Mars conjunct Venus... Anyone ever have this relationship?

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But I should add, he thought that, he thought it was instant overpowering chemistry, it was me that had the problem.
Really? Wow.. Were you just not attracted? Or just not compatible in bed?
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I thought he was everything I wanted on paper but I couldn't get excited about it. I just wasn't attracted and because he was so perfect in my eyes, that I tried everything, that's why I ran our synastry - I even tried getting super drunk —
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I've had that several times with people, both ways. I've even had it both ways with one person (his Mars conjunct my Venus, my Mars conjunct his Venus).

Even with close conjunctions, for me it's rarely been what you read about amazing sexual compatibility. Attraction - maybe it helped with that - but I wouldn't call it instant or all that strong often and definitely it could be skewed (one person more attracted than the other). I can't find a pattern to say that, for example, if I'm the Venus person, that means I'm more likely to be drawn than the other way around.

The best I can say that it seems to help with an affinity in general which has been good for enjoying the person's company and understanding -- good for friendship at the very least.
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But I should add, he thought that, he thought it was instant overpowering chemistry, it was me that had the problem.
Really? Wow.. Were you just not attracted? Or just not compatible in bed?
I thought he was everything I wanted on paper but I couldn't get excited about it. I just wasn't attracted and because he was so perfect in my eyes, that I tried everything, that's why I ran our synastry - I even tried getting super drunk —
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Oh man lol.. Poor dude
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I've had that several times with people, both ways. I've even had it both ways with one person (his Mars conjunct my Venus, my Mars conjunct his Venus).

Even with close conjunctions, for me it's rarely been what you read about amazing sexual compatibility. Attraction - maybe it helped with that - but I wouldn't call it instant or all that strong often and definitely it could be skewed (one person more attracted than the other). I can't find a pattern to say that, for example, if I'm the Venus person, that means I'm more likely to be drawn than the other way around.

The best I can say that it seems to help with an affinity in general which has been good for enjoying the person's company and understanding -- good for friendship at the very least.
Hmm I see... Well I was the Mars with my ex and it did seem like he was way more attracted to me, then visa versa... But now I'm the Venus with someone and DANG I'm all flustered and I think the chemistry is on point(only kissed) soo that's interesting. Thank you ?
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Yes, yes, and yes lol. I had this with an old fwb. He was Mars, I was Venus
Ahh! What was it that made the connection hit for you? You both just "understand what eachother wants"? Rhythm? Energy? I'm curious ?
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Hmm I'm really trying to pinpoint exactly what it was. I think it's honestly the emotional connection we had. Our moons conjunct as well, so we understood each other on a deeper level, and it made it easier to connect I guess. We were fwb's for a long time, so we definitely started to learn each other's body language, and could sense what we both wanted. What I loved about him was he was all about pleasuring me, instead of being completely selfish (he's a Virgo, so that service act is great for the bedroom lol), and I of course returned the favor lol.
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Yes, yes, and yes lol. I had this with an old fwb. He was Mars, I was Venus
Ahh! What was it that made the connection hit for you? You both just "understand what eachother wants"? Rhythm? Energy? I'm curious ?
Hmm I'm really trying to pinpoint exactly what it was. I think it's honestly the emotional connection we had. Our moons conjunct as well, so we understood each other on a deeper level, and it made it easier to connect I guess. We were fwb's for a long time, so we definitely started to learn each other's body language, and could sense what we both wanted. What I loved about him was he was all about pleasuring me, instead of being completely selfish (he's a Virgo, so that service act is great for the bedroom lol), and I of course returned the favor lol.
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Oh yes, the moon connection very nice🙂 hmm well I heard Leo Mars is selfish in bed and I have Leo Venus so maybe we will just have a 3way with a full length mirror ?
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Different experiences because in different signs.

I had it within 1 degree Aries.

Mars wants Venus. Venus was the only godess that could tame mars the worrier.

Within 1 degree it's a Karmic relationship.

He wanted me everywhere, all the time...he said he never felt that attracted before. His passion made me feel wanted and beautiful. This lasted 3 years and sex was only getting better.

It was hard to move one due to this. I feel like i will want him all my life.
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Different experiences because in different signs.

I had it within 1 degree Aries.

Mars wants Venus. Venus was the only godess that could tame mars the worrier.

Within 1 degree it's a Karmic relationship.

He wanted me everywhere, all the time...he said he never felt that attracted before. His passion made me feel wanted and beautiful. This lasted 3 years and sex was only getting better.

It was hard to move one due to this. I feel like i will want him all my life.
That's beautiful and devastating ?
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I just did our chart... His Mars is 4 degrees from my Venus... Oh man haha. I dunno if I should run or jump on him ?
From my experience, no matter what you "think you should do" what is supposed to happen will happen.

I felt that my mind could not take over my urge to go back with him. Even if just to have sex one more time (i know not my style aswell). I would go 3 months perfectly sure it's over. But something would always bring us together.

One time when i was done with him for sureeee, i bumped into him downtown. He told me that night he loved me...and the cercle started again...
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I just did our chart... His Mars is 4 degrees from my Venus... Oh man haha. I dunno if I should run or jump on him ?
From my experience, no matter what you "think you should do" what is supposed to happen will happen.

I felt that my mind could not take over my urge to go back with him. Even if just to have sex one more time (i know not my style aswell). I would go 3 months perfectly sure it's over. But something would always bring us together.

One time when i was done with him for sureeee, i bumped into him downtown. He told me that night he loved me...and the cercle started again...
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Yes, quite true... We do seem to keep running into eachother and/or seeking eachother out.
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Yes, yes, and yes lol. I had this with an old fwb. He was Mars, I was Venus
Ahh! What was it that made the connection hit for you? You both just "understand what eachother wants"? Rhythm? Energy? I'm curious ?
Hmm I'm really trying to pinpoint exactly what it was. I think it's honestly the emotional connection we had. Our moons conjunct as well, so we understood each other on a deeper level, and it made it easier to connect I guess. We were fwb's for a long time, so we definitely started to learn each other's body language, and could sense what we both wanted. What I loved about him was he was all about pleasuring me, instead of being completely selfish (he's a Virgo, so that service act is great for the bedroom lol), and I of course returned the favor lol.
Oh yes, the moon connection very nice🙂 hmm well I heard Leo Mars is selfish in bed and I have Leo Venus so maybe we will just have a 3way with a full length mirror ?
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Lmao!! ?
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I've had that several times with people, both ways. I've even had it both ways with one person (his Mars conjunct my Venus, my Mars conjunct his Venus).

Even with close conjunctions, for me it's rarely been what you read about amazing sexual compatibility. Attraction - maybe it helped with that - but I wouldn't call it instant or all that strong often and definitely it could be skewed (one person more attracted than the other). I can't find a pattern to say that, for example, if I'm the Venus person, that means I'm more likely to be drawn than the other way around.

The best I can say that it seems to help with an affinity in general which has been good for enjoying the person's company and understanding -- good for friendship at the very least.
Hmm I see... Well I was the Mars with my ex and it did seem like he was way more attracted to me, then visa versa... But now I'm the Venus with someone and DANG I'm all flustered and I think the chemistry is on point(only kissed) soo that's interesting. Thank you ?
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You're welcome. 🙂 All the best to you with it - I hope it works out, and if not, something else will I'm sure. 🙂
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I've had that several times with people, both ways. I've even had it both ways with one person (his Mars conjunct my Venus, my Mars conjunct his Venus).

Even with close conjunctions, for me it's rarely been what you read about amazing sexual compatibility. Attraction - maybe it helped with that - but I wouldn't call it instant or all that strong often and definitely it could be skewed (one person more attracted than the other). I can't find a pattern to say that, for example, if I'm the Venus person, that means I'm more likely to be drawn than the other way around.

The best I can say that it seems to help with an affinity in general which has been good for enjoying the person's company and understanding -- good for friendship at the very least.
Hmm I see... Well I was the Mars with my ex and it did seem like he was way more attracted to me, then visa versa... But now I'm the Venus with someone and DANG I'm all flustered and I think the chemistry is on point(only kissed) soo that's interesting. Thank you ?
You're welcome. 🙂 All the best to you with it - I hope it works out, and if not, something else will I'm sure. 🙂

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Thank you ☺️
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Has anyone ever had a relationship w/someone where your Venus conjunct their Mars? Is it stronger if the Guy has the Mars and the girl has the Venus? Was the attraction instant? Was the sexual chemistry hot??
Wow ok.

So I never told you I had Venus-Mars and Venus-Jupiter aspects before? On that one board you made on Geminis?
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? Umm well please, do tell ☺️
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Has anyone ever had a relationship w/someone where your Venus conjunct their Mars? Is it stronger if the Guy has the Mars and the girl has the Venus? Was the attraction instant? Was the sexual chemistry hot??
Wow ok.

So I never told you I had Venus-Mars and Venus-Jupiter aspects before? On that one board you made on Geminis?
? Umm well please, do tell ☺️
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Mmmm...

I think I'll keep that info to myself for now.

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Different experiences because in different signs.

I had it within 1 degree Aries.

Mars wants Venus. Venus was the only godess that could tame mars the worrier.

Within 1 degree it's a Karmic relationship.

He wanted me everywhere, all the time...he said he never felt that attracted before. His passion made me feel wanted and beautiful. This lasted 3 years and sex was only getting better.

It was hard to move one due to this. I feel like i will want him all my life.
I can definitely relate. His Mars is in Taurus and my Venus is in Taurus. We are so drawn to each other and the sex is so passionate and electrifying. Even if unknown forces pull apart, I feel that I will always want him in my life. Especially for the sex.... ijs.



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He is sun, mars and venus conjunct and my mars conjuncts his venus in Scorpio. And his moon conjuncts my sun. It was the best sexual partner I've ever had. He gave me the most Big O's in one session, but it went beyond the physical aspect he got to me intellectually and emotionally and I'll never forget him.

I feel like @espresso, it's so hard to move on from that...I'm afraid nothing else will ever compare.
Oh wow... Thank you for sharing, I know how u feel?
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He is sun, mars and venus conjunct and my mars conjuncts his venus in Scorpio. And his moon conjuncts my sun. It was the best sexual partner I've ever had. He gave me the most Big O's in one session, but it went beyond the physical aspect he got to me intellectually and emotionally and I'll never forget him.

I feel like @espresso, it's so hard to move on from that...I'm afraid nothing else will ever compare.
wow sorry to hear it didn't work out :/



where is now??

i'd go after him if I were you, he really turned your world upside down like that. lol

he wouldn't escape!!! you're MINE!!!! kind of spiel.
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He is sun, mars and venus conjunct and my mars conjuncts his venus in Scorpio. And his moon conjuncts my sun. It was the best sexual partner I've ever had. He gave me the most Big O's in one session, but it went beyond the physical aspect he got to me intellectually and emotionally and I'll never forget him.

I feel like @espresso, it's so hard to move on from that...I'm afraid nothing else will ever compare.
wow sorry to hear it didn't work out :/



where is now??

i'd go after him if I were you, he really turned your world upside down like that. lol

he wouldn't escape!!! you're MINE!!!! kind of spiel.
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Yes, I was wondering the same but it seems there is no going back to him?
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He is sun, mars and venus conjunct and my mars conjuncts his venus in Scorpio. And his moon conjuncts my sun. It was the best sexual partner I've ever had. He gave me the most Big O's in one session, but it went beyond the physical aspect he got to me intellectually and emotionally and I'll never forget him.

I feel like @espresso, it's so hard to move on from that...I'm afraid nothing else will ever compare.
wow sorry to hear it didn't work out :/



where is now??

i'd go after him if I were you, he really turned your world upside down like that. lol

he wouldn't escape!!! you're MINE!!!! kind of spiel.
Yes, I was wondering the same but it seems there is no going back to him?
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I know right??

with that kind of experience, and loving, he's never going to escape!! theres going to be prison time for him in a GOOD way. 😄 😄