@lucieloveless
11 Years
Sagittarius and Virgo
Sags. I've met a couple who were likely to have Narcissistic Personality Disorder, complete nutcase.
Narcissism... Unhealthy obsession with self image, characterised by superficial charm, grandiosity, lack of empathy and tendency to use others in order to get what they want... Hmmm sounds like
Gemini... most definitely.
They need constant approval from others, (which they get by flirting)... they drop people as soon as someone more popular comes along just so they can be seen associating with them, (social butterflies...they call it... sounds so innocent doesn't it?!), change their minds all the time in order to feel empowered, despite the amount of trouble it causes everyone else... and are never, never in the wrong... according to them... even when they clearly are! They have no sense of responsibility towards others either.
Virgos aren't narcissistic... we're clever and confident, competent and self sufficient! That's not narcissistic, it's called being actually great!!!! And we're used to being under-valued... Geminis are absolutely not under-valued! Everyone loves them... superficially.
libra
All the Virgo I know are sweet and nurturing can cut you with their temper when mad but usually very thoughtful of others. Now LIbra on the other hand.... Love em but the award goes to Libra.
Leos. Met a leo dude. I was getting ready for our date. Texted him, "I have been trying all my size 7 jeans; and decided to try on my size 5 ones. And they fit!". He texted back, "Girl, you're just as bad as I am" Uh, not! I'm not a narc like you are! 😡
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: "Outta the horse's mouth!"
Feels better to love than to hate yourself. I've experienced both sides of the spectrum and prefer the first option by far.
Taurus up and down. But I still love them.
Posted by Lunabee
Taurus up and down. But I still love them.
What !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanx for liking us anyway though. Maybe that's how we get away with it. LoL.
🙂
Posted by Capmercury87
Anyone with a Leo venus. I avoid them like crazy. They will manipulate and destroy your life of you don't do what they like. I've seen it over and over again. My old Leo Venus boss emailed my entire work place about my health because I called in sick, which is illegal, she spread rumors about me. My best friends ex got drunk with me tired to cuddle up with me in bed and play with me after telling me he had a gf, since I wouldn't cuddle with him he harassed me and called me names, I blocked him. I loved his other placements and I could easily say it was his sun, moon or mars but that's not it. That Venus will play games big time.
I never heard that but it fits..but he has triple scorpio so, idk...but ur probably right.
Most males who have some success with the ladies are narcissists....l certainly qualify...but since l got success, which was in my teens, l've tried to use my brain to be as neutral and fair to others as l possibly can. Whenever l met an open, extroverted or kind person l'd talk with them as much as possible, to learn their mind, to become like them.
My vote is for Sagg! Just my experience.
Also, I also think there are a lot of people commenting that have no idea what a narcissist is.
cancer, leo, virgo
all the air signs, talking to a libra man now who is definitely a sociopath/narcissistic personality
virgos too! something is wrong with them lol
Posted by EvatheDiva
Leos. Met a leo dude. I was getting ready for our date. Texted him, "I have been trying all my size 7 jeans; and decided to try on my size 5 ones. And they fit!". He texted back, "Girl, you're just as bad as I am" Uh, not! I'm not a narc like you are! 😡🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: "Outta the horse's mouth!"
How does that make him a narcissist?
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Enough said. Wish you were the fly on the wall.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by DoubleAqua0121
My vote is for Sagg! Just my experience.Also, I also think there are a lot of people commenting that have no idea what a narcissist is.
Hmm.. Are you talking about the so-called personality disorder ?
Posted by ViSunScMoon74
Narcissism... Unhealthy obsession with self image, characterised by superficial charm, grandiosity, lack of empathy and tendency to use others in order to get what they want...Hmmm sounds like
Gemini... most definitely.
They need constant approval from others, (which they get by flirting)... they drop people as soon as someone more popular comes along just so they can be seen associating with them, (social butterflies...they call it... sounds so innocent doesn't it?!), change their minds all the time in order to feel empowered, despite the amount of trouble it causes everyone else... and are never, never in the wrong... according to them... even when they clearly are! They have no sense of responsibility towards others either.
Virgos aren't narcissistic... we're clever and confident, competent and self sufficient! That's not narcissistic, it's called being actually great!!!! And we're used to being under-valued... Geminis are absolutely not under-valued! Everyone loves them... superficially.
Taurus & Scorpio from the people I know.
Agreed on the Virgo comment. Although while going through a crisis, I can be self-absorbed. I always try to be self-aware.
Posted by cancergem
the two most narcissistic people i know are an aries and a libra
Yours Truly is a Libra with two Aries parents. Guess you would've loved visiting us!
Anyone who says Virgo has the most narcissists obviously does not know anything about Virgos or narcissists! But, there is a REALLY good chance anyone claiming a Virgo to be a narcissist is actually a narcissist that was humiliated by a Virgo when the Virgo was critical of them and not sensitive to their narcissist fragility! But, this is the description of a narcissist, NONE of which applies to a Virgo
"Here are the traits of narcissistic personality disorder:
*Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
*Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
*Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
*Requires excessive admiration
*Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
*Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
*Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
*Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
*Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
I can be vain. But I am not a Narcissist at all. There is a HUGE difference.
Libras are vain as hell. But Narcissistic? Nah.
Hands down Virgo. Can't even handle it.
Posted by quesa55
Anyone who says Virgo has the most narcissists obviously does not know anything about Virgos or narcissists! But, there is a REALLY good chance anyone claiming a Virgo to be a narcissist is actually a narcissist that was humiliated by a Virgo when the Virgo was critical of them and not sensitive to their narcissist fragility! But, this is the description of a narcissist, NONE of which applies to a Virgo"Here are the traits of narcissistic personality disorder:
*Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
*Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
*Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
*Requires excessive admiration
*Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
*Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
*Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
*Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
*Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
My mom ruined my entire school career because she thought it was stupid, and instead wanted to do her own thing with me, and e wanted me to be a reflection of her to the point where she locked me up and I wasn't allowed to do anything, including homework, write, read, draw, watch tv, sing, because it involved creating, and she made me sit for weeks day after day so that my mindset would change and I'd think differently. This is such a small portion of the many things she did to me in my youth. She has lost everyone in the family because we all think she's insane, she has no friends, no one. She is alone and blames it on everyone and everyone pretty much has reached an agreement not to do naything too harsh to her or it'll set her off the deep end but seriously, she was the most nassisistic bitch I've ever met. She was a terrible terrible person. Maybe not all virgos are like that but I've known plenty who are.
Virgoooo
Posted by madaboutlove
in your opinion...
Leo, all the way! I disagree regarding so many votes that Virgo got; we're not narcissistic. We like cleanliness and are health conscious but that doesn't make us narcissistic.
Still, based on the votes here, it's not looking flattering for me as a Virgo Sun/Leo Rising ?
I think that many people on here don't know what narcissism means, really. I believe that they're picking Virgos for being know-it-alls and opinionated on just about everything. Leo, on the other hand... Just look up any description of a Leo personality and the narcissism is a well known flaw and a downfall for Leo's dark side.
Just because we point a specific sign out, doesn't mean we're jealous of it. Don't be petty!
There's also covert narcissism....google it up!
I go with libra and virgo.
Scorp that I know is also a Sociopath with a capital "S".
Not lumping the whole sign into this category. This is my own personal experience.
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When I was looking up the compatibility between cap women and virgo men, I came across a slew of sites that talked about narcissism in virgo men. It was actually very interesting. Apparently they're also borderline sociopaths and habitual liars LOL (idk from personal experience though)