DiamondGemini
@diamonddgemm
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Would you leave a girl for being too much for you?
Posted by Cvurkoo
I love competition and i love having a strong partner with whom to create a relationahip in which we both motivate each other.
Even if i feel intimidated i am pretty self-confident and brave to never back down.
On the other hand, a partner who lacks these qualities wont get me very excited
Aren’t you a Pisces?
It's kinda the oposite diamonddgemm...that's what makes us tick lol
You know...chase ?... 🙂
So...nop, that was not the reason ^^
When and why did you 2 broke up ? Was it you or him ? How old is he ? Maybe i can help you a bit on this one ^^
And btw, don't compare yourself with his current gf, ok ? Don't do this to yourself...we will figure this one out ^^
You know...chase ?... 🙂
So...nop, that was not the reason ^^
When and why did you 2 broke up ? Was it you or him ? How old is he ? Maybe i can help you a bit on this one ^^
And btw, don't compare yourself with his current gf, ok ? Don't do this to yourself...we will figure this one out ^^
I don't think I've ever met an Aries that have some inferiority complex when it comes to their significant other. Most of them are turned on by their partner kicking ass and taking names.
Posted by UnicornSag
I think you over rated yourself there a bit and highly doubt that's the reason Aries left you. Aries is all about competition, being good is certainly not something that will chase them away
exactly.
It would be a good thing OP (Diamondgemini) if you can detach from that Aries of yours..... he HAS A GIRLFRIEND
going to his place for university will not change it
you are chasing him like there is no tomorrow..... get a life
PS. you will get over it, dont worry.... but dont make it in your imagination, that he is interested in you, because he sometimes texts you
you two had a long time on and off, and he doesnt love you, that was clear from all of your posts... you are obsessed with him, or it seems like it, tbh, sorry to say 😢
well, to me ambition is not related to romance.
I would be happy if my SO have high goals, instead of being intimidated.
but maybe I'm not the right person to answer because I have a very active mars in capricorn lol
I would be happy if my SO have high goals, instead of being intimidated.
but maybe I'm not the right person to answer because I have a very active mars in capricorn lol
Yes I know they like chase and competition, but they also hate loosing. But is it the same if the girl has bigger goals, a career, a high payig job when you don’t even have a college degree? Like that wouldn’t make the aries man feel inferior? ( even though he appreciates the girl and loves that she is like that )
My aries and I story is a long long long complicated story, you probably don’t have the patience to read it. And nope, I’m not comparing myself with his gf because there is nothing to compare to. I’m not saying she is not nice or anything, but behavior wise she sucks. He could do better.
Anyway thanks 🙂
My aries and I story is a long long long complicated story, you probably don’t have the patience to read it. And nope, I’m not comparing myself with his gf because there is nothing to compare to. I’m not saying she is not nice or anything, but behavior wise she sucks. He could do better.
Anyway thanks 🙂
Posted by IamTheRam
It's kinda the oposite diamonddgemm...that's what makes us tick lol
You know...chase ?... 🙂
So...nop, that was not the reason ^^
When and why did you 2 broke up ? Was it you or him ? How old is he ? Maybe i can help you a bit on this one ^^
And btw, don't compare yourself with his current gf, ok ? Don't do this to yourself...we will figure this one out ^^
I’m not necesarily thinking that’s why he left me, since I was the one leaving him in the first place. And this post is not necesarily about him, but about men and aries men in general, since aries man are the ones I’m most attracted to from a zodiac sign point of view. And I’m not refering to just being good, but what if the guy feels inferior to the girl and feels he can never win? Aries guys love competition but they also hate loosing. Wouldn’t always loose make him quit? ( even though aries are not quitters )
Posted by UnicornSag
I think you over rated yourself there a bit and highly doubt that's the reason Aries left you. Aries is all about competition, being good is certainly not something that will chase them away
Ok good. But doesn’t that kinda crash with aries wanting to be the 1st always? I mean wouldn’t they feel inferior if the women had a career, a high income, and successful when they’re older and don’t even have a college degree or barely make any money? That’s what I’m refering to. blockquote> Posted by Plutonian
I don't think I've ever met an Aries that have some inferiority complex when it comes to their significant other. Most of them are turned on by their partner kicking ass and taking names.
I don't think I've ever met an Aries that have some inferiority complex when it comes to their significant other. Most of them are turned on by their partner kicking ass and taking names.
ow why you’re saying I’m not detached. The fact that I talk about it or ask questions does not mean I’m way obssesed over him. It’s just that I have those questions and I’d rather talk them out with people. Easy. I’m already seeing someone else and I’m clearly not going to his university because of him. I applied there from October I had no clue he was going to go there or that his gf was there. And the fact that he has a gf doesn’t mean anything if he disrespects her like this. I wouldn’t like my boyfriend contacting his ex when I’m not okay with it and I dislike it. But whatever. And sorry not sorry but I honestly don’t understand what is he doing texting me and stalking me and asking about me. If I were a man with a girlfriend I love I wouldn’t do that. And I don’t get why you’re attacking me when I’m just being nicePosted by Pandora101Posted by UnicornSag
I think you over rated yourself there a bit and highly doubt that's the reason Aries left you. Aries is all about competition, being good is certainly not something that will chase them away
exactly.
It would be a good thing OP (Diamondgemini) if you can detach from that Aries of yours..... he HAS A GIRLFRIEND
going to his place for university will not change it
you are chasing him like there is no tomorrow..... get a life
PS. you will get over it, dont worry.... but dont make it in your imagination, that he is interested in you, because he sometimes texts you
you two had a long time on and off, and he doesnt love you, that was clear from all of your posts... you are obsessed with him, or it seems like it, tbh, sorry to say 😢click to expand
What if that person had a career, uni degree, an awesome job and everything else? You would still be there if you made less or barely had a degree?
Posted by Scarface
well, to me ambition is not related to romance.
I would be happy if my SO have high goals, instead of being intimidated.
but maybe I'm not the right person to answer because I have a very active mars in capricorn lol
Posted by diamonddgemmLol, I see 🙂
Yes I know they like chase and competition, but they also hate loosing. But is it the same if the girl has bigger goals, a career, a high payig job when you don’t even have a college degree? Like that wouldn’t make the aries man feel inferior? ( even though he appreciates the girl and loves that she is like that )
My aries and I story is a long long long complicated story, you probably don’t have the patience to read it. And nope, I’m not comparing myself with his gf because there is nothing to compare to. I’m not saying she is not nice or anything, but behavior wise she sucks. He could do better.
Anyway thanks 🙂
I dunno about him, because astrology is what it is...but if you take in consideration the basics of an Aries..it wold most likely make him chase for more.
By chasing you in terms of goals and everything, he was also improving himself in the mean time.
But maybe you are right, you are the one that knows him.
Just do one thing, also look at yourself. Maybe there are some errors or mistakes that you might have done in the past with him...by acknowledging your own mistakes and actualy learning from them, you are also improving yourself.
Nobody is almighty ^^ And if you want to say a bit of the story it's fine...i will read it 🙂
Posted by diamonddgemmyou said in your last thread that you blocked each other. So? how he could get trhou?
I don’t know why you’re saying I’m not detached. The fact that I talk about it or ask questions does not mean I’m way obssesed over him. It’s just that I have those questions and I’d rather talk them out with people. Easy. I’m already seeing someone else and I’m clearly not going to his university because of him. I applied there from October I had no clue he was going to go there or that his gf was there. And the fact that he has a gf doesn’t mean anything if he disrespects her like this. I wouldn’t like my boyfriend contacting his ex when I’m not okay with it and I dislike it. But whatever. And sorry not sorry but I honestly don’t understand what is he doing texting me and stalking me and asking about me. If I were a man with a girlfriend I love I wouldn’t do that. And I don’t get why you’re attacking me when I’m just being nicePosted by Pandora101Posted by UnicornSag
I think you over rated yourself there a bit and highly doubt that's the reason Aries left you. Aries is all about competition, being good is certainly not something that will chase them away
exactly.
It would be a good thing OP (Diamondgemini) if you can detach from that Aries of yours..... he HAS A GIRLFRIEND
going to his place for university will not change it
you are chasing him like there is no tomorrow..... get a life
PS. you will get over it, dont worry.... but dont make it in your imagination, that he is interested in you, because he sometimes texts you
you two had a long time on and off, and he doesnt love you, that was clear from all of your posts... you are obsessed with him, or it seems like it, tbh, sorry to say 😢click to expand
On your last topic several people told you, you are following him to that town..... I am not sure why you think he is "stalking" you, when in reality you just cant move on.....
you are not being nice, you are obsessed with him
I understand, that you are hurt and very angry.... but be honest to yourself.... you just cant let him go... even thou he has a girlfriend.... he is not stalking you.... you are the one who wanted to go to Uni to his new town, where he lives with his girlfriend...
who is a stalker?
if it helps you to think you were too good and accomplished for him, then think it.... but its just desperate... all your posts about him shows you are deluded
he is not stalking you, he DOES NOT CARE about you
leave him alone already and dont react, if he randomly texts you
just my 2 cents (based on your previous posts)
Posted by TimonYes, I am maybe angry at her, because she created posts about the aries stalking her and etc... which is evidently not truePosted by Pandora101Wow a bit harsh no? Sounds like you're angry at her lol. She doesn't come off as hurt and angry but that's how I see it. I only think that she might think he cares more than he actually does. I read her first post. Why do you say that she moved there because of him? She didn't even know about him moving there until he contacted her.Posted by diamonddgemmyou said in your last thread that you blocked each other. So? how he could get trhou?
I don’t know why you’re saying I’m not detached. The fact that I talk about it or ask questions does not mean I’m way obssesed over him. It’s just that I have those questions and I’d rather talk them out with people. Easy. I’m already seeing someone else and I’m clearly not going to his university because of him. I applied there from October I had no clue he was going to go there or that his gf was there. And the fact that he has a gf doesn’t mean anything if he disrespects her like this. I wouldn’t like my boyfriend contacting his ex when I’m not okay with it and I dislike it. But whatever. And sorry not sorry but I honestly don’t understand what is he doing texting me and stalking me and asking about me. If I were a man with a girlfriend I love I wouldn’t do that. And I don’t get why you’re attacking me when I’m just being nicePosted by Pandora101Posted by UnicornSag
I think you over rated yourself there a bit and highly doubt that's the reason Aries left you. Aries is all about competition, being good is certainly not something that will chase them away
exactly.
It would be a good thing OP (Diamondgemini) if you can detach from that Aries of yours..... he HAS A GIRLFRIEND
going to his place for university will not change it
you are chasing him like there is no tomorrow..... get a life
PS. you will get over it, dont worry.... but dont make it in your imagination, that he is interested in you, because he sometimes texts you
you two had a long time on and off, and he doesnt love you, that was clear from all of your posts... you are obsessed with him, or it seems like it, tbh, sorry to say 😢
On your last topic several people told you, you are following him to that town..... I am not sure why you think he is "stalking" you, when in reality you just cant move on.....
you are not being nice, you are obsessed with him
I understand, that you are hurt and very angry.... but be honest to yourself.... you just cant let him go... even thou he has a girlfriend.... he is not stalking you.... you are the one who wanted to go to Uni to his new town, where he lives with his girlfriend...
who is a stalker?
if it helps you to think you were too good and accomplished for him, then think it.... but its just desperate... all your posts about him shows you are deluded
he is not stalking you, he DOES NOT CARE about you
leave him alone already and dont react, if he randomly texts you
just my 2 cents (based on your previous posts)
However I also don't think he moved there because of her. His gf is there and when he saw that his ex is living there he was surprised and contacted her. I mean he is an aries. Even though it didn't end well aries never hold grudges. He probably even forgot he was mad at her at some point lol. It was just a casual text like "hah what a coincidence I live there too" nothing more nothing less.
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you said yourself: "It was just a casual text like "hah what a coincidence I live there too" nothing more nothing less. "
but the OP is not seeing it as just nothing more, nothing less.... she thinks he is stalking her... which is ridiculous
I just want the OP leave him alone, which she cant.... thats why I was maybe harsh.... so many deluded posts about him...... I hate when people are not honest with themselves, and the OP is a prime example of this
and I would like to know: if the blocked each other, how the message went trou?
Posted by diamonddgemmWhy would you think like that LMAO. We are never the inferiority complex type and some people already made clear about that. It's the opposite of what you think. Aries will get turned on even more if their partner could achieve more than they do. Because it would CHALLENGE them to be better. And Aries LOVES THE CHALLENGE.
What if that person had a career, uni degree, an awesome job and everything else? You would still be there if you made less or barely had a degree?Posted by Scarface
well, to me ambition is not related to romance.
I would be happy if my SO have high goals, instead of being intimidated.
but maybe I'm not the right person to answer because I have a very active mars in capricorn lolclick to expand
Aries get bored. I mean look at the whole chart
I’m Aries sun, cap moon, Pisces venus and aqua mars
No one will ever make me truly happy
I never been in love. It’s about the chase for me and the experience
Not for love
I’m Aries sun, cap moon, Pisces venus and aqua mars
No one will ever make me truly happy
I never been in love. It’s about the chase for me and the experience
Not for love
Posted by diamonddgemmI think you misunderstood us. We only want to be no.1 in things we want to achieve, and it has to be from our own effort. We don't necessarily need to dominate our partner in every little aspects in life if we don't feel like to. So your reasoning is kinda sounds stupid.
Ok good. But doesn’t that kinda crash with aries wanting to be the 1st always? I mean wouldn’t they feel inferior if the women had a career, a high income, and successful when they’re older and don’t even have a college degree or barely make any money? That’s what I’m refering to.
Posted by vixen14I’m not relying on shitPosted by Queenaries2You gotta stop relying on astrology to make you happy. A chart won’t determine if you’ll be happy or not, you have a choice too. And I’m sure someone out there is for you, you just haven’t found him or given him a chance.
Aries get bored. I mean look at the whole chart
I’m Aries sun, cap moon, Pisces venus and aqua mars
No one will ever make me truly happy
I never been in love. It’s about the chase for me and the experience
Not for loveclick to expand
I’m just stating my placements and telling the OP how it is
Most Aries people I know don’t give a fuck about most people
#sorrynotsorry
Lol I started reading this and expected it to be written by an Aries woman, because Aries women do have men leave them because they are strong, in fact some of my Aries friends tone it down and make themselves less strong and successful because yeah men want to be the leaders.
But if you are like this, then Aries men are definitely the least likely to get scared and move away. You think Aries men get scared or something? Lol this is the funniest shit I’ve ever heard.
But are you some sort of celebrity goddess supermodel? Because then yes maybe I might think at some point that I’m not good looking enough, but even then I’d give it a go.
Posted by RooSagicornsorry for off topic
Not the case with my Aries ex. I had the degree, the career, etc. he never went to college. 20 years, 2 kids and my career & it was never an issue. He was very supportive. He had his own thing & he was cool with that & racing in his spare time.
Now with my Cap and my first husband Pisces YES! Big issues related to me having more, being smarter, career, degree etc.
RooSagi your new profil pic is sooo cute 🙂
Posted by RooSagicornit definitely shows! 🙂 you look sooo young, vibrant and kinda romantic..... very positive 🙂Posted by Pandora101Thanks!! 🙂 I’m feeling more like me & lost 15 pounds since I got back from vacation. All around feeling better! Maybe it shows?Posted by RooSagicornsorry for off topic
Not the case with my Aries ex. I had the degree, the career, etc. he never went to college. 20 years, 2 kids and my career & it was never an issue. He was very supportive. He had his own thing & he was cool with that & racing in his spare time.
Now with my Cap and my first husband Pisces YES! Big issues related to me having more, being smarter, career, degree etc.
RooSagi your new profil pic is sooo cute 🙂
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Low self esteem and self worth. Not believing in yourself even after receiving help and encouragement. Have goals no matter how small......plus a dishonest character.......when we had enough we had enough only God can change our minds
Posted by diamonddgemm
I mean if you find yourself sort of intimidated by her because she has high goals, she’s smart and everything else? If she makes you feel less? If she intimidates you? Would you leave her or decide not to pursue anything because you feel you’re not good enough and you can’t reach up to her ?
I know that Aries always want to be first at everything and Im wondering whether having a woman like that would make them feel less men.
No! From my experience knowing Aries men and women, they love go-getters and competition. If anything those things would turn them on. Stop looking for reasons why this guy isn't into you. There are millions of other guys out there so if this one isn't interested find another. If an Aries man isn't chasing you he's just not interested.
Posted by Pandora101Posted by TimonPosted by Pandora101Posted by diamonddgemm
I don’t know why you’re saying I’m not detached. The fact that I talk about it or ask questions does not mean I’m way obssesed over him. It’s just that I have those questions and I’d rather talk them out with people. Easy. I’m already seeing someone else and I’m clearly not going to his university because of him.
If you're seeing a new guy why is this Aries still on your brain? You're not over it.click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by Pandora101Posted by TimonPosted by Pandora101Posted by diamonddgemm
I don’t know why you’re saying I’m not detached. The fact that I talk about it or ask questions does not mean I’m way obssesed over him. It’s just that I have those questions and I’d rather talk them out with people. Easy. I’m already seeing someone else and I’m clearly not going to his university because of him.
If you're seeing a new guy why is this Aries still on your brain? You're not over it.
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