I went out with a guy for two years who was an Aries and I am a cancer, we used to always fight and clash off eachother but after we’d makeup like nothing happened, I was in love with him and he was my first serious boyfriend I had others but weren’t as serious, he broke up with me 2 months ago over the phone telling me we were only breaking up now and we’ll get back together in the future and when I told him I love you he said I love you more which is why I’m so confused.. and idk if that’s true or not? I’d like to hope it is but I also don’t know why I would even take him back..he’s now seeing a new girl which hurt like fu*k and idk if she’s going to hinder us getting back but I’m convinced she’s a rebound but when he told me about getting back that we would at Christmas 2017 or next June 2018 after he finishes School so should I just stay focused on moving on and hopefully he’ll come then? anyone know how to help me figure this out? He told me also “if you really love me let me go and if I come back it was meant to be if not then it really wasn’t” I haven’t contacted him since because there was no reason to he’s been going out with this girl just a week after we broke up until now. Idk if there’s a chance we’ll get back. My mum said he’s not a robot and has feelings and he can’t just leave me like that because we had an intense relationship for two years and I went out with him since I was 15 till 17. One thing tho I think how I really pushed him away was I used to always nag at him for stuff and I never got on with his sister or Mum so I always bitched about them and I know I shouldn’t have but I did..plus we both didn’t have much freedom, he never let me talk to boys so I made him stop talking to girls and I couldn’t hang out with my guy friends anymore but didn’t really care about that. I’m always getting gut feeling or just a feeling that he will come back somehow but idk when. My mums thinks after Christmas happens and I hear nothing from him well goodluck to him then so. I know I can find and do better cuz I am so young but I am so hung up on him we had a really serious relationship and I was in love. Just want personal opinions.
