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It depends - if it's just people, they are giving me exactly what I want.

If it's my Capricorn, I feel concerned and then my imagination runs wild until I tell him and then discover he was either secretly planning a night out with me or working on his art or music.

If it's my siblings, I ask them what's up and then give them space to come around.

With people, I ALWAYS assume they are busy or I don't even notice they are "ignoring" me. I don't need the attention, to be honest.
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Have any Aquas made some comments about this topic? lol



Anyway, If its someone I dont care for, I just don't care. I might reach out first or not. Depends on my mood. Usually I don't care.

If its someone I like, then I will definately ignore him/her back even if it takes months. I have never reached out to anybody who I cared for, when he/she ignored me on purpose. Fuck them. ^^

I have been ignoring a girl who has been ignoring me for the past 9 months even though I care for her.

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i dont care,
same.

I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.

cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.

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I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
No it's not my responsibility to know every slight & yes it would be real heavy on me. I just don't like when I'm having contact with someone , especially when I ask a question, then it turns into being ignored or skipping over my question. Oh, that's another one- blatantly ignoring specific questions instead of saying "hey, I don't want to talk about that" which is very much acceptable in my eyes.
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How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
Yes I feel you, only I feel it pretty scarring even. Hurtful.

But if I don't feel close to them, I don't really care if they ignore them coz I must do the same thing as well lol
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Yes they have to be close for me to really care. If not, I'll wonder why for a few minutes then couldn't care less lol
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Posted by TheSag
Have any Aquas made some comments about this topic? lol



Anyway, If its someone I dont care for, I just don't care. I might reach out first or not. Depends on my mood. Usually I don't care.

If its someone I like, then I will definately ignore him/her back even if it takes months. I have never reached out to anybody who I cared for, when he/she ignored me on purpose. Fuck them. ^^

I have been ignoring a girl who has been ignoring me for the past 9 months even though I care for her.


Haha about the Aquas.. Yea depends on my mood if I reach out to the ppl I don't care much for . Either I do care & I reach out once twice . Most of the time I don't .. Yea I've ignored back for a long time as well for someone I really cared for as a friend. I thought about her a lot , was mad then neutral then we spoke on it, still friends till this day.. 9 months is a long time to ignore someone u care for but I get it, been there.
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Honestly, I've come to a stage in my life where I don't have time to deal with those who ignore. My Scorpio sis does this to me a lot and I'm used to it. I can detach and just get on with life with a shrug to the situation.

Back in the day I would get really upset about it. The injustice. Not no more.

If it's to do with my bf then that's another story. I absolutely hate it. I can tolerate it but not for long. Thankfully my libra is the same.
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Posted by LillyPetal
It depends - if it's just people, they are giving me exactly what I want.

If it's my Capricorn, I feel concerned and then my imagination runs wild until I tell him and then discover he was either secretly planning a night out with me or working on his art or music.

If it's my siblings, I ask them what's up and then give them space to come around.

With people, I ALWAYS assume they are busy or I don't even notice they are "ignoring" me. I don't need the attention, to be honest.

Yea it def depends on the ppl who are doing the ignoring & what they are towards u.. I assume ppl are busy too but then there's a lighted sign that goes off in front of my face that reminds me "no one is that busy" lol .. I just find it incredible that there are ppl that truly don't let it bother them when someone they care for is blatantly ignoring them. I just can't do it haha
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Posted by Ninjagirl
Honestly, I've come to a stage in my life where I don't have time to deal with those who ignore. My Scorpio sis does this to me a lot and I'm used to it. I can detach and just get on with life with a shrug to the situation.

Back in the day I would get really upset about it. The injustice. Not no more.

If it's to do with my bf then that's another story. I absolutely hate it. I can tolerate it but not for long. Thankfully my libra is the same.
This... Back in the day I would get really upset about it too. I was such a drama queen. I've come a long way from that haha.. Yea if it the BF fuck that .. I can detach & get on with my life too but if it's someone that I care for then it will linger in the back of my mind. Doesn't mean I'm thinking of it everyday or even every week- it will come & go in my thoughts & I recognize this.

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It depends - if it's just people, they are giving me exactly what I want.

If it's my Capricorn, I feel concerned and then my imagination runs wild until I tell him and then discover he was either secretly planning a night out with me or working on his art or music.

If it's my siblings, I ask them what's up and then give them space to come around.

With people, I ALWAYS assume they are busy or I don't even notice they are "ignoring" me. I don't need the attention, to be honest.

Yea it def depends on the ppl who are doing the ignoring & what they are towards u.. I assume ppl are busy too but then there's a lighted sign that goes off in front of my face that reminds me "no one is that busy" lol .. I just find it incredible that there are ppl that truly don't let it bother them when someone they care for is blatantly ignoring them. I just can't do it haha

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Lol, honestly, life must be much easier that way.
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What's being ignored' means?

I am serious
When u contact someone once or twice & they say nothing back
Why would you even being with those people who treated you wrong and ignoring you?

I can't think why wouldn't I call my friend back...unless I don't really consider you important enough.
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I don't have those kind of ppl in my life anymore. When I did, it was very bothersome.
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What's being ignored' means?

I am serious
When u contact someone once or twice & they say nothing back
Why would you even being with those people who treated you wrong and ignoring you?

I can't think why wouldn't I call my friend back...unless I don't really consider you important enough.
I don't have those kind of ppl in my life anymore. When I did, it was very bothersome.

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Good for you! You've got rid of them by stop caring?
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What's being ignored' means?

I am serious
When u contact someone once or twice & they say nothing back
Why would you even being with those people who treated you wrong and ignoring you?

I can't think why wouldn't I call my friend back...unless I don't really consider you important enough.
I don't have those kind of ppl in my life anymore. When I did, it was very bothersome.



Good for you! You've got rid of them by stop caring?

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Yes, I just don't/didn't care anymore
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What's being ignored' means?

I am serious
When u contact someone once or twice & they say nothing back
Why would you even being with those people who treated you wrong and ignoring you?

I can't think why wouldn't I call my friend back...unless I don't really consider you important enough.
I don't have those kind of ppl in my life anymore. When I did, it was very bothersome.



Good for you! You've got rid of them by stop caring?




Yes, I just don't/didn't care anymore
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That is the only way! What's good if you care and they don't? It's like letting yourself being reduced to unwanted person? No way! Right?

I don't understand why isn't it obvious to every one?
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Posted by Gemitati
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What's being ignored' means?

I am serious
When u contact someone once or twice & they say nothing back
Why would you even being with those people who treated you wrong and ignoring you?

I can't think why wouldn't I call my friend back...unless I don't really consider you important enough.
I don't have those kind of ppl in my life anymore. When I did, it was very bothersome.



Good for you! You've got rid of them by stop caring?




Yes, I just don't/didn't care anymore
That is the only way! What's good if you care and they don't? It's like letting yourself being reduced to unwanted person? No way! Right?

I don't understand why isn't it obvious to every one?

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Yea , if they don't care then why should I? It is obvious but it still can hurt
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hmmmm.

i don't like it, i'll often make contact with that person and try to resolve it, i'll even apologize even if i'm not in the wrong just so they'll stop ignoring me lol

but if they continue even after my efforts, i'll eventually say 'fuck ya then' and poof, never to be seen again.

not in my life, not in my mind.
Yea def not in my life , not in my mind - after I'm done harping on it internally but not letting it affect my life in the process lol
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At the first I feel bad, but then I don't care at all

I forget about them completely.
You forget about them completely even if you are close to them ?
Yes

Damn, more power to u. I would ignore back after trying to get in contact 2-3 x then go ghost but be internally hurt


I'm the same as you, I will wait to see things, but then I just ignore them for good

I forget about them and let go of them

I remember when I ignore my gemini best friend for a half of year, she finally came to me crying because her father was dying.

I ignore her because she start to ignoring me, you know I just stop even look at her just like she did to me.

I have this power..I ignore people who hurt me or ignore me ..I know it's not good to use it..but it's who I'm ?

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It's not good or bad.. It's just u & it's better to be u
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I get accused of ignoring by some people. Even if I'm not, and I just want my own space.

But anyway, what bothers me is that the more aggressive ones assume I did it on purpose.

So my advice is to not assume they're doing it on purpose,

unless they already tell you they're mad.

Idk...it annoys me when some people act entitled to my time with the excuse that they "like" me. 😐

I wish they occupied themselves with their own hobby

and stop taking nothing so personally.
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Posted by SalamanderCandy
I get accused of ignoring by some people. Even if I'm not, and I just want my own space.

But anyway, what bothers me is that the more aggressive ones assume I did it on purpose.

So my advice is to not assume they're doing it on purpose,

unless they already tell you they're mad.

Idk...it annoys me when some people act entitled to my time with the excuse that they "like" me. 😐

I wish they occupied themselves with their own hobby

and stop taking nothing so personally.

Yea being aggressive isn't my style ..I don't assume it's on purpose, I actually don't assume anything .. Just want to know why .. & yes, there are too many ppl out here that need to find a hobby & respect a persons space
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Posted by Queenleo
I'm a leo and i dont know if it has anything to do with that .. but I HATE BEING IGNORED soecially from someone I LOVE.... it makes me furiously mad !! Like literally i go crazy!... i wouldnt shut up and it makes me hurt i might even cry lol and hate the person am dealing with.
You sound very fiery lol yea if it's someone u love it really sucks but fk them
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How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
Drives me crazy!!! And I have a feeling its my Leo moon : )



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Yes, I love leo moons but the ones I know don't like being ignored at all
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Posted by Tirano24
Yes I care. I'd rather the issue be discussed and resolved. If I'm being a jerk, let me know. The absence of truth really irritates me. I just don't do that to people irl, online is different. I wish more people would just speak up about what's on their mind instead of playing that card.

Close friendships and work would be the criteria for me to care.
This ! ..Just let me know man & speak the fk up. Is it really that hard ? Guess it really is for some ppl
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I don't care if I'm ignored
U don't care if you're ignored by anyone at all?
Yeah. I used to care but I've been rejected so much that I'm numb to it and expect it so I just be in my own world. I really don't care anymore. I don't feel hatred, anger, just nothing.
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Sorry that u have been rejected a lot in your life
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I don't care if I'm ignored
U don't care if you're ignored by anyone at all?
Yeah. I used to care but I've been rejected so much that I'm numb to it and expect it so I just be in my own world. I really don't care anymore. I don't feel hatred, anger, just nothing.

Sorry that u have been rejected a lot in your life


Yeah. It's life. But that's why I fight for change so much because shit is really bad out here and I'm not saying it because of my experiences. I just see how people treat each other. We all fight on here. No one is making any plans to change or make the world a better place but we want respect.
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That's why u just do u & continue to treat ppl with respect yourself. Who cares about everyone else
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I don't care if I'm ignored
U don't care if you're ignored by anyone at all?
Yeah. I used to care but I've been rejected so much that I'm numb to it and expect it so I just be in my own world. I really don't care anymore. I don't feel hatred, anger, just nothing.

Sorry that u have been rejected a lot in your life


Yeah. It's life. But that's why I fight for change so much because shit is really bad out here and I'm not saying it because of my experiences. I just see how people treat each other. We all fight on here. No one is making any plans to change or make the world a better place but we want respect.
That's why u just do u & continue to treat ppl with respect yourself. Who cares about everyone else
I sense a lot of humility in you. Why is that?
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Because I am a modest person more than less of the time
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How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
So you ignore others and then don't like it when they ignore you....

Maybe those people who ignore you also have "solid reasons"...

U are very egotistical.
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Yes I have ignored others & yes it was for good reasons. Everyone has ignored someone at some point in their life... The ppl that have ignored me in the past had no solid reasons. Yes I can have a bit of an ego but I'm mostly a modest person. Far from egotistical
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Posted by starwars
I rarely notice when I'm being ignored, drive whoever ignoring me nuts...they feel the need to throw shady remarks for me to take a hint that I have done something wrong. I usually hit them up and ask what's wrong...and if I get 'nothing' then I take that and drop it. piss them even more lol. nothing works with me but being straightforward.

the shady remarks from people I care about hurt me badly and it makes me reconsider my relationship-friendship with them, because if I was them I won't go out of my way to hurt someone close to me only because I need to 'prove' a point, the ignoring doesn't bother me because I'm oblivious and have detached nature so I assume people are having their space.


Ooo the shady remarks aka passive aggressive which I can't stand lol straightforwardness is what's up but not everyone is like this & I've come to terms with it , I guess haha.. Yea I don't go out of my way to prove a point , that shit is spiteful .. I need some serious space sometimes to be alone.. If it involves just texting someone back cuz they're worried about me , I'll get back to them during my space time. Won't be right away all the time but sometime within that day I'll get back . That's why I don't understand what's so hard to reply to a simple text message