AriesFireKnight
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Cancer girls play hard to get once they have fallen for someone?
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
If I've fallen in love, I can't stay away. I might try, but doesn't last long.
Posted by tizianiI have her number, but is impossible for her not to see the notification or something. She's using her phone pretty often and she always replyed fast (and even apologized for any delay) until now. I have the strong feeling that I have to wait at least a week to get in touch with her, and now I'm trying to figure out the situation so I could focus on school and my projects and stop feeling the self doubt (I'm aries and this feeling is driving me mad).
You don't have the phone number or anything outside of the app?
Good luck with the videoconference!
My biggest fear is that she didn't felt enough chemestry even if the date was fine and she want to cool off the relationship.
Anyway I've read that the cancer girls tend to experience a lot of self doubt too and become shy at the beggining and I should give her time. Maybe she is like this... I don't really know and is bugging me hardly.
I really feel empty inside missing her when I listen to her favorite song... I just want to have that chill vibe again and feel safe growing feelings for her... Or at least a straight 'no' so I can move on... Is not much to ask... ??
Thanks for the good toughts, I will have the video conference on 15 february so I have to work hard until then ?
A month is early to fall in love..
I would hope she wasn't offended by your kisses they seemed pretty innocent,
Maybe she's the type who likes to take things slow and pace herself..
She's thinking right now
I would hope she wasn't offended by your kisses they seemed pretty innocent,
Maybe she's the type who likes to take things slow and pace herself..
She's thinking right now
Try calling her, and leave a message..
Then walk away and give her space..
You could ask how's she's been and bring up a possibility for another date in the future, and that you've been thinking of her and for her to text or give a call when she has a moment
Then walk away and give her space..
You could ask how's she's been and bring up a possibility for another date in the future, and that you've been thinking of her and for her to text or give a call when she has a moment
Posted by pinkbird03Hey pinkbird ? I have a clue on what it might be so you can give me your opinion... My ex confessed me that I rush to hard our prevoius relationship and I scared her off a little bit when I first kissed her (aries sun and moon under the soft cancer rising, so people are often scared of my true nature).
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Maybe she have the same feeling right now an feels like the whole thing is going on too fast. I mean is the 2nd time I see her and I know her for only a month. It is also a long distance relationship... In a similar situation I think you would've stepped back a little bit, am I right?
I don't want to commit to anything too. Is just my way of dealing with relatioships. You think that if I wait for the situation to cool off a little bitbfor a week or two and then text her like nothing happened everything will be ok? She really showed me that she likes me before all that and kissed me back... I don't really think she don't feel something.
That old communication fail between Rams and Crabs. Just hit her up and ask what her deal is. She could be figuring out how she feels about you and wants to make sure you're not another player. If you think there is someone else? That could be but she is probably curious if you are for real or just wanting a friend to occasionally sleep with.
Posted by DivaCanLeoI texted her when I got home, she asked me to do it. Then I didn't texted the next day because she was tellkng me that is really busy sending a CV for collage so I've waited till the next day and I asked her how it was and she was like 'it was fine' then an ? emoji in the next mesage because she knew that 'it was fine' was too blunt. Then she didn't read my messages so it's possible to not even know what's there and just chosen to ignore them for some reason.
You texted her two days after seeing one another? Why not the next day?
And not reaching out to me def will not make me interested
And talking to other girls on tinder will def turn me off
And why not exchange phone numbers.
You're not needy or clingy by showing positive interest. You don't need to spam her, but just be like hey, how are you let's talk.
Ask her out again this time do something fun during the day
I have her number, we talk for more than a month and we hang out 3 days togheter after Christmas (she met my family and all stuff, and I consider her a really good friend beside beeing my date).
About the Tinder stuff, I feel a little bit guilty abiut that, but the thing is I need a little bit of social contact with other girls in order to feed my confidence a little bit. And it doesn't mean I would bang any of them or something, I just want to give myself a little bit of relief in the case that this is not working. My other similar relationship with my ex ended badly, and I don't want to go trough all that again. Is alwaysgoo
Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by pinkbird03Hey pinkbird ? I have a clue on what it might be so you can give me your opinion... My ex confessed me that I rush to hard our prevoius relationship and I scared her off a little bit when I first kissed her (aries sun and moon under the soft cancer rising, so people are often scared of my true nature).
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Maybe she have the same feeling right now an feels like the whole thing is going on too fast. I mean is the 2nd time I see her and I know her for only a month. It is also a long distance relationship... In a similar situation I think you would've stepped back a little bit, am I right?
I don't want to commit to anything too. Is just my way of dealing with relatioships. You think that if I wait for the situation to cool off a little bitbfor a week or two and then text her like nothing happened everything will be ok? She really showed me that she likes me before all that and kissed me back... I don't really think she don't feel something.click to expand
Yes, I might step back if you're making me uncomfortable. Too fast is never too good. But I'm not sure I think you're moving too fast. I just had a second date in one week with a cancer man and we kissed for the first time. What I think might be the problem is the distance. That's a deal breaker for me. But don't give up yet. I think you need to prove to her that you're a great guy by getting off dating sites, Initiate conversations, flirt a little, don't bring up the fact that she's acting funny, eventually set up another date, and buy her a special gift like jewelry.
Posted by DivaCanLeoI texted her when I got home, she asked me to do it. Then I didn't texted the next day because she was tellkng me that is really busy sending a CV for collage so I've waited till the next day and I asked her how it was and she was like 'it was fine' then an ? emoji in the next mesage because she knew that 'it was fine' was too blunt. Then she didn't read my messages so it's possible to not even know what's there and just chosen to ignore them for some reason.
You texted her two days after seeing one another? Why not the next day?
And not reaching out to me def will not make me interested
And talking to other girls on tinder will def turn me off
And why not exchange phone numbers.
You're not needy or clingy by showing positive interest. You don't need to spam her, but just be like hey, how are you let's talk.
Ask her out again this time do something fun during the day
I have her number, we talk for more than a month and we hang out 3 days togheter after Christmas (she met my family and all stuff, and I consider her a really good friend beside beeing my date).
About the Tinder stuff, I feel a little bit guilty abiut that, but the thing is I need a little bit of social contact with other girls in order to feed my confidence a little bit. And it doesn't mean I would bang any of them or something, I just want to give myself a little bit of relief in the case that this is not working. My other similar relationship with my ex ended badly, and I don't want to go trough all that again. Is always good to have a plan B.
I will ask her out when I will get in the holiday after a week, otherwise I don't have the posdibility to get in her town and see her.
You know what? You should learn the same mistake I had to pulling this communication game bs. If you're not serious so what anyway right? She dodged a bullet. I don't blame her for stepping back.
Posted by DivaCanLeoYup then they lose interest. It's like they have attention deficit or something with relatioships. 😆
Also Aries is an impatient sign. Cancer is more deliberate. She won't trust your feelings. You really need to cool it until a true connection had been built which takes time
Posted by pinkbird03Before I met her the distance was a dealbreaker for me too, I had a bad experience before and I promised myself that I would never get back on that kind of stuff again. She mentioned me that she waited 7 months for her last boyfriend with the idea that the distance is not such a big deal for her.Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by pinkbird03Hey pinkbird ? I have a clue on what it might be so you can give me your opinion... My ex confessed me that I rush to hard our prevoius relationship and I scared her off a little bit when I first kissed her (aries sun and moon under the soft cancer rising, so people are often scared of my true nature).
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Maybe she have the same feeling right now an feels like the whole thing is going on too fast. I mean is the 2nd time I see her and I know her for only a month. It is also a long distance relationship... In a similar situation I think you would've stepped back a little bit, am I right?
I don't want to commit to anything too. Is just my way of dealing with relatioships. You think that if I wait for the situation to cool off a little bitbfor a week or two and then text her like nothing happened everything will be ok? She really showed me that she likes me before all that and kissed me back... I don't really think she don't feel something.
Yes, I might step back if you're making me uncomfortable. Too fast is never too good. But I'm not sure I think you're moving too fast. I just had a second date in one week with a cancer man and we kissed for the first time. What I think might be the problem is the distance. That's a deal breaker for me. But don't give up yet. I think you need to prove to her that you're a great guy by getting off dating sites, Initiate conversations, flirt a little, don't bring up the fact that she's acting funny, eventually set up another date, and buy her a special gift like jewelry.click to expand
At the end of our date after I kissed her I becomed a little bit mushy and clingy (I was stoned tho) and she was a little bit uncomfortable. Also i forced a little bit the whole thing (again, I was stoned, beside some cheesy lines and a lot of laughter I didn't build the moment at all).After I got home I've clered my mind and got back my chill apperance again. I hit the gym and I look great and I have a lot of other projects I work on so I wont fall in that annoying trap of needyness again even if I value her so much.
You have sugestions for good gifts? I don't want something to expensive because it will look like I'm wanting to buy her attention. I wold really like something meaningful. Thanks ?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWe actually talked back then on Christmas that we will meet in the upcoming holiday (in 2 weeks from this moment). I sent her the last message 2 days ago (the story is in one of my comments) and I promised myself that I eill text her only when the holidays will come.
Try calling her, and leave a message..
Then walk away and give her space..
You could ask how's she's been and bring up a possibility for another date in the future, and that you've been thinking of her and for her to text or give a call when she has a moment
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI'm working on something big right now and I'm not calling her for at least 2 weeks. I started this thread to clear my mind a little bit, cool off and understand the situation better... Thanks for your responses guys, you are the best ?
lol stop giving her too much attention get busy and do something else they love attention and if she really cares for you and she's not getting it she will reach out then you'll know where you stand.
Posted by DivaCanLeoShe have a Leo rising, so she looks realy confident and shiny from the outside ??Posted by EvoxxxscorpioNo if someone doesn't show me complete attention I'm out.
lol stop giving her too much attention get busy and do something else they love attention and if she really cares for you and she's not getting it she will reach out then you'll know where you stand.
But I'm mostly Leoclick to expand
She seems to appreciate my personal space so if she doesn't respond now I'll just mind my bussines, improve myself (If im missing someone I have an amazing hunger for physical activity and great results in the gym *perks of beeing aries*)
And about atenttion, you know how is the fire signs ego... I can't step in my pride and show her attention if she doesn't text back. What to do then?
Posted by AriesFireKnightSo maybe you should tell her all of this. Be vulnerable. Girls love that or at least I do. I personally think jewelry is special. Maybe roses if you give them to her in private. The cancer I'm dating just texted me saying he bought my favorite wine in case I wanted to go over there for dinner. I think that's very sweet.Posted by pinkbird03Before I met her the distance was a dealbreaker for me too, I had a bad experience before and I promised myself that I would never get back on that kind of stuff again. She mentioned me that she waited 7 months for her last boyfriend with the idea that the distance is not such a big deal for her.Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by pinkbird03Hey pinkbird ? I have a clue on what it might be so you can give me your opinion... My ex confessed me that I rush to hard our prevoius relationship and I scared her off a little bit when I first kissed her (aries sun and moon under the soft cancer rising, so people are often scared of my true nature).
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Maybe she have the same feeling right now an feels like the whole thing is going on too fast. I mean is the 2nd time I see her and I know her for only a month. It is also a long distance relationship... In a similar situation I think you would've stepped back a little bit, am I right?
I don't want to commit to anything too. Is just my way of dealing with relatioships. You think that if I wait for the situation to cool off a little bitbfor a week or two and then text her like nothing happened everything will be ok? She really showed me that she likes me before all that and kissed me back... I don't really think she don't feel something.
Yes, I might step back if you're making me uncomfortable. Too fast is never too good. But I'm not sure I think you're moving too fast. I just had a second date in one week with a cancer man and we kissed for the first time. What I think might be the problem is the distance. That's a deal breaker for me. But don't give up yet. I think you need to prove to her that you're a great guy by getting off dating sites, Initiate conversations, flirt a little, don't bring up the fact that she's acting funny, eventually set up another date, and buy her a special gift like jewelry.
At the end of our date after I kissed her I becomed a little bit mushy and clingy (I was stoned tho) and she was a little bit uncomfortable. Also i forced a little bit the whole thing (again, I was stoned, beside some cheesy lines and a lot of laughter I didn't build the moment at all).After I got home I've clered my mind and got back my chill apperance again. I hit the gym and I look great and I have a lot of other projects I work on so I wont fall in that annoying trap of needyness again even if I value her so much.
You have sugestions for good gifts? I don't want something to expensive because it will look like I'm wanting to buy her attention. I wold really like something meaningful. Thanks ?
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI agree here, I liked the fact that we could talk just once or twice a week on some casual and fun subjects. The thing was that we both responded on important messages and never 'seen' eachother for no reason.
If I had given that cancer too much attention we wouldn't be together for 5 yrs lol so think about that lol
It bugged me when she broke this unwritten law, because everything was perfect for the both sides.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSame here mate... I wasn't such into it until now and all of thi really worked in my favor. Get a little bit softer and nervous after that kiss, the interest goes down.Posted by AriesFireKnightLol cancer I went out and lived with for 5 chased me forever while everyone else was chasing her and btw I didn't do that in purpose in the early stages she's very good looking btw.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI agree here, I liked the fact that we could talk just once or twice a week on some casual and fun subjects. The thing was that we both responded on important messages and never 'seen' eachother for no reason.
If I had given that cancer too much attention we wouldn't be together for 5 yrs lol so think about that lol
It bugged me when she broke this unwritten law, because everything was perfect for the both sides.click to expand
You know what, I miss her but this thing gives me a lot of motivation (anger most of the time but it feels like home for me) and this week I started working heavy on the gym because of that. Next time she will see me she will also recieve a bonus 6 pack and probably 2000 euro if I manage to nail that presentation ??
Damn I love this state of mind!! Fire ♈??
Canver and Aries just isn't a good combination maybe in the beginning its ok and the fire is attractive as cancers like a manly man but I dont think it works well long term unless your Synatry chart has some outstanding attributes. Cancer is all about the way she (especially females) FEELS - we feel our wa ythrough everything and are pretty black and white about it
if something makes us feel god we gravitate to it and vice versa away from
Tinder multiple women stuff is a NO
if something makes us feel god we gravitate to it and vice versa away from
Tinder multiple women stuff is a NO
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