Ask a Cancer Male (Page 4)

You mean sit back and eat bambus.

Rum soaked bamboo...

@CancerOnTheCusp here's where i tag in lol. If i get a headache from all this relationship stuff, it's yours or someone else turn 😉. Anyways i'm off to dinner. You know how we Cancers like food. Cya

Posted by Scruffy
Hi Sir CancerOTC

I'm really upset right now and could use your uplifting advice to make me smile...

When you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn?

Purple, and then black.
My place got infested once with the happy go lucky little buggers, and it took a meat tenderizing hammer, cleverly placed poison traps, and a blowtorch to clear the place.
I did capture some and sent them as Christmas gifts to certain people that irritated me.

How do you apologize to a cancer male? Do cancers will always care for someone even if they are mad at that person?

Posted by xdimplez
how do you cancer males put up with leo females antics?

Depends.
Some I don't.
Others, humor.
And some, I gently lead into a room full of mirrors with cardboard cutouts where the female is convinced there is a live audience. Meanwhile, I'm off in the man cave getting a beer until she figures it out.

Posted by Aries41780
How do you apologize to a cancer male? Do cancers will always care for someone even if they are mad at that person?

For the first question:
Once they're peeking out of their shell, genuinely admit fault, and promise to do better and then drop the subject while making an honest effort not to repeat the offense.

For the second question:
Unless its a matter of betrayal, a Cancer will always care for a person in their life even when angry.

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Posted by Aries41780
How do you apologize to a cancer male? Do cancers will always care for someone even if they are mad at that person?

For the first question:
Once they're peeking out of their shell, genuinely admit fault, and promise to do better and then drop the subject while making an honest effort not to repeat the offense.

For the second question:
Unless its a matter of betrayal, a Cancer will always care for a person in their life even when angry.

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yeah, betrayal usually ends in a complete ice age.

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Posted by xdimplez
how do you cancer males put up with leo females antics?

Well I know what I would do, take her by the hand into the bedroom and screw her brains out.
Then run my hands through her hair till she drifts off into a peaceful slumber.
My ex Lioness had a leo mars, Cancer Venus

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Libra mooners *rolls eyes*

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Xin Well that explains everything lol. He isn't the typical Cancer. He probably has either a Leo Moon or Leo Venus. At the end of day, his behavior is wrong. He's messing up a good thing. I wouldn't worry about it. Don't let yourself get unhappy or think it's your fault, cause it's not. Just let it go.

Pisces Moon/Leo Venus 😢

@Xin Well it's definitely the Leo venus which causes him not to act like the typical sweet Cancer. But to be honest, he probably isn't the one for you. It's stressing you out too much, & your real partner wouldn't have you feeling this way or even questioning his motives. You can either be patient & deal with it or just move on. I wouldn't want you to be stressing like this. I would go with just move on. You deserve better

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Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Xin Well it's definitely the Leo venus which causes him not to act like the typical sweet Cancer.

Nah, you don't know this "definately".

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If it means that much to you, you can be an honorary Virgo 😄

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Posted by xdimplez
how do you cancer males put up with leo females antics?

Well I know what I would do, take her by the hand into the bedroom and screw her brains out.
Then run my hands through her hair till she drifts off into a peaceful slumber.
My ex Lioness had a leo mars, Cancer Venus

Libra mooners *rolls eyes*

Dudettes, my lioness would bounce to the door like an excited kitten and throw her arms around me when I arrived home.

My leo Venus loved it
She also had a Libra moon, ha!
🙂

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We Libra mooners can charm the pants off someone. Hell I can do it even with my Aries sun. The Leo/Libra mooners are always "everybody loves them" type of people. But Cancer with a Libra moon? You must be like sweet cream on butter -_-

off of people not someone... I need sleep T-T

Canceronthecusp what were you trying to get from posting this thread?

Posted by xtina
Canceronthecusp what were you trying to get from posting this thread?

Me, nothing.
The Cancer board has a lot of "my Cancer guy" threads.
Often the questions are being asked after the querent is already "stuck in the mud".
Rabbit had one of these types of threads on the Scorpio board and I thought it was a cool idea.

Felt like answering questions for people who wanted answers without the usual bullshit.

That's it in a nutshell.

Posted by Reincarnation
I sit next to a Cancer man at work. I can see his computer screen basically all day.

We get along well and I consider him a fairly masculine dude. He's 35.

Why does this man constantly look at celebrity gossip stuff online? (TMZ etc.)

i like looking at celebrity gossip myself.

i dont like the news, because it's very depressing. Celeb gossip, now that's where it's fun!

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Xin Well it's definitely the Leo venus which causes him not to act like the typical sweet Cancer. But to be honest, he probably isn't the one for you. It's stressing you out too much, & your real partner wouldn't have you feeling this way or even questioning his motives. You can either be patient & deal with it or just move on. I wouldn't want you to be stressing like this. I would go with just move on. You deserve better

Dude, you're getting way too far in front of the original question.
You don't know some of this for a fact and you're giving advice like you personally know the situation.

Have to be careful in the process of trying to help you aren't actually causing more harm.
People do pay attention to what is written.

aww snap!

He liked my comment on facebook.

🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Celeb gossip is a guilty pleasure.

Besides, half the time it is spot on and one can learn a lot about astrology by reading about the behavior of celebrities.

For example, Justin Bieber (Pisces boy) is a really immature Pisces guy who is on FULL DISPLAY of the idiot Pisces behavior out there.

Selena Gomez's (Cancer girl) recent nose dive into crazy alcohol and drugs indicates that she really did love him, and is not taking it very well that they broke up.

Posted by ScorpioFish
Celeb gossip is a guilty pleasure.

Besides, half the time it is spot on and one can learn a lot about astrology by reading about the behavior of celebrities.

For example, Justin Bieber (Pisces boy) is a really immature Pisces guy who is on FULL DISPLAY of the idiot Pisces behavior out there.

Selena Gomez's (Cancer girl) recent nose dive into crazy alcohol and drugs indicates that she really did love him, and is not taking it very well that they broke up.

Selena Gomez is a Leo. I don't think I believe those rumors about the drug stint... even so, I think they might be over exaggerated. Only based on my limited knowledge about her life she seems like a decent person with a good heart.

Selena is on the cusp so she's considered both. July 22nd.

Posted by Reincarnation
Thank you, lisabethur8 and ScorpioFish.

My pleasure.

To make another point about celebs and their real lives....

I do not understand everyone's obsession over Bradley Cooper.

That guy is a douche of the lowest caliber.

He married an Aries chick, and she served him divorce papers around 8 months after the wedding.

That said, most women will tolerate normal (read annoying for girls) behavior in a marriage.

But...

There is usually a very DISTINCT reason why a chick would want out of a marriage after just 8 short months.

Cancer Men: Have a hard shell are are hard to get to know.
But it feels like I am fighting to get to know him. Like an uphill battle.
Should be this difficult? How much time would it take to feel
comfortable?

Posted by Reincarnation
Thank you, lisabethur8 and ScorpioFish.

you're welcome. ScorpioFish said it very well:

Posted by ScorpioFish
Celeb gossip is a guilty pleasure.

Besides, half the time it is spot on and one can learn a lot about astrology by reading about the behavior of celebrities.

For example, Justin Bieber (Pisces boy) is a really immature Pisces guy who is on FULL DISPLAY of the idiot Pisces behavior out there.

Selena Gomez's (Cancer girl) recent nose dive into crazy alcohol and drugs indicates that she really did love him, and is not taking it very well that they broke up.

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definitely on half. environmental always plays a huge factor. Something I was studying on before i got into astrology.

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Posted by ScorpioFish
Celeb gossip is a guilty pleasure.

Besides, half the time it is spot on and one can learn a lot about astrology by reading about the behavior of celebrities.

For example, Justin Bieber (Pisces boy) is a really immature Pisces guy who is on FULL DISPLAY of the idiot Pisces behavior out there.

Selena Gomez's (Cancer girl) recent nose dive into crazy alcohol and drugs indicates that she really did love him, and is not taking it very well that they broke up.

Whatt?
Not in the context of your reference...lol
Errr, I think the celeb gossip and mainstream media be messin' wit ya mind

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it's more legitamite to study on people's lives that are more "open" or on historical person(s) than say going to up to your neighbors and intruding on their lives. I hate nothing more than to intrude on people's lives and their personal space. If it comes up on something that is less personal and i can make note of it that pertains to astrology, then great. However, it's nice to look at backgrounds on famous/infamous people. Even criminals, such as serial killers. So i get what ScorpioFish means.

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Posted by xtina

We Libra mooners can charm the pants off someone. Hell I can do it even with my Aries sun. The Leo/Libra mooners are always "everybody loves them" type of people. But Cancer with a Libra moon? You must be like sweet cream on butter -_-

Interesting analogy, but....yes and no.
I like a bit of crunch with my cream sometimes, I'm flexible, you get what you get....in the moment.

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Ahh yes, I want to take full credit for that analogy but I don't know if it came from my noggin or if its some derivative of US southern slang... I could so imagine a southerner saying that "Boy Yuuur lak sweeeet cream on butter."... make sense since a lot of American analogy has to do with foood... hmmm foood -_-
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CC...we're like fungus....we'll grow on you....

@CancerOnTheCusp Hey im sorry for how my answers sounded 😢. I was only trying to help some of the ladies here. Since this is your thread, i'll let you handle the questions ok.

@miha to answer your question, i think the insecurity comes from those very detached partners. People who have tons of guys they be flirting with. Not remember small important things like returning a phone call. Also saying insensitive things & only thinking about yourself. Now that would make me insecure

Why does a Cancer man hide his wedding ring when he sees an attractive girl he likes? Serious question.

And then when asked if he is married he will say, "Do you see a ring on this finger?!"

Observant and attractive girl already witnessed him remove wedding band behind the back of a co-worker and looks down at ring finger and witnesses the shiny sweaty outline of a wedding band.

Amused, observant and attractive girl is moved to LOL

Posted by LunarMaiden
Why does a Cancer man hide his wedding ring when he sees an attractive girl he likes? Serious question.

And then when asked if he is married he will say, "Do you see a ring on this finger?!"

Observant and attractive girl already witnessed him remove wedding band behind the back of a co-worker and looks down at ring finger and witnesses the shiny sweaty outline of a wedding band.

Amused, observant and attractive girl is moved to LOL

I don't think that behavior is strictly a Cancer male thing.

Females have done similar stuff.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
Why does a Cancer man hide his wedding ring when he sees an attractive girl he likes? Serious question.

And then when asked if he is married he will say, "Do you see a ring on this finger?!"

Observant and attractive girl already witnessed him remove wedding band behind the back of a co-worker and looks down at ring finger and witnesses the shiny sweaty outline of a wedding band.

Amused, observant and attractive girl is moved to LOL

I don't think that behavior is strictly a Cancer male thing.

Females have done similar stuff.

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Lol!

Ring on the finger doesn't stop some of those males out there though. They have no respect seriously.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I'm shocked to see XIN here, the XIN I remember, hated all things Cancer...

Trying to get her to love a Cancer Venus man wasn't gonna cut it either!! 😛

Wait till she actually falls in love and marries one. heehee.

Cancer Men: Have a hard shell are are hard to get to know.
But it feels like I am fighting to get to know him. Like an uphill battle.
Should be this difficult? How much time would it take to feel
comfortable?

Posted by woodenmeow
Cancer Men: Have a hard shell are are hard to get to know.
But it feels like I am fighting to get to know him. Like an uphill battle.
Should be this difficult? How much time would it take to feel
comfortable?

My Cancer has a Taurus moon so of course he'd be most stubborn of all when it comes to opening up. But he's not. Surprisingly, he says I know him better than his friends know him

*Chill out, why do you need him to open up? I feel like women are like this is because they feel insecure about the relationship. You shouldn't define your relationship based on emotions because emotions will always change. It should be defined the moments you share together, the memories you've created, and possibly the memories you will share in the future.

@Xtina-
I am not pushing but I have not seen him in 3 1/2 weeks and we live 7 mins away from each other. What kind of relationship is that?

Lol not a good one. You need tell him how it affects you. If you find yourself stressing too much over him, then maybe he isn't one. So ask yourself, is this kinda relationship you want. If you not happy, then move on. Don't let this situation ruin you as a person ok 🙂

@2BlackIndian3 -
Thank you. I have told him that not seeing other for 3 weeks is too long. He agree. I said what are we going to do about it. He said we will come up with something.
We had that text convo last Friday (Feb 28). Still have not seen him.

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Lol not a good one. You need tell him how it affects you. If you find yourself stressing too much over him, then maybe he isn't one. So ask yourself, is this kinda relationship you want. If you not happy, then move on. Don't let this situation ruin you as a person ok 🙂

+1

Posted by woodenmeow
@Xtina-
I am not pushing but I have not seen him in 3 1/2 weeks and we live 7 mins away from each other. What kind of relationship is that?

Did you not know what you were getting into or did you not have a choice when your relationship became LDR?

We always have a choice.
You obviously chose to stay in the relationship without understanding the consequences. But you know that now you know so make a choice. Either you stay or leave you can keeping telling him how it effects you but what can he do? Maybe try to visit more but inevitably that's not going to be enough.

I'm just saying be happy and appreciate what you have. A lot of the failed relationships I see on DXP is due to the girl always wanting more and more... Never really satisfied.

Btw I'm in an LDR too. Yes, it's hard sometimes because I miss him. But, I have my own life to live I don't need to see him. Of course I want to but I don't need to. It's been almost 2 months since I last saw him.

I have to agree with @xtina. What she is saying makes a lot of since. You have to make a choice. Go with what your heart says. LDR Isn't for everyone true enough. But if they love is worth it, then go for it. But stressing won't make it easier. So do what makes you happy. Obviously, you aren't happy

Posted by Scruffy
Just so I can sleep tonight, I must know...

Why do they sterilize the needles for lethal injections?

Lol, because we live and irrationally germaphobic world. Wouldn't want the body to buried with germs now.

Sorry Canceronthecusp for turning your thread into another "cancer guy thread -_-"

Will you ever forgive us for our discretions?

Posted by xtina
Sorry Canceronthecusp for turning your thread into another "cancer guy thread -_-"

Will you ever forgive us for our discretions?

No problem.
I think someone else has it handled 🙂

lol you mean me. Its no probelms ladies. i was only try help CancerOnTheCusp manage things. Hopefully the people who asked questions feel a lot better in their situation. I would talk to God if something is really bothering me. He in the end, has all the real answers 🙂. So try that

Posted by Scruffy
Just so I can sleep tonight, I must know...

Why do they sterilize the needles for lethal injections?

Because all needles, no matter how grim the job, need lovin' too.

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by xtina
Sorry Canceronthecusp for turning your thread into another "cancer guy thread -_-"

Will you ever forgive us for our discretions?

Lol...what else could this thread be—

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It was kinda sorta meant for the curious to ask questions before rather than after the fact.

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Posted by xtina
Sorry Canceronthecusp for turning your thread into another "cancer guy thread -_-"

Will you ever forgive us for our discretions?

Lol...what else could this thread be—

It was kinda sorta meant for the curious to ask questions before rather than after the fact.

Oh...so you were wanting the, "How do I approach my cancer guy?" And, "Does my cancer guy like me?" -Type cancer-guy questions. I see.

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Nope, not even.
More of: what is a Cancer guy like without bogging down in the relationship stuff.
But on this site can't get away from it *shrug*