Venus in Aries

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

Fire Venuses.

However, it depends on the houses they sit in and the degrees of the placements. Other things to consider is where your Venus sits in the other person's chart (synastry).

Venus Aries tends to burn bright but burn out very fast. So your dating spree has probably worn you out, maybe it's time to take a time out.

Posted by LethalFantasia

I feel you in-terms of what your needs are and how you express and want to receive love! As an Aries Venus, I totally relate. Sometimes I think we can be a little too passionate and let's face it, dramatic at times. I think it's because Aries is like the "baby sign" and a Fire sign and like, we just want what we want and know what we want and if we don't feel like we're getting that we can make very compulsive decisions without even giving the other person a legitimate chance.

Honestly though, I don't care and I don't really see it as much of a problem. Like I'm 25. I know I'm very young but I'm not a teenager anymore, you know? And I come from a backround where people settle down WAY younger than me. I think having this Venus placement (especially if it's in a stable house with some stable Saturn aspects, thank you gosh) can be super beneficial in terms of just knowing what you want and not wasting yours or anybody's time.

I would say it's okay to become infatuated with someone or have these huge crushes or whatever with this placement, and I mean, it is inevitable with VIA, it's kind of our passionate, fiery, loving nature - but it's also important for us to stay grounded and realize these crushes for what they are and not get too invested if you can't ever see it going anywhere.

I totally get you. I've gotten better at catching myself in the beginning stages but still make mistakes. And sometimes I can tell myself the other person feels the same way even without knowing it, almost as a reason for me to charge forward and try to win them. Haha. I know that some people take a very long time to show how they feel in relationships. But for me it's like I know instantly (or think I do) and need to express that.

25 is very young, you're right. You have lots of time to meet people and get to know yourself better. I'm in my 30's now and agree that this placement is actually very good for the "moving on" phase. I do move on faster than the average person after getting my heart broken.

Aries Venus falls fast and hard. It’s easy to disappoint us

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

I was with two Aries Venus guys (both had Sun in Aries too)

Both of them seemed to be the freedom loving types who at the same time needed to be with someone

I remember talking to a woman who said she let her Venus in Aries lover go as she always sensed that Aries in Venus wanted to be on to the next thing

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

That must have been difficult for the men in your life?

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.

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Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

That must have been difficult for the men in your life?

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Yes, for quite a few 🙈

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.

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My ex was a workacholic (Cap) and wasn't tending to our relationship after a while. I stayed probably three years longer than I should have... Trying to work it out...

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

My Venus is in the 5th house and I also have a Venus sextile to the moon and Juno. I thought that meant I'd be good at relationships but maybe not..

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Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

That must have been difficult for the men in your life?

Yes, for quite a few 🙈

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It's tough being with one for a long time if you're free spirited. Are you still with your kids' dad?

I no longer believe in "the one"

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Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.

My ex was a workacholic (Cap) and wasn't tending to our relationship after a while. I stayed probably three years longer than I should have... Trying to work it out...

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why was he a workaholic - due to finances, or just the way he was ? that ironic - and I'm sorry, I do know how that is - I always tried harder than most as well and gave it my best shot but when it came down to end, I was "done" ... because basically the other party wasn't understanding and doing something about it so if the relationship didn't mean anything to them, then so be it - I was gone

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.

My ex was a workacholic (Cap) and wasn't tending to our relationship after a while. I stayed probably three years longer than I should have... Trying to work it out...

why was he a workaholic - due to finances, or just the way he was ? that ironic - and I'm sorry, I do know how that is - I always tried harder than most as well and gave it my best shot but when it came down to end, I was "done" ... because basically the other party wasn't understanding and doing something about it so if the relationship didn't mean anything to them, then so be it - I was gone

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He literally said to me that he didn't know who he was if he wasn't at work. He didn't need two jobs, but wanted to have two. It really hurt after awhile, not being made a priority. I felt like I was the only one trying...

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.

My ex was a workacholic (Cap) and wasn't tending to our relationship after a while. I stayed probably three years longer than I should have... Trying to work it out...

why was he a workaholic - due to finances, or just the way he was ? that ironic - and I'm sorry, I do know how that is - I always tried harder than most as well and gave it my best shot but when it came down to end, I was "done" ... because basically the other party wasn't understanding and doing something about it so if the relationship didn't mean anything to them, then so be it - I was gone

He literally said to me that he didn't know who he was if he wasn't at work. He didn't need two jobs, but wanted to have two. It really hurt after awhile, not being made a priority. I felt like I was the only one trying...

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yes it sounds like you were the only one trying - unfortunately

Pisces Sun

Aries Venus

So Nope

I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

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Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

That must have been difficult for the men in your life?

Yes, for quite a few 🙈

It's tough being with one for a long time if you're free spirited. Are you still with your kids' dad?

I no longer believe in "the one"

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It’s no tough if you are both similar. Yes.

There’s always more than one 😄

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What does getting “ bored” mean

Aren’t you responsible for your own boredom

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

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With bored I mean that I need the relationship to keep moving. I don’t like it when it gets too predictable. I need change and lots of fun and passion.

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Impulsv

What does getting “ bored” mean

Aren’t you responsible for your own boredom

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

With bored I mean that I need the relationship to keep moving. I don’t like it when it gets too predictable. I need change and lots of fun and passion.

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Me too. Monotony and routine in relationships is like death.

As a Taurus female with a Venus in Aries, mars in cancer, and Gemini moon/rising I can def relate to this. I haven’t had many serious relationships in my life. Everyone tellls me it’s because I’m too picky but it’s really just hard for me to find someone who fits. So I just stopped trying lol.

My best matches were both Aries men with a Taurus Venus and a mars in Pisces. We seldom argued, they listened to me, we had fun. We were friends and turned into lovers. I’m still close to them to this day.

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I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

lol strange that she would apologize i mean who sees that as a problem ? lol

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What does getting “ bored” mean

Aren’t you responsible for your own boredom

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

With bored I mean that I need the relationship to keep moving. I don’t like it when it gets too predictable. I need change and lots of fun and passion.

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I'm the opposite - I preferred to have passionate hobbies that kept me busy until my SO was around. i prefer the stability and security of the monotony. It's never boring to me because one can be creative and find new things to explore and have adventures within that stability.

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually.

But unattainable.

And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

It is because Aries sign always charges headfirst to a challenge, no matter the odds - the only defining factor is if it ignites them.

As an Aries sun to a Venus Aries, I advise you to pick and choose your battles, and find worth in potential partners where stability and availability are present. Chasing after the latest exciting thing may make you see life in bright color now and then, but constantly chasing same high isn’t sustainable.

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I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

lol strange that she would apologize i mean who sees that as a problem ? lol

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She always came before me haha that made her feel guilty.

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I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

Lol xD

Doesn't sound bad tbh.

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believe me, it's not - but he said she was a Pisces lol so there lol

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I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

lol strange that she would apologize i mean who sees that as a problem ? lol

She always came before me haha that made her feel guilty.

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lol must be a Pisces problem lol - I had several o's before he even thought about coming - ok now I miss that so I'll shut up lol

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Posted by Impulsv

What does getting “ bored” mean

Aren’t you responsible for your own boredom

Posted by pisceswoman123

The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.

My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.

For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.

With bored I mean that I need the relationship to keep moving. I don’t like it when it gets too predictable. I need change and lots of fun and passion.

I'm the opposite - I preferred to have passionate hobbies that kept me busy until my SO was around. i prefer the stability and security of the monotony. It's never boring to me because one can be creative and find new things to explore and have adventures within that stability.

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I have tons of hobbies and my job is always different. I need stability too. I like to be secure in the relationship but with lots of movement

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

Lol xD

Doesn't sound bad tbh.

believe me, it's not - but he said she was a Pisces lol so there lol

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Lol Pisces ladies aren't so bad..

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I know lol

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually.

But unattainable.

And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

It is because Aries sign always charges headfirst to a challenge, no matter the odds - the only defining factor is if it ignites them.

As an Aries sun to a Venus Aries, I advise you to pick and choose your battles, and find worth in potential partners where stability and availability are present. Chasing after the latest exciting thing may make you see life in bright color now and then, but constantly chasing same high isn’t sustainable.

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well said and I have found that to be so true !

I am a taurus sun, Aqua moon, Aries venus, taurus mars and aries mercury. I become bored with relationships very easily. When I become bored i notice I'll start causing drama to try to keep things interesting, but by that point I know it's over. Predictability and routine are relationship killers for me. I'm in a relationship now with a taurus sun, leo moon man and he keeps things interesting. Fingers crossed it continues lol.

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I once briefly dated a Pisces woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Gem. She would orgasm so fast and was so multi-orgasmic..she spent the rest of the time only apologizing for it

Sounds like a Pisces Aries Venus to me but I don’t apologize for it 😄

Posted by Resqume

I am a taurus sun, Aqua moon, Aries venus, taurus mars and aries mercury. I become bored with relationships very easily. When I become bored i notice I'll start causing drama to try to keep things interesting, but by that point I know it's over. Predictability and routine are relationship killers for me. I'm in a relationship now with a taurus sun, leo moon man and he keeps things interesting. Fingers crossed it continues lol.

My Libra mom calls this pattern “chronic dissatisfaction”.

We all fall for this at some point in life, consciously or subconsciously. Boredom. It generally stems from unhappiness with self and life, so we attempt to break the routine to make things happen - but usually to our own detriment.

I found it easier to just acquire fun hobbies and keep changing and reconstructing workplace positions to advance the career, and leave my love life alone.

From personal growth all other aspects of life will follow. They’ll either grow with you, or will fall into the void of history’s past, and be replaced by someone who suits you better.

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?

I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.

I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually.

But unattainable.

And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.

What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...

It is because Aries sign always charges headfirst to a challenge, no matter the odds - the only defining factor is if it ignites them.

As an Aries sun to a Venus Aries, I advise you to pick and choose your battles, and find worth in potential partners where stability and availability are present. Chasing after the latest exciting thing may make you see life in bright color now and then, but constantly chasing same high isn’t sustainable.

well said and I have found that to be so true !

Ha, well, I’m crushing on a Vigruy at the moment who lives 7 hours away, so this is right up my alley. I’m enjoying the high, but letting it slide, reality checking.

I moved countries for a guy once when I was younger. Lesson learned.

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I gotcha - it gets old before you realize and then one day it's like "meh" - I am more stable now and I'm not going to ruin that for some short shift fling - the glasses are off ! too bad for me that it just didn't happen that way sooner in my life - I guess I'll be another cat woman now

I’m an Aries Venus and other fire Venus folks are definitely our best match by far.

But in true Aries fashion I tend to go for earth suns with air venuses because I like a challenge lol🤦‍♀️