krimoandkrimz
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Cancer Man + Aries woman DRAMA
Lol
You don't even sound remotely interested tho
You don't even sound remotely interested tho
Posted by Cancerianfem20You're annoying no one forced you to be here...beat it
Your pissing me off and i don't even have to read it
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeClearly too emotional 😛
You're obviously way too immature . Just leave it alone
He shared a poem with you that's how we express our feels and you called him a weirdo. Wtf
You're not worthy
Bye Felicia
Bye Felicia!
I didn't even read that ridiculous blob of text because
"I am 23 and he is 33," said enough.
"I am 23 and he is 33," said enough.
I suggest you start using the bank drive thru window
Posted by Deedee86
I suggest you start using the bank drive thru window
Due to the uncomfortableness, I was thinking the same thing, but I think that's being a coward...
Posted by krimoandkrimzNot a coward. Just avoiding unnecessary drama. Don't let him bait you into an argument. It's not worth it.Posted by Deedee86
I suggest you start using the bank drive thru window
Due to the uncomfortableness, I was thinking the same thing, but I think that's being a coward...click to expand
He wasn't actually hurt. He was just playing hurt to see if you'd sympathize with him, because a lot of girls--minus the fire signs--are primarily emotional. I say you just make things normal again and get with him. Cancer men will take care of their ladies. ; )
Posted by Effervescent
Men from different countries are too prideful to be teased, even in loving ways. Plus Aries women can come off way too abrasive and masculine for men. Channel that Cancer Ascendant of yours. He seems like a nice dude so why cuss him out when you hurt his feelings?
Maybe just drop the situation.
I was just being too hot-headed so as usual I acted before thinking It over. I am so used to being rough with the people around me, that when he felt I was being mean repeatedly then I felt offended :s and thought he was the one playing mind games.. I guess I am too abrasive but I find it really hard to change..
Posted by 2MoonThe only thing that was off-putting for me is his behaviour in the bank. Due to that, I was apprehensive about contacting him initially. He seems like a nice guy and that's why I gave him the number eventually. I guess from now on I will try to avoid him and hopefully there'll be a normal atmosphere in which he'll no longer feel the need to make me jealous or get revenge...
He sounds like a typical cancer dudebro:
Macho, retarded, emotional, loves to push people and boundaries, won't understand NO.
You are in trouble.... Big trouble. These crab dudebros are dangerous, possessive and dramatic.
Dude acts like a retarded 16 years old first time in love. and this is in a bank!!
My advice is to Keep your professional life... Professional. always.
Posted by 2MoonPosted by krimoandkrimzListen here little sht. I don't give a damn what you do with your life. I said what I wanted to say, you can listen or do whatever you want...Posted by 2MoonThe only thing that was off-putting for me is his behaviour in the bank. Due to that, I was apprehensive about contacting him initially. He seems like a nice guy and that's why I gave him the number eventually. I guess from now on I will try to avoid him and hopefully there'll be a normal atmosphere in which he'll no longer feel the need to make me jealous or get revenge...
He sounds like a typical cancer dudebro:
Macho, retarded, emotional, loves to push people and boundaries, won't understand NO.
You are in trouble.... Big trouble. These crab dudebros are dangerous, possessive and dramatic.
Dude acts like a retarded 16 years old first time in love. and this is in a bank!!
My advice is to Keep your professional life... Professional. always.
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Listen here dummy, You are the one that stated "My advice............... always". So clearly your intent was to state how you felt about my situation. Furthermore, my response never needed A REPLY. Have a good day 🙂
hahaha i can't believe the amount of people getting heated over your own experience i think how you acted was fine he was giving off major red flags 1: not keeping friends so there must be a reason why his friends left him or he left them doesn't sound like a loyal person 2: how he was acting like that at work in the open not professional sounds like he is a bit irresponsible and reckless 3: how he got so defensive about name calling taking it personal straight away i'd say he's egotistical and could get verbally manipulative or abusive over time from that behavior making you feel like you are wrong. For him to come so strongly onto you is not a good sign either even after you rejected him many times even though they were subtle if a guy had pure feelings for you he wouldn't even have the guts to be so persistent. I would keep a distance and it's got nothing to do with him being cancer he just seems off.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by barren96
hahaha i can't believe the amount of people getting heated over your own experience i think how you acted was fine he was giving off major red flags 1: not keeping friends so there must be a reason why his friends left him or he left them doesn't sound like a loyal person 2: how he was acting like that at work in the open not professional sounds like he is a bit irresponsible and reckless 3: how he got so defensive about name calling taking it personal straight away i'd say he's egotistical and could get verbally manipulative or abusive over time from that behavior making you feel like you are wrong. For him to come so strongly onto you is not a good sign either even after you rejected him many times even though they were subtle if a guy had pure feelings for you he wouldn't even have the guts to be so persistent. I would keep a distance and it's got nothing to do with him being cancer he just seems off.
It’s been 2 years. Hopefully he’s not guarding the bank anymoreclick to expand
I am still trying to understand what was the fight about? 🤔
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To be honest, I thought well I gained a 'friend' Then he turned up the intensity. He knows I have Sickle Cell and mentioned that I should have somebody by my side. I told him that I have A LOT OF SUPPORT, from my parents and others. One day I was leaving, he walked up to me and told me that he wanted to be in my life as my man. I was so shocked, that I was left with my mouth open. I stood there and stared for a long while and then like a fool walked off without saying a word.
The next time I went into the bank he asked me to go out and I told him I don't know him, to go out the
next day. He then told me he wont give up on me. The next time I went, he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. Then my phone stopped working that very same day. He then approached me in front of other customers in line the next time and asked me why I didn't answer my phone and if we could go out. He was being so bold, that he scared me. Once again, I could barely get the words out of my mouth. After I was leaving he asked me why was I pushing him away I told him that I had a lot going on (which I do). He then went on to tell me I should have somebody to lean on (him) and we left it at that.
My rising is in cancer, so at times things can get overwhelming. The next time he saw me, he reached for my hand and start rubbing it. I pulled my hand away because I felt like it was inappropriate for him to be behaving like that at his place of work. He then gave me his number and told me that he was going to make me fall in love with him. He then approached a mutual friend and told him I was his baby and I was like nooooooo lol ( I think he felt a bit rejected here) When I was leaving, he asked me for a hug and I refused, as I found it inappropriate. I didn't even get to contact him as I lost his number.
The next time, after lingering and ignoring me because I didn't call, he approached me and made me put my number in his phone and he made sure he rang it to ensure that I didn't give him a wrong number(he thought I was dodging him). That same day I contacted him on WhatsApp. He said "Hi bbz, sweet to hear from you" . He was pulling a 16 HR shift daily so I told him he's a workaholic. He said that he didn't have anybody else in the country (he's an immigrant). He sent me a long love poem and I said 'lol' and called him a drama king ( my honest feelings). The convo went on and he told me that he doesn't keep friends so I told him "ok weirdo" playfully. As he is 10 years older and seemed so bold, I thought you know this is a strong man...However,It seems like the name calling really offended him. He then told me that it's nice to know how I think about him. He also said that he will not allow me to disrespect him anymore. With my big Aries mouth I told him that I didn't mean to offend him, however that's the way I am and I WILL NOT CHANGE. Then he went on to say ok no problem, pleasure meeting me .He then went on to say that he would never disrespect me like how I did him. I was so shocked and taken aback by his apparent thin-skin that once again, I told him that disrespecting him was never my intention. So I asked him how did I disrespect him, as I wanted him to explain PROPERLY so that I could refrain AND I told him let me know what he decides to do.
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