site.
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
😆
As a barman you get to hear lots of stories from ppl hanging at the bar like Miranda does in the video. In time you learn to read ppl and if you're a mischevous little cunt you can use that to further your agenda.
😆 omg.i wonder how many bartenders are on this site.
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Why serve sex on the beach cocktails when all you wanna do is to put a cock in at the beach resort she paid for?
Posted by lisabethur8
that is what you're gonna be seeing with your scorpio..but let me ask you, OPwhat are your Scorpio placements? cause Danny devito has Sag rising, Sag moon, Cap venus and Scorpio mars.
where do you think the flirtation comes from?
also, Rhea Perlman should already know you can't control a Scorpio especially a flirtatious one like danny devito.
how come she's just now leaving after old age? 😕 can't she just accept it?
I actually don't know the placement of my scorpio. Have no idea.
I'm just wondering why there are these kind of men. Putting your hopes up and then will abandon you the next.
In your case it was economic security. Every barman has a story on how he'd like to score with some corporate climber woman, dick her good, attach babies to her and in return not having to work a lot. At least the ones in semi upscale to upscale bars.
😆
As a barman you get to hear lots of stories from ppl hanging at the bar like Miranda does in the video. In time you learn to read ppl and if you're a mischevous little cunt you can use that to further your agenda.
😆 omg.i wonder how many bartenders are on this site.
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I am wondering the same hahaha
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I dated a young Scorpio man for two months; I am 7 years older than he is. I am working as a manager in private company and he is working as a barista in a coffee shop. I do not look at status of whom ever I will date as long as he is honest and a good person. In short, I accepted him for who he is (even if I am out of his league). Before and during our committed, he always tell me that he wants me to be his wife. He was saying that we would live together once he found a new job in my town (he lives almost 2 hours away from my town). He said he cannot live without me and he will not hurt me. I felt his love during that time. I am the jealous type of Aries and always doubting him. One day he told me that he got a call from an overseas company for the job that he applied. To make the long story short, I broke up with him last week because he will be thousands of miles away from me and he did not mention any plan for us once he got the job. He said he need a stable and high paying job. Unlike me who is already successful. I was hurt coz he does not know what he will do with our relationship once he will move to another country for work. After 4 days of breaking up with him and giving him time to think (coz he said to leave him alone) I talked to him again and asked if we can just give it another shot. He said he made up his mind and he agreed to me to end our relationship and just be friends if I do not mind. He said he do not see his future with me as his wife. He said he is not yet ready to be in a relationship or to have a family. I told him I am not expecting him to build a family with me now. In addition, if ever he will get the job overseas I will follow him there. I am just wondering if all the things he told me before was true or all are just lies. He built my hopes up and then he destroyed it badly. He made me believe we had a chance. I love him and misses him but after he ignores my messages, I stopped sending him any message.
BTW, we broke up through text message, all the conversation was through text message. He did not have the courtesy to call or see me in person.
Anyone who had or going through the same?