want to be in a relationship, but runs the second something happens >_<'

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by scorpio-rose on Wednesday, December 20, 2017 and has 15 replies.

Understanding Fear of Commitment in Astrology

Your chart shows a desire for love combined with fears of losing independence. Factors like Uranus in the 7th and Saturn in the 8th can create challenges with intimacy and trust. Working on balancing independence and emotional connection can help you feel more secure in relationships.

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

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Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

Lmao

U have similar chart to mine😃

You found your cake 😂😂😂

Haha

Marriage on the way🤓😂

well that escalated quickly hahahahahah!! thats pretty intriguing, do you also have and cold relation with your emotions regarding being in a relationship

Just marry me,i have venus in cap too,scorpio mars,sun,pluto,mercury,ascendant,cancer moon and Jupiter😃

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😂😂 ahahahaa oh wow you have a lot of water placements!!

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

With all that water + a cap venus it doesn't surprise me that you close up so fast although you genuinely want to experience love!

Its something you need to learn and experience even if you might get disappointed. That's life but everyone goes through that and only if you try you can actually win in the end. 🌷

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

With all that water + a cap venus it doesn't surprise me that you close up so fast although you genuinely want to experience love!

Its something you need to learn and experience even if you might get disappointed. That's life but everyone goes through that and only if you try you can actually win in the end. 🌷

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Ahh yess the disappointment, I think it's too much for me to handle, so I'd rather avoid it 😐

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

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Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

With all that water + a cap venus it doesn't surprise me that you close up so fast although you genuinely want to experience love!

Its something you need to learn and experience even if you might get disappointed. That's life but everyone goes through that and only if you try you can actually win in the end. 🌷

Ahh yess the disappointment, I think it's too much for me to handle, so I'd rather avoid it 😐

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Yeh... but that's life

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

Lmao

U have similar chart to mine😃

You found your cake 😂😂😂

Haha

Marriage on the way🤓😂

well that escalated quickly hahahahahah!! thats pretty intriguing, do you also have and cold relation with your emotions regarding being in a relationship

Just marry me,i have venus in cap too,scorpio mars,sun,pluto,mercury,ascendant,cancer moon and Jupiter😃

😂😂 ahahahaa oh wow you have a lot of water placements!!

Is that a,compliment😃or a bad thing

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A compliment 😊 it's nice to know there are others who are like me, I thought I was the only one going bonkers over the tiniest of things, thanks to my water placements

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

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Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose

Posted by Neno2

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Posted by Neno2

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

Lmao

U have similar chart to mine😃

You found your cake 😂😂😂

Haha

Marriage on the way🤓😂

well that escalated quickly hahahahahah!! thats pretty intriguing, do you also have and cold relation with your emotions regarding being in a relationship

Just marry me,i have venus in cap too,scorpio mars,sun,pluto,mercury,ascendant,cancer moon and Jupiter😃

😂😂 ahahahaa oh wow you have a lot of water placements!!

Is that a,compliment😃or a bad thing

A compliment 😊 it's nice to know there are others who are like me, I thought I was the only one going bonkers over the tiniest of things, thanks to my water placements

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what house is your venus in?

it may change things up.

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

Posted by lisabethur8

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Posted by Neno2

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Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose

Posted by Neno2

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

Lmao

U have similar chart to mine😃

You found your cake 😂😂😂

Haha

Marriage on the way🤓😂

well that escalated quickly hahahahahah!! thats pretty intriguing, do you also have and cold relation with your emotions regarding being in a relationship

Just marry me,i have venus in cap too,scorpio mars,sun,pluto,mercury,ascendant,cancer moon and Jupiter😃

😂😂 ahahahaa oh wow you have a lot of water placements!!

Is that a,compliment😃or a bad thing

A compliment 😊 it's nice to know there are others who are like me, I thought I was the only one going bonkers over the tiniest of things, thanks to my water placements

what house is your venus in?

it may change things up.

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It's in the 7th and squares Jupiter in libra

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@scorpio-rose
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose

Posted by Neno2

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Neno2

Posted by scorpio-rose
Hello everyone! well i wanted to ask you guys (any feedback will be appreciated), that I love the idea of the whole relationaships and romance etc, and i daydream alot about it too! but the second something happens i freak out and run the other way, im scared i'll be caged, yet at the same time i want to be inlove and be loved and all that comes with it, i have sun/pluto in scorpio 5th, cancer rising/moon 2nd/mars 2nd, capricorn venus/neptune/uranus in the 7th, and saturn in the 8th. i have read that uranus accounts for independency and unconventionality, and my venus only makes one aspect, it squares jupiter in libra. is there any way to counteract this? this is very confusing.

Lmao

U have similar chart to mine😃

You found your cake 😂😂😂

Haha

Marriage on the way🤓😂

well that escalated quickly hahahahahah!! thats pretty intriguing, do you also have and cold relation with your emotions regarding being in a relationship

Just marry me,i have venus in cap too,scorpio mars,sun,pluto,mercury,ascendant,cancer moon and Jupiter😃

😂😂 ahahahaa oh wow you have a lot of water placements!!

Is that a,compliment😃or a bad thing

A compliment 😊 it's nice to know there are others who are like me, I thought I was the only one going bonkers over the tiniest of things, thanks to my water placements

U have it easier😃mine is 1 th house,its difficult,focus is on appearance and personality

And yes,i always want to find true love but when things happen i hesitate😅basically i can have a relationship but i dont want,one day i want next day i don't😅

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Aaah yeah I'm not that concerned about appearance, only when I feel like it, woow exactly what goes on in my head!!! 😀. Have you found any way to counteract it? I know I haven't.