What if you rejected your soul-mate?

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Posted by whatthecrab
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Posted by whatthecrab
There is no such thing as a soul mate

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There's a lot of people who would dissent.
Then there's a lot of people who have bought into metaphysical nonsense
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Immature people that's for sure but there's also many who actually met theirs. You recognize them because they speak a totally different language from yours, as a result of their diverse manner of processing love.


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I believe that people are just more compatible with some than others. If you are compatible and click, fall in love you deem that person to be your soulmate. There are people who lose their loves for whatever reason (death, life circumstances, etc...). In the case of widows and widowers who find love again, they either find a stronger or weaker love IMO. If they find a stronger one, then that person is their soulmate. If they find a weaker one, then the person that died was their soulmate.

I'm a dreamer and when I fall for a woman I buy into the destiny and soulmate stuff because love has me in the clouds.

When I'm not in love I tend to feel that there are a lot of women out there with whom I would be compatible with. Does fate follow us? Do we follow fate? Do we dismiss because we are waiting for fate to grab hold of our lives?

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Soulmate is a broad term... wasn't meant - as a referral to romantic partners alone, but - every soul that happens to have a meaningful role - in your path through life (a family member, a friend, a neighbor, a teacher, someone from work, a romantic partner or even someone from the animal kingdom). Even, if it's just - a temporary role...

Though, people wear masks... which act like gates (or barriers - if closed) - to their inner world - to their inner being. So, there is the possibility... to pass by one another (to miss each other), or to gravitate in similar circles and feel the pull - but ignore it (at least - until all the pieces fall into place). This is quite a common example - which makes the possibility of rejection quite plausible... I do remember stories - of people who weren't right for each-other - in the beginning, they just weren't in the right place (or at the right frequency - to understand each-other clearly) and... years latter - they found each-other again... and end-up growing old together. ^^

It's a matter of chemistry... but people change with time - and so does the chemistry. Astrology does show the celestial influences - but mainly, it's up to the ones in question... on how they chose to act (or react), it's what defines both you and the chemistry (the way things might turn-up). One could say: we're all Chemists or Cooks... ^^ And... same as it goes in the chemistry lab or the kitchen, it's not just matter of having the right ingredients... you have to know what to do with them (guessing could work as well... sometimes ^^) or things could get messy... even though - all that you need is there. ^^