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Venus in the first house indicates a charming and attractive personality, often seeking recognition and acceptance from others. People with this placement tend to be pleasant and sociable, but they may also focus on gaining approval and self-esteem through relationships and appearance.
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
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Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
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You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
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๐๐๐ it sais that the mars good point are strong body, self-assertive and courageous. ๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ it sais that the mars good point are strong body, self-assertive and courageous. ๐๐
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Well you know how athletic I can be ๐๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ it sais that the mars good point are strong body, self-assertive and courageous. ๐๐
Well you know how athletic I can be ๐๐๐
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I wonder if you are jumping right now ๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ it sais that the mars good point are strong body, self-assertive and courageous. ๐๐
Well you know how athletic I can be ๐๐๐
I wonder if you are jumping right now ๐๐
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Nevermind jumping. I'm flying now ๐๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
Hehe ๐ not according to my book ๐๐
You red the wrong book ๐๐๐
๐๐๐ it sais that the mars good point are strong body, self-assertive and courageous. ๐๐
Well you know how athletic I can be ๐๐๐
I wonder if you are jumping right now ๐๐
Nevermind jumping. I'm flying now ๐๐
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Awwwww ๐๐ Fly fly ๐
Awwwww so that being liked and people pleasing thing comes from having a 1st house in venus? Wow.
Now I see why I don't relate to that as a Libra ascendant (venus chart ruler) like astrologers say we are.
No experience with that placement. Hopefully someone will help you on this as I'm interesting in reading everones response to this. I can learn something too.
I guess it's not the same for everyone. My Venus is Capricorn 23ยฐ and my Ascendant is Capricorn 20ยฐ so it's a quite tight conjuction. Also Capricorn is all about social acceptance and recognition too. Plus it's conjuct Mars from the 12th and Neptune in 1st too.
Where is your Venus by sign, house and what aspects does it make? You can see things from that. ๐
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
OMG!!!!!! Thatโs me
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Its cause I am that girl that we used to be astro twins and I keep opening new accounts ๐๐ remember?
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
OMG!!!!!! Thatโs me
Its cause I am that girl that we used to be astro twins and I keep opening new accounts ๐๐ remember?
Yes, I thought this was you ๐ we are still twins btw lol I still struggle with this, but am a lot better. It has taken a lot of personal growth though. Itโs what happened to me in the marriage with the Aries. I though it was my 12th house sun but apparently not?
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I am not sure. I think a lot of placements can cause a specific thing in someone.
But recently that one of the most accurate descriptions of me I have ever read in astrology with Venus in 1st. You can check this out for info about this placement. It's like a slap in the face ๐ฌ๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
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so do I have a double whammy with both in 1st? LOl
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
I have Venus in Leo/1st House - but i can't relate with the bolded text. ๐
For most of my life - my self-esteem was fueled by my personal thoughts. Even so and to be honest - there were some people... who had quite an impact on my self-esteem. But that's because they were really dear to me... because i really trusted and loved them with all my being. So obviously - i valued their opinions. But those are the only exceptions. Besides them - i doubt you'll find anyone who can agree with the bolded text (me carrying what people think of me - or being a people pleaser ๐คข ๐คฎ). More like the opposite.
Even more than that - i used to be a class clown. I can be a joker/comedian at times - so if i were to put at heart what people think of me - that type of behavior would have worked against me (affect my self-image). Still, i don't like to hurt people - so i do care in that sense (if i cross the line - and hurt someone who's not deserving).
Other than that - i'm usually polite/respectful with the people that serve me in some way (simple gratitude gestures like saying thanks or have a lovely/nice day). I can be pleasing - and that's usually linked to Venus. But that's far from what i would call a people pleaser. Since in that line of work - the people in question feel obligated/compelled to be respectful, so if they treat me good - i simply return the favor (cause same can't be said about the ones who treat their clients like shit).
Also, Venus trines Jupiter in my chart - and that's also what emphasizes this type of behavior (social grace). That's just one astrological placement tho (one piece of the whole puzzle).
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
I have Venus in Leo/1st House - but i can't relate with the bolded text. ๐
For most of my life - my self-esteem was fueled by my personal thoughts. Even so and to be honest - there were some people... who had quite an impact on my self-esteem. But that's because they were really dear to me... because i really trusted and loved them with all my being. So obviously - i valued their opinions. But those are the only exceptions. Besides them - i doubt you'll find anyone who can agree with the bolded text (me carrying what people think of me - or being a people pleaser ๐คข ๐คฎ). More like the opposite.
Even more than that - i used to be a class clown. I can be a joker/comedian at times - so if i were to put at heart what people think of me - that type of behavior would have worked against me (affect my self-image). Still, i don't like to hurt people - so i do care in that sense (if i cross the line - and hurt someone who's not deserving).
Other than that - i'm usually polite/respectful with the people that serve me in some way (simple gratitude gestures like saying thanks or have a lovely/nice day). I can be pleasing - and that's usually linked to Venus. But that's far from what i would call a people pleaser. Since in that line of work - the people in question feel obligated/compelled to be respectful, so if they treat me good - i simply return the favor (cause same can't be said about the ones who treat their clients like shit).
Also, Venus trines Jupiter in my chart - and that's also what emphasizes this type of behavior (social grace). That's just one astrological placement tho (one piece of the whole puzzle).
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The only thing I can think of is that Leo is a different energy than Capricorn and probably acts different. Plus it's the rest of the chart that plays a part too.
I have Venus conjunct Pluto (in Scorp) in my 1st house, and a Libra ascendant/Sun.
Needless to say, I'd lay on the charm to be liked, but I was always conscious of going too far with it (Virgo moon?). Luckily I don't care as much anymore, but that was definitely my natural tendency until a few years ago.
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
I have Venus in Leo/1st House - but i can't relate with the bolded text. ๐
For most of my life - my self-esteem was fueled by my personal thoughts. Even so and to be honest - there were some people... who had quite an impact on my self-esteem. But that's because they were really dear to me... because i really trusted and loved them with all my being. So obviously - i valued their opinions. But those are the only exceptions. Besides them - i doubt you'll find anyone who can agree with the bolded text (me carrying what people think of me - or being a people pleaser ๐คข ๐คฎ). More like the opposite.
Even more than that - i used to be a class clown. I can be a joker/comedian at times - so if i were to put at heart what people think of me - that type of behavior would have worked against me (affect my self-image). Still, i don't like to hurt people - so i do care in that sense (if i cross the line - and hurt someone who's not deserving).
Other than that - i'm usually polite/respectful with the people that serve me in some way (simple gratitude gestures like saying thanks or have a lovely/nice day). I can be pleasing - and that's usually linked to Venus. But that's far from what i would call a people pleaser. Since in that line of work - the people in question feel obligated/compelled to be respectful, so if they treat me good - i simply return the favor (cause same can't be said about the ones who treat their clients like shit).
Also, Venus trines Jupiter in my chart - and that's also what emphasizes this type of behavior (social grace). That's just one astrological placement tho (one piece of the whole puzzle).
The only thing I can think of is that Leo is a different energy than Capricorn and probably acts different. Plus it's the rest of the chart that plays a part too.
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I think that If you do it consiously it's good. I do it out of habit.
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
uhhh no.
i act mostly like i dont give a fuck.
could be my aquarius singularity lol ;p
just do your thing, and keep your nose clean.
self esteem from how people think of u?
nawww not really.
if i did i would be out there doing TONS of charity work and looking goody goody.
Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!
uhhh no.
i act mostly like i dont give a fuck.
could be my aquarius singularity lol ;p
just do your thing, and keep your nose clean.
self esteem from how people think of u?
nawww not really.
if i did i would be out there doing TONS of charity work and looking goody goody.
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Haha cool. Last sentence sounds like my future plans ๐
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
so do I have a double whammy with both in 1st? LOl
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That depends on if you only have those without further adds ๐ and if they're conjunct.
Super charming,flirtatious, sympathetic and cheerful personality ๐
Sorry hun ๐ those are came from my Mars in 1st ๐๐
so do I have a double whammy with both in 1st? LOl
That depends on if you only have those without further adds ๐ and if they're conjunct.
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lololol staahp you know its a packed first house๐
I have venus in 1st. I am not a charmer, but I definitely make friends easily.
Acceptance and to be liked in general is not something that I strive for, or even think about. I am, who I am, and what other people think or say is not going to influence the way I am. I am definitely not a pleaser. What you see is what you get. I am genuine โ I wonโt do or say anything just to please someone else. I like to accept people for who they are and I want them to do or say things because they want to, not because they think thatโs something that I would want.
Recognition is not something I want either. I want to go unnoticed. The less attention the better, I just want to do my own thing.
My self esteem is not gained from what other people think of me, but of what I think about me. Am I trying my best to accomplish my goals and am I reaching them? As long as I am happy with the way I am, or at least striving to be the person I want to be then I am confident and happy.
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I loved the perspective . What's your sign and Ascendant? ๐
I have venus in 1st. I am not a charmer, but I definitely make friends easily.
Acceptance and to be liked in general is not something that I strive for, or even think about. I am, who I am, and what other people think or say is not going to influence the way I am. I am definitely not a pleaser. What you see is what you get. I am genuine โ I wonโt do or say anything just to please someone else. I like to accept people for who they are and I want them to do or say things because they want to, not because they think thatโs something that I would want.
Recognition is not something I want either. I want to go unnoticed. The less attention the better, I just want to do my own thing.
My self esteem is not gained from what other people think of me, but of what I think about me. Am I trying my best to accomplish my goals and am I reaching them? As long as I am happy with the way I am, or at least striving to be the person I want to be then I am confident and happy.
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that's what i'm talking abuot ๐
what i think of ME.
ME me me... not abuot "other people" think of me ..i could give 2 fucks
that's 7th house !!!! giving a shit what others think of them ....7th house is the "OTHER"
remember?
hmmm makes sense
what about venus in the 7th house ๐
no one talks about 7th house venus.
it's always 1st house.
is 1st house so popular in astrology?? O_O

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Hey from a Venus in 1st here. Do you consider yourself to be the charmer? I made some research on this placement and found out that the person does everything to gain others recognitizion, acceptance and to be liked in general.
I have this placement in Capricorn and I am so much like that. This placement suggest that you gain you self esteem from what other people think of you. You try to please everyone and lose yourself in the process. I got shocked actually. So I have inner work to do again ๐.
Any experience with this placement??!