@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years
What kinds of people drain you?
People who follow everything mainstream ?
Stressball-types...people who talk behind your back...idk, I just go by vibes. I don't like having to walk on eggshells with people. People have bad days, and people have good days...when the bad days start to cloud over everything the person does/says/etc. and the vibe changes, I can tell and I usually fall back a little. I've come home from being out and about with certain people and have felt completely drained, emotional, exhausted, etc.
Negative people who complain about everything and make no effort to put things right
Complainers
Posted by Libracookie
I can't stand negative people who does nothing but complain all day and blame everyone else for their misery.
I won't even do the blame game, the moment you start that shot with me, ITS OUT THE DOOR BIIIIITCH.
Posted by Gooober
People who follow everything mainstream ?
Basic hoes, oh yes oh yes.
The level of unoriginality. Following the same trends.
Shallow minded oh focussed on other people who they don't even know.
Basic. Hoe.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
"For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The treetrunk?"im okay with these types, cause im one, its just needing to talk their frustration, doesnt' entail they need to do anything about it.
for me its all about energy, like if you can't read my energy i have a problem, use your intuition, do i look like i want to talk, if not, DON'T TALK TO ME.
I guess i really HATE SELFISH PEOPLE...and really extreme RIGID TYPES like CAPS..working with some of them is a headache, like they make the smallest thing into a crisis
My biggest problem with it (my ex cancer did this) he would tell me how oh I hurt him, and how this person hurt him, and he would complain woe is me about everything and always be complaining without end, and act like he needs help, and gets weird if I act uninterested (which usually means not giving any advice) but if I give him tips he just is like no, I won't do that, I can't do that, blah blah stfu filthy cancer.
And OH YES. The ones who turn molehills into mountains. Yes yes. My mom is like that- virgo, must be an earth thing. I haaaaate that.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
What types of people suck the energy and life out of you? What are the charectisitics you find it hardest to stay around?For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The fuck?
Also people who are always negative and are stressful like you feel like he moment you do ANYTHING as much as breath too loud they'll turn on you completely.
I don't mind people who are eager too much, I enjoy the excitement, and generally as long as someone is more exciting than needy, and they're just very eager rather than expecting, I don't mind if they're clingy, just don't drag me down, push me up.
People who ask me what kind of people drain me,drain me?
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Technically I didn't ask you. 🙂
I asked DXP, you didn't have to click on it. Who else has been asking you that?
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
On a more serious note, people in general drain me, even if I genuinely like or love them.I can't be around someone for an extended period of time. I need my space. It drains me.
I think it's because I pick up on energies that most people don't. Like when someone is sad or upset, I can feel that. I don't mean "feel" as in I just sense it, but I literally feel other people's energies and it exhausts me.
So I can't spend too much time around people.
It sounds to me like you're an empath.?
I have the same deal, except I now have learned to block any energy that drains me and keep going. Have you ever looked into it?
People who drain me/can't stand to be around:
Negative people
People who always talk about their relationship issues
People who demand so much out of you but don't give the same back
People who want to go out all the time
Complainers
People who look down on others
Posted by Lilianni
People who drain me/can't stand to be around:Negative people
People who always talk about their relationship issues
People who demand so much out of you but don't give the same back
People who want to go out all the time
Complainers
People who look down on others
this is sad. people do look down on me all the time. *smh*
No respect. this is why I choose to distant myself.
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Yeah, lack of respect in your relationship can be a killer. They don't value you as much as they need to.
Posted by Lilianni
People who drain me/can't stand to be around:Negative people
People who always talk about their relationship issues
People who demand so much out of you but don't give the same back
People who want to go out all the time
Complainers
People who look down on others
this is sad. people do look down on me all the time. *smh*
No respect. this is why I choose to distant myself.
Yeah, lack of respect in your relationship can be a killer. They don't value you as much as they need to.
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That one got me too, I hate when people undermine or look down at me, or anyone. I mean we all do it time to time because people do some stupid things but then there are people who just put themselves on the pedestal of greatness and I hate that. It makes me feel shitty being around them because you can't feel accepted by any means. Very insecure place to stand.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
What types of people suck the energy and life out of you? What are the charectisitics you find it hardest to stay around?For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The fuck?
Also people who are always negative and are stressful like you feel like he moment you do ANYTHING as much as breath too loud they'll turn on you completely.
I don't mind people who are eager too much, I enjoy the excitement, and generally as long as someone is more exciting than needy, and they're just very eager rather than expecting, I don't mind if they're clingy, just don't drag me down, push me up.
all people drain me.
Posted by Lilianni
People who drain me/can't stand to be around:Negative people
People who always talk about their relationship issues
People who demand so much out of you but don't give the same back
People who want to go out all the time
Complainers
People who look down on others
this is sad. people do look down on me all the time. *smh*
No respect. this is why I choose to distant myself.
Yeah, lack of respect in your relationship can be a killer. They don't value you as much as they need to.
That one got me too, I hate when people undermine or look down at me, or anyone. I mean we all do it time to time because people do some stupid things but then there are people who just put themselves on the pedestal of greatness and I hate that. It makes me feel shitty being around them because you can't feel accepted by any means. Very insecure place to stand.
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Very. I hope what they say is right, that it's lonely at the top. ?
Posted by Lilianni
People who drain me/can't stand to be around:Negative people
People who always talk about their relationship issues
People who demand so much out of you but don't give the same back
People who want to go out all the time
Complainers
People who look down on others
this is sad. people do look down on me all the time. *smh*
No respect. this is why I choose to distant myself.
Yeah, lack of respect in your relationship can be a killer. They don't value you as much as they need to.
yeah I know that it can be a killer. I'm one of those types that don't seek value or validation. but at least have some decency to show a little respect. not just for me but show respect for others too.
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Good for you for being humble and remembering that you're human. I think some people forget that other people are just like them and forget their mortality.
* People with Cluster B traits and personalities: Narcissists, Borderlines, Histrionic personality types, etc.
Posted by Gooober
People who follow everything mainstream ?Ill see myself out
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Lmao.
Yes, Libra... See yourself out ✌
People who don't like the same things I do.
There are so many 😐
-- Uptight people with Expectations-- enough said.
-- People who cannot sit still and have a convo--
a woman I worked for, briefly, was like that, and I asked her
why why why do you ALWAYS have to be doing something?
She said it keeps her from THINKING... *nods* I see, now.
Side note: I love that woman, she just wore me out.
-- GROUP Activities... fuck, no.
I'm small and I always get stuck in the back seat, and run out
of coffee or anything else I may be strung out on, and cannot
get more, at will.
I do not like to *window shop* for things I don't care about--
I'm pretty selfish like that, and I'm okay with it... I'll give you
money instead, if you like, but I'm not hanging out in a bait
and tackle shop for an hour.
-- People who want only to complain, and dgaf about Solutions.
Complaining is FINE, but if there is no light at the end of your
miserable tunnel, I am not participating.
I could go on, but I won't.
🙂
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Posted by Soul
People who don't like the same things I do.
This... I should have just quoted you, instead of giving a speech.
🙂
Posted by Gooober
People who follow everything mainstream ?Ill see myself out
Lmao.
Yes, Libra... See yourself out ✌
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Filthy air sign.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
"For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The treetrunk?"im okay with these types, cause im one, its just needing to talk their frustration, doesnt' entail they need to do anything about it.
for me its all about energy, like if you can't read my energy i have a problem, use your intuition, do i look like i want to talk, if not, DON'T TALK TO ME.
I guess i really HATE SELFISH PEOPLE...and really extreme RIGID TYPES like CAPS..working with some of them is a headache, like they make the smallest thing into a crisis
My biggest problem with it (my ex cancer did this) he would tell me how oh I hurt him, and how this person hurt him, and he would complain woe is me about everything and always be complaining without end, and act like he needs help, and gets weird if I act uninterested (which usually means not giving any advice) but if I give him tips he just is like no, I won't do that, I can't do that, blah blah stfu filthy cancer.
And OH YES. The ones who turn molehills into mountains. Yes yes. My mom is like that- virgo, must be an earth thing. I haaaaate that.
My Cancer guy friend did the same thing. Can Cancer even act like Men? I'm not sure.
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No they can not. Very immature to the day they die.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
What types of people suck the energy and life out of you? What are the charectisitics you find it hardest to stay around?For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The fuck?
Also people who are always negative and are stressful like you feel like he moment you do ANYTHING as much as breath too loud they'll turn on you completely.
I don't mind people who are eager too much, I enjoy the excitement, and generally as long as someone is more exciting than needy, and they're just very eager rather than expecting, I don't mind if they're clingy, just don't drag me down, push me up.
People who ask me what kind of people drain me,drain me?
Technically I didn't ask you. 🙂
I asked DXP, you didn't have to click on it. Who else has been asking you that?
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I joked?just to annoy u a little, sorry i do that sometimes?
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You drain me. ??
People in general don't stress me. I'm good at isolating myself even in a crowded room.
I do get annoyed by slow people and people who get stressed easily under pressure.
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What types of people suck the energy and life out of you? What are the charectisitics you find it hardest to stay around?
For me, I can't stand people who are stubborn about their ways when they admit that have no clue what to do. They complain about being stuck or lost or not having any clue what to do, but shoot down every suggestion given to them. The fuck?
Also people who are always negative and are stressful like you feel like he moment you do ANYTHING as much as breath too loud they'll turn on you completely.
I don't mind people who are eager too much, I enjoy the excitement, and generally as long as someone is more exciting than needy, and they're just very eager rather than expecting, I don't mind if they're clingy, just don't drag me down, push me up.