Afraid to go down the cancer road again ...

I'm a Virgo , recently stopped seeing a 29 yr old Cancer man .. who declined to tell me he was married when we met .. I found out after I was already in love , we both were .. Or so I thought ..& I stayed around , believing his "separated" bullcrap .. he has two children with this woman .. I was so blind and stupid .. This man took me through it .. All the lies , sneakiness , moodiness , emotional roller coaster !! Manipulating & deceitful .. Drove me crazy , literally .. im still in the painful process of letting go ..

I have a guy friend in the Navy , who has been persuing me for almost 2 yrs now .. But it was never good timing .. As sweet and smart and charming as he was , I always pushed him away .. He's a really good guy , in school , NO CHILDREN NOT MARRIED .. We recently started communicating again , only for me to find out today that he's a Cancer ... Man I'm nervous .. I know everyone is different ... But my last Cancer emotionally scarred me .. I know Virgo women are highly compatible with Cancer men .. Anybody have any advice ? I don't want to run him away , could he possibly be the perfect crab for me ?

Posted by SensitiveBlues
The other crab was probably very much in love with you but men will never leave their wives! Ever!

Too much collateral damage

I believe he was too .. But man was he evil when he wanted to be .. told me time and time again how unhappy he was with her , but always gave me his ass to kiss when the mood was upon him .. I just can't deal .. But I won't punish the next for his mistakes

Posted by SensitiveBlues
What's his wife sign?

I have no clue , wish I knew though .. They've been on and off 11 years , 2 of those married .. I was just another chapter in his marriage , and I told him that .. You can't love people like him

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Posted by VirgoQueen
I'm a Virgo , recently stopped seeing a 29 yr old Cancer man .. who declined to tell me he was married when we met .. I found out after I was already in love , we both were .. Or so I thought ..& I stayed around , believing his "separated" bullcrap .. he has two children with this woman .. I was so blind and stupid .. This man took me through it .. All the lies , sneakiness , moodiness , emotional roller coaster !! Manipulating & deceitful .. Drove me crazy , literally .. im still in the painful process of letting go ..

I have a guy friend in the Navy , who has been persuing me for almost 2 yrs now .. But it was never good timing .. As sweet and smart and charming as he was , I always pushed him away .. He's a really good guy , in school , NO CHILDREN NOT MARRIED .. We recently started communicating again , only for me to find out today that he's a Cancer ... Man I'm nervous .. I know everyone is different ... But my last Cancer emotionally scarred me .. I know Virgo women are highly compatible with Cancer men .. Anybody have any advice ? I don't want to run him away , could he possibly be the perfect crab for me ?

It's perfectly natural you would be wary of men and relationships.

It's all dependent on your feelings. Don't listen to anyone else. If you are not feeling ready for anything then you are not. If you are then you are ready. If this guy is not for you or giving red flags then you are the judge. If you have gut feelings enough to post here what else is telling you that?

If you really feel he is ok ..he is ok. My feelings are if you were ready and he was really ok..you would not be nervous. Who wants those kinds of nerves in relationships?

Go with what your gut tells.

YOU usually know when a guy is right for you. You don't need to ask. And plenty more in the sea etc.

It's up to you.

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Perfect advice .. Thanks so much .. My heart is telling me to give him a chance , so I will .. But I wanna be friends first definetly , taking things slow

Posted by Aggrippina66789

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
What's his wife sign?

I have no clue , wish I knew though .. They've been on and off 11 years , 2 of those married .. I was just another chapter in his marriage , and I told him that .. You can't love people like him

You are not ready. For anyone.

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For anyone ? So no dating then 😢