Are Cancers the same at all ages? (Page 2)

Stalkers are real with cancers and my friend dealt with stalkers and scorned exes since high school so she knows very well how to watch her back. Don't think they won't. They do their research and make it hard for you to research them. My friend was born at home so she doesn't have a birth certificate and she has 2 social security numbers. She also puts addresses in people's names so she can't be tracked down. I think it's all cray cray. When she first told me I thought she was crazy but now I get it. You can't google her and easily find shit out.

Wow. That is nuts. I really do not think he did this because we have talked about how crazy someone else is who did something similar. The weird part was it was the current wife of someone calling the ex wife. The ex wife just kept saying, look I remarried and live nine hours away. I do not want your man.

I did question whether he had contacted the cancer because I did not understand why the cancer would stop talking to me. I know that desperation can make people do crazy things.

Plus, you are right. I do not think the cancer would tell me if he was contacted. I also think he would have never talked to me again if he was contacted. I think my husband contacting him would have made it all to crazy and real for him.

Yea that's nuts. People be going cray cray in a psycho way. I don't know much about this topic because that kinda psycho is something I don't have a lot of experience with but with my friend she never told dude. She doesn't like faulting people for other people's actions and could tell it was the ex acting on her own an that dude wasn't in on it. She could tell too that he suspected the ex of something like that probably because she's a human detector. It got real bad and she never said a word. That's how strong and reserved cancer women are. They can bottle up strong emotion over logic. Cancer sun sag moon libra rising cancer Venus Leo Mars.I asked her today why she didn't she said because she knew this woman was out of control and stressing him out and her ex was doing the same thing so it would just make it worse. But finally dudes mother put the icing on the cake for her. If I didn't know she don't lie about serious shit like this I wouldn't believe her. It's twilight zone shit. I told her dudes moms might have a mental issue and dudes ex is just all out psycho trying to pretend she's normal. Dudes mom was being manipulative trying to get dude and the ex to be together whole time trying to play cancers friend whilr just trying to get information about her relationship with her son and cancer to report back to the ex and my friend saw through the whole thing but still entertained her because she thought the mom was cool and was just trying to do what she thought was best for her son and grandkid so even knowing all that she still treated the mom with respect and said she always tried her best to avoid discussions of dude or any of his private life. Even straight out told dudes mom that she will not be a threat to the ex but she won't stop being friends with dude. Cancer people have the emotional range to do this type of shit without so much as a flinch or a tear or a temper tantrum.thats why their tears are silent they try to be strong for everyone and be the martyr. They have crazy poker faces so watch out! The stalking got so bad she moved to her moms house for like 3 months because she didn't feel safe. The ex started tampering with her car and left notes and dead animals at her door.She had it bad. She neglected her place and bounced whole time dude had no clue. She has police watch her place and even sit out at her job. She didn't tell him cuz there was already enough drama and dudes ex made her feel like she was a home wrecker and that she was mes

home wrecker and that she was messing up their kids life bc he-dudes kid-would ask about my friend to the ex. My friend said she saw dudes kid as her own and got attached so she knew dude would never be with her and knew of all the crazy shit behind scenes so she detached herself because it was making her too sad plus her daughter was attached to dude and his kid so she felt like she was hurting her daughter too. You neeeeever know. Plus dude was confused about her and never came out and said he wanted her so she had no choice but to let it go. That's why I keep telling people in here they need to learn how to communicate with cancers and not assume because cancers are odd and don't react like normal people do. They can keep a lot of stuff hidden but if you open up and ask and make them feel safe they'll tell you everything and not just riddles or silence or whateva.

Dead animals—?? Damn. This is one thing I have learned to respect about cancers. Holding everything in for the benefit of others. It seems like cancers always put everyone else's well being before their own. Crazy crazy. You can be sure that would not react that way.

I have been very open with this cancer, and I think that is why he started to really open up to me. I totally shut him off by being open about my feeling about him. Seems like a no win situation. If I can't tell him how I feel how can I ever allow him to understand how committed I can be to him. I am starting to wonder if he just wants to br the man in the situation . if he wants to take the lead. He comes with the romantic stuff when I hold back. He is def all about equality amongst men and women, but maybe he still likes to chase? As much as I have pursued him, i like it when the man takes the lead. If I can bully a guy I could never be with him. I find it incredibly attractive that we have always been equals or that he keeps control of the situation. Even when I obviously know more about a topic than him I never feel like I am teaching him, more that I am sharing my viewpoint. I really dig that.

Yea they are cool people. Down to earth earthy people. But he won't budge because you are married then come all the other stuff.