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cheating is not okay. Fantasizing about someone else is not wrong imo, because not something you can control

doing anything otherwise is not okay. If unhappy, why don't people just leave their relationships
I am not going to comment on cheating.

But one woman explained to me that she is unhappy in marriage but not leaving her husband because it will mean losing her time with her child and it is not acceptable to her. She loves her child so much but she also can't bare thought of not being with her child when her husband will have her so there is a lot to consider and not easy just to divorce.


And whats your excuse for cheating? Genuinely asking here...

Your kids are grown so I know its not that.
Loving the man
But love doesn't happen overnight. You chose to spend time with... in order for the love to develop.

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Not always love needs to develop. It can happen to exchange eye contact with a stranger. And after 2 seconds to know it's there.

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flirty people should stick together lol

both of us are friendly but not flirty e.g. we would never comment on how good / sexy an opposite sex looks. i appreciate friendly and pleasant guys in general. scorp is. sometimes women took it the wrong way though. he would be all friendly and having a pleasant conversation with a stranger at a hotel bar waiting for his friend, and then the woman would suddenly slide him her room key lol ?? his married hairdresser of years one day in a middle of a pleasant conversation "do you want to get together after this?"??!!


Two friendly, secure people who are not suspicious of one another...happiest couple ever. They are secure because someone respects them, trusts them, has their back, sees the absolute best in them always. That's the couple that can take on the world.
THIS. Except, I'm jealous. It has all to do with the other woman because I look at other women and think, "THEY ARE SO FORKING SEXY!"
There was a time when I was so jealous I couldn't stand for my girlfriend to look at another man, much less speak to him. A few different things happened to change that. I lost some good people. I missed out on some great opportunities. I got tired of feeling insecure. I quit drinking on dates. I even went to therapy and hated every minute of it. And then I learned to date women who operated similarly to me, and could give me the sense of security I needed without smothering me. I tried to date someone who was jealous not so long ago, and once again, it shook me and made _me_ feel jealous.
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Therapy could help (I don't drink.) I definitely feel that I'm jealous and that he is reasonably jealous (but I try not to cross that line or provoke his jealousy.)

I think a part of the dynamic is that opened the door to being that girlfriend who talks about other girls, whereas he has never had any interest in talking about other men. So, it's biting me in the bum because now I've discovered that I can't always contain my irrational feelings of jealousy. It could be a good exercise - to expose myself to the chance of feeling jealous only to learn to manage it.
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cheating is not okay. Fantasizing about someone else is not wrong imo, because not something you can control

doing anything otherwise is not okay. If unhappy, why don't people just leave their relationships
I am not going to comment on cheating.

But one woman explained to me that she is unhappy in marriage but not leaving her husband because it will mean losing her time with her child and it is not acceptable to her. She loves her child so much but she also can't bare thought of not being with her child when her husband will have her so there is a lot to consider and not easy just to divorce.


And whats your excuse for cheating? Genuinely asking here...

Your kids are grown so I know its not that.
Loving the man
But love doesn't happen overnight. You chose to spend time with... in order for the love to develop.
Not always love needs to develop. It can happen to exchange eye contact with a stranger. And after 2 seconds to know it's there.

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Thank you love!

Tell them because I am tired and sick of explaining that no one wants to be a bad guy unless they are serial cheaters and put themselves into this cituation where you wish you were dead if not with that person!

Love happens! Like we had just discussed - love is a choice! Frigginh NO!

It chooses you! And there is no explanation of IT! It's a blessing or curse depends on circumstances.
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For a committed relationship, pornography is a no-no for me; but it's not something to break the relationship apart but rather somewhere where one needs to discuss. It's usually an indication that their sexual needs are not being met.
Not necessarily; there's plenty of people who just watch porn because it's a quick release.

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Or for educational purposes🙂

What if I see something I haven't done yet?

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For a committed relationship, pornography is a no-no for me; but it's not something to break the relationship apart but rather somewhere where one needs to discuss. It's usually an indication that their sexual needs are not being met.
Not necessarily; there's plenty of people who just watch porn because it's a quick release.


Or for educational purposes🙂

What if I see something I haven't done yet?

?
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In that case, I will automatically assume you're sex deprived. Cuz they haven't invented new moves in porn since 1967.
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flirty people should stick together lol

both of us are friendly but not flirty e.g. we would never comment on how good / sexy an opposite sex looks. i appreciate friendly and pleasant guys in general. scorp is. sometimes women took it the wrong way though. he would be all friendly and having a pleasant conversation with a stranger at a hotel bar waiting for his friend, and then the woman would suddenly slide him her room key lol ?? his married hairdresser of years one day in a middle of a pleasant conversation "do you want to get together after this?"??!!


Two friendly, secure people who are not suspicious of one another...happiest couple ever. They are secure because someone respects them, trusts them, has their back, sees the absolute best in them always. That's the couple that can take on the world.
when you really know and trust someone's character, you would tend to be a better person around him. one time the wife of a buddy jumped him in front of the buddy when they were drinking too much lol!!! scorp pushed her away jumped back in a frantic state and broke their slide door glass LOL. his buddy just laughed and said no worries man lol

they moved away to another state for more than couple years now. i hope they are still good lol


It's such a relaxing and comfortable place to be. I just can't say enough about how good it feels to not have someone always doubt you. I guess I can at least thank my ex for teaching me that.
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what you said in bold was the key though. i'm actually a very possessive person. i don't care about other women and how they approach him. it's him. his attitude. his response. how it's us agains the world when he is by my side and how he makes me feel everyday without a doubt that i'm above all. it's very simple actually
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For a committed relationship, pornography is a no-no for me; but it's not something to break the relationship apart but rather somewhere where one needs to discuss. It's usually an indication that their sexual needs are not being met.
Not necessarily; there's plenty of people who just watch porn because it's a quick release.


Or for educational purposes🙂

What if I see something I haven't done yet?

?
In that case, I will automatically assume you're sex deprived. Cuz they haven't invented new moves in porn since 1967.
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?I know! But I am assuming people who aren't sex deprived and watching porns anyway - just checking just in case - what if?

I had discovered not too long ago about squirting and was like whaaaat?

And when discovered fisting - my eyes popped! I was looking at the picture for a while trying to understand what IS it and where IS it?

Still wondering - when it's there - do you wiggle your fingers? What's the point?



Was it known always? To me it's BIG news.

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flirty people should stick together lol

both of us are friendly but not flirty e.g. we would never comment on how good / sexy an opposite sex looks. i appreciate friendly and pleasant guys in general. scorp is. sometimes women took it the wrong way though. he would be all friendly and having a pleasant conversation with a stranger at a hotel bar waiting for his friend, and then the woman would suddenly slide him her room key lol ?? his married hairdresser of years one day in a middle of a pleasant conversation "do you want to get together after this?"??!!


Two friendly, secure people who are not suspicious of one another...happiest couple ever. They are secure because someone respects them, trusts them, has their back, sees the absolute best in them always. That's the couple that can take on the world.
when you really know and trust someone's character, you would tend to be a better person around him. one time the wife of a buddy jumped him in front of the buddy when they were drinking too much lol!!! scorp pushed her away jumped back in a frantic state and broke their slide door glass LOL. his buddy just laughed and said no worries man lol

they moved away to another state for more than couple years now. i hope they are still good lol


It's such a relaxing and comfortable place to be. I just can't say enough about how good it feels to not have someone always doubt you. I guess I can at least thank my ex for teaching me that.
what you said in bold was the key though. i'm actually a very possessive person. i don't care about other women and how they approach him. it's him. his attitude. his response. how it's us agains the world when he is by my side and how he makes me feel everyday without a doubt that i'm above all. it's very simple actually


It requires both people coming to the relationship ready for that, though. Unfortunately, you can not apply your own face-mask and then help the person next to you. I tried that. 😢
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i understand. i think it has a lot to do with how much you love each other and care about how each other feels also

you cannot fake love
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Anything physical is cheating to me. Kissing, mouth party, fucking etc.

Flirting is disrespectful, but not a deal breaker. At least not the first offence.
Some people are naturally friendly and talkative and others may or may not confuse this with flirting
That's when you pay close attention to body language. If they're talking about James Comey, no need to lean in and touch each other.
Naturally in person I'm very talkative friendly to just about anyone I see nothing wrong with giving out compliments that people earn but I've been accused of flirting just for simple compliments such as wow you're very polite, you're very well dressed, you're intelligent etc when in reality this is just stating my view on another human.
- that happen to all be women.
Not all women have insecurities this type
You´re misunderstanding me - I mean the people you give these innocent compliments to must all be women. Otherwise the women you are with who get jealous or whatever would not feel like this. Do you pay the same amount of attention to guys? Probably not ay?

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flirty people should stick together lol

both of us are friendly but not flirty e.g. we would never comment on how good / sexy an opposite sex looks. i appreciate friendly and pleasant guys in general. scorp is. sometimes women took it the wrong way though. he would be all friendly and having a pleasant conversation with a stranger at a hotel bar waiting for his friend, and then the woman would suddenly slide him her room key lol ?? his married hairdresser of years one day in a middle of a pleasant conversation "do you want to get together after this?"??!!


Two friendly, secure people who are not suspicious of one another...happiest couple ever. They are secure because someone respects them, trusts them, has their back, sees the absolute best in them always. That's the couple that can take on the world.
when you really know and trust someone's character, you would tend to be a better person around him. one time the wife of a buddy jumped him in front of the buddy when they were drinking too much lol!!! scorp pushed her away jumped back in a frantic state and broke their slide door glass LOL. his buddy just laughed and said no worries man lol

they moved away to another state for more than couple years now. i hope they are still good lol


It's such a relaxing and comfortable place to be. I just can't say enough about how good it feels to not have someone always doubt you. I guess I can at least thank my ex for teaching me that.
what you said in bold was the key though. i'm actually a very possessive person. i don't care about other women and how they approach him. it's him. his attitude. his response. how it's us agains the world when he is by my side and how he makes me feel everyday without a doubt that i'm above all. it's very simple actually


It requires both people coming to the relationship ready for that, though. Unfortunately, you can not apply your own face-mask and then help the person next to you. I tried that. 😢
i understand. i think it has a lot to do with how much you love each other and care about how each other feels also

you cannot fake love
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Oh yes you can!

People doing it for a green card all the time!

When one needs something from another - it's the best vicious act of love to the end until desired received! And cruelty of it is hard to describe! And devastation of the 'taken' party is awful! Because they believed they were everything! And they stripped naked and thrown in a mud!

Urghhhh
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flirty people should stick together lol

both of us are friendly but not flirty e.g. we would never comment on how good / sexy an opposite sex looks. i appreciate friendly and pleasant guys in general. scorp is. sometimes women took it the wrong way though. he would be all friendly and having a pleasant conversation with a stranger at a hotel bar waiting for his friend, and then the woman would suddenly slide him her room key lol ?? his married hairdresser of years one day in a middle of a pleasant conversation "do you want to get together after this?"??!!


Two friendly, secure people who are not suspicious of one another...happiest couple ever. They are secure because someone respects them, trusts them, has their back, sees the absolute best in them always. That's the couple that can take on the world.
when you really know and trust someone's character, you would tend to be a better person around him. one time the wife of a buddy jumped him in front of the buddy when they were drinking too much lol!!! scorp pushed her away jumped back in a frantic state and broke their slide door glass LOL. his buddy just laughed and said no worries man lol

they moved away to another state for more than couple years now. i hope they are still good lol


It's such a relaxing and comfortable place to be. I just can't say enough about how good it feels to not have someone always doubt you. I guess I can at least thank my ex for teaching me that.
what you said in bold was the key though. i'm actually a very possessive person. i don't care about other women and how they approach him. it's him. his attitude. his response. how it's us agains the world when he is by my side and how he makes me feel everyday without a doubt that i'm above all. it's very simple actually


It requires both people coming to the relationship ready for that, though. Unfortunately, you can not apply your own face-mask and then help the person next to you. I tried that. 😢
i understand. i think it has a lot to do with how much you love each other and care about how each other feels also

you cannot fake love
Oh yes you can!

People doing it for a green card all the time!

When one needs something from another - it's the best vicious act of love to the end until desired received! And cruelty of it is hard to describe! And devastation of the 'taken' party is awful! Because they believed they were everything! And they stripped naked and thrown in a mud!

Urghhhh
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how about this - one cannot fake love to me. i know it sounds narcissistic but i'm born to be loved and to love so it's a real strength of mine lol
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For a committed relationship, pornography is a no-no for me; but it's not something to break the relationship apart but rather somewhere where one needs to discuss. It's usually an indication that their sexual needs are not being met.
Not necessarily; there's plenty of people who just watch porn because it's a quick release.


And you can't get your girlfriend to give you a quick release?
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I wasn't referring to such scenario, but the one where she isn't momentarily with me. Some days your girlfriend happens to be out of town for work (or viceversa it's you). Spending time with her family in a different city. You wake up horny and you'd really like to have sex. Nothing is technically lacking in your sex life. But she's not there. The sooner you'll see her it's in 7 days.

What do you do? My point is that, depending on the circumstances, I don't see anything wrong with people watching it sporadically. I think personally it has more to do with the frequency with which one watches it rather the fact one watches it. I mean does it needs to be discussed that if you're watching it 3 times a day then I'm bothered? It's self-evident.
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Let's match up Palerio and Wagtail and watch the crazy commence!
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Eh don't actually hold people to any standards of what is or isn't cheating.

I was being facetious- I despise control in any form.

I don't cheat. That's all I control. Myself

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Let's match up Palerio and Wagtail and watch the crazy commence!
LOL

Eh don't actually hold people to any standards of what is or isn't cheating.

I was being facetious- I despise control in any form.

I don't cheat. That's all I control. Myself

#LoyalPotato
Just meet me at Woolworths, he'll never know.

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I see you! I'm all about that Sag mars life style too. People have no idea what they're missing.

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Cheating to me starts when you are doing and saying one thing, but basically doing something else behind the scenes, be that with messaging another with words like 'I will get your juices going'....... saw those words along with the persons nickname 'my little gusher'....... that to me was cheating pretty much...... what kind of man does that when he claims another as his woman.

Might seem a small thing, but if you can't keep that kind of conversation to just yourself and your woman, then you are an idiot and that is a small part of what you are.
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For a committed relationship, pornography is a no-no for me; but it's not something to break the relationship apart but rather somewhere where one needs to discuss. It's usually an indication that their sexual needs are not being met.
Not necessarily; there's plenty of people who just watch porn because it's a quick release.


And you can't get your girlfriend to give you a quick release?
I wasn't referring to such scenario, but the one where she isn't momentarily with me. Some days your girlfriend happens to be out of town for work (or viceversa it's you). Spending time with her family in a different city. You wake up horny and you'd really like to have sex. Nothing is technically lacking in your sex life. But she's not there. The sooner you'll see her it's in 7 days.

What do you do? My point is that, depending on the circumstances, I don't see anything wrong with people watching it sporadically. I think personally it has more to do with the frequency with which one watches it rather the fact one watches it. I mean does it needs to be discussed that if you're watching it 3 times a day then I'm bothered? It's self-evident.
Sounds like you'd use the same excuse for a whore back in the 1800s.

Today we have technology. When she is away you could have photos stored or you could Skype each other. Or control yourself until she's around. It's self-control.
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What if, in your absence, your girlfriend were to sporadically use a vibrator? As your relationship progresses, would knowing that undermine your confidence and in the long-run lead to a feeling of "inadequacy"?
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Anything physical is cheating to me. Kissing, mouth party, fucking etc.

Flirting is disrespectful, but not a deal breaker. At least not the first offence.
Some people are naturally friendly and talkative and others may or may not confuse this with flirting
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the story of my life.

libra moon here.

i was hanging out in the bar area at my local whole foods today

when this scorpio who i had been chatting with gave me his number

i thought i had made a new friend until he touched the small of my back

8l

20 minutes later i was chatting with another guy in the same bar area when his wife sat between us and started acting weird.

i mean i think i dress in away that makes my sexual orientation obvious...but i guess not.

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Anything physical is cheating to me. Kissing, mouth party, fucking etc.

Flirting is disrespectful, but not a deal breaker. At least not the first offence.
Some people are naturally friendly and talkative and others may or may not confuse this with flirting
the story of my life.

libra moon here.

i was hanging out in the bar area at my local whole foods today

when this scorpio who i had been chatting with gave me his number

i thought i had made a new friend until he touched the small of my back

8l

20 minutes later i was chatting with another guy in the same bar area when his wife sat between us and started acting weird.

i mean i think i dress in away that makes my sexual orientation obvious...but i guess not.


Ya ppl think I'm flirting when I'm just happy.

I saw a friend I hadn't seen in a while and got excited and ran up and hugged him saying his name.

Then the chick he was standing there mocked my accent.

I looked at her and said "wow you're a bit pathetic c.unt now aren't you?!"

She was shocked.

Cuz I went from bubbly to c.unt I'm ten secs.

*twirl*

#libramoonlyfe
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lol i would never say that

what's your sun and merc?
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I keep hearing that there are many forms of cheating

From thinking of someone else and having sexual fantasies of someone you may or may not even know Then there's the watching pornography type of cheating where some may or may disagree it's cheating

To speaking to people in a friendly manner to flirting and or to sexting / phone sex etc

Then of course the actual act of cheating sleeping kissing someone else having intercourse with one or more person who is not the person you are committed to

What's acceptable to you when in a romantic relationship and not considered cheating opposed to what's not acceptable that you may consider crossing the line of infidelity.




you know I was reading an article about this poor lady who was idealizing her man, to the point of not seeing him for who he was...

she put him wwayyyy up high on a pedestal and thought he was the "perfect" man...who never would NEVER look at nudity or naked women or men, and especially never doing it, because that is sooooooo bad. lol

anyway the story is actually sad cause in the end he lied to her to keep her thinking that he is this awesome perfect guy and is continually placed on this high pedestal...

in the end, he ended up cheating AND staring a lot at porn, since it devastated her that he was stashing and hiding porn a lot from her, probably to the point of blindness.

why did he do that?

my guess is that he couldn't take the fact that this woman looks to him like this GOD-like creature and he was only human.



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Anything physical is cheating to me. Kissing, mouth party, fucking etc.

Flirting is disrespectful, but not a deal breaker. At least not the first offence.
Some people are naturally friendly and talkative and others may or may not confuse this with flirting
the story of my life.

libra moon here.

i was hanging out in the bar area at my local whole foods today

when this scorpio who i had been chatting with gave me his number

i thought i had made a new friend until he touched the small of my back

8l

20 minutes later i was chatting with another guy in the same bar area when his wife sat between us and started acting weird.

i mean i think i dress in away that makes my sexual orientation obvious...but i guess not.


Ya ppl think I'm flirting when I'm just happy.

I saw a friend I hadn't seen in a while and got excited and ran up and hugged him saying his name.

Then the chick he was standing there mocked my accent.

I looked at her and said "wow you're a bit pathetic c.unt now aren't you?!"

She was shocked.

Cuz I went from bubbly to c.unt I'm ten secs.

*twirl*

#libramoonlyfe
lol i would never say that

what's your sun and merc?
Cancer/Leo.

Well we aren't the same ppl.

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True....just seeing if there was a fire placement in your chart.

i would never use the c* word ..especially in a derogatory manner

because i'm gay.lol

but i do wish i could be as bold as you were at times.

i don't stand up for myself enough.

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Anything physical is cheating to me. Kissing, mouth party, fucking etc.

Flirting is disrespectful, but not a deal breaker. At least not the first offence.
Some people are naturally friendly and talkative and others may or may not confuse this with flirting
the story of my life.

libra moon here.

i was hanging out in the bar area at my local whole foods today

when this scorpio who i had been chatting with gave me his number

i thought i had made a new friend until he touched the small of my back

8l

20 minutes later i was chatting with another guy in the same bar area when his wife sat between us and started acting weird.

i mean i think i dress in away that makes my sexual orientation obvious...but i guess not.


Ya ppl think I'm flirting when I'm just happy.

I saw a friend I hadn't seen in a while and got excited and ran up and hugged him saying his name.

Then the chick he was standing there mocked my accent.

I looked at her and said "wow you're a bit pathetic c.unt now aren't you?!"

She was shocked.

Cuz I went from bubbly to c.unt I'm ten secs.

*twirl*

#libramoonlyfe
lol i would never say that

what's your sun and merc?
Cancer/Leo.

Well we aren't the same ppl.


True....just seeing if there was a fire placement in your chart.

i would never use the c* word ..especially in a derogatory manner

because i'm gay.lol

but i do wish i could be as bold as you were at times.

i don't stand up for myself enough.


I'm in Australia. C.unt is cultural
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goes to show that Libra moon isn't fazed by the crudeness....lol



we know some libra suns and libra moons and they are really into RESPECTABILITY.

and I always get that vibe deep down they don't like it, those nasty words.



or cussing like a sailor..so I always feel around them, to be RESPECTABLE.

they seem like undercover Capricorns....although some cappys are different indeed...it must be a Saturn thing. (cause libra is Venusian and saturnic I think)
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Posted by MaxPower
Posted by Pisces_Daydreamer
Cheating to me starts when you are doing and saying one thing, but basically doing something else behind the scenes, be that with messaging another with words like 'I will get your juices going'....... saw those words along with the persons nickname 'my little gusher'....... that to me was cheating pretty much...... what kind of man does that when he claims another as his woman.

Might seem a small thing, but if you can't keep that kind of conversation to just yourself and your woman, then you are an idiot and that is a small part of what you are.
That's definitely cheating in my book. He has a pet name for her that has to do with gushing? Probably fucking her.
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well, she lives in another country funnily enough, old girlfriend..... still, same bloody thing no??!! When I was told that what we had was adored and special blah blah..... all I can say is, if a man truly feels that, he would not do anything to muck up, would he??!!