the ever revolving Aqua man?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by MondayMorning on Friday, December 29, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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@MondayMorning
10 Years

No, we're not dating or a couple so we can both see other people.

It's not even friends with benefits because there's no sex. I have no idea what it is.

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@MondayMorning
10 Years

Yes, I dated an Aqua once before a very long time ago and actually while they had a lot of similarities they are also very different. This one doesn't really commit to anyone - or at least he hasn't for the past 5 years been exclusive with anybody so he obviously has some kind of issue with commitment but like you say - he doesn't see a future with me. I guess I wonder why he behaves like he does.

One thing I have never done since we met is dated anyone else. I think if I did he'd probably have a heart attack but the way I am as a Scorpio is totally all or nothing, so if I even like someone I can't date anyone else

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Don’t sleep with him. Stop giving him kisses or cuddles.

He’s made it clear he doesn’t want a relationship. You do. So if you fuck him your agreeing to fwb and it will be hard to make it out of that. He doesn’t get to have the goodies without commitment.

Still hang out, kick it. Let him suffer. Line is drawn in the sand.

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@MondayMorning
10 Years

Is there really a reason to hang out with him though if he just wants to be friends? I mean, practically speaking I can't imagine it being a lot of fun to spend the day fighting someone off and if he's got no feelings for me then maybe just move on and find someone who does?

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@MondayMorning
10 Years

It was a mistake really. I told him today we can't be "friends" anymore. He's getting all the benefits of a girlfriend without any of the obligation.