Libra Venus

What are the positives and the negatives.

Please define "abuse magnets".. unless THEY're the ones doing the abusing.

I just ended things with a Scorp with Venus in Libra...weed, coke were amongst the many things HE used/Abused..(on the low) as he hid it from me. as you can see...I found out (on my own.) He also tried to take advantage of my natural generosity..Needless to say, I cut the brakes off his operation.

Posted by TAURUSbelle
Please define "abuse magnets".. unless THEY're the ones doing the abusing.

I just ended things with a Scorp with Venus in Libra...weed, coke were amongst the many things HE used/Abused..(on the low) as he hid it from me. as you can see...I found out (on my own.) He also tried to take advantage of my natural generosity..Needless to say, I cut the brakes off his operation.

hey girl. You keep repeating the story & the more you say, the more im interested. What did he do? I'm sorry to hear about the end btw, I know how much you loved the guy.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Think of a Libra Sun--now apply ALL that to your love life specifically.

Bad = It can take FOREVER to balance out the pros and cons of a lover, its like a see saw in that department for a significant amount of time in the beginning. Same with going back and forth between being friends vs being in a committed relationship. Commitment is a HUGE thing for Leeb Venus. Do they want it or not? Again--takes time to get there.

Good = They will be great friends as well as lovers. This makes Leeb Venus feel balanced. We must have both. Also Leeb Venus can be charming and very good socializers when need be. Positive communication is a big thing.

Nuetrals = Love in alot of ways is the primary focus of Leeb Venus's life. Love and relationships. Spend alot of time thinking about this. Definite people pleasers. There is definitely the keep the peace mentality almost at any cost which can be good or bad depending on the situation.

Ohhh boy I am a Libra with a Libra Venus.... :/

My Leo has Venus in Libra in the 7th house. The description that ellesque give does not fit my Leo well. Why is that? 'Cause he has Venus, Uranus, and Pluto in Libra in the 7th house. Add to that his Venus in Libra, and the rest of his Libra placements, square his Moon and Saturn in Cancer.

What I will tell you about Venus in Libra is they like equality so much, it can be impractical, irrational, and extremely annoying. Venus in Libra men are vain. They are attracted to beauty in everything and are very discerning when choosing a partner. They can be very lazy and equally loving - a lazy lovebug.

Yeah, still love 'em though.

Venus in Libra is like a superstar of Venus - stereotypically speaking... "wow, Venus at home in Libra!"

He loves really hard... thinking cause it's at home by house and sign making relationships extra important. I think Cafeastrology said something like his success in life depends on his marriage. Really sad and stilled my breathe with a tremendously burdensome feeling.

The synastry is hot - Venus conjunct Pluto (me) synastry together with him having the aspect in his natal chart. My chart rules our synastry.

...and I'm vain too - two Venus dominants.

Posted by ellessque
what is with libra placements stealing candy—!!!! *guilty*

I wonder if anyone else has these "quirks"?

I'm also a mess when I have to order an appetizer at dinner for more than two people. No matter HOW many appetizers you order....they always come in even numbers. gah!

I don't like stuff you "dip" when there is more than one person....especially if I don't know the "company" I'm with.

I'm a public restroom snob.....public gym changing rooms too! ick.

I notice when other people have atrocious manners at the dinner table, but I won't say anything (unless it's family). I go to lunch with a taurus at work a few times a week and his table manners are HORRIBLE.....but I just keep that to myself.

I will probably spend too much money on a dinner at a restaurant that looks *pretty*.....but some foods.....it should be illegal that they are allowed to touch.

Yes, I can be lazy too. I steal leisurely naps on the weekends....and I love posh and fluffy blankets and pillows.

If someone clutters up my kitchen countertops.....I won't cook or eat until it's cleaned up. I really dislike clutter.

He steals the children's candy. I tell them to hide it.
He hogs the pillows.
He has quite expensive taste in everything.
Love to eat out and at the best places.
I would have to turn around and head back home if he happened to have to use the bathroom - no public toilets.
He's really a beautiful man. Never saw a man more gorgeous or sexy. And, I love to watch women drool.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by VenusAquarius
I think Cafeastrology said something like his success in life depends on his marriage. Really sad and stilled my breathe with a tremendously burdensome feeling.

I'm assuming by your username you are have venus in aquarius?

I can imagine how reading that makes you feel.

I can tell you that, yes.....relationship takes center stage and we will balance and juggle many things to make it work.

However, it's not a "typical" kind of love, not really. It's as unique as the aqua venus.

We are usually doing all this "balancing" in our heads and out of site of *you*.....because our success in a relationship is seeing *you* happy, while not "looking" like we are putting in that much effort.

The other thing about venus in libra.....some times we come off as being "fake" or "condescending"....you might think we are JUST doing something to appease you and we don't "mean it".....that's really far from the truth of matters. We do things for others because the part of "doing" is what makes us happy....really happy. We get excited when we can do something nice for someone.

I've also been accused of needing things "too" perfect.....but again.....we like when beautiful things come together...like a symphony...it takes a lot of work to do that. When it does come together, it's a BIG deal....when it doesn't....it's okay, because we know we were allowed to at least try.

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Yes, Venus in Aqua... it was like a horror movie affect.

I understand all that you are saying elle. He's like the cat that brings you home the dead mouse sometimes... LOL, he's a man *shrugs*... kinda cute.

As far as needing things too perfect. I see the upside of it though. I thought about that for a while and it's very flattering to your partner because, you chose me afterall. My nickname is Ms. Perfect and he bought me a tee-shirt that says it. ha, ha, ha... sigh. So, I feel kinda honored to have a Venus in Libra love me.

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Posted by ellessque
too bad I don't have the #4 butt. lmao!

bye



I shoulda did a breast chart too.

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THIS is simply hilarious... I'm gonna be laughing for a minute or two.

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by TAURUSbelle
Please define "abuse magnets".. unless THEY're the ones doing the abusing.

I just ended things with a Scorp with Venus in Libra...weed, coke were amongst the many things HE used/Abused..(on the low) as he hid it from me. as you can see...I found out (on my own.) He also tried to take advantage of my natural generosity..Needless to say, I cut the brakes off his operation.

hey girl. You keep repeating the story & the more you say, the more im interested. What did he do? I'm sorry to hear about the end btw, I know how much you loved the guy.

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Aww man, I do repeat myself..sorry. I really don't mean to..things are still so fresh to me.. smh. I won't be writing about it for a while, DXP has pretty much started helping me to get the situation "out of my system."..the FULL FINALITY and reality of it all still hasn't "HIT" me yet.

Here are the links where I described..I can't bear to Re-type the FULL descriptive reasons why things ended. I wasn't QUITE there yet with the "Love" feelings..but I REEEALLY did like him. We bonded, connected.
Synastry wise: MY Pluto (in Libra) and his Venus (in Libra) were conjunct.. He was the one more "head over heels", while I was the one who showed more "restraint" with my feelings.

"Why I left Scorp":

Link 1:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/curiousity-will-probably-kill-me-3818744/?p=8<BR>
Link 2:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/does-out-of-sight-equal-out-of-mind-3822390/
Venus/Pluto Synastry thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-pluto-3797810/?p=7

Posted by ellessque

Posted by TAURUSbelle
Please define "abuse magnets".. unless THEY're the ones doing the abusing.

I just ended things with a Scorp with Venus in Libra...weed, coke were amongst the many things HE used/Abused..(on the low) as he hid it from me. as you can see...I found out (on my own.) He also tried to take advantage of my natural generosity..Needless to say, I cut the brakes off his operation.

nope. *shakes head*

You need to check his Neptune aspects.
I'm a scorp with libra venus and drugs repulse me. I tried weed one time when I was 19 and thought it was the most ridiculous thing on this planet...I've only seen other drugs in movies...never in real life....I don't care for drinking unless it's one on one...because I WILL get myself in trouble.

I have Neptune in the first house...in scorpio....I run my show....and I have to be in control of myself all the time.

OMG...Ellessque you are SO right..I just checked his Neptune on Cafe astrology( Bear with me, i'm still learning all this aspect stuff)...Scorps' Neptune is in: 01 deg Capricorn in Neptune in Capricorn in 6th house.

Cafe Astrology says: "Neptune in Capricorn: He is discerning, wise and sensible. Neptune in VI: He is more prone than most to the bad influence of alcohol, medicines and drugs. To be avoided at all costs."

WELP!! Too late for THAT warning...

Posted by ellessque
abuse magnets = potential to attract abusive partners BECAUSE we are people pleasers and abusive personalities will take advantage of that.

we don't know when to stop because it's just natural to want to try to make our partner....or anyone else close to us....happy. we can be create enablers like it's a professional career.
however, we are not co-dependent at all. it's a quirky venus, to say the least.

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*SIGH*...he was hurt alot by his exes, some cheated..or just plain mistreated him. I liked his easy going nature, I certainly had no intention of abusing him. Its too bad tho, things had to end before they REALLY picked up.

Posted by ellessque
positive -
cooperative
lighthearted
we'll do your laundry, wash your dishes, buy some groceries....and make the bed when we leave in the morning 😛
great etiquette and manners in public (but we will swear like a sailor in private)
helpful to everyone in your "circle"
mediator
we don't like to fight
we love TO love

negative -
indecisive
flirtatious....to everyone (we don't even know we are doing it, we are just "friendly")
wishy washy
flakey
we can't talk about feelings or emotions in regards to relationships easily....*patience and understanding*
we have a hard time BEING loved

likes....

a partner who is patient
a partner who is okay with personal space and freedom
a partner who doesn't have trust issues
a partner who is confident and not afraid to make decisions (we won't blame them if they were wrong)
a partner who is secure....because, like I said, we don't like talking about relationship "stuff"
a partner that is a little possessive, we like to be "claimed"

iLOVED this list. Every single one is true.. I hated the flirting! He KNEW what he was doing tho as he was a bit of an attention seeker too. He LOVED hearing compliments and would "fish" to HEAR the reasons WHY I liked him. *rolls eyes*..lol

iMiss him already tho..all the positives and Negatives too. ah well.

Posted by TAURUSbelle

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by TAURUSbelle
Please define "abuse magnets".. unless THEY're the ones doing the abusing.

I just ended things with a Scorp with Venus in Libra...weed, coke were amongst the many things HE used/Abused..(on the low) as he hid it from me. as you can see...I found out (on my own.) He also tried to take advantage of my natural generosity..Needless to say, I cut the brakes off his operation.

hey girl. You keep repeating the story & the more you say, the more im interested. What did he do? I'm sorry to hear about the end btw, I know how much you loved the guy.

Aww man, I do repeat myself..sorry. I really don't mean to..things are still so fresh to me.. smh. I won't be writing about it for a while, DXP has pretty much started helping me to get the situation "out of my system."..the FULL FINALITY and reality of it all still hasn't "HIT" me yet.

Here are the links where I described..I can't bear to Re-type the FULL descriptive reasons why things ended. I wasn't QUITE there yet with the "Love" feelings..but I REEEALLY did like him. We bonded, connected.
Synastry wise: MY Pluto (in Libra) and his Venus (in Libra) were conjunct.. He was the one more "head over heels", while I was the one who showed more "restraint" with my feelings.

"Why I left Scorp":

Link 1:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/curiousity-will-probably-kill-me-3818744/?p=8<BR>
Link 2:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/does-out-of-sight-equal-out-of-mind-3822390/
Venus/Pluto Synastry thread:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/venus-pluto-3797810/?p=7<div class="bqfade">click to expand

aww, girl. Btw, I didnt mean 'repeat' in a negative way, you just kept on letting out a few bits & pieces here and there n I got curious of the whole situation because I didnt know you wrote about it. You can repeat yourself all you want, I'm prone to it myself cause it helps to keep things moving. Thanks for the links, babe & take care. Btw, my libra ex has libra venus too & he is a user too, hashish is his drug of choice. I had no idea that libra venus gives people a sweet tooth for drugs. You learn new things everyday. And he was & still is a flirt too, girls all over him like he is a Mr.B

Elle - This made me laugh so hard!

great etiquette and manners in public (but we will swear like a sailor in private)

That right there! Cause just the other day I made a post on the swearing and I really don't like doing that in public so funny that you post that here too. But in private holy crap it's bad. LOL!

Posted by ellessque
what is with libra placements stealing candy—!!!! *guilty*

I wonder if anyone else has these "quirks"?

I'm also a mess when I have to order an appetizer at dinner for more than two people. No matter HOW many appetizers you order....they always come in even numbers. gah!

I don't like stuff you "dip" when there is more than one person....especially if I don't know the "company" I'm with.

I'm a public restroom snob.....public gym changing rooms too! ick.

I notice when other people have atrocious manners at the dinner table, but I won't say anything (unless it's family). I go to lunch with a taurus at work a few times a week and his table manners are HORRIBLE.....but I just keep that to myself.

I will probably spend too much money on a dinner at a restaurant that looks *pretty*.....but some foods.....it should be illegal that they are allowed to touch.

Yes, I can be lazy too. I steal leisurely naps on the weekends....and I love posh and fluffy blankets and pillows.

If someone clutters up my kitchen countertops.....I won't cook or eat until it's cleaned up. I really dislike clutter.

LMAO! Ugh this is great! I think I like you even more now Elle! (Not that I didn't in the first place) hehe! Sooooo true! Ill have to list my Libra quirks in a minute.

Alright ill have to list some of my quirks to see if anyone else has them too. The ones Elle listed are pretty much the ones I have but the counting of the candy made me laugh out loud, loud enough someone came into my office and asked me what was so funny!

And speaking about pillow cases I just got chastised by a Aqua/Cap cusper about spending $ 40 on 2 pillow cases! She's like yeah well you can make your own! It's cheaper. Well honey im not cheap. Ugh so frugal. I don't know why but that irritates me. That and you can tell the pillows she lays on are cheap because her hair looks like booty doo in the morning. Talk about frizzy.

Anyways they were on SALE! 500 thread count! Pima Cotton! Hello yeah im going to buy them! 50% off at Macy's? So I got two packs. Yeah so what almost $ 90 for four pillow cases but have you felt 500 count pillow cases? Holy hell its like amazing! I took them out of the packages last night and even my cats were all attracted to it. I laid them out to look at the stitching and feel their amazingness when here comes my youngest kitty and within seconds he was rolling on them. Yeah no! Mine! Put them in the wash and I can't wait to get home and put them on my pillows tonight!

Im attracted to nice looking or pretty things. Same with bathrooms if it's ugly I have a problem. Too many people too = germs and just the thought of dirty people in a dirty place just irks me.

I don't like rude or tactless type people in public. Table manners are also a really big thing of mine. I always place my napkin in my lap and never put my elbows on the table. And im always very nice to people who touch/serve my food.

Clutter also irritates me to the point that I get extremely pissy and end up throwing things around in a fit trying to get it all organized.

Right now I keep thinking about my computer desk at home it's pissing me off. With all my damn papers on it but I just havent had time to go through it all just yet. Here I am at work thinking about my own desk making me mad LOL! Lame I know right!

Thanks Elle for your awesome posts today!

Ok well my comments count right? Since I have Libra Rising and Libra Moon? 😄
My venus/mars are both in Taurus

Posted by WaterCup

aww, girl. Btw, I didnt mean 'repeat' in a negative way, you just kept on letting out a few bits & pieces here and there n I got curious of the whole situation because I didnt know you wrote about it. You can repeat yourself all you want, I'm prone to it myself cause it helps to keep things moving. Thanks for the links, babe & take care. Btw, my libra ex has libra venus too & he is a user too, hashish is his drug of choice. I had no idea that libra venus gives people a sweet tooth for drugs. You learn new things everyday. And he was & still is a flirt too, girls all over him like he is a Mr.B

Thanks Watercup. I'm really sorry to hear about your libra (w/ VIL), such charmers they are...jeez and HASHISH!! ugh!! My scorp would use that regularly with his friends at home, or by the the beach! I don't think there is anything that guy didn't try.. smh.

Aww((HUGS)) to you Watercup..its always a little tough before it gets easier.

Venus in libra
One word dumb =)

Moreso the men are.