@subterraneans
9 Years
Are cancers depressing to be around?
I love being around cancers *shrug* well some of them lol
Yes i realize im projecting a lot of my negatives on other cancers, im fine with other signs but with cancer people i only see the worst i guess
No, some of the perkiest women I know are Cancers. One of my good friends is an male Cancer introvert and he's hilarious. I think Cancers get a bad rap because people label them as "moody". Yes if they get sad they can get saaaaaaad, but many of them can also focus that feeling into work or hobbies. They are very interesting people.
My Cancer stepdad is usually a very positive, funny fucker. He's got a Sag moon tho, that may skew things a bit? Lol. I don't see many negative vibes from any of the other crabs I know...unless you piss em off and then they turn into debbie downers who try to control the situation.
Posted by Pisco
Depressing crab meat, melted butter should fix all your problems.Ew I laughed. Lmao
Damn aqua style jokes
I knew a man who's last name was "esquibel", I told him he must've added that "bell" to his last name because it "had a nice ring to it". Get it? 😛
Oh God I cringed so hard lols
I was proud of my joke lol.
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i loved it! 😆
Posted by subterraneans
I know 5 cancers or so and i don't like being around them, i find it too depressing and it feels like a mirror of myself (im a cancer sun) i always leave with a negative feeling, i like the other water signs a lot more, do most of cancers have this negative vibe in general? or is just the people i know? some friends agree on this, cancer is a very sad sign
I don't like trolling other people's sun signs, but I am inclined to agree with you in this one..
Most recent ex was a crab, so I def agree on the negative vibes, depressing and just being sad - he never had anything positive to say about others, was constantly nagging about everything, big cry baby..The thing I disliked the most though, was that he would always try to blame other people for his misery.. Oh and he was an emotional manipulator..Yikes! Never again!
lmao@ these responders. especially the one above me
IMO it is the person that is negative, not the sign. Negativity can affect anyone, some can control it, others let it control them. Ive met some amazing, hilarious cancer people and they radiated pure unselfish kindness. Met 2 cancer men out of the lot that had negative vibes, but I can choose to block it out, i've also met pisces and sagi's with negative vibes
they are supposed to be super positive people, my point is anyone can be negative. Theyre your friend though, cheer them up 🙂
I knew a married couple who were both Cancers
Jesus Christ.....talk about heavy going
Not really, I'm a "depressing" cancer and most other cancers I've met are the happy, go lucky type.
i love my cancer sun and i wouldn't change it for anything, it wasn't my intention to offend so i apologize if i did
Does cancer asc count, cuz folks don't find me depressing.
We cancers start off as happy people..then come around people with their negative attitudes whether they realize it or not...yep we soak it all up...energy does not disappear..it is merely transferred to to the next..100% fact
Posted by whateverthemoonsays
Not really, I'm a "depressing" cancer and most other cancers I've met are the happy, go lucky type.Stop being depressed. It's a waste of time and plus at least you're not a cow like busyeyes aka johnthebaptist
Moomoo
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Do they have a over the counter pill for that yet?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I knew a married couple who were both CancersJesus Christ.....talk about heavy going
Cancers marry cancers the most. I always have cancers chasing me.. They're usually life of the party Swagged out money chasers.
I like crab men a lot
But I know the ahole types too
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I can remember you saying a few times how much you hated Cancer men......what changed?
Posted by MyStarsShine
I knew a married couple who were both CancersJesus Christ.....talk about heavy going
Cancers marry cancers the most. I always have cancers chasing me.. They're usually life of the party Swagged out money chasers.
I like crab men a lot
But I know the ahole types too
I can remember you saying a few times how much you hated Cancer men......what changed?
I don't hate them, maybe just trolling.
Or I come upon one I dislike especially on dxp
The people i interact with the most in my Facebook are cancer men
They're really cool people
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Okay
What do you get out of the trolling thing?
Posted by the_sunflower
sometimes..depends on the cancer. I know one who is the sweetest person ever filled with rainbows and unicorn farts
Posted by BuffaloBills28
They just feel things deeply.. Doesn't mean they bring people down, that doesn't really make any sense. Their just very emotional I guess, which isn't a bad thing because it shows they have depth. I'd rather be around people with depth, than emotionless people.Caps bring people down. I've had two caps fling their crap on me the past week. Trying to ruin my good mood.
My brother and coworker.
I ignored them both. My sister is worried about my brother cause he said something about depression
My brother had been emotionally manipulating me and my family for 20 years
I told her I don't give a Fuk. I can't be feeling sorry for a guy who tries to play victim. I'm tired of it.
My coworker cap the most sensitive woman Ive come across tried to guilt trip me about something I said to her. That I was being mean to her. Everyone knows I Joke around. I told her you know I was just playing around.
And it wasn't mean. She found a cup and I said I saw that it was only out half a day the person who lost it probably needed more time to find it. Well I guess that made her feel guilty.
She took it as me saying she's selfish which she is.. But that's not the point
Anyways she tried to play that emotional bs with me like my brother does. It's not get first time. I'm convinced she's got a water moon. She acts nice and sensitive, but those are the type if ppl that can get nasty!
I just completely ignored her
None if these people warrant my attention
I can't be responsible for how you feel in the inside about life
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I feel like your coworker has a Pisces or Scorpio moon too. Cause the caps I know are not sensitive unless they have a lot of water in their chart.
I had a cancer friend I knew for over a decade and I finally walked away from our friendship. There was a myriad of reasons and one of them was how much of a Debbie downer she was.
Posted by subterraneans
I know 5 cancers or so and i don't like being around them, i find it too depressing and it feels like a mirror of myself (im a cancer sun) i always leave with a negative feeling, i like the other water signs a lot more, do most of cancers have this negative vibe in general? or is just the people i know? some friends agree on this, cancer is a very sad signI don't like trolling other people's sun signs, but I am inclined to agree with you in this one..
Most recent ex was a crab, so I def agree on the negative vibes, depressing and just being sad - he never had anything positive to say about others, was constantly nagging about everything, big cry baby..The thing I disliked the most though, was that he would always try to blame other people for his misery.. Oh and he was an emotional manipulator..Yikes! Never again!
What was his moon?
I'm really into a Leo with Taurus moon I can't crack him
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His moon was also watery - Pisces.. Didn't mess well with my earthy Taurus moon.
God, he was whiny (on a good day!) and like a 14 year-old with PMS on a bad one 😛
I always thought I can handle water sign boys, cs I have a water rising (Scorp), but I think it might just apply to Scorps 😉 Which I am actually pretty content with 🙂
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I know 5 cancers or so and i don't like being around them, i find it too depressing and it feels like a mirror of myself (im a cancer sun) i always leave with a negative feeling, i like the other water signs a lot more, do most of cancers have this negative vibe in general? or is just the people i know? some friends agree on this, cancer is a very sad sign