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@AprilFoolsUHoe
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My sexual stamina greatly outlives the other
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"? Also what age are the men?
Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
Man, I'd stab him in the eye.
"Okay let's stop everything and cuddle."
Dafuq is that shit?
"Okay let's stop everything and cuddle."
Dafuq is that shit?
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeYou need a Cap mars
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in scorpio by the way, and aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
bonus if it's a cap mars venus in Taurus.
Stamina is our specialty.
Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamRight?!
Man, I'd stab him in the eye.
"Okay let's stop everything and cuddle."
Dafuq is that shit?
" Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn:
You are a sensualist—you enjoy a relationship that starts slowly and lasts a long time, and that is the same way you feel about sex! You need certainty in a relationship, and if you have that feeling, you are at your romantic best. You enjoy sex on a raw level, and you may easily get hung up on the physical side of desire. Your partner needs to understand that you express your love in real, tangible ways—by fixing things, solving problems, being there. Your motto may as well be, “Actions speak louder than words.” Not all lovers will understand this, and some may wish you were more openly romantic. However, the ideal lover for you will take comfort in your endurance and reliability, appreciate the fact that you lay down solid foundations for a relationship, and understand your “matter of fact” approach to romance.
A dedicated partner is of utmost importance to you. You can be quite possessive, and downright jealous if uncertainty in a relationship prevails. Sex is an elemental force in your life, and you need a partner who is accessible. You appreciate solid, long-standing, and reliable relationships. "
You are a sensualist—you enjoy a relationship that starts slowly and lasts a long time, and that is the same way you feel about sex! You need certainty in a relationship, and if you have that feeling, you are at your romantic best. You enjoy sex on a raw level, and you may easily get hung up on the physical side of desire. Your partner needs to understand that you express your love in real, tangible ways—by fixing things, solving problems, being there. Your motto may as well be, “Actions speak louder than words.” Not all lovers will understand this, and some may wish you were more openly romantic. However, the ideal lover for you will take comfort in your endurance and reliability, appreciate the fact that you lay down solid foundations for a relationship, and understand your “matter of fact” approach to romance.
A dedicated partner is of utmost importance to you. You can be quite possessive, and downright jealous if uncertainty in a relationship prevails. Sex is an elemental force in your life, and you need a partner who is accessible. You appreciate solid, long-standing, and reliable relationships. "
It can be harder for men (excuse the pun)
I used to expect far too much from my lovers and one of them, although much younger used to say to me *i am not a machine* lol.
I used to expect far too much from my lovers and one of them, although much younger used to say to me *i am not a machine* lol.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingTruth. We literally don't know how to stop.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeYou need a Cap mars
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in scorpio by the way, and aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
bonus if it's a cap mars venus in Taurus.
Stamina is our specialty.
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Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeHe's been watching too much porn.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
He shouldn't cuddle you per se....
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat really depends on the person and it obviously isn't working for her. I don't blame her for her irritation, tbh. She doesn't care for it, and it sounds like he's been using porn as instructional guides to sex.
He shouldn't cuddle you per se....
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
That edging shit would never work for me, at least not that close to the edge. Once it's almost there, it better follow all the way through or it's just gone. No coming back from that and it defeats the purpose all together.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeno wonder why you are so unsatisfied......Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
the pattern should look more like this
foreplay...( not touching the vagina for at least 15 minutes)..then coreplay...aka cunnilingus ( done right with fingers.....which last anyway between 15-45 minutes or as long as it takes for you to orgasm. Then maybe penetration with fingers/ with or without his mouth to assist..until you climax again ...all to finally prep you for penetration with his penis...after two orgasms or so...your g spot should have dropped down enough/ be engorged enough for you to climax relative easy for a third, fourth, and fifth time etc....
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeOooooh I get it now. So basically your dude is stopping and cuddling so he can...calm down. There are a lot of strategies for this, and he's chosen an odd one honestly. The idea is he's pretty close to climaxing but he doesn't want to disappoint you, so he tries to do OTHER stuff. The problem is he doesn't realize that foreplay (or post-play/cuddling) doesn't help in the middle of coitus.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
As a guy he's probably thinking that he can continue to stimulate you by fingering. Why he also throws post-play into the mix is beyond me. You may have to punch him in the head the next time he does it.
Here are your options:
1) Tell him to think about baseball or something boring to keep his mind from going overboard. This will possibly help him from getting too excited without the need to pull out. It actually works.
2) Have him wear a condom to numb the sensation a bit. Get one that fits snugly enough to keep the blood trapped a bit.
3) Sprinkle some Viagra in his coffee. He'll have no choice but to keep going.
4) Clench those downstairs muscles and close your legs around him. Don't give me the ability to pull out. Once he climaxes you have a 5-10 second window to reinvigorate him. Go down on him and get him back up to speed FAST. Guys can actually recharge fast if his partner knows how to help keep him up.
Really just talk to him about how he feels during sex. Make sure he understands that if he can't hold it in, to let you know. He sounds like he's trying to please you, but is also being too much a guy to communicat it (understandably this may be a bit embarrassing for him).
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI will say edging is an advance technique and most can't pull it off.Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat really depends on the person and it obviously isn't working for her. I don't blame her for her irritation, tbh. She doesn't care for it, and it sounds like he's been using porn as instructional guides to sex.
He shouldn't cuddle you per se....
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
That edging shit would never work for me, at least not that close to the edge. Once it's almost there, it better follow all the way through or it's just gone. No coming back from that and it defeats the purpose all together.click to expand
Like you said or rather indicated...it takes a highly skilled lover to know when a woman is close enough...but not too far over in the sexual response cycle to pull away.
this technique is usually done easiest when the woman who is being stimulated knows her body enough and can tell her lover to stop...but even then her lover needs to have a good memory so that he/she can go back to doing exactly the same thing (w/ same, pressure, rhythm, speed etc) they were doing to bring their partner to the edge again..and again..and again.....before finally giving her that big release.
*fireworks*
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in Scorpio by the way, and Aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
What;s his mars and venus in by the way?
Sounds like mars in cancer to me.
I could never date one of those.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeNintendo?
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in scorpio by the way, and aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
Edging...fuck that shit...
Almost got *killed* once because of that xD
She warned me the first time...at the second time she made sure i wold never do it again haha
The fact that i started laughing...yea..i dont think it helped that much hihihi
Oh well...Both Mars in Scorpio's things xD
Almost got *killed* once because of that xD
She warned me the first time...at the second time she made sure i wold never do it again haha
The fact that i started laughing...yea..i dont think it helped that much hihihi
Oh well...Both Mars in Scorpio's things xD
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThen it's not HOURS!Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such,
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
What's with this need to exaggerate 'omg we have sex for hours' but barely 1 hour is actual intercourse?!
In that case I can fuck 10 HOURS !!! woot ?
Posted by tizianiWe were just talking about it while I was typing this all out. He was joking about how "he doesn't get all his energy from sex like SOME people" and explaining how he likes cuddling and isn't constantly in a sex mood and sometimes is tired or just wants to cuddle. I mean, you do you..
Have you told him?
Posted by MyStarsShineThat's true, but it's in the way we go it's not even a matter of his penis or the such, he just gets really horny in spurts, goes absolutely crazy, and then in the middle of his animal attack he starts cuddling me because he's tired or the spurt of sexual energy went away, or he wants to cuddle and I'm just like...son, no.
It can be harder for men (excuse the pun)
I used to expect far too much from my lovers and one of them, although much younger used to say to me *i am not a machine* lol.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYes that's how I am, once you leave it close it is completely gone. And you have to start all over.Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat really depends on the person and it obviously isn't working for her. I don't blame her for her irritation, tbh. She doesn't care for it, and it sounds like he's been using porn as instructional guides to sex.
He shouldn't cuddle you per se....
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
That edging shit would never work for me, at least not that close to the edge. Once it's almost there, it better follow all the way through or it's just gone. No coming back from that and it defeats the purpose all together.click to expand
But that isn't what he's doing, I'm talking about minutes, it's spurts of it, not enough time for either of us to get off at all, more just get really intense and rough it out and then suddenly stop.
Posted by ChuckcemHe does this even when we aren't having sex, and are just making out.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeOooooh I get it now. So basically your dude is stopping and cuddling so he can...calm down. There are a lot of strategies for this, and he's chosen an odd one honestly. The idea is he's pretty close to climaxing but he doesn't want to disappoint you, so he tries to do OTHER stuff. The problem is he doesn't realize that foreplay (or post-play/cuddling) doesn't help in the middle of coitus.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?
As a guy he's probably thinking that he can continue to stimulate you by fingering. Why he also throws post-play into the mix is beyond me. You may have to punch him in the head the next time he does it.
Here are your options:
1) Tell him to think about baseball or something boring to keep his mind from going overboard. This will possibly help him from getting too excited without the need to pull out. It actually works.
2) Have him wear a condom to numb the sensation a bit. Get one that fits snugly enough to keep the blood trapped a bit.
3) Sprinkle some Viagra in his coffee. He'll have no choice but to keep going.
4) Clench those downstairs muscles and close your legs around him. Don't give me the ability to pull out. Once he climaxes you have a 5-10 second window to reinvigorate him. Go down on him and get him back up to speed FAST. Guys can actually recharge fast if his partner knows how to help keep him up.
Really just talk to him about how he feels during sex. Make sure he understands that if he can't hold it in, to let you know. He sounds like he's trying to please you, but is also being too much a guy to communicat it (understandably this may be a bit embarrassing for him).
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Like a few days ago, as I was on my period, I didn't want to have sex so we just made out a bunch and he would do this...same exact pattern, except instead not having penetrative sex.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingVenus in Sagittarius, Mars in LibraPosted by AprilFoolsUHoe
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in Scorpio by the way, and Aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
What;s his mars and venus in by the way?
Sounds like mars in cancer to me.
I could never date one of those.
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpackI'm not even sure what that is
Does he take minoxidil?
Posted by Vageenka—
Watch this girl get like 4 PM's in the next half hour.
If you get any dick pics post them plz.
Ask your dude to jack off directly prior to your sessions. He'll last a lot longer.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeRide him from start to finish.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
Posted by enfant_terribleI consider the whole ordeal sex. If we are bare and banging and decide to stop to make out and choke each other and all the weird kinky shit that no one needs to know about, that to me is all apart of it, and it goes on for hours. My issue is that he for some reason will stop to cuddle when things seemed to be getting more wild.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThen it's not HOURS!Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such,
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?
What's with this need to exaggerate 'omg we have sex for hours' but barely 1 hour is actual intercourse?!
In that case I can fuck 10 HOURS !!! woot ?
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Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I may have a solution for you.
Since most girls you have sex with can't keep up with you.
You need to dump the "normal" chicks and head on down to a brothel.
Once there, you will face experienced women who have seen it all.
(This is where you find out if you are truly as incredible as you think).
So, you walk in, tell the administrator that "DADDY CAME HERE TO FUCK!!!".
Most likely he/she(most likely she) will first offer you a low-level girl.
You must refuse, 'cos you want to conquer the dragon, not a goat.
When you finally get in bed with the highly experienced lady, you need to show her what's what.
Remember, just because she's complimenting you..doesn't mean anything.
If she takes your money - you have failed (you're not as incredible as you think).
However, if she doesn't take your money and maybe gives you her number, you have danced with the devil and won.
+ You'll have a good FB for a long time.
I hope this advice helps you.
Good luck, chief.
^ my bad, didn't see that you're a female.
I'd do a girl, don't assume — lmao
The best way I can describe this is we go through the cycle in minutes. This for a couple mins, that for a couple mins, sparkle motion cuddle for a couple mins, back again.
It's like it all comes together but to me it doesn't because I don't exactly like cuddling, let alone want to add it to my sexual moments.
He says he has moments where he just doesn't want to be sexual, and moments where he is tired, and moments he just wants to cuddle. This to me is a throw off, I'm not unsatisfied, I'm just very thrown off by this it's not something I'd ever expect but then again I wouldn't have expected him to be as wild as he is so I guess he's full of surprises.
It's like it all comes together but to me it doesn't because I don't exactly like cuddling, let alone want to add it to my sexual moments.
He says he has moments where he just doesn't want to be sexual, and moments where he is tired, and moments he just wants to cuddle. This to me is a throw off, I'm not unsatisfied, I'm just very thrown off by this it's not something I'd ever expect but then again I wouldn't have expected him to be as wild as he is so I guess he's full of surprises.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeHe probably stops to cuddle because he wants to last as long as possible. But really only he knows why... communication is needed here. Let him know that you want things to keep escalating and when he takes those breaks it lets the wind out of your sails.Posted by enfant_terribleI consider the whole ordeal sex. If we are bare and banging and decide to stop to make out and choke each other and all the weird kinky shit that no one needs to know about, that to me is all apart of it, and it goes on for hours. My issue is that he for some reason will stop to cuddle when things seemed to be getting more wild.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThen it's not HOURS!Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such,
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?
What's with this need to exaggerate 'omg we have sex for hours' but barely 1 hour is actual intercourse?!
In that case I can fuck 10 HOURS !!! woot ?
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Men's ego's are intrinsically tied to your perception of how they are performing in bed. Translation: he wants to please you. So tell him what you need to be pleased.
Personally...I don't like marathon sex. Sure once in a while...but for the most part once I come (which is usually in the first 30mins) I'm ready to cuddle and relax. Hours and hours of fucking really does a number on your pussy...plus I'll start thinking about how late it is and how early I have to work in the morning lol.
Go to the gym and lift.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeHahah sounds like he just REALLY likes cuddling, to the point that he uses it to "edge" and last longer in bed (along with fingering). I think you'll just need to talk to about his NEED to cuddle and why he feels he needs to resort to it over everything else. Let him know that when you two are getting down, he needs to keep the rhythm going. If he can't keep up, then offer him one of the options I offered previously.Posted by ChuckcemHe does this even when we aren't having sex, and are just making out.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeOooooh I get it now. So basically your dude is stopping and cuddling so he can...calm down. There are a lot of strategies for this, and he's chosen an odd one honestly. The idea is he's pretty close to climaxing but he doesn't want to disappoint you, so he tries to do OTHER stuff. The problem is he doesn't realize that foreplay (or post-play/cuddling) doesn't help in the middle of coitus.Posted by ChuckcemOkay let me explain, so this is the pattern: foreplay, penetration, and somewhere during that before he comes or either of us really get anywhere with it, he pulls out, fingers me, and back to foreplay, and all over again. That's the usual cycle. I'm not sure why. All I know is he gets tired out quite quickly and cuddles with me even if I am the one doing the work.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?
As a guy he's probably thinking that he can continue to stimulate you by fingering. Why he also throws post-play into the mix is beyond me. You may have to punch him in the head the next time he does it.
Here are your options:
1) Tell him to think about baseball or something boring to keep his mind from going overboard. This will possibly help him from getting too excited without the need to pull out. It actually works.
2) Have him wear a condom to numb the sensation a bit. Get one that fits snugly enough to keep the blood trapped a bit.
3) Sprinkle some Viagra in his coffee. He'll have no choice but to keep going.
4) Clench those downstairs muscles and close your legs around him. Don't give me the ability to pull out. Once he climaxes you have a 5-10 second window to reinvigorate him. Go down on him and get him back up to speed FAST. Guys can actually recharge fast if his partner knows how to help keep him up.
Really just talk to him about how he feels during sex. Make sure he understands that if he can't hold it in, to let you know. He sounds like he's trying to please you, but is also being too much a guy to communicat it (understandably this may be a bit embarrassing for him).
Like a few days ago, as I was on my period, I didn't want to have sex so we just made out a bunch and he would do this...same exact pattern, except instead not having penetrative sex.
Posted by LadyNeptuneAlso LadyNeptune is right. Have him jerk it prior to sex and see if that helps him last longer.
Ask your dude to jack off directly prior to your sessions. He'll last a lot longer.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamNot letting me post what I wanted to post, but yeah, all of your last paragraph!!! Resounding, YES!!!Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat really depends on the person and it obviously isn't working for her. I don't blame her for her irritation, tbh. She doesn't care for it, and it sounds like he's been using porn as instructional guides to sex.
He shouldn't cuddle you per se....
but stopping right before your about to orgasm , giving you light caresses /kisses, and then going back to what he was doing before repeatedly aka edging is fine.
Makes the orgasm more powerful in the end.
Also even after giving you one orgasm.... stopping to caress/kiss for a minute or two is essential for multiple orgasms.
For most women the area is too sensitive to be further stimulated...right after a powerful orgasm.
That edging shit would never work for me, at least not that close to the edge. Once it's almost there, it better follow all the way through or it's just gone. No coming back from that and it defeats the purpose all together.click to expand
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoePosted by MyStarsShineThat's true, but it's in the way we go it's not even a matter of his penis or the such, he just gets really horny in spurts, goes absolutely crazy, and then in the middle of his animal attack he starts cuddling me because he's tired or the spurt of sexual energy went away, or he wants to cuddle and I'm just like...son, no.
It can be harder for men (excuse the pun)
I used to expect far too much from my lovers and one of them, although much younger used to say to me *i am not a machine* lol.
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Posted by ChuckcemShorter, quite a bit. And same age 19.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
Well could be the guys you're dating don't know how to last in best. If you don't mind me asking, what's the average duration of one of your normal"sessions"?click to expand
Sounds to me like penetration is happening to soon in your encounters. Something I can relate to as a male is when stimulation is at a 9, almost 10 and then switching to a position that lowers it back to a 6 or 7. The problem is though, is that once getting to 9, I HAVE to finish. Otherwise, that seven becomes a 6. Then 5, and it continues to go down until I completely lose it, and it would have been better to just cum, because now I'm frustrated. That switch up needed to happen at 7 or 8. Not 9 when I'm already there.
That said, my suggestion is to prolong the foreplay, and drive you totally crazy wanting him inside you before he actually does so. When I've done this with women in the past, not only do they cum from penetration, it also happens REALLY fast, and crazy intense.
If that don't work, I actually recommend adding a third party.
That said, my suggestion is to prolong the foreplay, and drive you totally crazy wanting him inside you before he actually does so. When I've done this with women in the past, not only do they cum from penetration, it also happens REALLY fast, and crazy intense.
If that don't work, I actually recommend adding a third party.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeGot it, so he's still in his sexual peak.Posted by ChuckcemShorter, quite a bit. And same age 19.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSo there's a lot of foreplay. I'm assuming by your topic that's not enough to get you off correct? Is the penetrative sex just as long or shorter than foreplay? Also is he cuddling you after foreplay, but before sex? That just...seems odd. Also is he an older or younger guy?Posted by ChuckcemThe one now, LOL hours BUT, we spend a lot of time (most of the time actually) not having penetrative sex. It's all foreplay and such, but it's a battle of control and fun and a suppose energy taking but throughout he likes to stop and cuddle for a while before doing anything else
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Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeSex is more about being playful/having fun and connecting from what I've read for people with those placements.Posted by AdreamuponwakingVenus in Sagittarius, Mars in LibraPosted by AprilFoolsUHoe
It seems like it doesn't matter who I have sex with, who I am in a relationship with, who I am hooking up with, I have a longer and much more intense sexual stamina, and it's very frustrating. The Scorpio I have been getting with likes sex and sexual things and then he likes to cuddle and stop right when things are getting interesting. He gets hot and wild and then suddenly he lays his whole self down on me and cuddles and it throws me the fuck off. I can cuddle when I'm sleeping but if I am in your room all day no I don't want to watch TV and cuddle, keep it going, kiss me, touch me.
I am having a hard time with this, it's very frustrating when not intndo I have the energy but it feeds me more energy when other people that I've ever hooked up with get their energy depleted.
What I'm the hell does one do?
My mars is in Scorpio by the way, and Aries in Venus so I'm sure that plays into this a lot.
What;s his mars and venus in by the way?
Sounds like mars in cancer to me.
I could never date one of those.
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