Is it my ascendant?

The zodiac ascendant plays a crucial role in shaping how others perceive us and how we interact with the world. In this discussion, users share their experiences of feeling underestimated yet misunderstood, often feeling their true nature is hidden behind misconceptions. Many express frustration over being overlooked or misinterpreted despite offering valuable advice and insights. This thread delves into whether these feelings could be linked to astrological factors like the ascendant sign and how it impacts personal relationships and self-perception. By reading this thread, you will gain a deeper understanding of how astrology may influence your interactions and learn tips to better communicate your true self.

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Aquarius3189 on Friday, August 18, 2017 and has 22 replies.

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That people underestimate me?they look at me like i coudnt even hurt a fly but then when they get close to me they run away,they dont take my advice seriously but then when the time comes they will but it was too late and it pisses me off im like if you had taken my advice you woudnt be in that dilemma from the start,when i give my opinion its like im speaking a different language that they cant understand even if i lower my voice they still thought im arguing,the hell is wrong with me?or is it really me?

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Posted by bumboklatt
Yes and yes

Used to happen to me. Not anymore tho, you learn to use it as leverage

Although you should embrace it, ascendant is just a tiny part of you

How?because im really tired of it,i know when i speak people look at me like i had grown a 2nd head,i can get their attention because of my deep voice but then its like whats the use of my voice getting the attention if they treat me like that?

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Posted by WarAngel1
My asc makes me stoic and approachable, so they say.

my ascendant makes me look innocent like a child so im approachable and people just come to me naturally but then when it comes to work they dont give a shit about my opinion and ideas,they look at me like im not capable of it and that i am weak

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Can someone tell me how can i change this?

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I'm an Aqua ascendant. But my progressed ascendant is Pisces. I feel this way a lot. I feel overlooked too.

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Posted by Aquarius3189
That people underestimate me?they look at me like i coudnt even hurt a fly but then when they get close to me they run away,they dont take my advice seriously but then when the time comes they will but it was too late and it pisses me off im like if you had taken my advice you woudnt be in that dilemma from the start,when i give my opinion its like im speaking a different language that they cant understand even if i lower my voice they still thought im arguing,the hell is wrong with me?or is it really me?

Why be so bothered whether people take your advice or not?

That is there choice ..... All you can do is suggest. Save your energy for yourself and allow them their own choices ?

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Posted by NINETYNINE
Posted by Aquarius3189
That people underestimate me?they look at me like i coudnt even hurt a fly but then when they get close to me they run away,they dont take my advice seriously but then when the time comes they will but it was too late and it pisses me off im like if you had taken my advice you woudnt be in that dilemma from the start,when i give my opinion its like im speaking a different language that they cant understand even if i lower my voice they still thought im arguing,the hell is wrong with me?or is it really me?
I'm a Pisces Ascendant and agree with most of this.

Some people find me incredibly intimidating, some people view me as weaker, or not strong until they see me in action or attempt to "test" me.

I have Mars sextile my ASC which is in Taurus.

Your voice is to do with Mercury not the Ascendant.

Like this is my Leo Mercury, it's my voice.

https://vocaroo.com/i/s0ynMJn4jWl0

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probably why when i speak people tend to look at me like im bossy,authorative hence most of them hate my guts because they dont like to be boss around lol even when im just having a conversation or giving my honest opinion

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Posted by Aquarius3189
Can someone tell me how can i change this?

Whats your MC and aspects to another planets. I found the only way to change is with angles, specially rising and MC, but since with your rising doesn't work, it has to be with MC.

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Posted by LostPisces
Posted by Aquarius3189
Can someone tell me how can i change this?

Whats your MC and aspects to another planets. I found the only way to change is with angles, specially rising and MC, but since with your rising doesn't work, it has to be with MC.

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Invite people to travel with you, can be a walk to a small different place or a mind exploration. If they not accept at first go by yourself, explore, gain confidence, they will see that in you.

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Yes!! Just found this yesty...must be so hard bein a Pisces anything..

http://astrology.omtimes.com/pisces-ugly-truth/

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Posted by LostPisces
Invite people to travel with you, can be a walk to a small different place or a mind exploration. If they not accept at first go by yourself, explore, gain confidence, they will see that in you.

i would really love that,to travel all by myself,exploring,to be away just for a little while without people constantly needing my attention or help

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Posted by SoulOfABird
It's probably that cap Mercury that makes your voice seem so harsh to people. As for rising I wouldnt know how they work because I got frickin 4 planets in my 1st house!!! So how I come across to people I have no clue

Ask one of your close friend,i did she has been honest with it now i know what to change,im concern because what people see in me is important in our business,its the tone in my voice its not right with my face and body,i look like a kid but when i speak my mind people find me intimidating and look at me like i have grown an extra head,its quite funny to be honest,amusing even

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Posted by Capz
Posted by Aquarius3189
Can someone tell me how can i change this?
look aspect on your ascendent
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Moon trine ascendant

Venus sextile ascendant

Jupiter sextile ascendant

Pluto trine ascendant

This one?

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Posted by Capz
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Can someone tell me how can i change this?
look aspect on your ascendent

Moon trine ascendant

Venus sextile ascendant

Jupiter sextile ascendant

Pluto trine ascendant

This one?
you should read those aspect. shit prob mean something.

i have my ascendent squaring my sun and it's mean that i fail always my first impression
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must be hard so mang people are judgemental,ill search for it now

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I was with someone that had Moon in Scorpio and Neptune on the ascendent .... he felt sorry for himself most of the time and thought everyone was *out* to get him

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Posted by Capmercury87
I have the same asc, sun and Venus as you.

If you speak common sense people will listen, if the advice doesn't fit the situation or the persons desired route of change they won't listen.

Sometimes I don't give advice I just let people learn.

i do the same its either take my advice or dont take it, usually they dont and i rub it on their face saying i told you so,they still dont listen though they never learn

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Posted by MyStarsShine
I was with someone that had Moon in Scorpio and Neptune on the ascendent .... he felt sorry for himself most of the time and thought everyone was *out* to get him

well its our dark side but in time he will learn and evolve,i've been in a lot of stress anxiety because my emotions are too intense,moon in scorp need to learn how to let go first then find some way how to release that intensity or else the person will go crazy to the point of self destruction,i still find it difficult to control my emotions sometimes

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Posted by Aquarius3189
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Invite people to travel with you, can be a walk to a small different place or a mind exploration. If they not accept at first go by yourself, explore, gain confidence, they will see that in you.

i would really love that,to travel all by myself,exploring,to be away just for a little while without people constantly needing my attention or help
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So do it, it helps if is in a sort of work enviornment, since we are talking about mc.

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Posted by Aquarius3189
That people underestimate me?they look at me like i coudnt even hurt a fly but then when they get close to me they run away,they dont take my advice seriously but then when the time comes they will but it was too late and it pisses me off im like if you had taken my advice you woudnt be in that dilemma from the start,when i give my opinion its like im speaking a different language that they cant understand even if i lower my voice they still thought im arguing,the hell is wrong with me?or is it really me?

We have the same ascendant and the same problem, so I guess that's it...

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That people underestimate me?they look at me like i coudnt even hurt a fly but then when they get close to me they run away,they dont take my advice seriously but then when the time comes they will but it was too late and it pisses me off im like if you had taken my advice you woudnt be in that dilemma from the start,when i give my opinion its like im speaking a different language that they cant understand even if i lower my voice they still thought im arguing,the hell is wrong with me?or is it really me?
We have the same ascendant and the same problem, so I guess that's it...

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Ahhh welcome to the club ?

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Posted by xghy
I wouldn't underestimate a pisces.

Piscean can destroy or unite people.

They do lol,i would go with unite since i need that for my living,i can destroy them if i want and create havoc but i wont,i would just stay as silent as before look stupid as they see me,then shocked them later they woudnt know coz most of them think im weak

Thats my scorp moon talking bwahahaha!?its pissed